The Growth System Comes at the Age of Thirty

Chapter 75 Like a mouse spying on other people’s happiness

However, Liang Cheng's answer was a bit unexpected: "No. I also heard what others said."

"ha?!"

Chen Jingle was stunned: "Didn't you have a good relationship in high school?"

You know, even he will receive invitations to wedding banquets from many classmates whom he has not contacted for ten or eight years.

Although in the end I basically didn’t go for various reasons.

Liang Cheng gave a little bear-hand expression: "I can only say that it's okay. Maybe we haven't contacted each other for so many years and the relationship has faded. I went to her school with other classmates when I was in college, and I also attended the graduation ceremony. But after graduation, Not much contact, everyone is busy dealing with life. It doesn’t matter if I wasn’t invited, I might not be available by then.”

It is normal for former classmates and friends to gradually become estranged as they grow older.

It just sounds a little sad.

Life is like a train, not everyone will accompany you to the terminal. Most people choose to get off the bus halfway.

Chen Jingle asked: "You are not free during the National Day? You don't have to work overtime, right?"

"I can't tell./Sigh"

"So outrageous?!"

Is this still an institutional job that everyone envies?

Chen Jingle shuddered subconsciously.

Liang Cheng was not surprised: "Cope with the inspection from above and operate normally."

"Hold on, brother."

Chen Jingle didn't know what to say.

He is now accustomed to the ease of lying down, and he is absolutely unwilling to go back to the days of working overtime as hard as before.

No matter how high the salary is, I won’t do it!

…

Liang Cheng suddenly thought of something:

"By the way, have you ever felt that there are fewer and fewer people getting married around you in the past few years? I originally thought it was because I was getting older and everyone was getting married, but I didn't notice it. But I found out after chatting with others today. , not only among classmates of the same age, many men are not married, but also women are not married. "

A few years ago, it would have been unthinkable. If you dared not get married over 30, you would be regarded as an alien in the eyes of others.

The trend has changed so quickly.

"No one is stupid."

Chen Jingle laughed: "If money really fell on the ground, everyone would pick it up. But the problem is that what fell on the ground now is a hot potato. Who would be full and have nothing to do to pick it up? Anyway, I don't want to pick it up."

To paraphrase a saying from netizens, if you can really take advantage of something, can you ordinary people get your turn?

Besides,

In the current social atmosphere, it is indeed better to lose both ways than to lose one way.

"So, I'm pretty lucky."

Liang Cheng was a little lucky. If it had been a few years later, he might have been affected by outside ideas. Then you won't be able to meet Teacher Zhong.

"It's not just good, it's quite good." Chen Jingle couldn't help but roll his eyes.

This is the only thing he envies about Liang Cheng.

Teacher Zhong has good conditions in all aspects. Although he is a teacher, he will not bring home the occupational disease of preaching, nor will he act like a monster without any reason.

The only regret is that they got married in 2022 and didn't have a wedding.

The situation was quite special at that time, and it was never reissued later.

Well, maybe it’s not a pity?

Because neither of them is very interested in this.

The so-called wedding is about spending money to have fun, and the guests basically only care about whether the food is delicious.

It's better to spend your money on more important things.

From the time they met until Liang Mingyue was now over a year old, the two of them had never had a single quarrel. They discussed all major and minor matters.

What man wouldn’t envy such mutual affection?

So every time Liang Cheng showed off intentionally or unintentionally, Chen Jingle could only grit his teeth and feel angrily: It doesn't matter, I will be so happy in the future!

Often at times like this, he felt like a villain in a literary work, and couldn't bear to see the protagonist surrounded by love. They are like stinky rats living in the gutter, only daring to hide in corners to spy on the overflowing happiness of others. However, if you ask him to find and talk to you, he hesitates to move forward.

In the past, you could use the excuse that you were poor, ugly, short, and looked down upon by others, but now after being transformed by the system, you are no longer a goblin, and you can be called excellent in all aspects. Even if you go on a blind date in the city of your son-in-law, you can get a few dollars back. A luxury car, several houses and shops.

But his heart was still like a pool of stagnant water.

In the final analysis, there is something wrong with the mentality.

Chen Jingle's current mental state is worrying. He doesn't want to fall in love, but he also wants to find someone who is compatible with him in all aspects for the rest of his life.

Or you don’t want to get married, but you want to raise a cute baby.

If outsiders knew his true thoughts, they would probably point their fingers at him and laugh at him. What were he dreaming about in broad daylight?

All these changes in concepts stem from an abnormal love relationship.

It’s true that once bitten by a snake, you will be afraid of well ropes for ten years.

the other side of the city,

Liang Cheng sat on the sofa and looked up at Teacher Zhong, who was sitting directly on the floor next to him, holding a small doll and teasing his daughter's hands and feet with a smile. At this moment, his heart was already filled with something called happiness.

He is indeed not as good as Chen Jingle in many places, but he has Teacher Zhong and the cute little Mingyue, and that is enough.

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"It doesn't matter, I have a system."

Chen Jingle could only comfort himself in this way.

The gentle voice of the system is a rare medicine to soothe inner irritability.

In the early years, due to heavy work pressure, Chen Jingle's mood swings were exaggerated. After returning to his hometown and lying down, he felt much better, but then developed to the other extreme and became lifeless.

The emergence of the system can help neutralize and regulate this part of the emotional state.

Calm, but a little more energetic.

This change in mentality is what Chen Jingle believes is no less than the gain of various knowledge and skills.

He has experienced a lot of breakdowns in results due to mental problems, and emotional problems are a big problem.

It was only when he was 30 years old that he reluctantly began to learn to control his emotions instead of being controlled by them.

If he could reach this level at the age of 20, his career achievements would probably be far beyond what he is now.

No wonder the ancients said, "Those who achieve great things will have Mount Tai collapse in front of them but their appearance will not change; those who have achieved great things will have elk thrive on the left but their eyes will not blink."

Still have to practice!

…

Then it's bath time.

After successfully washing away all the fatigue of today, I simply blow-dried my hair and returned to the bedroom.

It is said that the moon on the fifteenth day is sixteen full. At this time, night has just fallen, and the full moon is already hanging high outside the window.

With such beautiful scenery and mooncakes, snacks, fruits, and fragrant tea, it’s a good time to read and study!

The book Chen Jinngle wants to read today is called "The Logic of Politics".

Although it is not on Zhong Qing's recommended book list, it is one of his previous plans to read.

This author is a true political tycoon, and his level of theoretical knowledge is among the best in the world.

Worth reading.

It’s just that the reading threshold is relatively high.

Therefore, Chen Jingle regards it as an important node in the advancement of ideological and political knowledge.

Make up one chapter first.

(End of chapter)