Rebirth of First Daughter

Looking at Tan Aoshuang's first shock and then confusion, Yu Xi sighed and said: "you just said that it's your duty to take care of palace affairs and teach children. That's not right. It's really your duty to take care of palace affairs, but it's two people's business to teach children. You shouldn't do what Kai Hao should do. " Tan Aoshuang is in charge of the affairs of the three brothers and sisters. Kai Hao, at most, would check up on Sheng Ge'er's homework or talk to a few children.

What does she mean to do what the emperor should do? Tan Aoshuang doesn't understand.

Yuxi said: "zaozao and Qihao are brothers and sisters. Your father has changed their diapers and bathed them. When they have time, they play with them. When they grow up, teach them to practice and tell them stories. Kai Hao, what did he do for the three brothers and sisters? "

In addition to teasing the children, Kai Hao also checked his homework, and did nothing else.

According to tan Aoshuang's education, men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside. Raising children is what women should do. "I don't want him to disturb him for these trifles," Tan Aoshuang said

Yuxi shook his head with a smile and said, "how can it be trivial? It's the responsibility of parents to raise their children. Your father used to fight outside. I had to do these things when I came home! Now the world is peaceful and Kai Hao is not so busy. "

After struggling for a long time, Tan Aoshuang made up her mind to say to Yuxi, "mother, please teach me!"

If it was before, Tan Aoshuang would not listen to Yuxi's preaching. It's not who's right or who's wrong, it's just different ideas. But now the relationship between husband and wife is more and more distant, Tan Aoshuang wants to learn from Yuxi. After all, Yuxi has been very successful in this respect.

Yuxi patted Tan Aoshuang's hand and said, "he is the emperor outside. You should respect him. But in Kunning palace, you should not regard him as the emperor. You should regard him as your husband and the father of your children."

Tan Aoshuang hesitated and asked: "like those ordinary couples in the folk?"

Yuxi nodded and said, "don't be like those couples in the folk. Just be like me and your father. In addition, you can take care of the palace affairs by your confidants. You don't have to do everything by yourself. You just need to take care of the big things. In addition, brother min, you can give it to your mother. You can spend a fixed time with him every day. When you have free time, pay more attention to the affairs in the lower court and read more books. "

Tan Aoshuang hesitated.

Yuxi asked: "palace affairs and husband, which is more important, I don't need to say, you should know."

"I don't trust the mother to take the baby with her." She had to look at her eyes before she could feel at ease.

Yuxi jokingly said: "the prince of the former dynasty was taken away from his mother as soon as he was born. Wouldn't it be impossible for you to live? " The child is by his side. What worries him.

Tan Aoshuang is struggling in her heart.

Yuxi said: "it's too late for you to change now. Once the xiunu enters the palace and a woman enters Qihao's eyes, it's too late for you to make another change."

This deeply stimulated Tan Aoshuang, she decided to bet, knelt down in front of Yuxi, a face firmly said: "mother, I listen to you. If I do something wrong, please correct me

If you can figure it out, you're afraid you'll be stubborn.

When two people walk out of the room, they see Jingshu is amused by Yunqing and laughs.

Tan Aoshuang or the first time to see static Shu so happy, for a moment between Leng in situ.

See Tan Aoshuang, static Shu busy closed smile, stand straight called a: "Niang."

Cloud engine see static Shu nervous, frowning at a tan Aoshuang, and then will static Shu embrace up: "come on, we continue to play."

Jing Shu didn't listen to Yun Qing's words, but still stood in situ looking at Tan Aoshuang. Tan Aoshuang does not speak, she dare not play.

Tan Aoshuang face embarrassed: "grandfather let you accompany him, you obediently accompany is."

Holding Jingshu's hand again, Yunqing said: "go, grandfather takes you to the garden to play." With Tan Aoshuang here, it's impossible for children to let go.

Yuxi said with a smile, "don't be too strict with children on weekdays. Otherwise, the child will be afraid of you. What do you think it would be like when a child who has been raised so hard is not close to himself? "

Tan Aoshuang said: "recently let her learn the rules, did not learn, I scolded her several times."

Yuxi said with a smile: "the most important thing for our children is to be reasonable. As for the rules and etiquette, no problem on the surface, no one dares to pick on this In fact, under the imperceptible influence of adults, no matter how bad the etiquette is, it can't be any worse.

Tan Aoshuang nodded and said, "OK, listen to the empress."

Kai Hao was discussing with the minister just now. He didn't know that Yun Qing and Yu Xi came back until the matter was over.

See Yuxi and Tan Aoshuang talk very happy, Qihao some surprised. In his impression, Tan Aoshuang is not close to Yuxi.

