The Good Mother System
Chapter 71: Phoenix man flies out of the mountain nest (Part 3)
It’s getting dark, the street lights in Changhe Village are sparse, and the dim but not too uneven roads are only illuminated by lights from people passing by. Of course, the people in the village know how to walk this road even if they close their eyes. It's a little difficult for people outside the village.
Shan Jingqiu didn't pull Yang Xiao hard, but only gently led her forward. She thought that being too enthusiastic would make Yang Xiao feel embarrassed. She just wanted to keep a moderate distance and wait until she became familiar.
Yang Xiao curiously looked at Changhe Village at night. She came to such a village for the first time, but it was different from the villages in the mountains where she imagined green water and green hills or farmhouses. It is more simple and even simpler. The houses are mostly bungalows, occasionally there are only one or two two or three floors, and the highest estimate is only five floors above the sky. Occasionally, passing by people can smell a little strange smell, which makes her wrinkle her nose.
In Changhe Village, there is no such thing as a unified management. It has long been contracted to the households, and they do their own jobs. Basically, the laborers go out to work. Every household left here raises some chickens and ducks, which can be carried to the county when they are raised. Selling, you can keep eggs and duck eggs without raising them. The things you usually feed are also easy to handle. The only drawback is that the chicken and duck have some taste. The mixed smell of chicken and duck **** makes people who are not used to it can be smoked. Can't stand it.
Fortunately, the village no longer pays attention to farmyard manure anyhow, at least there is no unbearable smell next to the fields.
Of course, even if it’s a good condition, it still looks a little terrifying to many children in the city. Just like Yang Xiao, she can’t help holding her breath repeatedly and trying to avoid it. These biochemical bombs.
She couldn't help but feel a little frustrated. She thought she had already made perfect psychological preparations. She even talked to her parents first and then talked to them. After hearing them emphasize the worst result several times, she faced all this Shi is still a little worried, these are too far away from her life, even if she sees or smells her, she can't restrain her avoiding eyes and movements, and even the expression on her face is subconsciously deformed.
But the future mother-in-law next to her was too kind and caring, which made her feel more guilty for being too particular about herself. Both mother-in-law and Awei treated her so well, how could she dislike this! This is the village where Awei grew up with her mother-in-law.
"By the way, A Xiao, I will introduce you to you." Shan Jingqiu suddenly turned to look at her side with a smile. When she was thrown into Datong Village for the first time, she couldn't stand the children in the village who didn't even provide hygiene. To do, regardless of the parents whose children have nasal snots and lice crawling everywhere, but after a long time, she gradually understands that not everything in the world can be judged so simply.
But it is undeniable that even if it is her, occasionally seeing it will still be unbearable in my heart.
So she never felt that it was abnormal for a child who grew up in a city like Yang Xiao to shrink a little. She just wanted to help this timid little girl relieve some anxiety.
Yang Xiao looked at it curiously, hesitated, and still responded, "Okay, Aunt Shan." She struggled for a while, not knowing how to call it, Aunt Shan did not know if it would be too unfamiliar, but if so Calling those mothers-in-laws, mothers and the like seems too anxious.
Shan Jingqiu pointed to a warehouse in the distance, which was an abandoned warehouse in Changhe Village, and introduced: "This warehouse is abandoned. In the past, it was filled with recovered wheat. Pile some of the wheat when the wheat was confiscated. Firewood is reserved for the villagers to use. There is a large wheat field next to it. The wheat grows best in June every year. At that time, the wheat grains are full and the inside is full of water and water. If you burn it with fire, don’t mention it. How beautiful."
"This warehouse used to be always holding firewood, but then once something happened, it was not released. Guess why."
Yang Xiao was fascinated by Shan Jingqiu's words, and blinked curiously: "Why? Is it because someone stole the wheat stalks inside and burned them? Or did they take the firewood inside and burn the wheat stalks?"
