My uncle, take it easy

Fang Xiyou looks at his mother.

"Because in this world, nothing is perfect, no one is perfect. When we fall in love with someone, we fall in love with the qualities we want to love, the qualities that attract us, whether they are strengths or weaknesses. However, people will change. No matter who they are, our needs and requirements for that person will change at different stages. When you don't get him, you will think that as long as you are with him, even if he doesn't love you as much as you love him, you just want him. When you get married and you get him to be his wife, you will want to completely possess him, even those you didn't possess before you got married. This is very normal, this is not wrong, because you and he are a community. When you get married, you have to bear the ups and downs of a family and even the rise and fall of a family. His development is your development, and his decline is your decline. You are inseparable. However, some people don't like to give everything to each other, such as your father, your father-in-law, ah Quan and your little uncle. Many people are like this - "mother said.

Fang Xiyou was stunned.

Does mother also know Zeng Quan and Su fan's story——

Mother said, deeply sighed: "other people's business, I will not say, talk about me and your father. At the beginning, after Xia Xue happened, I always thought, why do I treat your father so well, everything follows him, and he still likes other women? You know your father's temperament. He's different from your father-in-law in such matters as men and women. He's not so -- "and his mother pauses.

Fang Xiyou also understood his mother's meaning. Zeng Yuanjin was more romantic than his father before. Luo Wenyin was not the first woman Zeng Yuanjin cheated on. She just got him at last. And father——

"Your father likes reading. He's boring. I don't know what to say to him. So I don't understand why he's attracted to such a woman? Men, it's nothing to go out and provoke women. It's a man's nature. He will come home after playing enough, but once his heart goes out, he can't come back. Like your father, you can't come back after you leave. Later, when I went to pay homage to your mother-in-law, I thought that if Xia Xue had not died, maybe I would have gone to that world like your mother-in-law. " The mother sighed and said.

Fang Xiyou said nothing.

"However, I will also think, if you change your father-in-law's business to me and your father-in-law's, will I accept Rowan like your mother-in-law? I will not. Because your mother-in-law loves your father-in-law too much, and I can't do that even if I love your father. So every time I think about it like this, I feel like I've won. At least I've got your father. Even if he doesn't love me in his heart, I don't care. What about the woman he loves? Isn't he dead? Haven't you had a chance to be with your dad in your life? " Said the mother.

"Do you really think you have won?" Asked the daughter.

Mother shook her head.

"In this kind of thing, no one loses or wins, unless you achieve the right result like your father-in-law and Luo Wenyin, others will hurt everyone. Who won? Did I win or did Xia Xue win? Sometimes I think I won, because it's me, not Xia Xue, who is the wife of Fang mubai. However, sometimes when I look at your father's meditation, I always feel that he is thinking about Xia Xue. Maybe he is not thinking about Xia Xue, but I doubt that. That's my heart knot. " Said the mother.

Mother's words are the same as Fang Xiyou's mentality for many years. Every time she looks at Zeng Quan in silent meditation, she will feel whether he is thinking about Su fan. She even wants to ask him what he is thinking, but she can't ask. In that case, doesn't it seem that she is too careless? I can't ask. As a result, the longer the time goes, the stronger the knot becomes. I can't solve it at all.

"Xiyou, as long as you get what you want, what if you compromise?" The mother looked at her and said.

Fang Xiyou fell into deep thinking.

"If I don't compromise and divorce your father, of course, I can. But, after leaving? I don't even have a chance to recover. I won't have another chance. You know, once two people divorce, it's very difficult, it's very difficult to walk together again, you will have more choices, and forget the original feeling. " Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou nodded.

"However, you and my father are not divorced, neither is my father --" said Fang Xiyou.

What she wants to say is that Fang mubai doesn't love his mother, or like Xia Xue.

Mother laughed.

"I'm sorry, Ma." Fang Xiyou said.

"Yes, I didn't succeed, but I didn't fail either. Now, although the relationship between your father and me is not as good as that between your father-in-law and Luo Wenyin, we can still live, can't we? If we get divorced -- "my mother said.

"If you get divorced, you may meet someone who really loves you." Fang Xiyou said.

