Siheyuan: It started with Yu Li's door-to-door work

"Who does that child look like? Why is he so sensible when he speaks? His father and I don't have such an IQ. Could it be that this sensible child is taught by her teacher? If I put this All the responsibility is on his teacher, so maybe its teacher will be happy and don't want it."

When Qin Jingru just thought of this, the child Dabao interrupted her thoughts.

"Mom, I'm going to school now, you should go back now, or my father will talk about you again, and at that time I think you two may have to quarrel again, so you should go back early Better."

Hearing what the child said, Qin Jingru said: "Don't worry so much, just take care of yourself and catch up with your own studies. Don't let your father and I worry about your studies. , in this way, no matter how much hardship and tiredness the two of us suffer, it doesn't matter much."

After Dabao left, Qin Jingru went home.

"What delicious food did you buy for Dabao? How much did you spend?"

"I didn't spend a lot of money. It seems to worry you. If the child spends money, shouldn't it? It's like his big treasure is not your child's business. How can you say such a thing?"

"I'm you spoiling him, otherwise I don't care if what you say makes sense? Because boys need to be poor, have you heard this sentence? If you treat him too well If he doesn’t know that money is useful, then he will spend a lot of money in the future. You must make up your mind about this, so you must educate him since he was a child, and you can’t wait until he grows up to instill such thoughts in him. Then it must be a bit late, and I can’t change it even if I want to change.”

"You said this sentence, I don't know where you heard it, boys should be raised poorly, girls should be raised rich, I have also heard of it, but it will come again, whether it is poor or poor If you are rich, you need a degree. If you can’t grasp this degree, then you will teach your children badly. Do you know such examples? There are many such examples. I don’t know who to give you. gone."

After Qin Jingru said such words, Xu Damao stopped talking.

"You don't have to mention it. I know this example. You must have made it up. If there is such an example, then why don't I know what you women say? I like to reason with others, but there are many things in my own life. It’s fallacy, so I have nothing to say to you.”

"If you have nothing to say to me, then don't tell me, but if I want to tell your child, you really can't control it too hard. If you control it too hard, he won't be able to do anything in the future. At that time, even if you regret it, it will be too late because there is no regret medicine in the world, I think I should tell you about this matter."

"Then according to what you say, I don't care about him. He can do whatever he wants. He can go to school if he wants to go to school, and he doesn't want to go to school if he doesn't want to go to school. He can eat if he wants to, and sleep when he wants to sleep. If he wants to go on like this , then I feel that within a year, she will definitely not be able to keep up with her studies, so she is really not helping him, but hurting him, do you know that?"

"I didn't tell you that, I told you not to care about anything. If you don't care about anything, it will definitely not work, because he is different from you and me. He is still a child now, so you don't care about anything. Remind him to be protruding. Otherwise, he will heal the scars and forget the pain."

The two quarreled again because of the child.

"Anyone at home?"

When Qin Jingru and Xu Damao were talking, they suddenly heard someone talking outside.

"Who is it?" Xu Damao asked.

"I'm Dabao's teacher. I want to ask, why didn't my Dabao go to school this morning? I know if he was sick or something else. Normally, you would ask me for leave. If something happened, But today I didn't ask for leave from me, and I didn't see my child coming, so I wondered if something happened, so I came here."

"What did you say? Dabao didn't go to school. How is this possible? Because our family was cooking a little late today, so I said I was afraid that my child would be late for class, and then I wouldn't be able to do my homework, so I brought him a snack store and bought her a lot of snacks, so that he won't be late for class, so why didn't he go when you said that?"

"If I tell you that the parents don't go, then I think you can ask him after he is over from school. Now I asked you to come here because of this matter. I can't tell you that he didn't go because he went. Go, you said it was necessary for me to tell such a lie, and then I am the child's teacher, not a stranger. So it is my responsibility to educate children well, I will tell you the truth, why don't you Trust me?"

After the teacher finished speaking these words, Qin Jingru really didn't know how to answer the teacher's words.

"It's not that I don't believe you, it's mainly because we all know that our child is really good, so if she has anything, she usually tells us. You said that he didn't have class today, it's really true." It's unbelievable, that's why we say such things." Xu Damao said.

Usually, Xu Damao and his daughter-in-law are both yours, and I say mine are not like a family at all, but today, I don’t know if his brain was caught by the door, or he met some kind of Something happened, he seems to be very sober today, he knows to speak up for his wife.

"Hey, you said that our child Dabaota didn't go to class, so what kind of place do you think he can go to? He thinks so, if he is older, maybe he will go to some Internet cafes and the like , but if he thinks this way, then he must have some entertainment facilities and he will not play, so we guess like this."

Chapter 327 Don't treat yourself as an outsider

After hearing what Xu Damao said, the teacher said, no matter how they guessed, one thing is that they should know that as a teacher, he is on the same front as their parents.Don't treat the teacher as an outsider.