Shan Jingqiu smiled and shook his head: "No, it's because a bunch of melon babies in our village squatted behind the warehouse and burned the wheat. When the wheat is roasted, maybe you don't know Xiao, but a few children are surrounded by them. In a circle, a person holds a handful and keeps tumbling over it against the fire, otherwise it will be scorched immediately, then it will be bitter, tasteless, and have sharp eyes. Once the wheat turns yellow, You have to take it off immediately, put it in the palm of your hand and rub it hard while it is hot. When you rub down a handful of wheat and puff your cheeks, blow it up, leaving only your dark hands holding a lot of charred Wheat, put it in your mouth and eat it, the aroma of wheat rushes into your mouth, but it is the most beautiful snack for our child!"
"Then why can't the warehouse be used?" Yang Xiao listened intently to the country story while being curious. She went to cram school every day when she was a child. She had never done or heard of such farming things.
The moving human-shaped clothes rack Qiu Zhengwei had just rushed up from behind like a babbled old scalper. Hearing Yang Xiao asked this question, he immediately became anxious, but he couldn’t move faster than Shan Jingqiu.
"Because when we had a group of melon babies and we burned wheat to eat, we were anxious, rubbing the wheat and forgot to fire. As a result, half of the warehouse was burned by the torch. The fire fighting frightened many people that year, but one of them came up with it. With one move, the few in the village rubbed their faces black with the black hand rubbing the wheat, trying to pretend to be burned, and ran out crying."
Yang Xiaole said: "Why is this child so bearish! Aunt Shan, what happened then? Did his parents believe it?"
"Mom!" Qiu Zhengwei was very wronged behind his back. Why does his own mother keep revealing his shortcomings, he still wants face.
Of course, in order to make her daughter-in-law happy, Shan Jingqiu didn't want her son's face. She continued to say that she didn't care about her son at all. "As a result, they cried out. At that time, their faces were dark, and one tear came down and the other was white. Men who didn’t do these things when they were young, they saw it at a glance, and of course they were caught one by one and went home with a meal of fried pork with bamboo shoots."
Yang Xiao snorted and laughed. Qiu Zhengwei's grievance just now yelled not to confess. She still doesn't understand him. The Guwazi in this story is him.
Ever since I met Qiu Zhengwei, he always looked erudite, firm, and omnipotent in front of her. Except for occasionally revealing his tender personality when in love, the two of them are always in love again. Don’t laugh at anyone. But now in front of Aunt Shan, she heard such vivid Zhengwei for the first time.
Now she just turned her head back at half an hour ago, and the boyfriend who lent her the shoulder to use it stuck out her tongue, straddled Aunt Shan's arm, and continued to chat with her.
The two future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are close to each other like a Siamese baby, and they can't finish their words.
Qiu Zhengwei listened to his mother in the back when he was talking about when the child fell into the dung pit when he was a child, he changed a hundred on the test of 99 points, scared his sister, the sister cried and coaxed her to coax her, etc. The scandal of my own son is used to pull relations.
Yang Xiao listened to the story told by Aunt Shan and laughed endlessly. It sounded like some bearish and cute behaviors, but he made up the tall man in front of her, which was a lot more vivid and rich.
She and Shan Jingqiu are just like holding and teasing in a cross talk show, and they have a tacit understanding between the two, which seems to have known each other for a long time.
Of course, the only victim in this full-blown comedy is Qiu Zhengwei, but the two women in front are his mother and his girlfriend. What can he do? He is also desperate.
It took a long time to stop and talk, talking and laughing, and finally arrived at Qiu's house.
Qiu’s house is a bit old. It was saved by Qiu’s father from working outside when he was still working. There were two floors, four upper and lower houses, one of which was used as a warehouse to store household items. The three rooms are all private rooms with little space and very outdated decoration. Some areas are even old, but they have not been repaired because their children are absent all year round.
