The ceo's secret

It's a family of three, a couple and a daughter. Her daughter's name is Xiaoqian. She is fifteen or sixteen years old and looks very beautiful. Her eyes are affectionate and bright.

Xiaoqian is very shy when she sees strangers. She hides and looks at us with great curiosity.

her teeth have been dyed purple. It is obvious that she has held a rite of passage Dyeing teeth is the main content. When a woman reaches the age of 15, she will make an appointment in three or five and dye her teeth together, which shows that she has stepped into the threshold of youth.

In the past, Dai girls had to dye their teeth before they got married. They thought that the blacker their teeth were, the more beautiful they were, the more they could please young men.

There are some differences between unmarried and married Dai women in hairstyles and costumes. Married women usually have their hair in a regular way. Unmarried girls usually have more hair patterns than married girls, and their costumes are bright and colorful.

We decided to spend the night in this Dai family's home, although it's just afternoon -

we have no choice but to postpone the day back to the seaside -

after helping yunyun settle down on the bed, Linlin and I went for a walk in the village -

the environment here is really beautiful, with tropical rain forest, rivers and streams, and lush Phyllostachys pubescens growing on the river bank -

we can't help it seems that all the Dai girls walking on the road are graceful and beautiful -

it's really that one side of the soil and water raises another side of the people!

The oil palm trees on both sides of the village road are swaying with the wind, and the coconut trees and betel nut trees are standing gracefully, making the quiet border county particularly charming and beautiful. In the bamboo house of the Dai Nationality under Fengwei bamboo, there are Dai girls in tight jackets and skirts. They are as beautiful and graceful as peacocks.

Occasionally, there are Hani women, carrying bamboo baskets, chewing betel nuts, wearing dark blue jackets and skirts. Its headdress, earlobe, neck ring, chest ornament and foot ornament are all over the whole body; red, orange, yellow, blue, black and white gold and silver form a colorful and contrasting pattern on the blue and black tone

Linlin is quite familiar with Dai customs. She has been here many times.

Linlin told me that there are still many Dai villages like this in Xishuangbanna, Yunnan Province, and they still maintain such customs in the villages. Everyone follows the "rules" for thousands of years and lives in harmony -

Linlin also told me that Dai is a very friendly ethnic minority, but there are still some taboos to be a guest in Dai's home -

first of all It is necessary to take off your shoes when you enter the room; then you can't take photos; and you can't enter the bedroom; finally, there are regulations on the orientation of the feet when the guests stay. There is nothing to say when you come in and take off your shoes. After all, people have wooden floors, so they may get dirty when they wear shoes.

There are three pillars in the living room of Dai's upstairs, two of which are separated from the bedroom side by side, and one is next to the fire pool. In the bedroom, the outer one is called "Ji Xiang Zhu", which can rest. The inner one is used after death, which is called "Sheng Tian Zhu". When people in the family die, the family leans on this pillar (regardless of men and women) to bathe, dress, wrap the body, and wait for cremation. One by the fire pool is absolutely not allowed to rely on. It's the "top pillar" of the Dai family. If you rely on the pillar, it means you don't respect your master.

Dai People's houses are used to living upstairs, but the bedrooms upstairs are only separated from the living room by a partition. There is no partition in the bedrooms, which is divided into small rooms. Generations of people have lived in them, separated by mosquito nets, with a certain interval between them, and separated by doors. There are also rules on the color of curtains, white for children and unmarried girls, red for young couples and black for the elderly. When Dai people receive guests, they are likely to ask them to stay overnight. The guests should sleep in the living room, and the feet of the guests should face the door when they sleep, which means they will go out in the future. The feet of the "Cats" who want to marry in should face the bedroom, because they will go in in the future.

Linlin also told me that Dai people are a heaven for men and a world for women. This is different from that of the Han nationality. The Han nationality has always preferred boys over girls. In Dai nationality, women's name is "shaoduoli", men's name is "maoduoli", old women's name is "Mitao", old men's name is "Botao", girls' name is "xiaolongying", and boys' name is "xiaolongzai".

Dai people like to have girls, but it's not that they hate boys. It's just that at the age of eight, the boys have to be sent to temples to become monks. In temples, the boys work together and learn all kinds of knowledge.

