The ceo's secret

Especially at the dinner table that night and the tea time after dinner -

although Lin Xiaotian is facing us three young people, his conversation is very strong -

he talked about the topic of fate. He said that he believes that there is destiny in this world, which affects the direction and end result of life -

Lin Xiaotian is very interested in fate Besides uncontrollable natural and man-made disasters, fate is closely related to a person's character. As the saying goes, character decides fate. He told us that what kind of character a person has determines what he can do, and also his career and emotional fate -

character is human nature. The so-called nature is innate, and it is difficult to change the day after tomorrow. Therefore, character is undoubtedly the most critical factor in fate -

after three rounds of drinking, Lin xiaotianxing also talked about it with great enthusiasm When he was 17 years old, Lin Xiaotian came to Binhai City alone from Northeast China. He did everything a few years before he first came to Binhai City, most of which were hard work.

Later, he joined an engineering team. In the engineering team, he met a fellow countryman in Northeast China. He was the same age as him. They saw each other as if they were old friends at first sight, and soon regarded each other as a confidant, and they matched each other as brothers -

at that time, he did everything, the hardest and dirtiest work. Of course, he also had strength at that time! ——

In this way, he worked with the engineering team for five years and became the right-hand assistant of the contractor, but he couldn't see where his future was. After five years in the engineering team, he was still a hard worker, and his salary didn't grow much -

finally, they decided to leave the engineering team and go out to work alone -

he and his friends did it A group of young people who couldn't find a job formed a new engineering team, but the problem soon appeared. They couldn't find a project -

because there was no relationship and no extra funds, they couldn't open up a social network -

without work, what kind of money would they make? ——

In the end, it's easy to find a business opportunity, which is like a life-saving straw. He wants to fight hard -

of course, Lin Xiaotian also knows that where there are business opportunities, there must be fierce competition. The two brothers discussed together and decided to give gifts on the birthday of the daughter of the person in charge of the project!

Money is a key thing. The problem is that they don't have enough money to give gifts!

So the two brothers went to the illegal blood collection clinic and each sold 400cc of blood, which was enough to collect money for the responsible gift of that project!

They used the money to send two bottles of Maotai to the project leader. Afterwards, they learned that the gifts they gave were the least valuable. People gave gifts worth tens of thousands of yuan, and some people gave a lot of cash directly -

but the miracle happened!

They managed to get the project! The reason is that they met a noble man! The person in charge of the project also climbed up from the grass-roots level step by step. At the beginning, he also suffered a lot. It was said that these two bottles of Maotai were bought by them with the money of selling blood, so he was quite moved and decided to hand over the project to them. [m]

of course, there are deeper reasons why the project leader entrusted the project to his brothers. Lin Xiaotian did not elaborate on this aspect, but just pointed out the general environment at that time -

the brothers lived up to the expectation of the project leader and successfully completed the project in a down-to-earth manner. This is the first pot of money they make.

After that, their career began.

With more and more projects in hand, they can only expand the scale of the engineering team -

a year later, they registered a company called "Pengyu" real estate. Although the company was small at first, it was built on the ground of tall buildings. At that time, they were energetic and ambitious, and vowed to make the "Pengyu" real estate into the Binhai city and even the largest one in the country It turns out that they are successful because they have done it.

After listening to Lin Xiaotian's story, I feel deeply that there is no success without reason in the world, and every success comes from hard work. We only see the bright side of the winners, but we can't see the pain behind them.

I looked at Lin Xiaotian and said, "Dong Lin, who is your good brother? ——”

Lin Xiaotian lowered his head, flicked the ash of his cigar, looked up at me and said, "I've told this story many times, and I've told it to different people, but only you mentioned it, which means you've listened attentively."

"Dad, who is your good brother? ——”Linlin also asked.