However, Shan Jingqiu had already asked the people in the village to help clean up before his son brought his future daughter-in-law back. At least there would be no leakage of wind and rain. After careful cleaning, it does not look ashamed. After all, she is a little girl. When I return to the door, I have to show the worst side of my own family to the other person. What's wrong with it! Shan Jingqiu doesn't have this habit, she likes to clean up the house.
Before entering the house, he just entered the gate outside the yard. A burst of fragrance made people very attractive, and they couldn't help twitching everyone's noses.
Yang Xiao was still a little cautious, just watching with curiosity, Qiu Zhengwei had no such scruples. He took a quick two steps forward and planned to put his luggage back in the room first, while turning around and asking his mother: "Mom, you cook today. What's so delicious?" Every time he and his sister came back from school, his mother would cook a house of food for them. He wondered in his heart what kind of dish it would be and how it smelled so delicious.
He asked the question for a long time and didn’t hear the answer. He was a little puzzled. He quickly climbed upstairs and piled his luggage into his room. The room was clean and the layout was the same as before leaving, except that there was no dust accumulation. tidy.
After putting away his luggage, Qiu Zhengwei was afraid that Yang Xiao and his mother would be embarrassed at the bottom. He had nothing to say. He made a great stride and just wanted to go downstairs quickly to avoid embarrassment.
But before he went downstairs, he had already heard the lively noises from below.
"Come on, Auntie, I specially prepared it in advance. The chicken was raised by Auntie herself, but it was fresh. These dishes were also bought from the nearby village. There was absolutely no pesticide. It was so fresh! This was cooked specially by Auntie. Let’s try what you eat. If you like it, don’t give it to Awei! Let Awei eat rice."
Qiu Zhengwei was walking down the stairs while watching the scene in front of his eyes. Two people who were unable to get along at the entrance of the village just now had their heads together, watching a big dish that had just opened the lid, and the discussion was lively Make trouble.
Before entering the village, Yang Xiao was most worried about eating. She was a little picky eater, and her parents followed her. Later, she often ordered takeaways. It was only because she ate that she didn’t eat anything. This is a picky habit. She is getting more and more stubborn. Although she has been vaccinated in her heart, even if Aunt Shan gives her her least favorite winter melon, she must put it in her mouth without changing her face, but just think of this. , I still can't help feeling trembling.
But the big dish that Aunt Shan held in front of her was scented when she opened it, and it made her appetite. The previous feelings of motion sickness and nausea were gone.
"Auntie, this is also the program on the Capital TV, which teaches people how to get rich. Oh, we always like to watch it. Everyday we say how to raise pigs and chickens. The host said this is the most fashionable in town right now. It’s our self-raised free-range chicken. It’s never been fed. It’s cooked with a wood stove. I turned off the fire for a while before you came. It’s absolutely delicious. Would you like to try it?" Shan Jingqiu I was eager to try, handed a pair of chopsticks and looked at Yang Xiao expectantly.
Yang Xiao picked up the chopsticks, didn’t pick, and chose a piece of chicken that I didn’t know where it was and put it into his mouth. The chicken piece put in his mouth was not firewood at all. The juice was overflowing and it could taste a little spicy. The fresh fragrance that Yang Xiao had never eaten made her not afraid of being hot at all, so she ate it three times, leaving only one scent, and wanted to add it again.
She nodded at Shan Jingqiu. For a while, she felt that she lacked vocabulary and didn't know how to describe delicious, but she was so excited that her eyes seemed to light up: "Auntie, this chicken is so delicious! It's so delicious. !" As she said, she was annoyed that she couldn't speak when she came to Aunt Shan? Obviously, writing articles on the company's official account is easy to come by, and it is not a bit difficult.
Shan Jingqiu smiled happily, and put several pieces in the porcelain bowl. With sharp eyes, she picked the most delicious leg and placed it in Yang Xiao's bowl, saying, "I like it. Just eat more!"
Yang Xiao was also polite, and had meat in Shan Jingqiu's bowl, smiling sweetly: "Auntie, you eat too! Let's eat together."
