She Is Not Your Wife, What Do You Care About?

051: Why Do We Have To Have 'Friends'?

With a sneer on the corner of Zhang Cheng's mouth, he questioned Ji Xiaomin.

After the show was broadcast last night.

Only then did he realize that someone was more popular than himself.

Or someone who didn't pay attention at all at the beginning.

He doesn't care about Zhou Mu, even if the show is the same and the guests are similar, he never regards Zhou Mu as an opponent.

This is his confidence.

From professional confidence.

It can be said that even among people of the same level, they will not believe that someone can get along with others better than him.

result.

After the broadcast last night, I realized that I was no match for someone I had never heard of.

Not even a professional in this area.

It is still in a situation where program promotion, logistics, advertising, etc. do not have an advantage, it can be said to be a disadvantage.

He lost.

Popularity has been overtaken.

Faced with this kind of thing, Zhang Cheng certainly finds it difficult to understand. He feels that he has done a good job.

So I stayed up all night watching some related clips.

The end result is anger.

In his opinion, Zhou Mu's behavior is opportunistic, only caring about the present, superficial.

Bo people eyeballs.

It is simply fallacious and cannot stand scrutiny.

So he and his director prepared this one overnight.

Came up with this script.

Find Zhou Mu directly on the show, question him face to face, and expose him.

Let the other party be ruined, and the program group will also decline.

And not only can it create topical heat, but it can also make your own reputation and the reputation of the program completely established.

in the background.

Director Zhong Min watched this scene.

Also has a smile on his face.

At the same time, I'm glad that I came up with this idea. I just wanted to buy some popularity in the live broadcast room to make trouble. 26

Now it seems that it is far from this.

I didn't expect Zhou Mu's show to end so quickly.

If Zhang Cheng went a little later, he would have missed it.

Just questioning on the Internet is a long tug-of-war of public opinion. How can there be direct confrontation and debunking in person, which will be more topical and effective.

And at this moment.

Ji Xiaomin was also lost in confusion.

'Can you have friends?'

The questioning voice echoed in his mind.

She remembered her original confusion, that is, getting along with friends around her was uncomfortable.

Zhou Mu has indeed solved these problems, and now she feels relaxed and at ease.

However, facing this question, I don't know how to answer it.

It seems that those friends will not exist anymore.

When thinking wildly in your head.

A familiar voice rang in my ear.

"Why do you need friends?"

It's Zhou Mu.

There was no panic on Zhou Mu's face, facing the aggressive Zhang Cheng, she asked lightly.

Zhang Cheng was stunned for a moment, and then he was overjoyed.

Is this human?

How can people not need friends.

This is simply sent to the neck to be scolded.

Immediately said loudly.

"Hmph, if you don't understand anything, how can people not need friends?"

Zhou Mu shook his head, not looking at Zhang Cheng, nor at Ji Xiaomin.

Instead, he set his sights on a girl next to Zhang Cheng.

He also wears round-rimmed glasses and has a few freckles on his face.

It seemed a little stiff.

It was Zhang Cheng's guest.

"Hello! My name is Zhao Manman!"

The girl summoned up her courage to show a smile on her face, and said hello to Zhou Mu who was looking over.

Seeing this scene, Zhang Cheng nodded in satisfaction.

"Now Zhao Manman can get along very well with the people around him, and he can basically master most of the social skills in just two days.

"I will never be confused about these friendships for the rest of my life."

"It's not like your guests, who can't even say hello."

"In the future, my guests will be friends everywhere, but your guests may still be like this, and they will all be offended.

Many people in the weekly studio also think it makes sense.

[It's a bit of a comparison. 】

[I have met Zhao Manman since the beginning of the show, and he is more introverted than Ji Xiaomin. 】

[There are so many people now, and under the camera, it is very good to say hello politely. 】

[It's much better than Ji Xiaomin. Think about it, in the future work and life, Zhao Manman must be able to handle the relationship between friends and have more friends. 】

[Yes, Ji Xiaomin learned from Zhou Mu, so he offended everyone. 】

【 What Zhou Mu said about not wanting friends is even more extreme, and you still have to learn to grow up. 】

[Anyway, as time goes on, the gap will become more and more obvious. 】

But Zhou Mu didn't care at all.

He even shook his head regretfully and asked Zhao Manman.

"Do you feel happy now?"

"Every day I pretend to be a snake with a group of people I don't like!"

"Now, would you rather play alone at home, or go shopping with them, pretending to be nice?"

Zhao Manman is silent!

She thought for a while.

It seems that she was not happy because Zhang Cheng took her to have a good relationship with the people around her yesterday.

