The Days of Opening a Restaurant on an Abnormal Earth

Chen Xingxing's words are not rough, and Qin Kuiren has no way to refute this. He could only respond rudely: "Hey, people like you are material, how can you have so many fallacious excuses?"

Chen Xingxing was not angry either, she said with a smile: "Brother, take a look at yourself. You have to find an advantage that you can use, right. Let me tell you, no matter what you think, anyway First impressions are important. Look at you, wearing beach shorts and big slippers, and your hair is as messy as a bird's nest. You look poor and sloppy. And, well, you are not good-looking. That's it, you think you can Is there a girl who likes you? Hey, don’t say that you are ugly but gentle. Girls don’t like this. After all, gentleness is something that everyone can do, it depends on whether you want to do it.”

"Tenderness also needs the support of reality, brother. If two people are together, they can't support their families, so it's boring. You can't drink enough water." Chen Xingxing patted Qin Kuairen on the shoulder, and what she said was serious . Then he turned to Zhang Tong and said, "Boss Zhang, here's some fried rice to take away."

Zhang Tong went to the back kitchen to cook rice. Until Chen Xingxing left with the fried rice, Qin Kuairen was thinking about Chen Xingxing's words.

"Boss Zhang, do you think I was wrong?"

"What's wrong?"

"I don't want girls to take my money, is that wrong?"

When Lao Zhang heard what Qin Kuairen said, he laughed: "I can't say you are wrong. After all, who hasn't thought about having a sincere relationship without any other interests involved? Love is love, only love , how clean and pure. Those who have never been in love think that their love can be as clean as crystal."

"But unless you are still studying, you can't meet this kind of feeling in today's society. It's not that girls are realistic or not. It's that society is very realistic. Tell me, what is basic necessities of life in today's society? It doesn't cost money. The country is developing at a high speed, and some people follow the development and run fast, which is enviable. If you are envied, someone will compare. Even if you don't compare with others, there will always be people in this world. Spend all kinds of money."

"It costs money to eat, and it costs money to buy a house. It's okay here in the hive, because the country has policies. The first batch of people who come in can get the real estate here as a group of purchasing agents. This is considered to be picked up. But the follow-up people You may not be so lucky. Just compare it with Huaihai next to it. You know the housing prices in Huaihai. The average price per square meter of a 50-year-old house near the inner ring is 30,000 to 40,000. The average price of second-hand houses in the community within the age of one year is no less than 50,000. The price of new houses starts at 70,000."

"You said that if you have no money, you can't afford a house, and you can't cover your head with tiles. Why would anyone want to fall in love with you. Hey, I'm not right to say that." Zhang Tong sorted out his words: "To be precise, , modern women, especially those who are already working. Those who are a little bit sensible and plan to actually get married. For them, whether the man is handsome or not is actually not the first element."

Qin Kuairen answered: "Money is the only thing, right?"

"Well... that's right, and it's not right. If you have ready money, then it's natural. If you don't, then you have to show your good side. Let girls see that the future is promising. This is the most important point. If a Men have no money, no looks, no skills, no plans, no future. There is only empty talk and tenderness, then this tenderness is worthless. I don’t know if you have seen such a man in society. He is a poor boy, with A girlfriend. It was fine at first, but after five years of dating, when she was about to talk about marriage, the woman began to change her mind."

"Poor boys think that girls have changed, become materialistic, and become more money-seeking. In fact, why not think about it from another angle. If girls were for money, why should they be with such poor boys? This kind of poor The kid will always yell when breaking up: Don't you just dislike me for having no money!"

"But in fact, the real problem is that he has no money? No, the real problem is that he has not made any progress in three to five years. He used to be a clerk in the company's factory, and he will still be a clerk after three to five years. No, I am not self-motivated. I don’t think about anything. I can live happily and happily. But I can’t think about the future, because there is no future. And the key factor for the girl to break up with this poor boy is that she can’t see the future , even if it is a trace of the future. I am afraid that in the future, I will not be able to get out the tens of thousands of yuan for raising a child after birth and going to the hospital for surgery and confinement.”

