Quick wear is not a cannon fodder

The eldest sister who came this time is a local consciousness and quite talkative.

According to her own words, she is a mother who takes care of her children full-time at home and has given birth to two children, the older one is a girl and the younger one is a boy.

Needless to say, the reason for this configuration is that, like most people, Zizi or herself or the surrounding environment wanted a son, so after giving birth to a girl, she gave birth to a second child and gave birth to a son. It was not that I just want to have two children, regardless of gender.

Like this eldest sister, this is the case. She said that her husband and in-laws both wanted a son, so she tried to have a second child and gave birth to a son.

Of course, she also admitted that she actually wanted to have a son, so as not to have only a daughter and be laughed at.

The reason why I came here this time is because the two children, the older one is three years old and the younger one is one year old, are very young children. It is naturally more troublesome to bring up such a small child, even if the parents-in-law help, It was also very hard, so I was so tired that day that I came here. It looked like I might have fainted from exhaustion.

After hearing An Ran say that it was okay, she could still go back. Should she go back immediately? She hesitated for a moment and said that she wanted to rest here for a few days. She said that she had not had much rest since the birth of the second child. After giving birth to the second child, this kind of The situation is even more serious.

When she thought of being so tired as usual, Sister Bao's mother said that it was not easy to take a break and take a breath. She was afraid that her parents-in-law and husband would say that she didn't work and was too lazy to take care of the children. Now that it was force majeure, she should rest for a while. It just so happens that the eldest child has recently gone to kindergarten. There is only one younger child at home. Her parents-in-law can take care of one child, so they should be able to handle it.

The life of this eldest mother is obviously very bad, but this is other people's lives. Naturally, An Ran won't say much. After all, she doesn't want to live that kind of life, which doesn't mean she can interfere with others. After all, a child is not a fish, so how can one know the nature of a fish? Happy, maybe my eldest sister, Bao Ma, is tired, but she is very satisfied with having a son and a daughter.

Anyway, from Sister Baoma's current tone, it can be seen that she felt relieved after giving birth to a son. She is satisfied with having a son and a daughter. In this case, even if An Ran has different views from her, it will not be much. say what.

However, after Sister Bao Ma stayed with An Ran for a few days, she became very envious of An Ran's life and said with emotion: "It's great to be rich, live in a big villa, eat whatever you want, and wear whatever you want." It’s not like my family, where only my husband earns money and the whole family spends it. Although he earns a lot, he can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month working in a big city, but with so many people in the family, plus It’s always hard to pay for the mortgage, let alone find a nanny to help me take care of the kids. If you have a lot of money like you, you can pay for a nanny to take care of the kids. I just have to look after the nanny. Then take care of the kids. It won’t be hard anymore.”

"Do your parents-in-law have no income or pension?" An Ran asked.

"My mother-in-law has to help me take care of the children full-time, and my father-in-law has found a job, but as he is getting older, he can only clean in the supermarket. He only has more than a thousand yuan a month, which is only enough for the old couple's daily expenses. Those who are unable to take care of our younger generation are thankful that we don’t have to pay for them. As for pensions, they are rural people and do not have pensions. In the future, after they turn 60, they will be able to receive a little subsidy from the state, a subsidy for rural people. ,not much."

If you put it this way, her husband's salary alone has to support four people and pay the mortgage, which is indeed a bit tight.

After all, it is said to be more than 10,000 yuan, but her husband also has expenses such as rent, water, electricity and living expenses. If he can get it in a month, it is only about 10,000 yuan.

Thousands of dollars, four people to support, all kinds of favors to deal with, plus mortgage payments, it's really a bit stressful.

And once unemployment occurs, the family will have major problems.

And her husband is not in the iron rice bowl industry such as a state-owned enterprise. He only works in a private enterprise. Unemployment is quite normal. For example, when the economy goes down and companies lay off employees, they will lose their jobs.

Unemployment is not something that will never happen.

However, An Ran didn't mention such disappointing words. After all, even if she didn't mention it, this eldest sister would understand it, so why bother to say it and make people unhappy.

The longer Sister Bao Ma stayed with An Ran, especially when she borrowed An Ran's body and enjoyed some of An Ran's delicacies and villa facilities with An Ran's consent, the more she missed this kind of life, and the less she wanted to go back and live such a tiring life. Life.

So she originally said she would only stay for a few days, but she didn't want to go back and ended up staying there again and again.

Even if An Ran can only go out for one hour a day, in her opinion, it is much better than going home and having 24-hour health.

In the original world, Bao Ma's eldest sister naturally did not miss the original body. After all, in the original body's world, the original body did not do well and rented a house. The conditions were worse than Bao Ma's eldest sister owning her own house. Such a situation , Mother and eldest sister will naturally not miss you.

But in this world, An Ran's conditions are much better than those of Bao's eldest sister, so naturally she is nostalgic and doesn't want to leave.

She didn't go back, and she didn't snatch An Ran's body, so An Ran didn't force her to go back. She just wanted to see what it would be like to go back automatically when the time was up. Since Sister Bao Ma doesn't want to go back, then maybe she will I can observe it now.

On the other hand, An Ran was very curious, wondering if she wasn't worried about her child? You know, An Ran is also a person who has given birth to a child, and understands the mother's psychology towards the child. Generally speaking, she is reluctant to leave the child for such a long time. She is always worried that she is not with the child, and others will not take good care of the child. .

But this mother-in-law didn't seem to be worried at all that her parents-in-law wouldn't be able to take care of the child, and she wasn't in any hurry to go back.

So this eldest mother is very conflicted. She feels satisfied with having children, but she doesn't seem to cherish her children very much. At least she has been away for such a long time. She is eager to come early every day to enjoy the luxury. In life, I rarely hear her mention children.

An Ran couldn't bear it anymore, so she asked Sister Bao's mother this question.

Sister Bao Ma was a little embarrassed after hearing An Ran's inquiry, and then confessed: "You are a rich person, so you may not be able to understand how tiring it is for me to raise two children so hard. It's so tiring that I just want to I'm lazy and don't want to go back to take care of my children. It's not that I don't love children, it's just that I'm too tired and overworked, which makes me afraid to go back, so it seems like I don't love children, but actually I do. Theirs is just that when I think about that kind of life and compare it to my current life, I’m really afraid of going back and don’t want to go back.”