No Regrets In Flourishing Tang

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The story of the farmer and the snake spreads from ancient to modern times. This is a small story in Aesop 鈥檚 fable. It says that a farmer is very kind. When he rushed home in a cold winter, a snake was found on the roadside. The snake froze, so the Holy Mother had a heart attack, and put the frozen snake in her arms. Soon, the snake woke up, and after waking up, the snake instinctively bite This farmer finally killed the kind farmer. The farmer regretted it before he died. He regretted that when he was doing good deeds, he failed to distinguish the situation. Because of his shallow knowledge, he killed his life.

In this Story, the farmer is sad and innocent, and the snake seems to be somewhat innocent. After all, this snake was supposed to hibernate on a snowy day. It is the farmer 鈥檚 behavior that awakened the snake from hibernation. For snakes, it is inevitable that they will lose one’s head out of fear, thus attacking the farmer unkindly, because the farmer’s behavior has affected its hibernation, and the snakes simply cannot find food during the winter, do not hibernate It will starve to death, so it is reasonable to attack the farmer.

Although this is just the story of a snake, it can be reflected in human society. Some people have a Holy Mother heart when they see others in poverty. They feel that they should help others, but they do n鈥檛 first figure out what this person is like. What kind of help is needed, and if the help measures are wrong, it will cause great trouble to yourself.

For example, some people are hurt by love, and all day the muddleheaded, a heterosexual companion feels too pitiful, so he instinctively cares about others, so that the injured person comes out of the shadow, but in this way, the person who comes out of the shadow, Maybe I will fall in love with this person deeply, and even regard it as the only reliance in this life, and the companion of this companion not at all means even, in fact, a person with a family, but this comforted person, If you are rejected, you will have hate, that is, hate because of love, so as to hurt your former benefactor, so this kind of person can never be comforted, even if it is hurt. , Just let him figure it out slowly by himself, and can’t help at all, at least the opposite sex partner is best not to do this casually.

Some people have encountered financial difficulties, but this financial difficulty is an irreparable bottomless pit, which is always impossible to fill up. If such a person is helped, the person who is helped will always seek your help until the When all your assets have been emptied, you will be completely destroyed. If you want to withdraw, you will completely offend him and be hated by this person, even retaliating against you and your family. For such a person, it is absolutely What can’t help, who helps him bad luck, the only correct way is to stay away from such people.

Sometimes even if it is a good person, if the way of helping is wrong, this good person will also become a bad person. For example, some people are originally only a small role and work very hard every day to feed themselves and their families, or even live Do n鈥檛 forget goodness in poverty, but if someone helps this person and takes him to see the Huahua World, then this person 鈥檚 heart will change. After he has seen the luxury of the high society, this life may be I ca n鈥檛 go back, just like a person who climbed from the bottom to the top, and once again descended to the bottom, it would be psychologically collapsed, and once the person was out of the simple, it would change. The person who worked hard at the lowest level was entering the flowers. After World, the mentality will definitely change, it is difficult to maintain the original intention, and the demand will become more and more, and the person who helps him will stop helping once he finds that the person he helps has changed, and this It will cause the person being helped to resent, because you let him see this prosperous flower world, but you can’t continue to help him get these, it is easy to produce hatred .

Li An encountered such a person in his previous life, and was also an ordinary man who farmed in the countryside. Because his income was too low, he would not be able to eat at home, so Li An showed his kindness and brought him to the bustling city, and Helped him find a very easy job, at least 5-6 times higher than the income from farming at home, and rented a cheap house for him. This person was naturally deeply grateful at first and regarded Li An as life. Nobles, but as they become more familiar with the city of Huahua World, seeing the income of people around them is so much higher than their own, they are restless and feel that they should also get more income, so I found Li An again and asked him to get a higher-paying job, but this guy’s ability is really limited. An ordinary farmer who farms, not at all what skills, the simplest job is the only suitable for him, and This person firmly believes that he must be able to do a higher-paying job, but suffers from no way out, and Li An’s deep network can help him change a good job. If he refuses, it is Don’t want to help.

This thinking is still in ancient times. In the ancient times, when a person became an official, the relatives and friends around him all followed the glory of reaching, it can be said that when a man attains the Dao, even his pets ascend to heaven, but Li An The city where you live is extremely competitive. Although you can also get a job through relationships, you must have the most basic abilities. If you do n鈥檛 have the most basic abilities, it will not work.

So, Li An could only refuse to help this guy who made unreasonable demands, but this refusal completely annoyed this person, and he became angry on the spot, and the anger spurting in his eyes could burn Li An to death, and he even yelled It is pointed out that Li An helped XYZ to get a better position, and XYZ to get a good position. Only he was still doing the lowest-income position with the lowest income, but he did n鈥檛 think about his ability. There are how many catties and how many taels, is it really capable of better jobs.

Sometimes, it is not that others are unwilling to help and do good things, but some things ca n鈥檛 be done. When helping someone in the early stage, the person is deeply grateful, but when he puts forward higher requirements, you ca n鈥檛 help him. When he did, he would hate you, thinking that you did not help on purpose, and you did n鈥檛 even have the opportunity to explain, because others will not give you the opportunity to explain, and the more you were close to someone before, The higher the chance of encountering such treatment.

If Li An only helped the person coldly, let him get the lowest level of work, and then did not contact him and let him solve the next thing, then this person might not seek Li An’s help again Or, even if you ask for help, you wo n鈥檛 get angry when Li An rejects him. After all, you do n鈥檛 have too deep feelings, why are you angry?