"How much does it cost to raise a child for diapers for a year, how much does it cost for milk powder, how much does it cost if she gets sick? These are things that girl dare not think about. Because just thinking about it will suffocate her soul. Because Having been with the poor boy for five years, the two of them can only save less than 200,000 yuan. This amount of money is not enough to buy a house. Even if it is a rented house, it may not be enough to pay for having children in the future. Because after giving birth, you have to live The house is bigger, so I can’t squeeze into a single apartment. The rent will increase, and the baby’s supplies will be an expense. Maybe the two of them can save three or four thousand a month. But after having a baby, maybe the three It is difficult to save four thousand. If you are renting a house to get married, you will meet a bad landlord, not to mention the annual rent rise, and you may find various reasons to withhold the deposit, and even drive the family out of the house in the middle of the night. That kind of It felt terrible."

"And the most frightening thing is that the poor boy doesn't think all this is terrible, but thinks that life is like this. Ren Ren is over, and Ren Yi Ren will be like this for the rest of his life."

Qin Kuairen looked at Zhang Tong: "Boss Zhang, why did you say these things in such detail. It seems to be your personal experience."

Chen Xingxing outside the door could no longer see her back. Zhang Tong looked at the direction she left and said, "Because all this is the experience of that girl Chen Xingxing just now. A few months ago, she and her boyfriend who had been in love for five years We broke up. I came here to drink, got drunk, and then talked a lot. She was pregnant at the time, two months. She asked her boyfriend to marry her, and asked the man to collect at least 300,000 yuan. Wan together paid a down payment to buy a house in the hive. She is not qualified to buy a house in the hive by renting and purchasing."

"But her boyfriend doesn't want to contribute 300,000 yuan. Because he thinks 300,000 yuan is too much, and he will have to repay the mortgage in the future, which will be too stressful. He wants to buy a house after getting married two years later. He always feels that he will definitely He can stand out. Even if he goes home to sleep and play games and watch dramas after work every day, and doesn’t learn to recharge any other skills, he feels that he will always have a bright future. When he is developed, he will buy a house and get married.”

"Chen Xingxing's boyfriend is very kind to her, very gentle and considerate. But he is absolutely not motivated, very lazy and tired. He is doing a job as an escort with no future in the bank. If he doesn't change jobs, he can already see her in this life. It's the end. Chen Xingxing gave him 30,000 yuan and asked him to go outside to learn a skill, even if it was to learn the craft of snacks, and open a small shop and special snacks in the future. But her boyfriend didn't want to go at all, he didn't like it The snacks are too tiring, and he has to get up early and late every day to earn the hard-earned money. He is willing to go home after work every day to make dinner for Chen Xingxing, and he is also willing to get up early to make breakfast for her, because the job is very leisurely as an escort. So he is also willing to do housework. But he refuses to step out of his comfort zone, and he loves it."

"Originally, Chen Xingxing had already resigned to his fate. Although her boyfriend is not motivated, he is at least gentle, which is not bad. But the sudden pregnancy caught her off guard. If she has a child, she will buy a house no matter what. She can rent a house and fall in love. Living together, but they can’t rent a house to take care of their children. She hopes to have a safe place of her own. But her boyfriend can’t do it. The two even had a few big fights. Finally, Chen Xingxing broke up with her boyfriend and conceived just now. The two-month-old child was aborted."

"Gentleness is very important, but gentleness that can't even support a wife and children is useless. That's why Chen Xingxing never quarrels with others, and such a gentle girl can't accept a boy who is only gentle but not motivated and has no future. So you want Be a scumbag? Work hard." Zhang Tong patted Qin Kuairen on the back.

Qin Kuiren looked at the direction where Chen Xingxing left, thinking about something.

That night, when Qin Kuairen came home, he passed by a men's clothing store. Looking at his own appearance reflected in the mirror, he stroked his untrimmed hair and somewhat scruffy beard, and murmured, "Maybe it's time to change." It's over."