No Regrets In Flourishing Tang

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Li An also thinks that the young lady in front of her is very cute, only about 6 or 7 years old, and she is also the same age as Tang’er. However, after all, this is just a child of a common 100 family. Although Li An does not care about identity, Great Tang is very important to identity in this era. Only the right households are suitable to talk about marriage and marriage. Otherwise, they will be discussed by others and even cause trouble for their future development. Therefore, Tang’er likes this young lady. In the future, I can only accept concubines at most, but even if it is concubine, it is also the blessing of this young lady.

Tang’er is still too young, where would he think so much, and Li An said so, just to tease that’s all, to tease his child.

However, this funny word made the child sorry.

“Father, is Tang’er still a child? Can’t marry Wife yet, but Tang’er really likes her and is very happy with her.”

Tang’er said with a smile.

Li An immediately frowned and said, “haha! Tang’er, you’re done, you are young, and you already love this young lady, Aiya, what can I do? My Tang’er is still so young.”

“…”

Tang’er looked at Li An and had nothing to say for a while, but it seemed that he was really happy.

It is said that people are only interested in the opposite sex when they are in puberty. In fact, this is very wrong. It is the same in the doll stage before puberty, but it is not obvious that ’s all, or that the needs are different, but the opposite sex is like There must be nothing wrong, as long as you look at it will be very happy.

“Okay! Since my Tang’er likes this Young Lady so much, then I will secretly bring her some sweets every day, but must do it quietly, but 10000000 don’t be discovered by others!”

Li An agreed with Tang’er’s request.

“Father rest assured, I secretly stuffed her hand, others can’t find it, hehe.”

Tang’er said proudly.

After making a little joke, Li An began to educate Tang’er, so that he must listen carefully when he was in class, and he should not interrupt Mr. Random because he already understood it. This is very impolite and should not be used. Yes, if he makes such a mistake next time, he will be taught him well.

Tang’er seemed to agree to Li An, saying that he would never dare again, would not make trouble in the classroom, would listen to the lecture of the gentleman seriously, and then dismissed himself completely, and promised not to say a word, An’an stayed quietly in the classroom.

Li An was quite satisfied with this. Nodded, he praised Tang’er, praised Tang’er as an obedient child, and told Tang’er that as long as he was obedient, he would definitely be rewarded.

“Father, a lot of people are talking about sound transmission machines now. They can transmit sound far away. I want to play with it, too?”

Tang’er asked suddenly.

Li An said with a smile: “Of course it is. Father came here this time and brought 6 machines. Now it is being installed and I will be able to play it soon, but let this opportunity be given to other children! Because we Now has a home, and you can play slowly when you go back. “

“Father, can I give it away? I want to give it to a lot of people so that when I go home, I can chat with them, okay.”

Tang’er suddenly asked.

This requirement does not seem to be excessive. Li An ’s ability is able to do it. However, this is obviously very inappropriate, because these children are poor people, the family is relatively poor, and there is no large-scale phone. Nowadays, it is obviously inappropriate to allocate telephones to these poorest people. The monthly rent is enough for them. If Li An undertakes it, it will be very troublesome. These poor families bring unexpected troubles and troubles.

After all, the neighbors of these poor families are also poor. So, when this family has a fresh phone, the neighbors must be coming to use them. Even many people will come to the door every day. The water that the family can’t get through will be severely disturbed by the normal life of this ordinary family, and it will even bring considerable disaster to this family.

For example, some poor neighbors who are not good-looking will be puzzled under their hearts and feel that their neighbors have become so rich. Have they received vigorous assistance from rich people? Besides this phone, is there money? Is there a large amount of cash hidden in the family’s assistance? If you can borrow some money to make an envoy, you can also alleviate your lack of money. Even, some people may be thinking about how to steal the money from this family.

In short, people’s minds are sinister. In the face of tremendous benefits, many people will take risks and even those who do not take risks will change their mentality greatly.

For example, some poor neighbors, when they see your family suddenly become rich, they will feel uncomfortable in their hearts, and they will think of some benefits. Borrowing money at home is the most appropriate way, and this borrowing is definitely not. Repaying is the same as asking for money. If the neighbor does n’t borrow, and the lighter complains, it will cause a lot of resentment in the heart, and even brewing revenge, a warning should be given to the neighbor who refuses to borrow.

Such examples are very common in ancient and modern China and foreign countries, especially the upstarts living in the heaps of the poor are the objects of hatred by many people.

If you give an example, an example from later generations is a good proof. In the ordinary villages of later generations, there is a very poor family. The main income is usually the income from farming, basically barely able to maintain food and clothing, Occasionally, I sing to earn some small money to make up for my family. I lived very poorly in my childhood. The clothes on my body have not been changed for more than ten years. I can smell the poor sourness of him after following several hundred meters.

The fate of the person is indeed quite magical. It is such a poor and sour voice. After being promoted by a platform, it immediately became a well-known celebrity. Various advertising endorsements and commercial performances are one after another. , The income is getting more and more, it can be said that his destiny has been completely changed, the income level is at least a few thousand to ten thousand times before, from a recognized poor family, leap into a wealthy family, contrast It’s too big.

This contrast not only changed the family, but also changed the neighbors of the entire village, and even the old 100 surnames of the surrounding villages were deeply affected.