The two of them had a good time. Qiu Zhengwei, who had been watching for a while but no one cared about him, was depressed. It is a good thing for his mother to get along well with Xiao Xiao. Why does he feel that he is so pitiful? It must be a misunderstanding.
He leaned forward and said with a smile: "What do you eat? It's so delicious!"
Shan Jingqiu glanced at her son and said fiercely: "The action is so slow! When you eat the day lily, it will be cold, don't hurry up and sit over to eat." The first day this daughter-in-law came to the house, how could she lose both her wife and mother-in-law. The reasoning downstairs, when the time comes, the wife will be wrong to work or not to work. No one is here to reconcile. In case she is a wicked mother-in-law, this daughter-in-law may be bullied! In fact, in my heart, I was afraid that my son would be hungry, so I just pretended to be fierce, so I handed my son a bowl and chopsticks quickly.
Qiu Zhengwei was accustomed to being fierce by his mother since he was a child, but he didn’t say anything. He was a golden phoenix who was academically successful in front of outsiders. In front of his mother and sister, he was a child bear and brother bear when he was young, but now he has grown to be able to rely on. Big tree in the sky.
If he was heard by Shan Jingqiu, he would probably stare at him. After all, this child is still a bear, and at least he has zero experience points on how to take care of his wife's visit.
However, Yang Xiao felt sorry for Qiu Zhengwei. She hurriedly put a chicken wing for Qiu Zhengwei-another chicken leg she had already put in Aunt Shan's bowl first, and signaled him to eat quickly. It cannot be denied that Aunt Shan treated her. So caring, so good, even leaving Zhengwei behind, turning her worries into peace of mind.
Before coming, my best friend Liang Zhen and her 10,000 rural wicked mothers-in-laws shared a lot of examples of rubbing her daughter-in-law, for fear that she would suffer, but fortunately, she met the best mother-in-law in the world and treated her well. Very much.
"By the way, what do you like to eat, A Xiao? Auntie will cook it for you these two days!" Shan Jingqiu ate the chicken drumsticks sandwiched by her daughter-in-law, compared to the chicken wings in his son's bowl, and felt that it tasted more delicious. While asking.
Yang Xiao is a little cramped. According to others, she has to make a good image when she first visits the door. Even if she is a shelf product, she has to put on a shelf. But she has always been picky eaters. She said she was afraid that her aunt might find her squeamish. I feel that Auntie asked so seriously and was not honest. If she was found out later, would Auntie blame her for deceiving others?
Shan Jingqiu was so kind to her that she had forgotten to see her mother-in-law with a hundred tricks.
"A Xiao, she doesn't eat shiitake mushrooms, winter melon, or too fatty meat..." Qiu Zhengwei reported five or six things at once. These were all he observed when eating with Yang Xiao, but Yang Xiao picked them out, He remembers those who eat less, but guesses that there are still some omissions.
Yang Xiao was very embarrassed, and almost smashed her head into the bowl. The first time she saw her aunt, she showed herself picky in front of her. She couldn't bear to stay under the table and sneak Qiu Zhengwei kick.
Qiu Zhengwei was very wronged. He memorized the things that A Xiao didn't like to eat. Isn't this behavior worthy of praise? Why is it still hit?
Shan Jingqiu had noticed the small movements under the table long ago, but she was not angry. It was not the scene of domestic violence that the young couples clamored around. What was she afraid of, but in order to prevent Yang Xiao’s face from falling into the bowl, she You have to save the shy girl first.
"Did you ever feel that your parents have never been picky eaters since you were young?" Shan Jingqiu suddenly asked a question.
Both Qiu Zhengwei and Yang Xiao seemed to be questioned, and the two future prospective couples had a tacit understanding, and nodded neatly, looking like dumb and dumb.
Shan Jingqiu threw out the answer while eating: "You think that adults are not picky eaters, it's all wrong. Like me, I never eat loofah and celery."
