Film Variety: Encountering Xu Hongdou at the beginning

Nana said softly.

Her first impression of Xu Hongmi was that she was a pampered lady.

But after a few days of understanding.

She had deep admiration for him.

This is a strong woman that I have never thought about.

"I really don't know what she's here for."

Xu Hongdou shook his head helplessly and said.

"I don't worry about you. Come and see you."

Nana said without thinking.

"Hmph!" Xu Hongdou snorted rather disdainfully.

Then he said fiercely: "You don't understand her. She is not here to care about me, but to educate me."

It can be seen that if it were not for blood suppression.

She wanted to beat Xu Hongmi now.

"Haha, your sister still cares about you. Besides, who would come all the way to Dali just to educate people."

Nana said happily.

She can see it now too.

The two sisters must have been competing against each other since childhood.

And Xu Hongdou is definitely the one who suffers.

That's why I'm full of resentment.

But she also envied such a life.

Because she is an only child, she has never had such an experience since she was a child.

When I was young, I saw that other people had older brothers, sisters, and younger brothers and sisters.

She had also been envious.

"I grew up with her, and I know her very well. Since she was a child, she has been the kind of strong woman who walks with wind, is fierce, and never looks back to see the explosion."

"Then I was the one who had to trot to follow her all the way. I still couldn't keep up, so she said I was slow."

Xu Hongdou said helplessly while making movements.

"Haha, this is what sisters are like. In a family, if there are two children, they usually have complementary personalities."

"If one has a strong character, the other has a softer character. If one is lively, the other is quiet."

Feng Lidong said cheerfully.

"Oh, then in our family there are those who are worry-free and those who are not, and I am the latter."

?

Xu Hongdou said with sudden realization.

My inner understanding of myself is quite clear.

"Haha, you're trying to say that the one who doesn't worry will be less liked by his parents, right?"

Feng Lidong laughed and said.

"Hey, how do you know?"

Xu Hongdou asked in surprise.

"You can tell by looking at the expression on your face."

Feng Lidong teased deliberately.

"You are the one who blames the wife, you blame the husband."

Xu Hongdou counterattacked without showing any weakness.

"Oh? Whose husband?"

Feng Lidong looked at the two of them with a smile, the smile on his lips was ambiguous and affectionate.

"It belongs to whomever you love, but it's not mine anyway."

Xu Hongdou rubbed her neck, blushed and said harshly.

...

"That's right, it's not mine anyway."

Nana also hugged her arm, raised her little head and said proudly.

Feng Lidong kissed them both on the lips with lightning speed.

"You...you are so annoying."

The two of them raised their pink fists in shame at the same time.

"It's confirmed from what you said. Generally, people who have this kind of problem have a kind of parental bias in their consciousness, preferring the cognition or memory of another well-behaved child."

"Children who have been well-behaved, smart, worry-free, and have good grades since childhood are certainly good children in the eyes of their parents."

"But worry-free children are actually the norm for everyone, and they are also the norm for children in every family."

"Besides, children who cry are fed by milk, and those who don't worry often get more care from their parents."

"Because this is the psychology of parents. Well-behaved children are often ignored. What worries them more is the careless children."

Feng Lidong spread his hands and said softly.

"Well, the nature of human beings is contradictory and double standards, right?"

"If you learn from books, what you think in your heart, what you say with your mouth, and what you do with your hands may all be completely different."

"We're just taught to be fair and equitable."

"But in reality, no matter how nice you say it, you will still involuntarily favor the person who is more in line with your heart."

Xu Hongdou said plausibly.

Feng Lidong smiled helplessly, took her cup and poured himself a glass of goat milk.

Don't say it.

It's really sweet and small.

Chapter 266 Are You All Right?

There was no need for him to argue with what Xu Hongdou said.

After all, this is not a debate competition.

As for whether parents are partial, it can only be said that people have different opinions.

Any child growing up in a multi-child family will feel this way.

But this doesn't mean that she doesn't love her parents.

Or her parents don't love her.

It's just that the way of love is different.

When I was a child, perhaps children like Xu Hongmi were more popular.

But when they grow up, children like Xu Hongdou worry their parents even more.

It's like when Xu Hongdou insisted on returning to Yunmiao Village to start a business in the play.

Her parents gave her a bankbook worth 30 yuan.

Although 20 yuan was used to decorate her parents' new house.

But her parents' lifetime savings probably don't amount to more than 10 yuan.

As a parent, why don’t you know your daughter’s personality?

"You think so too, right? After all, who doesn't like people who are good-looking, good-natured, and excellent? Xu Hongmi is such a person."

"And I'm the one who doesn't look good, has a stubborn personality, earns too little, has too many things to do, and is not willing to make progress."

Xu Hongdou smiled self-deprecatingly and said softly.

"Sister Hongdou, do you have any misunderstandings about your appearance and personality?"

"I know your temperament is very strong and tough, very tough."

"But you are also as beautiful as a fairy, gentle as water, kind-hearted, and an excellent person."

"The resources at the upper echelons are scarcer, and the competition becomes more fierce. There are so many hotels in Beijing, but only a few five-star hotels. But it's amazing that you, a Beijing drifter, can take a management position there."

Feng Lidong said sincerely.

Nana, who was listening on the sidelines, nodded her little head like a chicken pecking at rice, her face full of approval.

"Heh, you too."

Xu Hongdou was stunned and said a little embarrassedly.

"I know this myself."

Feng Lidong shook his head shamelessly and said narcissistically.

"This man."

Xu Hongdou and Nana rolled their eyes at the same time and said speechlessly.

"Haha, let's go, go over and play, listen to the laughter of a few little guys, and all your troubles will be cured."

"I'm telling you, no psychologist is as effective as this most natural laughter."

Feng Lidong pointed to the lawn where several children were playing and said.

When the three of them walked to Xu Hongmi.