The Actor and His Sister Are Three and a Half Years Old

Chapter Nineteen

Teacher Mei certainly wouldn't listen to Chu Xiaoyi's nonsense. There was an awkward smile on her face, and she hesitated: "I'm sorry, what did you say..."

Chu Xiaoyi sighed and said: "I know that your major has its own methods, such as how to intervene in behavior, strengthen, punish and subdue children... But these are useless to Chu Xiaoxiao, it may be effective for ordinary children. , But she already has a certain amount of adult wisdom, and she gradually breaks away from this set."

As a troublemaker who has been called countless times as a parent, Chu Xiaoyi has already summed up his experience in getting along with all kinds of teachers.

The sternness and friendliness shown by the teachers is only a tool for managing students. Strictness is for maintaining order, and friendliness is for motivating. Sometimes it does not represent their thoughts.

"I may be less polite than my mother, so you should be my eager sister, and belong to the bear parent who is unreasonable. I'm sorry to say to you first."

Chu Xiaoyi took the vaccinations in advance and said frankly, "To be honest, you were wrong to work with emotions at first, but now there is no time to entangle them. Xiao Xiao will counterattack harshly without taking your kindness. That set, now only sincerity is left."

"What she cares about is not who likes her or not. What she cares about is the attitude of the other person, the attitude of communicating with her on an equal footing.

I ask you to sell it miserably. In short, I let you tell her all your troubles and pains. She will understand after listening to it. That's called shaking hands and making peace. "

Chu Xiaoyi felt that the last handshake was to follow the process. Chu Xiaoxiao hasn't understood the crux of the matter, and it is estimated that Teacher Mei hasn't said it.

Teacher Mei disagrees: "We can't say this to children..."

Chu Xiaoyi: "You can't work with emotions yet. Since you have emotions at the beginning, you should simply bring emotions to the end, at least let her know why."

Teacher Mei was speechless for a while.

“I’m sorry to ask about your career plan. I don’t know if you still want to be a teacher in the future, but I don’t want Xiao Xiao’s last impression of you that her first childhood teacher didn’t like her, and she didn’t like it either. This teacher, then it's gone."

Chu Xiaoyi shook his head, "This incident has no effect except to make her feel uncomfortable, and even her impression of the teacher has deteriorated."

Chu Xiaoyi was also a thorn in the class before. He had encountered teachers who were good to him and teachers who were bad to him.

The disgust and rejection of those teachers' words and words, the scorn of contempt from the corner of his eyes, will be unforgettable for him, and now he is irritable to think about it.

For a while, Chu Xiaoyi was upset with a male teacher, but he didn't respond to the other party's reprimand; he didn't care when the other party let go.

Once Liangzi was formed, the two sides seemed to have a great hatred, and the hatred had to die endlessly.

Finally, the male teacher said helplessly: "Chu Xiaoyi, I am an ordinary person, I really don't know what to do with you..."

The male teacher no longer yelled five and six loudly, nor did he pretend to be good. The other party confessed his incompetence, and Chu Xiaoyi's heart was broken instead.

He suddenly felt that he had no hatred with the male teacher, and that the other party was not an authority, and that the other party was just an ordinary person.

Since he is an ordinary person, how can he have a big hatred?

In the past, male teachers had certain powers in the school and seemed to be able to oppress students wantonly, which naturally gave Chu Xiaoyi a high sense of guard, always feeling that he deliberately targeted himself.

But when the teacher unloaded himself and confessed his weakness, Chu Xiaoyi no longer strained, and only felt suddenly enlightened.

The two sides never made trouble for each other again. Chu Xiaoyi occasionally went back to school and would look at him. They didn't like or hate each other. They were ordinary students and ordinary teachers.

Chu Xiaoyi has a teacher he likes and a teacher he hates, but he feels very calm towards the male teacher, and he won't be upset when he thinks about it occasionally.

Chu Xiaoyi didn't want her sister to think of the first teacher as disgust in the future. Disgust is an emotion that makes him unhappy, and it will be deeply buried in his heart.

You think you have succeeded in getting rid of the bored teacher, but the influence of the other party has not dissipated easily, and you will still stab it from time to time.

Because it is a teacher, it may be just a profession, but in the eyes of immature children, it is a representative of authority.

No one likes to be denied by authority, even if he says he doesn't care, he will still leave marks in his heart.

Chu Xiaoxiao likes teaching people to learn foreign languages ​​so much, how could she not see the teacher in her eyes?

Teacher Mei followed Chu Xiaoyi on the road, only feeling exhausted like never before.

She occasionally wanted to run away, and simply resigned now and stopped dealing with this matter, but she was a little unbearable.

If she left hastily, perhaps Chu Xiaoxiao really left an impression of disgust towards the teacher?