People generally like to get angry with people they are close to. The closer they are, the easier it is to become a punching bag for dissatisfaction. If two people are very strange, this will not happen.

Therefore, no matter what good things Yan Ruyu did, Li An will not stop it, but will never allow Yan Ruyu to treat the rescued people as sisters and brothers, and to take care of these people with great care, which would be very dangerous, at least There are many saved people, there will always be thankless wretch, must control the distance.

If you want to do good things, you just need to give some food, or put the pitiful person into your workshop, and let this person adapt to the environment of the workshop, and be able to feed yourself with your own strength. Other things are really not. Need to control, so as not to catch fire.

At the request of Li An, Yan Ruyu did the same. She rescued many people and received many gratitude, but she did not have too much contact with these people who were helped, and did not provide these people with what should not be. They belong to their help, but Yan Ruyu’s own heart may not really agree with Li An’s point of view. She is naive and kind. She is always more willing to believe that the people she has helped are all good people with gratitude.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with this thinking. Li An 鈥檚 worry is originally a small probability event. Not everyone will ask for endlessness after being blessed, and even fly into a rage out of humiliation without continuous help, but There will always be such people, and once encountered such people, it will cause harm to themselves.

Therefore, even if it is only a small probability event, Li An will not let this situation develop, and he will not allow his wife to suffer such damage.

Since this is the first Lantern Festival, and the content of the Lantern Festival is extremely colorful, until the middle of the night, the talents on the street gradually reduced, and the road gradually became wider.

Pedestrians are becoming scarcer, but hawkers selling dim sum are not at all leaving, all sticking to their posts. As long as they can encounter a business occasionally, it is very satisfying for them.

After the pedestrians became fewer, the road naturally became better, but Yan Ruyu had no strength to continue walking at this time. The two legs seemed to be no longer his own. They were built on a small stool. Never want to get up again.

However, with the gradual decrease of pedestrians, the control of vehicles on the streets began to relax, and the horses and horses that were not allowed to pass can already smoothly walk freely in the streets and alleys of Beijing, which means that Yan Ruyu no longer has to work Enjoy the lantern on foot, just sit in the car and watch the lantern.

“Come here, go drive the car, Wife is tired.”

Li An said, and put a peanut into his mouth.

The little vendor in front of me is a small businessman selling peanuts, fava beans, corn and other small snacks, and they are all fried with oil and salt. The taste is still very good. It tastes delicious in the mouth, but unfortunately not hungry At that time, no matter how delicious the food is, there was not much appeal. After a few bites, there was no interest.

The location of the vehicle is a little far away, so it may take some time to get there, and Li An and Yan Ruyu are tired and can only sit on the stool and wait. There is no taxi industry in Great Tang and no rickshaw. There is no human-powered vehicle with a three-wheeled bicycle, so it is really inconvenient. Most old 3 people can only choose to walk, or they can buy their own transportation. At this moment, Li An can only wait. Your own car came to pick you up.

“Are Wife sleepy?”

Li An asked with concern.

“No, not sleepy yet, is Husband sleepy?”

Yan Ruyu asked with a smile.

Li An shook his head gently: “Why am I sleepy with Wife? Even if I don’t sleep all night, that’s very spiritual.”

“Guest, isn’t the snack delicious?”

“No, we are not hungry alone, come and collect money.”

Li An happily paid the money.

Soon, the vehicle was driven over, and there were fewer pedestrians on the street, so that it was more convenient to drive, and as the vehicle gradually entered the street, pedestrians also consciously walked on the road 2 Side, so that the middle road is given to the vehicle, and the most middle is a large number of lanterns, which plays a certain role in isolation, so that vehicles and pedestrians that meet each other will not collide.

Although there are fewer and fewer pedestrians, all the lanterns at the lantern festival will definitely be on all night. However, some people who come to the show will leave the lanterns, such as the previous Brothel lantern, the girls will definitely not be for the minority People are still suffering, and children who perform jewelry will return home to bed with payment, leaving only the lantern itself.

After getting in the car, Yan Ruyu lay down very comfortably on the corner of his mouth, sitting in a soft and comfortable car, which is much more comfortable than sitting on the small stool just now, at least the butt will not It hurts so much that I don’t have to continue to walk with two legs.

Although I have been shopping for a long time just now, there are not many real shopping areas, only about 2 streets, one is the street next to Dongshi, and the other is the street of Pingkangfang, these 2 small streets, It took a lot of time for Li An and Yan Ruyu.

After all, the road with many people is not easy to walk, and it is almost impossible to walk. In addition, I have eaten several foods on the stalls and took care of a few idle things that have nothing to do with myself. In this way, time is naturally consumed. .

At this moment, there are fewer pedestrians on the street, and the speed of the vehicle is relatively fast. This is when the lights will come. It is naturally unnecessary to say the speed. It must be very fast. It only takes a short time to appreciate more. Lantern.

The most important flower lantern area in Beijing is naturally to be watched first. It is also the closest to it. It is near the streets outside the Imperial Palace. The flower lanterns on these streets are the best, because Emperor and the nobles in the palace are many. It is not convenient to go out of the palace, so, you can only stand on the city wall to watch the lanterns outside, and the lanterns that the nobles in the palace want to see must naturally be the best lanterns. How can the officials responsible for the lanterns I don’t understand this reason, so naturally, I spare no effort to put the best lanterns on the street near the Imperial Palace, so that the nobles in the palace can better see the lanterns on the street.