"Of course we know what you said. The implication of what you said is that we treat you as an outsider. If you think so, then we say that you really misinterpreted our meaning. How could we treat you as an outsider? , and according to the old saying, a teacher for a day is a father for life, so your responsibility is much greater than ours, because you are also a father of the child now, I don’t know if I say this, teacher, can you I can't accept it. If you can accept it, then you can say anything.

"I know that you can say such things to praise me, but I really can't take such a big responsibility now, because I don't think I am as good to them as you think, if I put If the child is my own child, then there are some things that I really can't do."

"What do you mean by that?" Xu Damao asked.

The teacher said, what does he mean by what he asked.

"What else can you say? It's what you just said. If you treat your child as your own, then you can't do some things. What do you mean?"

"As soon as you said that, I remembered it, but now, I really don't know how to explain it to you, because I can't think of a good example, how about this? Look at the way we educate children Sometimes, you always regard yourself as an outsider. If you are the parents of your children, then we will definitely not be able to do some things, and some things will definitely not be done, so you must stand in the position of a middleman to educate your children. .”

"What you said is true, but why can't it be good to treat yourself as the father of the child? How about educating the child?"

The teacher said that he understood enough, because if he also regarded himself as the father of the child, then he would not be able to educate.The main point is that I am reluctant to control my children more strictly.

Qin Jingru has a deep understanding of what the teacher said.

"I don't know if the child's father understands what you said, but I understand what you mean very well. Then, teacher, you said that the child did not go to class. Where can he go? She is so young, I I'm really afraid that something will happen to him, if something really happens, what do you think we should do?"

"I said the child's mother, you can't ask me about this matter, because the child is your child, and then, the second is that there are too many people acting rashly. The first responsibility of our teacher's students should be the child's parents."

"I know, but now I'm really worried about what will happen to the child. If something happens to the child, I really don't know what to do? So for now, we should find the child, and then Let’s talk about other issues, if the child can’t be found now, let’s talk about other issues, I don’t think it’s very meaningful.”

"Yes, I agree with you, but the three of us can't search in one place, we should search separately, so the chances of finding it will be greater."

After the three discussed it, they went to find the child.

After searching for a long time, they finally found the child in a hole in the ground.

"I said Dabao, why have you stayed in this cave for so long? What's going on? Who hid you in this cave?"

"Mom, don't you know? I went to the shop, and for some reason, I fell into this hole, if I wanted to get out. But there was no ladder, so I stayed in it, but After a long time, I felt that this was not a solution, so I called for someone, but no one heard what I said."

"I said, Damao, do you know who owns this hole? I think no matter whose hole it is, I should go to his house today for this matter. How did he dig such a hole? Because this is on the road, the child with this credit card is fine. If the child stays for a few days, then the child will not be starved to death. Even if it is not our child, other children may suffer such bad luck. So it doesn’t matter If it is someone's burrow, I must go to his house to discuss an explanation."

"I know whose burrow it is, but do you think Tao's statement is useful? After all, the child is fine today, and even if the child is, I don't think it is of much use for you to avoid such a statement, because You know that this burrow was dug by our village secretary, so how do you find him?"

Qin Jingru became a little anxious when she heard Xu Damao's words.

"Let me tell you, Xu Damao, don't pretend, so you don't have the ability to look good? Even if you just say it, what's the matter? Is the branch secretary doing everything right? If you are a big man, you are afraid in this place, you Think you're ashamed?"

When Qin Jingru said this, Xu Damao also became anxious.

"What is there to be ashamed of me? Who doesn't know that people should retreat in spite of difficulties, knowing that it is no use for you to go to their family, and maybe it will bring some bad things to our family, then Why are you doing this thing? If you really want to do it, then you do it, don't drag me into it, I will never go to their house anyway, because of this matter. "

After listening to Xu Damao's words, Qin Jingru really had no choice.

"Well, you can do whatever you want, but I can't control you anymore, you can ask someone to see if you should go to him instead of being afraid at home, Like a tortoise. Really, how could I meet a man like you, where is the prideful man you usually do when you do other things?"

"You can say whatever you want, but you can say it in your heart, don't say it again, if you continue to talk like this, let me tell you, am I easy to mess with?"

"You are amazing, you are not easy to provoke, what can you do to me? Can you kill me? If you really kill me, then I think you are really capable. "

"I won't delete you. If I delete you, then I still need to go to jail. Do you think I am so stupid? I don't do such stupid things. At most, I will beat you up."

Chapter 328 Document Fee

The more two people talk, the more it is not what the couple should say.

But who can blame this.

At this time Dabao came home.

"Father, our teacher asked us to pay the materials fee."

"Why does your teacher have to pay for the materials, and you can't learn the things in your textbooks. What kind of materials do you need to buy? Don't buy them."

"But our teacher told us to buy it."