Qiu Zhengwei showed an unbelievable look. In his memory, he had never seen his mother picky eaters. He felt that his mother was lying to comfort Yang Xiao.
"Because when we buy and cook vegetables, we don't put the dishes we don't eat on the table." Shan Jingqiu smiled slyly, "All those who can appear on the dinner table are what mom wants to eat, so what do you do? Will you see mom picky eaters?"
As soon as these words came out, Qiu Zhengwei thought about it, and couldn’t help but laugh. Yang Xiao, who had not dared to see people just now, also laughed. He didn’t feel cramped at all, and couldn’t help thinking of himself. Will parents actually have such a careful thought.
Shan Jingqiu didn’t eat much, and he ate fast. After a while, he put down his chopsticks. Their family likes to talk about things at the dinner table. This is also because most people in the countryside are busy, and they gather together during meals every day. What is the lunch break to talk about, you can only say while you are racing against time.
"A Xiao slept in my room tonight, I'm going to sleep in A Fang's room." She first explained the night's affairs. It stands to reason that the daughter-in-law should be allowed to sleep in her daughter's room, but Shan Jingqiu knew that no one She hoped that others would enter her room to sleep. She greeted her daughter first, and then vacated her room for Yang Xiao to sleep. Moreover, her room was relatively large and tidy.
Yang Xiao cautiously accepted the chopsticks: "Aunt Shan, it’s not good for you to change rooms..." But she also got stuck. She has been living at home and has not lived with Awei before. She has also discussed with Awei before. Both of them do not agree with premarital sex. They live in sister Awei’s room, and worry that her sister will be reluctant. But living in the aunt’s room and vacating the aunt will make the aunt work hard?
"Yeah, mom, or..." Qiu Zhengwei also thought of a way, but didn't figure it out. No one is right if he is wronged!
"Why don't you sleep with Aunt Shan and I?" Yang Xiao has always been considerate. She doesn't want Zhengwei to be embarrassed, and the aunt is also very nice.
Shan Jingqiu smiled, "Is it a matter of quarreling? Isn't it just a matter of changing the bed? If this A Xiao is afraid of the dark and afraid to sleep alone, then call me to accompany me. I have been used to sleeping alone for so many years. I don’t like sleeping with others too much. I can’t sleep well when someone is next to him. Afang didn’t go home. I had no choice but to give her room to A Xiao to sleep. So I let A Xiao sleep in my room first. I'm afraid that Xiao Xiao is not used to it. The beds in our village are all hard. I don't know if you recognize the beds."
"Auntie, I don't recognize the bed, I can sleep well!" When Yang Xiao smiles, two small pear vortices will appear. They look so sweet. She knows that auntie is caring for her. She can't help but want to be with auntie Get close.
This cute appearance made Shan Jingqiu unable to help rubbing her head. The future daughter-in-law is easy to get along with and caring, even if she is a little bit squeamish, what's wrong?
Just after the meal, Yang Xiao asked Qiu Zhengwei to go upstairs and take the pre-prepared gifts downstairs first. She hurriedly followed the past to wash dishes and chopsticks. Now that she calmed down, she wanted to return to this one hundred tricks to see her mother-in-law. An important trick.
Tip n: Take the initiative to show that you want to do housework, but you can't be too proactive, otherwise all housework will fall on you in the future.
This initiative and not being too active is something. Yang Xiao became more disturbed when he remembered the specific content of this trick. His thoughts quickly moved in and followed Shan Jingqiu: "Aunt Shan, let me wash the dishes! "
She couldn't do this kind of grudge, she thought she could help wash the dishes.
But Shan Jingqiu just put the bowls and chopsticks outside, then shouted at the upstairs: "Awei, I'm going downstairs to wash the dishes!" So he took Yang Xiao to sit in the yard.