After calling Niang, Qi Hao looked around and asked, "Niang, where's dad?"

"Take Jingshu to play in the yard. The older you get, the more like an old urchin. " Mouth is complaining, but with a smile.

Yun Qing just came in and heard what Yu Xi said: "as soon as I'm away, you'll arrange me in front of your son."

Yu Xi's eyebrows trembled and asked, "am I wrong? Aren't you an old urchin now? " When you come across something strange, you have to find out.

The husband and wife started to fight. And on one side of Kai Hao, just standing on the side of the smile, did not interrupt.

Tan Aoshuang suddenly admires Yuxi. In history, most of the women who were in power failed. The most famous one is Wu Tuo. He was forced to the palace by his son, and the last one died of old age in the palace. But her mother-in-law was an exception. After taking power, the husband and wife were still in love, and even the children were filial and considerate. She felt that her choice should be right.

In the evening, Qiyou came. He came alone, and did not bring Huang Siling and Xu Ge'er. As for Qixuan, he's not in the capital.

After dinner, Yuxi said to Qihao, "follow me to the garden."

"Good." Yuxi know draft this, will not be happy, Kai Hao has been ready to be scolded.

Yuxi did not scold him, but directly asked: "why did you agree to the draft this time?"

Qihao said in silence: "Niang, I just want to find someone who can talk with me."

This is sad to say.

Jade Xi Leng next, turned to sigh a breath to say: "remember you just married, husband and wife feeling very good, cause now this result you think you have no responsibility?"

When Kai Hao heard this, he couldn't help looking up at Yu Xi.

"You don't feel responsible?" With that, Yuxi said with a smile: "a woman's greatest fear is that time will no longer become a yellow faced woman. In this case, if she is not given enough care, she will think wildly. Ask yourself, have you cared for her in recent years? " Even in those days, she was worried for a long time.

Kai Hao shook his head and said, "in recent years, I've been busy with government affairs, and I've been neglecting her and my children. Mother, I'll pay attention later. " In the three years after his accession to the throne, he devoted all his energy to government affairs. That's why Tan Aoshuang was pregnant only after such a long time.

Yuxi asked: "I know that Aoshuang gave Yin Tiantian to you. You are very dissatisfied. Can you ask yourself, even if she did not let you accept Yin Tiantian, you will not draft

Qihao said in silence: "Niang, I'm not dissatisfied with Aoshuang. I just want someone to relax me when I'm tired." Yin Tiantian's singing is good, but apart from that, they have nothing to say.

After all, there is something wrong with the couple. Qihao is wrong, and Aoshuang is not a small problem.

Yuxi was also distressed, but she said, "your father's reputation was too bad. If it wasn't for the fear of implicating your grandmother and uncle, I would have escaped marriage."

Kai Hao was very surprised: "does dad know this?"

"I don't know. But your father thought that the girls in Beijing were too delicate for me to adapt to the environment of Yucheng, so he didn't want to marry me at that time. " With that, Yuxi said with a smile: "when I was with your father, one didn't want to marry, the other didn't want to marry. But do you think we are happy now? Between husband and wife, the most important thing is running in. It's good to cross this barrier. "

Qi Hao shook his head and said: "mother, you and dad are in need. How can I compare with you?" Tan Aoshuang's feelings for him are not so pure, and he can't follow Tan Aoshuang like his father.

"Can't compare with me and your father, what about Qiyou and Siling? You see, their husband and wife are also very good. "

Qi Hao laughed and said, "mother, I'm different from ah you. Ah you can act according to his temperament, but I can't The emperor is the master of the world, with life and death and power, but the burden is also very heavy. So he can't go with it.

Yuxi had prepared a lot of words, but he didn't want to say any more. Qihao knows what she's doing. No matter how much she says, she can't change anything: "ah Hao, one hundred years of cultivation will lead to the same boat crossing, and one thousand years of cultivation will lead to sleeping together. You have to cherish the fate between husband and wife."

Qihao nodded and said: "Niang, Aoshuang is my hairy wife. I won't let anyone go over her. Shengge'er is my eldest son, and no one else will go over him. "

"Just know."

That night, Qihao and Tan Aoshuang apologized: "I'm sorry, I've been busy with government affairs these years and neglected you."

Tan Aoshuang just now also reflected on himself: "I also have mistakes. When things happen, I should ask you directly instead of thinking wildly." In fact, her biggest mistake is that she spends her energy and time on her children and palace affairs, which leads to the estrangement between husband and wife, and finally leads to the silence between them.

Holding Tan Aoshuang in his arms, Qihao said softly, "you are my wife, who lives in the same bed and dies in the same cave."

Tan Aoshuang, with tears in her eyes, nodded her head.