National Tide 1980

Faced with Wu Shen's suspicion and questioning, Ning Weimin did not panic at all.

Don't look at the other party's fierceness, he looks like he will fall out at any time, and he is extremely domineering.

But Ning Weimin knew in his heart that the more this happened, the less serious he would be.

So he smiled teasingly and said without any concern, "You think so highly of me? Thank you. But I still know a little bit about myself, and I really don't deserve these words."

"There are so many people more talented than me, so who am I? Besides, my English level is definitely not as good as Huo Xin's. To put it mildly, I am self-taught, which is actually a wild thing. Huo Xin is different. , from a serious academic background.”

"As for why Huo Xin praises me, it's because there is a premise. I am her leader. Don't you know Huo Xin yet? Despite her young age, she has a lot of ambitions. She is so smart, how can she be chosen by me? Qi'er, give her a chance to wear glass shoes?"

"Of course, even if I have this intention, I don't have the courage to see you today. Just friends like you are Huo Xin's strong backing and absolute support. I'm afraid I will have to be cautious in the future and avoid our Huo Da The lady is leaving..."

This statement really worked, and Wu Shen immediately stopped being serious.

Instead, he rubbed his head, grinned widely, and expressed his approval with a knowing smile.

Even Huo Xin couldn't refute it.

After all, Ning Weimin's words, which didn't sound too serious, were also an endorsement of her.

Yes, you will inevitably encounter some difficult problems in communication.

The best way to deal with this is to respond with a joking response, which is a very clever technique.

As long as the language mastery is in place, the other party can relax.

Like Ning Weimin, a few words of ridicule diluted the embarrassment and made it disappear silently.

However, even if he passed Wu Shen's level, it didn't mean that no one would make things difficult for Ning Weimin anymore.

Don't forget, there is Jiang Hao who has been silent all the time.

"Brother, are you too humble? Who can believe it if you insist on saying that you have no talent? Then according to the logic in your words, can't you rely on connections? What's more, you have gone around in such a big circle and never said it. What about the real issue? I just want to ask you, you just refuted all of us, how come you respect us? Can you speak more truthfully?"

Otherwise, this kid is difficult to deal with.

These words were tantamount to pointing out that Ning Weimin was not sincere and was playing tricks.

And under Jiang Hao's reminder, others also remembered Chacai's contradiction again.

You know, Ning Weimin rejects others in a roundabout way. Although it is a pleasing way, it must be clever.

If someone reveals it, it becomes annoying because no one likes to feel fooled.

Jiang Hao's words were nothing short of a punch.

But Ning Weimin was still not afraid.

Because he didn't just talk about it just to get rid of the problem.

His real purpose is to completely control the rhythm of the conversation, not only not to lose, but also to gain something.

So what he said was an ambush and he had a mature routine.

Currently it is just the first move of his series of punches.

"Oh, Jiang Chu, you really wronged me with what you said. Why am I not being honest?"

Ning Weimin took a different approach this time. He was aggrieved at the beginning, and he did not hesitate to demean himself and asked many rhetorical questions in succession.

"To be honest, I never think that personal ability is more important than social relationships. So how can I be the kind of person who learns to get the best of others based on my talent? Isn't it that I know that I can't get anywhere, but I still have to go to the road of death? "

"Frankly speaking, I just have better luck. I learned some English in order to exchange for some foreign exchange coupons. But I caught up a little bit later, and I met Mr. Carton, and I was able to become an employee of a foreign company. I'm not afraid of everyone's jokes. But he’s the one with the lowest academic qualifications. The word ‘talented and learned’ doesn’t apply to me, does it?”

"You might as well think about it again. A commoner like me, who grew up in a hutong, has neither academic qualifications nor background. How can I get the position of deputy manager just by being smart? Is this really possible? Even if I'm lucky, but this really happened? Can I sit still? Forget about fighting for power with my boss?"

"So I have to rely on connections and find hard support."

You must know that people's thinking has inertia. Everyone present at these questions has to agree with their rationality, even Jiang Hao.

So every question became favorable evidence for Ning Weimin to defend himself.

So much so that no matter how complicated the final conclusion was, everyone present could only believe it but could not refute it.

What's more, Ning Weimin had a supplementary explanation.

"Of course, I can't compare with the few here. My relationship is not as valuable or as high-quality as yours, and I have to find, develop, and maintain it myself."

"For example, the leaders of the Temple of Heaven Park, famous artists and professors in the art world, journalists from major media, and some people from the Ministry of Economic and Trade and the Ministry of Textiles. I am the one who works hard day by day. Hold on tight. Without the trust and favor of these people, who support me, how would the sculpture exhibition I hold be so sensational?"

"Why can I compete with my boss for management rights? It's because my boss mistakenly believes that foreign companies are practical. They rely entirely on English proficiency and business ability. If you work hard, you can achieve good results and make more money. He But they don’t know that foreign companies also attach importance to brand promotion and good reputation. At this stage of building reputation, they care more about the brand’s reputation.”

"Yes, good opportunities can change a person's destiny. Yesterday I was given pickles for steamed buns, and today I'm sitting in a high-end hotel wearing suits and ties. Although I can't choose my destiny or my circumstances as I please, I still You can create opportunities for yourself by carefully managing your connections. To put it bluntly, if a person has many capable friends, he is in control of his own destiny."

"So if I have some ability, it all depends on how to make friends. How could I not like to make friends or respect friends? It is even because of the lack of relationships that I value relationships more than anything. Frankly speaking. Speaking of which, I am very satisfied with the opportunity to meet so many high-quality friends today. I am also very grateful to Huo Xin, and naturally I have great respect for you all..."

Everyone has the mentality of showing off, and they hope that the person they associate with can match their own advantages. Therefore, how to avoid being bored or despised in social interactions has become an art.

First of all, when talking about your own advantages, you should focus on them and not go too far in order to gain recognition.

And it’s best to lift the other person up and draw attention to your own strengths, so that the other person won’t think you’re bragging.

Secondly, taking the initiative to expose your shortcomings and admit your own shortcomings in certain areas can also have better results.

This is not a shame, but it will make people think that you are a real person and that your words are not hypocritical.

As the saying goes, "If you are humble, people will be convinced; if you boast, people will be suspicious."

Ning Weimin did all this properly, and his previous preparations were by no means nonsense.

By euphemistically promoting the other party, he directly points out his own strengths and weaknesses.

Not only has he given the other party a sense of superiority and relieved them of their suspicions about him, but it has also invisibly increased his weight in the hearts of these second-generation people, establishing a pragmatic and interesting image.

Even though he keeps saying that he has no real abilities, this in itself is a manifestation of ability.

In fact, Jiang Hui asked a question on behalf of everyone without any doubts.

"Then why did you refuse help and let Huo Xin down? You still haven't explained why."

When Ning Weimin's combination of punches finally hit the final blow, he made the most critical remarks.

"Don't worry, here's the reason I'm going to explain. Why do I still reject everyone's kindness? The reason is actually very simple. Because I have no way to make a reasonable return."