Yang Xiao's expression was indeed out of control this time, and was extremely surprised. This is completely different from what those forums said. What is meant by that you must not let the subject do housework in front of the mother-in-law, otherwise the mother-in-law will be angry, and the mother-in-law asked the subject to wash the dishes. How to deal with it?
"I told you A Xiao, the work of this family has to be divided. No one does it and no one does nothing. In the past, Awei's father never did anything, but I was suffering. A Fang helped to wash the dishes, and A Fang helped to mop the floor. If you become a small family in the future, it will be the same. I can’t guarantee anything else. At least we, Awei, are very good at washing dishes and are willing to work. We should use our orders, otherwise we have to Are you tired to death?" Shan Jingqiu said with understanding.
Qiu Zhengwei had already buried his head in front of washing the dishes. He washed the dishes quickly and quickly. He always washed the dishes at home.
Yang Xiao silently crossed out another useless trick in his heart, but silently learned from his aunt and nodded.
Then she suddenly found the bag of things that Awei had left behind, and finally remembered the pile of gifts she had left behind. She hurriedly took the gifts and gave them to Shan Jingqiu, blushing as she introduced them: " Auntie, these dried seafood products were chosen by my dad. He said that we are inland and have less seafood. We keep some of this at home and sometimes stew soup is good... This pearl necklace was chosen by my mother and I. I want to give it to my aunt You, we all feel that this necklace is especially suitable for you!"
Shan Jingqiu estimated from the naked eye that these gifts would be at least a few thousand years old. She still chose to be frank. After all, if we were to start tearing down the east wall to make up the west wall, she had to pretend to be wealthy, and it would only be her son who would be sad. .
She walked in and took out the packed things: "A Xiao, this aunt told you honestly that the conditions in our family are really average, and the aunt didn’t expect you to bring such a heavy gift. It’s also relatively simple, but it’s all carefully selected by me. If you mind, you must tell Auntie, okay?"
She took the divided bags and introduced them one by one: "These are our specialty red mushrooms. I heard that a catty is several hundred big. It is cheap and fresh in the mountains. You take this back to your parents to eat. It is also a specialty of the mountains, such as pecans, fungus, and bamboo shoots."
Yang Xiao can see that the mountain products in the bag have been clearly packed one by one. Basically, they have been carefully selected, cleaned, and went to soil. She can feel the way her future mother-in-law is carefully packing these mountain products, and her heart is full of emotions. Always feel that mind is very important.
Shan Jingqiu took out a red envelope and something wrapped in red silk cloth from his pocket, and said softly to Yang Xiao: "There is not much money in the red envelope, so I want to make a good luck. This is also the aunt's wish. , These are the gold earrings that auntie gave to her family when she got married. At that time, she had a pair of earrings, a necklace, and a ring. Auntie kept the ring. The necklace will be given to Afang in the future. This earring is for you, and I hope you can and Awei Have a good time, although I don’t know if it’s a bit earlier."
Listening to this, Yang Xiao lowered her head and smiled, her face flushed a little bit. She knew the situation of Awei's family. How could she misunderstand her since her aunt was so sincere? Knowing that the Qiu family's conditions are not good, does she have to pack 8888 like S City to be happy?
That's not the case, as long as the aunt takes her seriously, mom and dad say the same.
The ears of Qiu Zhengwei on the background board were erected very high. In fact, he had two thousand in his pocket and planned to supply his mother, but he had just been called to wash the dishes and forgot. Fortunately, he was not angry at both ends. He finally breathed a sigh of relief.
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At night, Yang Xiao, who was lying on Aunt Shan’s bed, fell asleep sweetly. Last night, she was still awake at night. For fear that the worries of so many people around her would come true, but luckily, she met Single aunt of is the best aunt in the world.
At this time, Shan Jingqiu was still not asleep. She knocked gently on her son's door, and after hearing the response inside, she went in. Most of the doors in rural areas are not closed, and usually they are separated by a curtain. Open, even if it is closed, the door is rarely locked. Usually, if there are people in the house, the door is open. There is no concept of privacy or anti-thief.