A boy can be secular at the age of 18, but he can't go home. If he falls in love with the girl of that family, he will have to work hard in her family for three years (cut enough firewood for three years in the first year, cut rubber in the second year, and learn how to make silverware with an old silversmith in the third year. One is to learn skills, and the other is to make silver ornaments for his beloved "shaoduoli" by hand). So one of the eighteen monsters in Yunnan is that monks can fall in love. Interestingly, here are women marrying men, and men's dowries are not quilts, gold and silver, but 300 rubber trees. When a man marries a woman, he gives her three pieces of silver: a silver bracelet, a silver bowl and a silver belt. It is said that the wider the silver belt given to his wife, the stronger the cat's ability.

The highest officials in a Han village are the village head and secretary, while the highest officials in a Dai village are women directors. If you see a "Mito" with a tussah wide silver belt in the village, he is the woman director.From the above customs, we can see that the Dai women are the head of the family, and Yunnan is indeed a paradise for women!

It was evening when we came back from our walk.

Xiaoqian, a Dai girl, has come to take us home for dinner -

after a sleep, yunyun looks much better and can also be said to laugh -

this meal is very special. The typical Dai farmhouse meal is not the same as what we eat in Xishuangbanna City -

I heard from Linlin that in Dai villages with strong tourism nature, girls would gather around when we eat Singing and dancing with the guests, and taking turns feeding the guests -

this is a paradise on earth!

After dinner, I got up and paced in the living room. I was very curious about what kind of bedrooms Dai people have and how they sleep in one bedroom? ——

Linlin seems to have a deep insight into my mind, and quickly gets up and holds me -

at this time, it will be late -

but I get a dumbfounded invitation from Xiaoqian and her neighbors!

They invited us to take a bath!

It turns out that there is a natural hot spring at the entrance of the village, which keeps constant temperature all the year round -

the men and women in the village have to wash several times a day, and they have mixed bath, which has become a local custom

as distinguished guests, we are naturally invited -

Lin Lin Lin said that since the ancestors, the Dai People's living, working and breeding are close to the river It's a river. The water splashing Festival is one of the most distinctive festivals of Dai nationality. On this day, people pay homage to the Buddha. The girls wash the dust for the Buddha with fresh water, then splash water on each other and wish each other good luck.

Dai people love to be clean and hygienic. Every summer evening, Dai women bathe and wash by the river.

The sky is full of sunset, and several pretty girls are leading me and my sister Liu to the hot spring with laughter -

step by step down the hill, the wind in the valley and the splashing water from the waterfall come face to face, which is really pleasant. Come to the bottom of the valley, close to a look, people are stunned: This is a hot spring for men and women.

Here, men and women bathe in the same pool without any barriers. It's not uncommon to take a hot spring bath, but it's rare for men and women to take a bath together. Bathed in the embrace of nature, naughty children are like fish in the pool. Young men and women, or in groups of three or five, are playing home while bathing, or immersing themselves in the water. It must be very pleasant!

On the edge of the hot spring, there is a special place to change clothes, which is actually a long wooden fence. The girl took off her narrow shirt and skirt, put on the wooden fence, put on the gauze bath group, and skillfully took off her bra -

in a short time, the wooden fence was covered with colorful clothes, which made people fantasize.

Then they laughed and pulled me and Liu's sister. Liu's sister had to take off her trousers and wear underwear, while I only wore a pair of boxer underwear. I still can't take off my civilized coat like those Dai men! ——

It doesn't need soap or detergent to soak in hot spring here. Organic minerals in water have natural cleaning effect. It is this complete relaxation of body and mind, sufficient nutrition in the water, giving people wonderful enjoyment, and playing a good therapeutic role for people suffering from diseases.

If there is an afterlife, I must be a Dai man! Dai men are so lucky!

After the scar is healed, the pain is forgotten, and the trouble has begun -

"Mingming! I warn you She pouted at me and said, "don't look around! ——”

then she waved her arm and splashed a piece of water on me -

I know what she meant. She didn't allow me to see the Dai girls who were bathing. Although they were still wearing the gauze dress, the beautiful ketone body could be seen in the sunset. There was nothing in the gauze dress!

I raised my hand to wipe the water on my face, touched my nose, looked at her and said with a smile, "Miss Lin! How complicated your mind is! If you want to learn from these Dai girls, they won't think of such dirty things! ——”

"you dare to say it again! ——”Yunyun glared at me -

I had to wave my hand and say, "no, no, ha ha -"

I turned my head and asked Lin Lin, who was soaking in the water, "why can't I go into the master's bedroom? ——”

"if you go in, you will be miserable," Linlin said with a smile, squeezing her eyes at me. "If you go into the master's bedroom, I don't think you want to go back to Binhai again."

"What do you say?..." I asked, looking at her with wide eyes.