Teacher Mei didn't know how to get along with Chu Xiaoxiao, even if she tried to smile on her face, the other party could see through her appearance, leaving her at a loss.

"Xiao Xiao, Teacher Mei is here."

Chu Xiaoyi spoke at the door of the classroom and saw the little things in the room look up.

To be honest, Chu Xiaoyi also doesn't know what the final result will be. In the worst case, the two sides talked and Teacher Mei left. Chu Xiaoxiao left a disgusting teacher in his childhood memory.

He can only leave space for two people now, doing everything he wants to do.

After closing the door, Teacher Mei looked at the quiet Chu Xiaoxiao, and stood still a little embarrassed, not knowing how to speak.

She is not smiling now, nor is she not smiling, her expression management is a bit out of control, and she falls into a long silence.

Chu Xiaoxiao also didn't know what to say, she looked at Teacher Mei speechlessly, not knowing what she was looking at.

Both sides stayed for more than ten seconds like wooden people. Teacher Mei took the lead to relax, and said, "Xiao Xiao, I don't know how to contact you now..."

This is the truth. She has used the harsh side and the friendly side, and now she has exhausted all the means.

Chu Xiaoxiao: "Teacher, do you dislike your job or me?"

Facing the sudden problem of straight ball, Mr. Mei was about to be defeated in an instant. According to reason, the teacher could not give bad suggestions to the child. The problem was that she said she liked it, but the other party didn't seem to believe it either.

Chu Xiaoyi said that Chu Xiaoxiao doesn't care whether she likes it or not, what she cares about is attitude.

Teacher Mei thought about this, she could only consider her words, and said with a complicated expression: "Well, this kind of thing can't be divided simply. Sometimes I like my job, sometimes I don't like it...Of course, I can't say that I don't like it. It should be said that the teacher is too tired to control his emotions well."

Teacher Mei didn't know if the child could understand. She admitted that she was tired, but she felt relaxed and smiled bitterly: "This is really bad for me. I should adjust my state by myself and shouldn't affect Xiao Xiao.

The teacher can't stay in good spirits all day, I can only try to extend the time. "

Teacher Mei could not say such things before, and most of the three-year-olds could not understand, they were still in a period of ignorance.

Chu Xiaoxiao nodded. She recalled the scene of the turmoil when she first met at the beginning of school, and she could roughly understand Teacher Mei's emotions.

The first time Teacher Mei saw her showing positive feedback, she bit the bullet and said, "Then why did Xiao Xiao do that?

We shook hands and made peace last semester? "

Chu Xiaoxiao: "You didn't shake hands to make peace, you didn't make peace with me."

Teacher Mei was a little anxious, and then forced her temper and said: "How come there is no?

I have tried to change? "

Chu Xiaoxiao: "You have a smile on your face, you don't think so in your heart."

Teacher Mei: "..."

Teacher Mei found that Chu Xiaoxiao was indeed extremely sensitive. She simply confessed: "Because I don't know if we have made peace, I am still uncertain in my heart. I can only take the lead in conveying kindness to Xiao Xiao and tentatively smiling at you. , Waiting for your feedback to confirm..."

"If Xiao Xiao doesn't give me feedback, I don't know what you are thinking, and it will be more difficult to determine our relationship."

Teacher Mei simply walked over. She sat in front of Chu Xiaoxiao and said helplessly, "Xiao Xiao, you rarely give me feedback."

Children are praised for doing things right and criticized for doing wrong things, that is, teachers and students give feedback back and forth to guide them.

Chu Xiaoxiao has an invisible system. She seems to have screened the people around her in advance and will never give feedback to some people.

Chu Xiaoxiao showed a thoughtful look. She could see the teacher's emotions, but the teacher didn't seem to know her emotions.

From the teacher's point of view, she had already released a good signal, but Chu Xiaoxiao did not receive it for a long time, so the misunderstanding became deeper and deeper.

Chu Xiaoxiao: "Then why don't you just smile at the beginning?"

She still doesn't understand that Teacher Mei is usually very serious in class and always has a straight face.

Teacher Mei was taken aback when she heard the words, she couldn't help scratching her face, her eyes drifted to the side, and she smiled embarrassedly: "I always laughed when I first started working, but my face is not very effective in class..."

Teacher Mei is kind and cute. She used to laugh when she first entered the workplace, but she couldn't help the children at all.

Children are creatures that are a little bullying and afraid of hardship. Once they find that you are good at talking, they will attack them in groups, regardless of discipline.

Teacher Mei suffers from a disadvantage compared to the older generations on her face. She hasn't been able to stop the bear child with a stern look. Naturally, she needs some people to set up bonuses.

Chu Xiaoxiao belonged to a fairly sensible group, but many children didn't know what they were doing at all, and they would always be noisy if they didn't stop it.

Teacher Mei really revealed all her weaknesses, she didn't know what she was talking about, she just confessed her feelings frankly.

