My Daily Life with Gosara Ayase/my Sister Can't Be Ayase's Little Angel

"That's right, if you know how to deal with it, then you won't be hated by everyone as soon as you open your mouth.

The second is the purpose, whether you are chatting, looking for information, or simply making friends, this involves specific tactics.

For example, you don't have a good relationship with someone, but you want to say something to make friends.

Then you have to try to resolve the contradictions and resistances in his heart.

If he doesn't speak, you will talk about the misunderstanding by yourself.

Or let him have to talk to you, you let him have to talk, for example, he is not polite in front of parents.

This is flexible and changeable, nothing is fixed. "

Ryunosuke nodded all the time, first look at the type of person the other party is, don't be arrogant if the other party is arrogant, two deadly arrogant people will be anxious to death.

After you can make contact, you need to have a conversation with a clear purpose, um...

"Hey, Yang Nao, do chats have to have a purpose?" Ryunosuke asked hesitantly.

"Hehe, since you have the word "purpose" in your plan, you can change it to chat and you will get something.

It is a pleasant conversation only when everyone gets something and everyone is happy. "

Only then did Ryunosuke accept and nodded: "I understand the idea, but how should I operate it?"

Just like the glory of the king, when playing Han Xin and seeing a pile of meat on the opposite side, you have to use the Star Breaker instead of the black cut.

After the installation is finished, it is necessary to clearly cut the output position on the opposite side.

But how to cut it?

Do you want to go around or squat in the grass?

That's what Ryunosuke asked.

Yang Nao also naturally understood what Ryunosuke meant, and said while driving the car:

"You can find any topic for chatting, but the problem is how to fully explore a topic.

Just like what you said in front of the closet, you can sum it up in one sentence, and you won't be able to continue the conversation.

Let me give you an example, such as the topic of swimming.

You can say in detail, time, place, weather, what you saw on the road, how is the conductor...

It can also be generalized, how to make a summary of swimming, or say some deep emotions.

You can also talk about its parallel topics, such as what swimming competition you saw in the swimming pool, and then naturally switch to the competition.

Then continue chatting with the game as the topic.

In short, when you don't want to chat, you summarize;

When you want to chat, talk about what you have seen and heard in detail;

If you can't continue, switch to related topics in parallel.

In this way, you can chat endlessly. "

"So that's how it is, that's how it is." Ryunosuke's thoughts were suddenly opened.

Yang Nai glanced at Ryunosuke in the rearview mirror, and smiled slightly:

"Of course this is just the simplest, the chat also involves a game with the other party.

If it's not particularly close, it's just people who stay together, such as colleagues at the same table.

Unless it's just to kill time, it usually has another purpose.

For example, if you don't want to be excluded alone, you can talk together.

For example, if you want to know what information, you are testing the insider with words.

For example, if you want to destroy someone's relationship with someone, you will inadvertently mention something important to someone.

All these, the conversation is a game between two people.

This is a unique art that cannot be summed up in a few words.

The master leads the door, and the practice is up to the individual. How to operate it depends on your own comprehension.

You can summarize, think about past behavior, and then improve.

You can also observe those who are very talkative in your life and keep learning.

As long as you can learn with your heart, work hard, and tolerate being boring for a while, you can still achieve the results you want after all.

Even if it can't, it will definitely be much better than it is now.

That's it. "

Ryunosuke, who had been staring at Yang Nao, continued to stare at her, and suddenly asked after thinking for a while, "Have you concluded just now?"

Seeing that Ryunosuke is learning and applying what he has learned, Yang Nai couldn't help but smile:

"Haha, yes, I've finished what I want to say, it's your turn to say it."

"Well," Ryunosuke nodded slowly, "That's for our chat this time.