Lin Xiaotian puffed out a mouthful of cigar smoke, looked up at us and said, "this man, as you all know, used to be my best brother, but now he is my best opponent. Now he is Tenghui real estate. Maybe you have guessed who it is --"

I looked closely at Lin Xiaotian and said, "what does Lin refer to is Xiao Yi, the chairman of Tenghui real estate? ——”"Xiao Yi?" Lin Lin was startled. She looked at Lin Xiaotian with wide eyes and said, "is it Xiao Yi? Dad! ——”

Lin Xiaotian nodded and lowered his head to smoke a cigar -

"but why? ——”Lin Lin looked at Lin Xiaotian puzzledly and asked, her eyebrows frowning -

Lin Xiaotian sighed: "it's a long story. It's hard to say! ——”

it can be seen that Lin Xiaotian didn't intend to tell us more, so I said with a smile: "when Dong Lin has time, let's listen to the following story. Ha ha - "

Linlin had to put away her curiosity, turned to look at me, complained about his father and said," my father always likes to play tricks! ——”

………

Later, Linlin gave me a psychological test question. It is said that this psychological test is a set of classic psychological test questions drawn up by the famous Rand Corporation (Strategic Research Institute) of China's modern psychological research institute. It is formed after appropriate transformation according to the psychological characteristics of Chinese people. Lin Lin looked at me with a smile and said, "Xu Ming, please note that you can only choose one answer for each question. It should be your first impression answer. Add the score of the corresponding answers together to get your total score."

Then Linlin began to test me, with a total of 15 small questions. I couldn't think about each question carefully, and just gave the answer based on my first feeling -

Linlin asked me questions while calculating my score on her mobile phone -

finally, she looked up at me and said with a smile: "Xu Ming's final score is 120! ——”

I looked at her and said, "more or less? ——”

Linlin looked at me with a smile and said, "between 100 and 139 points, you are a dreamer, and your thinking is more emotional. You choose your friends according to whether you are congenial to yourself. His character is more aloof, sometimes more urgent, sometimes indecisive. I have a strong sense of career, like creative work, do not like to do things according to routine. Stubborn personality, sharp language, not good at compromise. They advocate romantic love, but their ideas are often unrealistic. The desire for money is average. " I touched my nose and said with a smile, "is that so?"

Linlin looked at me with a smile and nodded -

I said: "you test Mr. Ouyang -"

Linlin said: "he has been tested for a long time."

I said, "what's the score?"

Linlin said, "150 points!"

I said, "so much? More than me! ——”

Lin Lin said with a smile: "it has nothing to do with the score. The score only reflects the result of the test - "

I said:" the result of Mr. Ouyang's test is -- "Linlin looked at me and Ouyang Ze and said with a smile:" aze's score is between 140 and 179, which shows that he is smart, lively, popular, good at making friends and deep in mind. Enterprising and eager to succeed. They think rationally and advocate love, but when love conflicts with marriage, they will choose the marriage that is good for them. There is a strong desire for money. " Lin Lin turned to look at Lin Xiaotian and said with a smile: "the person who scored the highest is my father! 190! ——”

"190 points? It's so high I look at Lin Lin.

Linlin nodded, looked at me with a smile and said: "people who score more than 180 have strong willpower, cool head, strong desire for leadership, strong ambition, and will not stop until they reach their goals. He is kind-hearted in appearance and proud in heart. He pays more attention to the interpersonal relationship that is good for him. Sometimes he appears to be impatient, aggressive, unreasonable and unforgiving. When it is not good for him, he will fight tenaciously and not easily admit defeat. Rational thinking, realistic view of love and marriage, general desire for money. "

Ouyang Ze disagreed and said: "it's just a psychological test. It doesn't need to be more serious -"

I said: "yes! Human nature is complex. How can a psychological test come out? Ha ha - "

" who can't tell? " Lin Lin glanced at Ouyang Ze and me and said, "this psychological test question has been used as an important auxiliary paper by some famous companies, such as Lenovo, Changhong, Haier and so on. It is said that the effect is very good. Now some people have suggested that it should be popularized as a compulsory auxiliary psychological test for civil servants in the future. Are you sure? " Although Lin Xiaotian sat opposite and didn't make a sound, I felt that he had been paying attention to Lin Lin's test of my situation - "I love fantasy, and my thinking is more perceptual. I choose my friends according to whether I am congenial to myself. His character is more aloof, sometimes more urgent, sometimes indecisive. I have a strong sense of career, like creative work, do not like to do things according to routine. Stubborn personality, sharp language, not good at compromise. They advocate romantic love, but their ideas are often unrealistic. The desire for money is average. " This is the result of Linlin's test. To be honest, I don't have the strength to refute at all, because every point seems to be right. This is the characteristic character of a typical literary youth.

"Romantic love is advocated, but the idea is often not practical."

This is also true. Since I was young, I have been full of many beautiful dreams of love, but I didn't know at that time that this kind of vision was divorced from reality. Now I have gradually realized this, and feel painful for it!