Settle Down In Tang Dynasty

"Abbot?"

Pingyang princess's cold expression was restrained, narrowed her eyes and murmured. However, Wu gouyu seems to be in a state of grief and anger. He only knows how to beat the ground and sob. He has no time to pay attention to the words of Princess Pingyang.

Pingyang princess looked at the next morning snow. Chuxue immediately understood. She turned around and whispered to the princess Pingyang's guard. The guard should be here. They went forward together and took Wu gouyu to ask for the inside information.

Princess Pingyang said to Xue Lang, "let's go first. Don't delay wine making."

Xue Lang sighed in silence. Since Princess Pingyang didn't want him to interfere in this matter, he should not know it. In fact, it is not difficult to understand the psychology of Princess Pingyang. If you want to know with your toes, this is Chang'an. The one who can act in the name of the abbot in Chang'an must be the father of the little beauties in the palace of saints. However, after the sage established the country, there was only one queen, that is, the Empress Dowager of Taimu, the legitimate wife of Saint Li Yuan Mingmei. After that, no queen was established.

The Duke of Zhou set a ceremony for the whole world, and divided it into two parts, namely, the order of the elder and the younger. This set of etiquette and rules is widely accepted by the world, and even in the laws issued by successive dynasties, which are widely implemented, are all elaborated.

Even the mother's home of Wanshi wanguifei, the highest ranking imperial concubine in the palace, dare not regard herself as a saint's national parent. Even if promoted to the imperial concubine, my concubine is still a concubine, the sage's wife only has Dou family. Frankly speaking, according to the current laws and customs, only the Dou family can discuss the relationship with the sage, and the rest are not qualified.

As the daughter of empress Dou, Princess Pingyang is the legitimate daughter of Saint Li Yuan and empress Dou. To the pride and self-esteem of Princess Pingyang, these people are just relatives of her father's concubine, and pretending to be a national relative is tantamount to insulting her.

Therefore, Xue Lang didn't tell her the reason for the conflict with Yin at the gate of the city a few days ago, so he didn't want to make her angry.

Princess Pingyang is a person who has excellent Qi cultivation skills. The more angry she is, the more calm she is. She is very calm and calm. When Xue Lang read the historical records, when Taishigong wrote Zhuanxu emperor, he once wrote -

Jingyuan was a magistrate with scheming and dredging.

This sentence, if used in Pingyang princess, is also very appropriate. His sweetheart is such a woman. She is the queen. Princess Pingyang never bullies others. Her elder sister seems too thin to describe her characteristics. Well, as an object, Xue Lang just wants to say -

I like it!

In this way, Xue Lang took two steps to keep up with Princess Pingyang and went back to the small yard where she was going to make wine. After putting down the cherries, he did not rush to start. Instead, he took Princess Pingyang's hand and gazed at her: "Jianling!"

Princess Pingyang looked up, did not speak, but looked at Xue Lang with doubt. Xue Lang said: "the sage is very old. When you act, you should think more about it. Don't be too direct and sharp. You can be tactful. How about that? "

Princess Pingyang's eyes suddenly sharp up, looking directly at Xue Lang, seems to be a little unhappy. Xue Lang didn't give in, and continued to advise: "the people in the harem are opposite to the Saints Day by day. As the saying goes, the people in the harem make money and destroy the bones. Even if you enter the palace day by day, it is not equal to the time when the people in the palace and the saints are facing each other. Therefore, don't worry and don't be angry, just as you used to be. This is our reason, so we should take the momentum first. Since the current situation is with me, it is only a matter of time to punish the evils and learn from the past and learn from the future. If the Empress Dowager is here, I don't want to lose my sense of propriety and hurt the harmony between father and daughter, right? "

Princess Pingyang looked at Xue Lang in silence and said nothing. Xue Lang looked at Princess Pingyang tenderly and gave her time to think. He said in a low voice: "the more you face close people, the more calm you should be. Don't be impulsive and indulge in emotions and do things you regret in the future. People's heart is a complex thing. You will be strong in the face of outsiders. You may be strong and vulnerable in the face of your own close people. No one can tell clearly. So, I hope Jianling can remember that it was the people close to you who made any decision and said any words, and thought about it. How about that? "

Princess Pingyang still didn't say anything. Just now, she was calm and depressed. She had a slight fluctuation. She walked two steps closer and looked up at Xue Lang. Her eyes were so deep that she seemed to engrave him in her heart. For a long time, she breathed a light and long breath, as if she were sighing: "my young Yang, why is this..."

