Quick wear is not a cannon fodder

An Ran didn't know the specific plans of Zhang's father and Zhang's mother, as long as she didn't go back.

Her behavior was like that of the silent woman, who didn't react at all.

But the old man had something to say.

"You little girl, how can you talk to your parents like that?!"

Especially when he thought about his own children, who also had a bad relationship with him and talked back to him, the old man felt the same as what happened to Zhang's father and Zhang's mother just now.

An Ran saw the old man dictating to her again, and couldn't help but said angrily: "None of your business, just mind yourself."

After hearing this, the old man couldn't help but get very angry and said: "Today's children, one or two, are really becoming more and more rude. When we were children, how could we dare to talk to older people like this!"

"In your day, older people loved to show off and point fingers in front of young people. It was wrong in the first place. After all, who gave them the right to interfere with others? Forget it if you don't dare to resist. People of our generation are not afraid of relying on their old age and selling off their old age. , too lazy to pay attention to them. You don’t praise our generation for its progress and spirit of resistance, but you still criticize it. It seems that you still think you are doing the right thing.”

"Oh, we can't point out what young people have done wrong? A great man once said, criticism and self-criticism, how can you still criticize? The ideological and moral character of the young people of your generation is really bad!"

"A great man once said that without investigation, there is no right to speak. Have you investigated? Are you criticizing my attitude in talking to my parents? No matter how parents treat their children, children must honestly accept their arrangements? Listen to them ? Do you want to say that there are no bad parents in the world?"

Originally, the old man really wanted to say this, but now after listening to An Ran's words, he knew that if he said this, the other party would definitely get angry, so he stopped saying it.

He just said, "Then you tell me and I'll listen and see if it's your fault or your parents' fault."

An Ran said silently: "That's my privacy, why should I tell you?"

"Didn't you say that without an investigation, you have no right to speak? I accept your criticism, but isn't this an investigation? But you don't say it. If you don't say it, how do I know who is right and who is wrong between you and your parents?... "The old man continued to chatter, but An Ran was too lazy to listen. He replied directly, "That's our family's private matter, it's none of your business," and blocked his voice.

Because he didn't block anything else, only the sound, the old man didn't notice anything was wrong at first. It wasn't until he realized that An Ran didn't respond to him no matter what he said, that he realized that An Ran had only blocked his own voice. I couldn't help but feel angry, and I felt more and more that An Ran was an rude and uneducated little girl. It was just that she didn't dare to yell out loud when others were under the roof, for fear that they would expel her or even kill her.

But the woman who had been silent all this time, after hearing the argument between An Ran and the old man, said: "This society is really terrible. There are people forcing marriages everywhere. Even strangers will ask whether you will go on a blind date or not." , and even scolded him, this old man is really annoying. You are still young now, you can still hold on, but when you get to my age, you will find that it is difficult to hold on, I think you should prepare early. "

This was the first time the silent woman spoke, and An Ran couldn't help but wonder: "Your parents also forced you to get married?"

The silent woman was silent for a while and then said: "Well, not only are they forced into marriage, but every year when I go back, I will be criticized by the people in the village - I come from the countryside."

An Ran said: "Me too."

The silent woman continued: "This is how I came here. I was constantly forced to get married by my family and people in society. It almost drove me crazy. I took medicine and woke up here."

An Ran thought, this is how this sister came to be, no wonder she refused to say anything, and immediately advised: "Don't commit suicide. It's not worth committing suicide for someone who doesn't cherish you. With the development of society now, more and more people The better, it will definitely be better in the future, because they committed suicide and will never be seen again, what a pity."

The silent woman said: "These days, I have also figured it out. Just like you said, committing suicide for someone who doesn't love me is not worth it. When I go back, I will live a good life."

An Ran said: "That's right."

Later, the silent woman told An Ran that the reason why she committed suicide before was because she was not as good at making money as An Ran and owned her own house at a young age. As for her, although she had worked for many years and saved some savings, she did not have enough money to spend on her own. She bought a house in the city and rented it all the time. This situation made her afraid to quit her job and rent a house in a new place, far away from everyone who knew her well. She was afraid that if she couldn't find a good job, she would lose her job. It will be a waste of time.

Now that she thinks about it, her city is not the only one in the country. She can buy a house in a place where the house price is cheap and only costs hundreds of thousands. In fact, there are still places where a house can cost tens of thousands, but she I was afraid that a house worth tens of thousands would not be very good, so I planned to buy a house worth hundreds of thousands. A house like that should be okay.

After she has a house, she can then look for a job. In places with low housing prices, wages will definitely be low, but she is not afraid. Once she has a house and a place to live, she will feel at ease. At worst, she will go to work in a big city and go back during the holidays.

It was better than working in her hometown city before, her parents knew where she was, she was not married, and they often came over to make trouble, which would make her collapse.

An Ran listened to the silent woman talking about her plans for her future life, and immediately said: "Your plans are quite good."

"I've thought about the house now. It's easy to solve. I just don't know how easy it is to find a job in a big city. If I can't find a job, I'll have no money to use it, which will be bad." The silent woman said worriedly.

An Ran said: "City B is a big city. Aren't you here with me now? How about you submit your resume online now? If there is a suitable one, I will send you back, and then you come for an interview? You won't be able to live there by then. You can stay here first."

Hearing what An Ran said, the silent woman's voice became cheerful and said: "Thank you! This is a good idea. Otherwise, in City B, I don't have much money and I can't afford to rent a house just because I'm looking for a job. If I could I'll stay with you for the time being, and then I'll have the confidence to move out after finding a job. I didn't dare to go to big cities to find a job before, because I was intimidated by the rent. I thought that if I couldn't find a job for a while, a month would be enough. Expenses such as food, drink, rent, etc. would destroy me, so I never dared to take that step.”

After all, she really has very little money. She has always wanted to save money to buy a house, but she is reluctant to spend money. She is afraid that if she goes to a big city and cannot find a job for a while, she will be left with nothing. Not only does her money not increase, but it is decreasing day by day.

Now that An Ran is willing to help her, she is naturally grateful.