Saint of the Confucian way

"OK, that's just 50%. Besides these visible and tangible things, there is also a very important aspect, the nature of mind. People's nature of mind is affected by congenital factors, which are determined by some blood, but it can be changed the day after tomorrow. Lu Zhan spends most of his time at home, grocery stores and private schools, and occasionally goes out for a walk, but he is basically inseparable from the scope of Ji County, the places he has visited and the people he has met , you've experienced too few things, too ordinary to be ordinary. Tell me where you went, who you met and what you saw when you were a child. "Fang Yun said.

Zeng Yuan said: "we children of the Zeng family are often led by our elders to visit all over the country and see the mountains and rivers, cultural attractions. What I remember most is the first time I saw Kong City and Daofeng mountain from the sky. I will never forget it in my life."

Fang Yun said with emotion: "so far, Lu Zhan has never seen Kong city or Daofeng mountain. Go on."

Zeng yuan continued: "as for the people I met, they are the elites of various families. I often see university scholars and even great Confucianism, and even a semi saint. Of course, what I see is not the holy body. As for the experience, there are too many and complex things. As a big family and a sub Saint family, I think I can't be quiet. I still remember some things that happened when I was a child."

Fang Yun sighed and said: "Everything a child encounters in his childhood will have a great impact on himself. For example, we will find that children today are smarter than us in those years. In addition to the continuous progress of blood and the improvement of Terran life, more importantly, these children are far more exposed to information than us in those years. Especially the children in Ning'an City, their changes The most obvious. Compared with you, most of Lu Zhan's childhood was wasted, so that later he had to work thousands of times to catch up with you. But the problem is that you didn't waste time later, and the possibility of him catching up with you is very small. "

Zeng yuan also sighed and said: "The student thinks that everything I experienced in my childhood has an impact on me and his grades, more than 10%, maybe more than 20%. I fully understand that it is not that I am better than him, not how stupid and lazy he is, but that I have too much more than him. As you said, he needs a thousand times my efforts to be equal to me. And his efforts If it can really reach a thousand times of mine, it will be exhausted for half a year at most. Therefore, he can't surpass me. "

Fangyun Road: "Food, vitality, teachers, educational resources, environment and experience have a great impact on both of you, but they are not an insurmountable gap or an absolutely insurmountable natural moat. Even if they lag behind you in the school, once they become adults, civilians may narrow the gap. The gap in the school is not terrible. What is really terrible and the most insurmountable is what makes civilians feel the most What the people are powerless is that after leaving school, your family children directly deprive us of further opportunities! "

"How do you say that?" Zeng yuan asked in surprise. He found that Fang Yun's tone was very heavy and far more solemn than before.

"As far as I know, after you failed in the Jinshi test for five consecutive years, you had to give up temporarily and prepare for the Jinshi test while looking for other ways. But you chose to pretend to be an ordinary person and go to a shop in Zeng's house to be a waiter. Is that so?" Fang Yun asked.

"Indeed." Zeng yuan was a little proud because he often used it to educate the rest of his children.

"If Lu Zhan lives in the same place as you, and if Lu Zhan tries hard to defeat other competitors, just because you want to experience from the bottom and choose there, Lu Zhan loses a valuable opportunity and can only be a waiter in a worse place. You deprive him of the opportunity and status he could have obtained through efforts." Fang yundao.

Zeng yuan was stunned there and couldn't speak for a long time.

He would like to say that this is only if, but think about it carefully. When he chose to be a waiter in that store, he just asked the trustee to say that it is too simple to be simple, but now he thinks that he is likely to take an opportunity that originally belongs to others.

Fang Yun continued: "you have been a waiter for half a year and know enough about the store, so you choose to be the shopkeeper of the store. At the same time, if the shopkeeper is Lu Zhan, or Lu Zhan took over the shopkeeper, then you deprive Lu Zhan of an opportunity."

Zeng yuan was silent.

"You are promoted step by step. Whether you, your brothers, or your relatives and friends, you are scattered all over the Terran. Some of you want to be civil servants, some want to be military generals, some want to be businessmen, some want to set up workshops, and so on. Your first step has deprived countless land exhibitions of opportunities, not because you are better than land exhibitions, not you You are smarter than Lu Zhan not because you read more books than Lu Zhan, but because you have good parents and you have inherited their power. You think you deserve everything. You think you are better than US civilians. You think making 102 million silver is just a small goal, but I can point to each of you by the nose and say, if you don't deprive millions The opportunity of solo exhibition has not been sheltered by your predecessors. There are less than one in ten thousand of you who can achieve what you have now. "

Zeng yuan didn't dare to go out, not only because Fang Yun was an empty saint, but also because Fang Yun's words almost opened his heart and made him feel ashamed.

Fang Yun's face softened and smiled: "If I say so, you may think I'm blaming you. No, looking back on your ancestors, there was always one who stood on the same starting line as our ancestors. At that time, there was no gap between you and my grandparents. However, your grandparents made great achievements and power through their efforts. His power and achievements will not die with his death, but will act on you. This is you You really deserve the gift of your grandparents. You should accept it calmly, or even proudly, and be proud of the achievements of your grandparents. "

Zeng yuan was puzzled and didn't understand why Fang Yun said contradictory words.

However, Fang Yun turned and said: "But one thing to remember is that your advantages are not enough to make you laugh at US civilians, because most of what you have comes from your grandparents. Lu Zhan is inferior to you, not because he is stupid, not because he is lazy, not because he deserves it, but because they don't have grandparents like you. If you must laugh at Lu Zhan, if you think Lu Zhan is stupid , laziness and what happened deserve it. Then you are qualified to say so only after you surpass your grandparents. Otherwise, you are just a rich dog under your grandparents' robes. "

"Student, understand!" Zeng yuan's forehead burst into a cold sweat.

"Well, if you can really figure this out, your achievement will be higher. Then let's get back to the point." Fang Yun said.

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