"What's the probability of that?" "It's true that some people meet true love after divorce, but what about more people? Marriage becomes just living together. What's more, have you ever thought about how you can know someone who has lived with you for many years if you are not sure that you can fully understand him and let him fall in love with you? Feelings are the most hurtful. Every time you fall in love, it's the same as peeling a layer of skin. Peeling skin is very painful, but can it become beautiful after the pain, who knows? Everything is unknown. "

"Do you mean that no matter how hard it is, no matter how indifferent the marriage is, it should continue?" Fang Xiyou asked.

The mother shook her head, looked at her daughter and said, "no matter whether you divorce or not, no choice is completely good or completely bad. The lesser of the two evils, you can only think so. Choose what's most important to you based on that. For me, I want to find another chance with your father so that we can make up, so I will not divorce, I can only compromise, I compromise is not to give up my choice of happiness, because I know, only with you and your father, I will be happy, even if he will not accompany me to breakfast, will not accompany me shopping, but I am still his wife, I still have time with him. "

Fang Xiyou bowed his head.

Compromise? Does she want to compromise?

If the two evils are the least, if you divorce, you can give him to Yingzhi or other women, and never ask whether it's the least, or whether you want to continue to live with him instead of the least——

After thinking about it, Fang Xiyou said to his mother, "Mom, ah Quan, he --"

Mother looked at Fang Xiyou.

"Mom, I want to divorce him." The daughter said.

Mother was silent for a long time.

Seeing that his mother did not speak, Fang Xiyou asked, "do you think I did something wrong?"

"As I said just now, divorce or not is not the best choice, but if you want to figure out what is most important to you, you will know how to do it." Said the mother.

"Do you say I want to compromise?" Fang Xiyou said.

"You know what you want in your heart, so do it when you think about it. No matter what choice you make, you can't regret it. Once you step out, you can't take it back." Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou was silent.

Mother looked at her.

I don't know when, mother embraces her head, Fang Xiyou looks up at her mother.

"Since you love him so much, don't give up." Mother said seriously.

Fang Xiyou closed his eyes with tears in his eyes. He nodded and put his head in his mother's arms.

The mother didn't say that how could a mother not know about her daughter's sufferings over the years? Just because I know my daughter too well, I know the secret that my daughter is not willing to say.

"Over the years, you've done a good job. Ah Quan will understand." Said the mother.

Yeah, he'll understand.

"However, such a compromise to happiness, is not what I want, mom, I don't want --" Fang Xiyou said.

"You knew it when you married him, didn't you? Is there any change between the present situation and you at the beginning? " Asked the mother.

Fang Xiyou said nothing.

Mother sat on the chair beside her and drew out a tissue to wipe her tears.

"What you want, you have to protect it. If you give it to others, you will only resent yourself and him for the rest of your life. Do you want such a life?" Asked the mother.

Fang Xiyou said nothing.

Yes, if she let Zeng Quan out, she would really hate herself. Yingzhi is such a tough person. Once Yingzhi wants to compete with her for aquan, how can she compete?

However, the second happiness is still happiness?

At first, she thought she would let him forget Sufan, so she chose the marriage. Mother is right. Has the present situation changed from the past? No, So, does she have the strength to walk the past again?

"I just want a pure love, so compromise, I don't want, I can't bear any more --" Fang Xiyou said.

"Is there pure love in this world?" Asked the mother.

Fang Xiyou looks at his mother.

"Yes, indeed, just like your father and Xia Xue, because they didn't get it and didn't get the chance to be together again, so it was pure love. However, pure love and how much chance of survival? Your father and Xia Xue, did their love work out? No, their result is that Xia Xue died, that is, your father thinks he killed Xia Xue, that is, he lives in guilt all his life. Now, do you think your father loves Xia Xue, or do you feel sorry for Xia Xue? After so many years, he can only live in his own fantasy, he can only remember the past, imagine their beauty, nothing else Said the mother.

Fang Xiyou is speechless.

Love is a tragedy, only tragedy can spread. Whether it's Romeo and Juliet, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, or his father and Gu Xiaonan's mother.

"Love without marriage is just a castle in the air, but love with marriage will have problems. So, Xiyou, you can think like this, want a pure love, but you know, you can't get such love Said the mother.

"Why?" Fang Xiyou asked.

"Because you are Fang mubai's daughter!" The mother said, "you are doomed not to get pure love! No matter you choose ah Quan, Yi Heng or anyone else at first

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