She used to have the concept of being friends with children on an equal footing, but not every equality will yield a response. There are also children who like persimmons.

Chu Xiaoxiao's confusion was all resolved, and Teacher Mei's mood was calm now, making Chu Xiaoxiao also relax.

Chu Xiaoxiao gently stretched out her little hand, stepped forward to touch her face, and comforted: "No, the teacher looks good with a smile, we won't be disobedient."

Teacher Mei didn't expect the little girl to do this. She looked at the other person's sincere eyes incredibly, and almost really burst into tears on the spot!

This is probably when she likes to work!

Chu Xiaoxiao felt Teacher Mei's emotions, she retracted her hand to look at it, and hesitated: "Is this feedback?"

Chu Xiaoxiao seemed to understand what Teacher Mei meant. If Teacher Mei took the lead in sending out a good signal, no matter what the other party thought, she would give the other party a certain response, just like praise for doing the right thing.

Teacher Mei reaped her affirmation and would like her a little happily.

Teacher Mei nodded desperately: "Yes, the teacher can know Xiao Xiao's thoughts now, and he won't be at a loss."

"Teachers feel very happy when they receive feedback, and don't feel tired from work."

Teacher Mei actually doesn't care about leadership or salary. What she wants is feedback from her children, but Chu Xiaoxiao has never done it before. She draws the boundaries very clearly.

Chu Xiaoxiao seemed to realize something and murmured: "The teacher is actually the same as me. When I receive feedback from the teacher, I won't hate kindergarten anymore."

Chu Xiaoxiao now received a touch of like from Teacher Mei, and suddenly felt that the previous things were nothing.

She hopes to be liked by others, but she didn't know how to like it until she really likes it. It still needs a process of responding.

Teacher Mei softened, stretched out a hand to her, and smiled: "Then we are really shaking hands and making peace?"

Chu Xiaoxiao stretched out her hand, she pondered for a few seconds, and then took it back: "That's not true."

Teacher Mei saw the little hand he got and withdrew again: "?"

Chu Xiaoyi walked around at the door for a long time, completely unaware of what his sister and teacher were talking about, it could take so long.

He even took a peek into his head and found that the two people gathered together to discuss, the atmosphere was not tense, which made people confused.

After a long time, Chu Xiaoxiao finally came out of the classroom and could follow Chu Xiaoyi home.

Chu Xiaoyi was stunned: "What are you talking about?

So long? "

Chu Xiaoyi: How can it be like a century if you reconcile or talk about collapse in an instant?

Chu Xiaoxiao said solemnly: "Mr. Mei and I checked grammar on the mobile phone in the classroom and finally reached an agreement on the issue."

Chu Xiaoyi: "..." Being your teacher is really difficult.

In order to solve the problems left over from history, Mr. Mei crazily downloaded the dictionary APP in the classroom and used various materials to discuss the disputes between the two sides.

The two finally reached a reconciliation on the grammatical issue, which was regarded as a real shook hands and made peace.

Chu Xiaoyi put one hand in her pocket and led her out with the other hand: "Are you and the teacher okay?"

Chu Xiaoxiao squinted at him and said lightly: "It's all right at first."

Chu Xiaoyi: Will you invite parents if you have nothing to do?

Now it's hard to talk again?

However, it is the best situation for Chu Xiaoxiao and Teacher Mei to get back together. As long as the knot in Chu Xiaoxiao's heart is untied, the bad mood will not last long, and it will soon disappear, just like Chu Xiaoyi.

He now occasionally thinks of the male teacher, leaving only a trace of emotion from the past, and he can still move forward in great strides.

Chu Xiaoxiao just learned the feedback skills, she thought about it carefully, and said, "Brother, I actually like you a little bit now."

Chu Xiaoyi's attitude towards her has changed, but she seems to have never given feedback, and she always resists.

She just understood the importance of responding from Teacher Mei, and now she has to make up for it, and then emphasized: "But only a little like..."

Seeing the little thing tilting his head and making gestures carefully, Chu Xiaoyi felt a little soft in his heart, feeling both agitated and funny.

He simply hugged her in his arms, deliberately dangling the little man in the air, smiling and threatening: "A little bit?

a little bit? "

Chu Xiaoyi: It's really a dead duck. I can't cure you yet?

Chu Xiaoxiao was hugged by his brother Xiong, almost out of breath.

Feeling the joy of the other party, she was forced to experience the human flesh roller coaster. Her small face was instantly puffed up, and she exclaimed anxiously: "I said it was a little bit of love! Don't respond to me so much!"

Chu Xiaoxiao: I only like you a little bit, please don't like me too much! I can't bear it!

Chu Xiaoxiao suddenly felt that Teacher Mei's responsive likes were quite good, and Chu Xiaoyi's violent likes were unbearable, too wild!