I Loaded the Healing System
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If you have been in contact with girls a lot since childhood, or in groups or classes, then you will naturally develop this ability, and you won't be so flustered that you can't even speak when you see a girl.
But keeping calm in front of a girl and being able to communicate with her calmly is only the first step in this ability, and it is only the first stage in your relationship.
Then we need to start chatting, choose what they are interested in among many topics, and then cut in accurately and communicate in depth.
During the period, try to be as witty as possible. You can be rude, but you must not be rough.
Generally, this second step will last for a period, and this period is also a period of understanding each other and deepening feelings.
If it is handled well, it will enter the third stage, which Shen An calls the "fork" stage.
It's a fork because the third stage often determines where your relationship ends.
boyfriend and girlfriend?Male and female girlfriends?A confidante or a confidante?Or just a good friend who is more speculative.
In fact, boys are not very good at distinguishing this kind of relationship more strictly. If they can play well, they are good brothers, and if they can't play well, they can't play well.
But girls' thinking patterns are more emotional, and they are a little stronger than boys in terms of possessiveness.
This is destined to show girls' likes and dislikes more directly, and it is also necessary to determine intimacy and non-intimacy by dividing relationships.
This kind of distinction is very detailed. Even if they are both good friends, there are friends who can be found at any time, even willing to chat all night, and friends who are only found at certain times.
So there are many so-called best friends in girls' mouths, but usually only one or two of ten best friends are the best friends she really recognizes in her heart.
The rest are nothing more than "friends" who play more frequently or play together temporarily.
Of course, boys also have this kind of situation. They are either good brothers or good friends when they open their mouths and keep their mouths shut.
But boys' social circle is relatively narrow, and because they don't make too strict distinctions, so as long as they play well, they can be called good brothers.
Girls are different, they must pass the second stage before they are eligible to be called girlfriends by her.
These are all manifestations of "tolerance" in interpersonal processing, and of course it can also be called "flexibility".
Shen An doesn't have to go deep into the third stage with every girl in the organization department, if that's the case, he can't be called a playboy, he is simply the king of the sea.
What he needs is to spend the first stage with them as much as possible, that is, the stranger stage.
It's best to stay in the second stage with most people, that is, you can talk about it and have a little friendship, but not too deep.
As for the third stage. .
Shen An currently has no plans to open up.
Although the organization department is a regular department, it is also a department of the art troupe anyway, and its overall quality is still very good.
It's just that compared with Zhao Qingyu and Wang Yuqiong, the gap is inevitably a bit big.
What's more, these few alone are enough to give Shen An a headache.
He went to the classroom where he was attending class, and found that neither Song Rui nor Shen Lianyao had come.
Wang Yuqiong was already lying on the desk, taking advantage of the rest of the lunch break to catch up on sleep.
Shen An sat down and brushed Wang Yuqiong's hair naturally.
"Hmm~"
The feeling of being disturbed in the middle of sleep is very angry, and Wang Yuqiong is also very angry when she wakes up.
She hummed a few times as a warning.
But Shen An deliberately ignored it and continued to tease her hair.
Ah ~
Wang Yuqiong was irritated by the teasing, raised her head and grabbed his hand, and slapped it hard on the desk.
Snapped!
With a crisp voice, the rest of the students also cast their gazes.
Shen An gasped, it hurts so much.
Wang Yuqiong blinked, quickly let go of his hand, and looked at him in a panic: "I'm sorry, I didn't mean it."
But Shen An keenly noticed the cunning in her eyes.
Ah. .
He raised his hand high and slammed it down on her thigh.
Snapped!
The same crisp sound, but because it was slapped on the flesh of the thigh, it was not as eye-catching as the slap on the desk.
"fine!"
Shen An replied with a smile.
hateful. . .it hurts. . .
The cunning in Wang Yuqiong's eyes was replaced by embarrassment, her teeth were itching with pain, she wished she could open her mouth to bite the corner of Shen An's mouth.
Shen An took advantage of the opportunity to pinch her slender thighs, but it was a pity that Wang Yuqiong was wearing jeans. Although the legs were perfectly outlined, when touched they were only as rough as the jeans, far less smooth than the silky skin.
"Shen An~"
Wang Yuqiong gritted her teeth and lowered her voice: "Do you want to smash my thigh?"
"Isn't this rubbing for you?" Shen An showed a very embarrassed expression: "And I didn't mean it."
"You did it on purpose..."
Wang Yuqiong's eye circles were red and moist, and she looked at Shen An pitifully.
It really does hurt a bit.
But also because in front of him, her emotions can be exaggerated a little.
A girl's tears don't need to be shed, it's a silent weapon, a weapon like no other.
Unfortunately, this weapon is ineffective against Shen An.
He ignored Wang Yuqiong's fake crying, and said softly, "You eat your meal quite quickly."
"Heh, you had a great time chatting with the girls from other departments, right?" Wang Yuqiong saw that this trick was ineffective, and immediately withdrew the moisture from her eyes, and said coldly, "It's been an hour and a half, so it's not too late."
"What are girls, there are also boys."
Shen An chuckled lightly.
"Pull it down, you just went to the organization department!"
"You also know?"
"I... I watched you go in." Wang Yuqiong curled her lips: "Don't think I'm peeking at you, I just happened to see you. The office of the organization department is above the drama group."
"What about Song Rui and the others?"
Shen An continued to pinch Wang Yuqiong's thigh, but she didn't resist, and she didn't even show a little bit.
It seems that this is already a familiar intimacy for the two of them, and there is no need for any fluctuations.
"How do I know~"
Wang Yuqiong pursed her lips.
"You're so smart, didn't you see which departments they went to?" Shen An looked at her with a half-smile.
"Okay, don't look at me like that."
Wang Yuqiong raised her chin: "Song Rui went to the singing group."
"Well, as expected." Shen An nodded.
"Lianyao went to the dance group."
"Tsk, there's no surprise." Shen An was indifferent.
"Then why not? There are so many people in these two performance groups, you only dealt with one of them yourself, and you expect them to go to two of them."
Wang Yuqiong complained, then frowned, and said seriously: "And I feel that they may not be able to handle it well."
"Hey, can you have some confidence in your classmates?"
Shen An chuckled lightly.
"I was serious."
Wang Yuqiong narrowed her eyes and looked at Shen An very seriously: "Although there is senior sister Qi in the singing group, the dance group is also a department that Lianyao is very interested in."
"But there are too many girls in the acting group...and..."
Wang Yuqiong hesitated.
"Are you still afraid that I will speak out?" Shen An teased her.
"Oh! You can guess it yourself, why do you have to tell me?"
Wang Yuqiong said coquettishly.
"Can not guess."
"Fart~" Wang Yuqiong pursed her mouth, "It's nothing more than a little thing between girls."
"Look at our drama group, do you think the atmosphere is not bad?"
"Actually, it's just an appearance."
Wang Yuqiong sighed: "On the first day I just passed, there were already some gossips."
"Although my relationship with them seems to be okay now, girls... are the best at pretending."
Shen An raised his eyebrows, isn't that Zhao Qingyu's line?
"What? You don't believe it?"
"I believe."
Shen An thought for a while: "But have you ever thought about whether it might be your problem?"
"Shen An!"
Wang Yuqiong grinned her white teeth, and the nine-yin white bone claws slammed at Shen An.
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