Qiu Zhengwei hasn't slept yet. He has been working for a long time and often works overtime. He doesn't have the habit of going to bed early. He was a little surprised to see his mother enter the door. He didn't know what his mother was looking for.
"Mom, what's the matter?" Although he was "bullyed" by his mother today, Qiu Zhengwei understood that it was his mother who wanted to get closer to A Xiao, and it was for him. How could he be angry? You must know that before coming, what he was most afraid of was that if A Xiao had a conflict with his mother, he would not be human on both sides.
Shan Jingqiu brought in a bowl of buffalo milk, which she made in advance with the old Wang who raises cattle in the village, and originally prepared a bowl for Yang Xiao, but the child fell asleep very quickly, so she mixed up a bowl Give them all to Qiu Zhengwei.
Qiu Zhengwei took the bowl and drank, his eyes were a little confused. Mom always talked straight, but couldn't hide words in her stomach, so why didn't she say it for a long time today.
"Awei, you and mom have a good talk, what do you think about A Xiao?" She sat next to her son, looking serious.
"Mom, I like A Xiao very much. I will use my efforts to treat her well and take care of her!" Qiu Zhengwei was startled, wondering if this was a sign of dislike for his mother.
"Have you ever thought about it? Our family and A Xiao's family are very different. You told your mother that day, and Mom kept thinking about it."
Qiu Zhengwei was a little embarrassed when he heard what she said, knowing that these words she said are facts that must be faced. He pondered for a long time and slowly explained: "Mom, I know that in the eyes of everyone, maybe our families are very different, but Ah Xiao is really a person I cherish very much. She is also a good girl. I can have a position and salary in the company now. I already have a development plan for the future industry. I will work hard. If the financial conditions are not available in the future To meet our life needs, I will come out to do more work. Now I have a reputation in the industry..."
He has thought about a lot of life with Yang Xiao in the future. He believes in his own abilities. To be a man, if he doesn't even believe that he can achieve something, why should he be the support of others? He believes that following his plan, he will never let his family be left behind in the future.
Shan Jingqiu gently shook her head and looked at her son with a gentle expression: "Awei, mom has always believed in your abilities. You are an excellent child. Otherwise, there are so many children in our village, why would only you get a PhD degree? What? Even Afang, she called and told me after she was a graduate student, she didn’t want to read any more, and if our family said the truth, it only gave you a burden, and failed to give you the slightest support. Can you rely on it? She is very proud of her own foothold, and has always believed in you."
"But if you can achieve success in the future, it doesn't mean that there will be no difference between our family."
Qiu Zhengwei was proud and puzzled at first. He didn't understand these differences and he could catch up with hard work. Why did Mom insist that there is a difference between them? He believes that he will never let Ah Xiao live worse than others in the future!
Shan Jingqiu knew what Qiu Zhengwei was thinking, and she said in a soft tone: "Mom said that the difference in knowledge between our two families is like a child. You and Fang are going to school. The villagers laughed at us stupidly and said You can go out to work as soon as you go to middle school or high school. The girl A Fang played with when she was a child gave birth to a baby before graduating from secondary school, and put a drink. Later, she didn’t want her children to work..."
"What mom taught you since childhood is what mom learned from your grandmother and grandmother. There is no big difference from this in the village. Just like when we were young, we remembered to save money and don’t bother others if we can do it ourselves. Now that you’ve seen it outside the city, do you think the things your mother taught you and A Fang are useful?"
Qiu Zhengwei was speechless. Just because he went out to see the outside world, he could better understand the feeling of sitting in a well and watching the sky. He also understood that what he learned and yearned for since he was a child was once the biggest sight that this well can see.
But A Xiao, it was this sky that I might have seen since childhood.
"Mom would like to thank our village for being connected to the TV. There are many women in the village. We often get together to watch those TV shows and chatter. Mom has watched a TV show about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I'm afraid, if I don't understand these other principles, my mother will understand one. At the beginning, my mother was also a daughter-in-law."