Before I learned this, the guy who was even poorer than them actually became rich overnight. All the relatives and friends who knew it had undergone tremendous changes in their mentality. Finished, so, why not borrow some flowers to spend? Of course, this borrowed money will definitely not be repaid, what is borrowed is what’s gone can never come back, went but never returned.

Suddenly, the people who came to borrow money from home called a stream of people, one by one, all came to borrow money from home, and even, after borrowing money from home, even after a few days, they would continue to come home to borrow money, put this The rich man was exhausted, but when he refused, the borrower showed his brutal and greedy nature, not only very angry at the upstart, but even arrogant to borrow Money is bad.

The reason for the refusal is mainly because some people borrowed time and time again, but did not return it once. If this goes on, even if it is an upstart, it cannot be afforded. After many borrowings, it will naturally not continue to borrow money. , But the neighbors do n’t think so. After they borrowed the money for the first time, they had a strong idea of ​​reap without sowing, and felt that it was too fast to get money like this, and the neighbors were so rich, and their income was very high. If you do n’t do anything yourself, you will be able to live very well by rubbing your neighbors alone. Moreover, this has successfully borrowed many times in a row. If you can continue this way forever, the future will be very good.

Under the influence of this idea of ​​reap without sowing, the neighbors borrowed money again and again. Every time the upstart went out to make money and returned, the neighbors had to rub some oil and water, and even shamelessly rely on others’ homes. Don’t leave when you are satisfied, and even rub some food.

The upstart is also very hard. Every day is very tired, and the hard work to earn the money, but also have to come up with a lot to feed the relatives and friends. This pressure can be imagined, and it will certainly be unbearable over time. , Rejection is inevitable.

And many relatives and friends who originally expected to depend on the upstarts suddenly found that their wishful abacus had failed. How could they not be painful and disappointed in their hearts, and the failure of this wishful abacus was because the upstart refusal to lend money to themselves As a result, so, how can it not hate this upstart.

As for why you do n’t hate other rich people, it ’s because many rich people in the world do n’t know each other, and they ca n’t talk about hatred at all, and the upstarts were the same people as themselves, even many neighbors. Everyone thinks that this upstart has no big skills, doesn’t he just sing a few songs? What is remarkable is that they can make so much money on this basis. They are actually very unconvinced. If the upstarts can give them a little, their mentality may be a little more comfortable.

But after giving it, they must always give them money, so that they can continue to be comfortable, and even give more money. If they are rejected, then their hearts will be very unhappy, and even hate this outbreak. Households, it feels too unreasonable for upstarts to earn so much windfall money that they actually do n’t give themselves some, which is too much and really incomprehensible.

Sometimes people are so full of jealousy, and the more people around them, the more prone to this kind of jealousy, and this kind of jealousy is most obvious when it comes to upstarts , Because the upstarts have the biggest impact on the hearts of people around them, and it is also very sudden. If step by step is gradually getting rich through their own efforts, it can be accepted step by step, but sudden riches will make a lot of People around are hard to get used to.

Especially the means of riches are not so brilliant and admirable, it is more prone to jealousy, such as suddenly buying a lottery ticket, winning the first prize, suddenly making a lot of money because of a little ability, such as suddenly Sing a song and make a lot of money if you tell a joke or something. These will make people uncomfortable and easily cause jealousy. I think this upstart is just walking the lucky dog ​​excrement that’s all The ability to get such a high income does not match the upstart’s ability simply, so you want to spend some money to calm your uncomfortable heart. If you don’t get money, your heart will be very uncomfortable.

But time will change everything. If the upstart had left his hometown and lived in a densely populated city after the ruin, there would be no trouble in this respect. People in the city hardly recognized the door. I do n’t know what kind of person is living on the door, so naturally there will be no trouble in this regard. There is no need to worry that the door will suddenly come to borrow money. This is unlikely to happen.

Therefore, since ancient times, there is a very common phenomenon, that is, after a person becomes rich, he usually leaves his hometown and lives in the city, in order to get rid of this problem, because as long as he stays All kinds of troubles will continue. Only when you leave your hometown can you get rid of these troubles, can you let go of your hands and feet, and live a better life.

And the upstarts mentioned earlier, after their ruins, actually returned to their long-lived rural areas and continued to live with their poor neighbors. This is a very unwise approach in itself, which will only bring infinity to themselves. Endless troubles, maybe this upstart is used to the life in the countryside, and he really ca n’t adapt to the life in the city, but the consequence of his choice is that his life will be full of all kinds of troubles, and these troubles are It cannot be controlled by itself, it can be said that it is miserable.

That is to say, from the moment you suddenly started, you are destined to change the mentality of the people around you, and you are destined to never go back. There are only two roads in front of you, and one is to leave completely. To live in a strange environment where I have lived, it will make people feel lonely.

And the other way is to endure the entanglement and beating of people around for a long time, just like the upstart just mentioned, and from time to time put out some money to help people around and ease the embarrassing relationship between each other.

These two roads are not too satisfying, but there is really no other choice, especially if you want to go back to the past, it is completely impossible, and the result is doomed from the moment of wealth.

The ancient Emperor claimed to be alone, and even those who were called brothers and brothers together, from the moment you claimed the king, they will not take your heart out of you, let alone tell the truth.