Nor is she happy because she has mastered these communication skills that she doesn't want to learn or do at all.

Instead, it feels more dull.

just like.

She hadn't had time to figure out how to describe it yet.

Zhou Mu's voice answered her.

"You're not happy, right, you don't like this kind of life.

"Forcibly like this, even if you can get along with the people around you, but you know that is your hypocritical side.

"It's like, like being forced into a world that you don't like."

Zhao Manman suddenly raised her head and stared at Zhou Mu.

She didn't know why the other party could understand this feeling so well.

I was confused at first, but after Zhou clearly said it, I felt that it was so.

If you can choose.

Of course she didn't want to.

"That's it, you don't like these people, why do you force yourself to change yourself and become friends with them?"

"Use these communication skills to barely become friends,"

"has no meaning?"

Seeing this, Zhang Cheng felt something was wrong, and his expression was a little anxious.

"Don't listen to his nonsense!"

"He just ignores Hiroto, people need to communicate with others and become friends with others in order to get help.

Zhou Mu sneered, and then looked at Zhang Cheng.

"Other guests are obviously introverted, don't like to communicate, just like someone, you have to teach her communication skills, let her pretend to be good with people all day long.

"You're not trying to solve confusion, you're trying to forcibly change someone else's character, their nature."

"For her, why does she have to have friends?"

"Do you have to pretend to be with the people around you?"

"When you meet someone who can talk well and has a similar personality, you will naturally become friends.

"If you change your personality like that and rely on your communication skills, you are not your own friends, but only friends in the eyes of others. w

Ji Xiaomin was confused at first.

Hearing these words, he suddenly realized.

She is also introverted and usually likes to be alone at home.

Why do we need these 'friends'?

True friends come naturally.

Not on purpose.

For example, An Yuyu, there is no scheming between the two of them, and there is no deliberate idea.

But get along, this is a friend.

There is no one like this around, so there is no need to forcefully change your personality to cater to others.

Everyone in the live broadcast room also brushed the barrage.

Many people have feelings.

【Indeed, I have a friend by my side. I actually hate him very much. Every time we go to play together, I feel very uncomfortable, but I still have to maintain the surface, which is very annoying. 】

[In this way, I realized that only one friend can be considered a friend, and the rest are acquaintances, so don't even think about helping, it's just friendship for a meal together. 】

[Yes, when playing with some friends, I feel that I will be very stiff and uncomfortable, and there is no need to force me to be friends. 】

【Zhou Mu is right. The guest is originally an introverted character. Zhang Cheng forced to teach others communication skills to get along with the people around him. That is to change other people's personality. 】

【Zhou Mu's solution seems to be the better one, just let the guests with weak personality know how to reject others and not be troubled. 】

[The personality of the guest has not changed, so Ji Xiaomin has always been very happy, while Zhao Manman is extremely dull. 】

【Because that was not her intention at all. 】

[...]

Zhou Mu's words have also been recognized by many audiences.

Especially considering the show has been on the air since.

From Ji Xiaomin's restraint, patience, and confusion at the beginning, it is now obvious that she has no such troubles at all.

Even solve such things on their own.

And after losing the "friend" I did, there will be no 310 influence, but it will be even better.

On the other side, Zhao Manman seems to be able to get along with everyone around him with ease with the help of Zhang Cheng.

But the mood is still dull.

And those so-called 'friends' are just appearances.

Zhang Cheng was already a little dazed at this time, with an ugly expression on his face.

Some roared angrily.

"Only if you have many friends, can you find a way out, meet people everywhere, and get help. What do you know?"

Zhou Mu sneered.

"It's all fake, it's just an exchange of benefits. Who can help you, a friend who came based on your skills?"

"Those who make friends with a purpose are not friends, but partners of interests."

"It's just that people like you think that they have friends everywhere and despise others. It makes many people feel that it is abnormal to have few friends."

"So many people are coerced by public opinion and have to make false claims with those around them."

[Really, those who make friends with a purpose are just superficial friends. 】

【People like this are very annoying. I don’t have any friends, and I don’t think so, but people around me think I’m weird, so I have to play with them now, but I really don’t want to go. 】

[Similarly, it seems that in this world, if you don't have friends, you will be despised. 】

[They consciously have many friends, but in fact they just know each other. 】

[Extroverts may like this, but I'm an introvert and really don't like having 'friends']

【Sure enough, it was Zhou Mu who understood this. 】

[Too reasonable. 】

【The confusion of the two guests should be gone now!】

Many people were moved by Zhou Mu's words.

Perhaps perspectives are novel in this world.

but,

After entering into oneself, it is so close and empathetic.

Everyone understands,

It turned out that Zhou Mu said it.