"It is right to be filial to your mother in this life, but the daughter-in-law has to accompany you for a lifetime. If you believe that you want this daughter-in-law for a lifetime, then in the next few decades, you two will support each other and depend on each other until you grow old. Relying on each other, and how can a wife and mother get along well? Not for others, but for the son. If you don’t have a son caught in the middle, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law would be two strangers."
Shan Jingqiu patted her son on the shoulder: "This mother doesn't know anything, just want to tell you, you have to know that only if you treat your daughter-in-law, will your daughter-in-law treat me well. I treat your daughter-in-law well and she will I will treat you well, otherwise after a few tossings, no amount of feelings will be fiddled with! Mom used to be a daughter-in-law, and counted on your dad to stand by my side. Now she is a mother-in-law, although she is also a little overbearing in her heart. , But I still hope you know that you should stand by your wife’s side."
"Of course, if your daughter-in-law is really wrong, you can't wrong your mother. You should say that the family doesn't talk about two things." At the end of the talk, she squeezed her eyebrows narrowly, fearing that her son would think too much and make his son laugh. .
But Qiu Zhengwei looked solemn now, just barely hooking the corner of her mouth, Shan Jingqiu knew that she had to give her son some time to let him think about it.
She took the empty bowl and turned to leave the room. Before leaving, she turned around and added a paragraph: "And Awei, just like you and Afang are treasures in mother's heart, and A Xiao is also her parents. The treasure in my heart, Mom hopes that if you can be honest when talking with her parents, there is one thing to say that the situation in our family is really difficult. Even if they tolerate us, we must tell them honestly."
"Mama Daoli does not know much better than you. Mom knows the simplest sentence. If you have something to say directly, you will end up with enemies if you hold it in your heart. I believe you and A Xiao’s parents have the same purpose. I know how to live a happy life, so as long as you do everything you do, how can there be any contradiction between the two? It’s like a mom, thinking about how much you laughed with Xiao Xiao, how could mom see Xiao Xiao Don't you want to laugh?"
"Of course, this is just mother telling you first, we are poor, we are willing to work hard, but we must also accept what others think of us. Although mom knows Awei, you will be honest, but sometimes you kid just like to talk Keep it in your heart, it won’t work."
"Anyway, you just remember what Mom said, our family has one for one, two for two, and we have to say everything they can say, not awkward."
As soon as the voice fell, she left, leaving time and space for her son to think.
Tossing and turning over and over this night, he turned into Qiu Zhengwei. He was in a mess after thinking about it. Although his mother told me that there was one thing to say and the truth, he didn’t think he could not do it, but the mother-in-law the previous mother said. Regarding his wife, his head hurts even though he wants to.
When he was young, he knew that his mother worked hard, and he always listened to the people in the village, saying which kid had a daughter-in-law and had forgotten his elder mother, and he left the mother alone, so he told himself that he could not do it in the future. Such a person must be filial to his mother. Even if he has a daughter-in-law, he will never forget his old mother. Besides, his mother should be taken care of by him. If he doesn't want his mother, what can his mother do?
But he has also seen him. When his grandma was still a child, my mother cried in private and didn't know how many times. She knew it was her grandma making troubles and bullying her every day, but father always stood by grandma's side and said that her mother was not. She said that her mother didn't know how to tolerate, respected the elderly, and even lost her temper. At that time, he also told himself that he would not be like his father in the future, even his daughter-in-law would not be able to protect him.
But the two ideas that were born in my mind at that time actually have some embarrassing contradictions. Whom the mother and daughter-in-law should stand on may be simple for others, but too difficult for Qiu Zhengwei.
One is the mother who brought him and his sister to grow up because of the hardships and tiredness, and the lover who is willing to fight with him no matter how rich or poor he is.
Both ends of the balance put the same weight, but he asked him to add weight to one of them.
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