"One word the teacher said, you take what the teacher said as an imperial decree. Your mother and I have been telling you so much all day long, but you can't listen to it. Are you smart or stupid?"

Because Dabao asked him for money, Xu Damao told Dabao a lesson.

Qin Jingru saw all these things in his eyes. He felt that if the child asked for materials fees, as the parent of the child, you should tell the child Yingwei that this is for the semester, not to buy something to eat.Although it is to buy something to eat.It is not wasted, but if it is used to buy learning things, then its usefulness is relatively greater.

This is what Qin Jingru's teacher said to Qin Jingru.

"Son, your teacher asks you to pay the materials fee, how much does it mean? You tell Mom an amount, and Mom will find a way for you."

"Fifteen cents." Dabao said.

"It turned out to be only 1 cents. If this is the case, you don't need to tell your father, because the money is too little. If there is more money, you can tell him that I can give you the money." Take it out, but it will come again, since you can use the money to buy materials, so when it comes to these materials, you must study hard and do the above questions well, and you can’t buy materials because of the money. Let’s just waste all this information.”

"Mom, I know, I will definitely study hard, and I will definitely give Li Yong the materials I bought, because although these materials are what you said just now, the money is not too much, but it is also You used your hard-earned money to buy these materials, and if you said you praised me for your son, how could you waste your hard-earned money?"

What Qin Jingru heard from Dabao made sense. Sometimes she thinks about it, she should be content in this world. Although the relationship between her and her husband Xu Damao has not been very good, she is human, and her husband helped her give birth. Such a very sensible child, so what is he not satisfied with?

"Son, you don't need to put too much pressure on you. As long as you study hard, your mother will be at ease. So you can just study hard and don't think so much about other things. As for money, you are more concerned about it." You shouldn't worry about it, because this is not something you worry about at such a young age." Qin Jingru said.

After listening to Qin Jingru's words, Dabao just kept humming in that place.

"Let me tell you, why don't you go to school? What are you still doing here? Didn't I tell you just now? You can't buy materials for the time being, because I know you can't learn anything in textbooks. What kind of materials should I buy?" Seeing that Dabao was still there, Xu Damao yelled at him.

"I know, I know, I don't buy it, okay?" Dabao replied.

Dabao left while talking, because he knew that his mother had already given him the money anyway, so why would he say it as long as his father was happy with it.

Dabao came to the school and saw that there were very few people in the school.

"No, why are you here? You see, there are only two of us in this place. Where have the others gone?"

"Where else can we go? Isn't this the teacher asking us to pay the material fee? Many parents don't pay the material fee for their children, so they don't dare to come to school, because our teacher said it? If If you don’t pay, you can’t go to school.”

After Dahai finished speaking, he asked Dabao: "Did your parents give you the money for the material fees that the school has to pay?"

Because Dabao didn’t know whether his parents paid him for the materials, when Dahai asked him, he didn’t know how to answer, so he thought for a while and said, “Your parents paid for the materials. Did you get it?"

"How do you talk, kid? Should I ask you first, or should you ask me first?"

"Sure, I'll ask you first."

"What are you talking about? You didn't ask me when I asked you just now."

The two got into an argument over this matter.

When it was time for class, the class bell rang several times.

"Why are there two of you? Where have all his students gone? Tell me, Dahai."

"I don't know. Dabao and I have come a long time ago, but after we came, we didn't see anyone else. I don't know what happened to the person who went to him. Didn't he come at home? Or After they came, they went out again, and I didn’t see them anyway.”

"What's going on? Did your homeroom teacher say something else? Why did this person suddenly disappear so much?"

"Yeah, it was our homeroom teacher who said about my sister again. The matter is that our homeroom teacher asked us to pay the fee. He said that if anyone doesn't pay the treatment fee, then don't come to class this afternoon. He couldn’t be allowed into the classroom, so many people didn’t come. I don’t know if it’s because of this reason.”

Dahai told the Chinese teacher everything he knew.

"So that's what happened. How could your class teacher say that? I really can't figure it out. Even if the tuition fee is not allowed, then you should come to school, because the tuition fee has already been paid. This is the material fee .Material fees and tuition fees should not be confused. I don’t know why your head teacher said such a thing, which made many children stop coming. What do you mean by this class?”

The Chinese teacher also complained about the head teacher at this time.

"Teacher, will you be able to attend the Chinese class this afternoon? If not, Dahai and I will go back."

"What are you going back for now? Are you going home? If that's the case, don't go back. Come back after school. Since you're here, let's study here for a while."

When the Chinese teacher said this, Dahai and Dabao could only stay at school. Although the whole class included the Chinese teacher, there were only three of them, but what could they do?

The two of them read some extracurricular books in the classroom, because they felt that although there was a Chinese teacher reading it here, it was because the Chinese teacher didn't teach!So if you learn Chinese again, it really doesn't make much sense.

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