Words did not speak, voice gradually fall, eyes burst out with strong feelings, pulse looking at Xue Lang. Xue Lang did not know: "what's the matter?"

Princess Pingyang sighed again, stepped back, opened some distance between them, raised her hand to touch his face, and said, "under the heaven, there is Xue Lang! Why? "

Hearing this, Xue Lang couldn't help laughing: "I still know what the talented woman Xie Daoyao said about her husband Wang Ningzhi. Fortunately, there is no outsider in this courtyard now. Otherwise, later generations will read history books and see that Princess Pingyang of Anguo also said the same thing about her husband-in-law. Then I will have a great time! "

Pingyang Princess raised eyebrows: "do you also care about the name behind you?"

Xue Lang shrugged his shoulders and replied, "I didn't care much at first, but when I think about you and my descendants, when I go out, people ask him where your ancestors are. As soon as the descendants reported my name taboo, others heard that it was the descendant of Xue Lang who said, "there is Xue Lang under the heaven."! If the descendants feel ashamed and come back to complain about my memorial tablets, it will be bad for me. "This idea is also wonderful! Pingyang Princess laughed and scolded: "nonsense!"

Xue Lang said with a smile: "this is very likely. Therefore, today's sentence should not be passed on to the outside world. We should be responsible ancestors to our children and grandchildren. "

Princess Pingyang laughed and took Xue Lang to sit down on the Hu stool beside her. She held her cheek in her hand and looked at Xue Lang with a smile. Her eyes were thoughtful: "I always wonder why there is such a person as Youyang in the world."

Xue Lang looked up and down at himself, touched his face, and asked curiously, "where am I strange?"

Princess Pingyang said, "you're not a worldly person who doesn't know how to behave. When you look at what Youyang said to me just now, it's very clear to the common people. You can see that Youyang treats me with sincerity and sincerity, which makes me helpless. Why? "

I mean this. Xue Lang thought for a while and said, "it's probably a family origin."

"Family origin?"

Xue Lang nodded with reminiscence: "yes! My mother is not a reliable person. Even if I am a son, speaking of my mother, I will say that her advantages are much less than her disadvantages. Even when Xue Qing was ten years old, she was much more reliable. At home and out of the house is almost my father alone to support up, my mother, can take care of themselves is a big help. When I was just in junior high school, I was almost thirteen or four years old. Seeing that my father was too tired, I couldn't help asking why he was willing to live such a life and what he liked about his mother

"What did your father-in-law say?"

Xue Lang's face was full of nostalgic smile: "my father first beat me for disrespect to my mother."

Princess Pingyang was stunned and asked, "and then

Xue Lang said: "my father didn't tell me until I had beaten him, because that was the man he liked and the wife he chose. If you like a person, you should not only like her advantages, but also tolerate her shortcomings. If you only like the advantages and refuse to accept the disadvantages, no matter how much you love your partner, your life will not go on, and no one is perfect. My father said that whether it is a partner or a friend, we should pay more attention to the strengths of others and less to the weaknesses of others. As long as it is not something that is irreconcilable and touches the bottom line of principles, then we may as well relax our mind and be tolerant, so that we can have a relaxed and happy life. If you just stare at them all day long, you will feel lonely if you can't accompany people in the world. "

Princess Pingyang praised: "your father-in-law is a wise elder worthy of respect!"

Speaking of his father, Xue Lang put on his nostalgia and worship, nodded his head and said, "yes, although my father has not made great achievements, in my heart, he has always been a good father, a good husband, a great man, and an example of my life."

Princess Pingyang nodded and looked thoughtful. After a long time, she said, "I will be careful about someone who claims to be the abbot."

Xue Lang nodded happily -

with his emotional intelligence, it was an epic task for him to try to persuade Princess Pingyang. The difficulty was not a little bit.

He can only compare the later generations of those middle-aged and old-age remarriage cases to understand the sage's psychology, and then racked his brains to remind and comfort Pingyang princess from his own examples. In fact, there are many conflicts between parents and their children after remarriage. What's more, sage is not an ordinary parent. He is still the emperor of Tang Dynasty on the basis of his parents' identity. To treat such a father, of course, he has to consider more problems and think more comprehensively. Calm and rational is better than impulse!

Calm and rational, in the first family of the Tang Dynasty, is actually a kind of preservation, the preservation of father daughter relationship.

However, Xue Lang forgot that he persuaded the princess of Pingyang here. However, the sage and empress Taimu are not only Pingyang princess, but also the one who should come!