There is a Garbage Recycling Station In My Mind

　　 "Dad, then Xiao Jiu and I will ask Brother Xiaocai and his mother to be a matchmaker, and let you go to Aunt Hongmei's house to kiss you, and try to get the wedding wine before the Chinese New Year!"

　　 After a few days, Luo Jinyan and Luo Jiu finally let Dad relax. Luo Jiu always suspected that Dad was discussing with Aunt Hongmei.

Because just yesterday, when Luo Jiu went to the Hongmei wholesale department to buy things, he used to meet Aunt Hongmei who often made jokes in Cairo Jiu. After meeting Luo Jiu, she seemed a little embarrassed, especially the loud voice said. When he started speaking, he became soft-spoken, which made Luo Jiu feel a little uncomfortable.

　　 But a few days of work was finally not in vain, Luo Bang finally agreed and asked the two brothers and sisters to find a matchmaker to go to Aunt Hongmei's house to talk about kissing.

　　Unlike many young people nowadays, as long as they look right, they can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register the next day with their ID card and household registration.

　　Of course, these are a few, most of them have various conditions. A marriage will make most of the male's family peel off a few layers, but these are mostly economic issues.

　　 It's just that the thinking of Luobang and his generation is very different from that of young people today. It is important to see that the target is getting married. A Ming match is getting married. Even if it is a second marriage, the etiquette should still be indispensable.

In fact, in Luo Jiu's opinion, people like Dad and Aunt Hongmei not only got the right eye, but also got a marriage certificate short of a formal couple. They simply went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get two free redemptions. Book, then invite relatives and friends, and put it on for a good show.

　　 But as soon as Luo Jiu's thoughts were expressed, they met with unanimous opposition from both father and sister.

　　 "Although Dad and Aunt Hongmei are both married, the etiquette is still indispensable."

　　 Luo Jiu finished talking about his thoughts. Before his father could express his opinion, the old lady immediately spoke against Luo Jiu's opinion, and judging from the expression on his face, she should also disagree with Luo Jiu's opinion.

"So we should first find a matchmaker to go to Aunt Hongmei's home and talk about marriage, and then make an appointment to come to discuss the marriage and the date of marriage and wine, and then start preparing." Although Luo Jinyan is only a frequent student in school. Teacher, but when it comes to this kind of thing, there is actually a whole set of things.

At that time, the marriage between Luo Jinyan and Wu Qingguang was almost in accordance with the previous custom. The matchmaker came to the door to talk about the parents, and the two parties and their relatives met to discuss the time of the marriage, the ceremony of the marriage, the engagement, and the marriage. It took a whole set of procedures. More than a year.

　　 When the family members of both sides met, every step after that was asked by a fortune teller. However, there are also many people who don't go to a fortune teller to see this. They just discuss the matter for a day and get things done directly.

　　Especially for second marriages, many of them go directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get two books. The family blesses the family members to have a wedding dinner, and some even don’t even put out simple wedding drinks.

　　 Of course, there are also more direct ones. Some of them looked right, and they moved in together without applying for a permit. Then after waiting for a while, I felt that they couldn't get together, and one of them just rolled up and left, and there was nothing troublesome.

　　 In fact, this is the same as most young people who fall in love nowadays. They go to bed in a few days and break up cleanly.

　　 In the eyes of those people, falling in love and going to bed may be as simple as eating and drinking water. The only difference is who they have a table with for dinner.

　　 Luo Jiu sometimes thinks about himself and finds that he is a bit too traditional in terms of men and women. In his heart, he can never accept that his future wife once had **** with others.

　　 However, the older generation is much more traditional than the younger generation in terms of the relationship between men and women, and many times they have to talk about etiquette.

　　This etiquette, gifts are only a small part of it, mainly in every link process, and relatives and friends who need to be present in every process.

　　 But the emphasis on second marriage is not so strict, and many things can be speeded up.

Luo Jinyan quickly said the next plan that had been discussed a long time ago: "But everyone is an old neighbour who has been dealing with for decades, so although the etiquette cannot be less, the speed of doing things can be accelerated. One point. Today is the twelfth lunar month, and it will be less than twenty days before the Chinese New Year. We try our best to finish the matter before the year before, or after the new year, everyone’s affairs will become more numerous, everyone. After the end of the year, people will not get together if they go out and go to work."

At the end of the year, it can be said that it is the most gathering time for relatives and friends. Most people who go out have returned home, so this time is also the best time to hold various ceremonies~www.readwn.com ~Wedding wine and new izakura are also the two most popular banquets at the end of the year.

　　 After entering the twelfth lunar month, Luobang began to send more red envelopes, and there is a tendency to increase every day, and now even Luo Jiu has begun to receive invitations from classmates for marriage and wine.

　　 In the past few years, Luobang didn’t know how many red envelopes he gave out for wedding wine. Every time, the minimum starts at 200. The ones with better relationships are 600, and the ones with better relationships are 800 and 1000. Relatives start directly at 2000.

　　 In the book at home, such accounts have been recorded more than 20 years ago, and I have not known how many pages I have recorded over the years. The banquets that Luo Jiu's family have organized over the years are the red-brick house that built the recycling station more than ten years ago and the current house twice, plus sister Luo Jinyan once married.

　　 Like this kind of banquet for marriage, birthday, and construction of a new house, as long as there is a human relationship, it is usually there. Sometimes people can't come, and people will bring gifts.

As for things like full moons, engagements, and moving, those who appear are close friends and relatives. Relationships such as villagers, colleagues and friends will generally not appear, and banquets will not be invited, and others will not. Come.

　　 Of course, the kind of people who specialize in collecting red envelopes through banquets cannot be compared with most people.

　　 "Although it is said that the ceremony cannot be dismissed, don't make things too much. Don't say anything about wine when the time comes. When the time comes, relatives and friends on both sides can simply set up a few tables."

　　 But Luo Jinyan didn't intend to listen to her father's opinion: "This old man, you don't count now. What will you do and how many tables will be set up?