Accompanying diary with strength first

But does it work?Who do I sleep with, even my nosy mother won't get involved.If you get rid of other people, you have to obediently come back and apologize to me if you are wayward.

"Uh-huh."

Er Nai nodded embarrassingly. She seemed to be a mature lady, but she was actually very thin-skinned.

After successfully arranging the training for the evening exercise, I proudly exchanged glances with the grandpa sitting in the main seat—your grandson is doing well!

Grandpa gave me a blank look, as if to say, isn't this what it should be?

Oh, you are still stubborn!People who don't need to pay public food are different.

"Min Ye, don't stay up late at night, remember to pick up your dad at the airport tomorrow." Grandma said with a glare at me.

"Dad will be back tomorrow? Leave it to me."

"Xiao Ai too, prepare the ingredients for the family dinner tomorrow night." Mom also instructed Hayasaka who was beside her.

"Will the family banquet be held as soon as father comes back? Will it be a bit hasty?" Nino asked curiously.

"After a day or two, guests will come to our door. Our Kitazawa family is pragmatic. Why is there no haste? It is our family's style to act resolutely." Grandpa explained.

"That's right, we old people are about to go back, and when there are too many people, there will be a lot of quarrels." Grandpa said the same.

"Oh…"

Then I have to ask Mio-chan to come over. I haven't held a family banquet in several years, so there must be something important to announce.

My guess was undoubtedly correct.The next night, our family had a lively meal and took a family portrait, and then we went to the vault in the basement to talk about "family affairs".

"Hao, take out the family tree and family rules, and I'll naturalize Min Ye." Grandpa said seriously. "You girls will also be members of the Kitazawa family in the future, and you may even give birth to future pillars of the Kitazawa family. So listen carefully, and you can ask questions at any time if you don't understand. If you don't ask clearly now, don't worry if you make a mistake in the future." I will forgive you."

My wives have never seen such a situation before, including Mio-chan, everyone stood at attention obediently.

I'm used to grandpa's serious appearance, but I also wondered in my heart, shouldn't naturalization be something to do during the coming-of-age ceremony?

Grandpa seemed to see through my thoughts, and replied: "Everything must be planned before action, leaving room for it. The so-called coming-of-age ceremony is just a formality. Before that, we must get naturalization and other things done. "

"In other words, I am already the core figure of the Kitazawa family?" I understood that.

Grandpa nodded: "Naturalization is different from naturalization. The former refers to all the Kitazawa family members, including those who were born in or married into the Kitazawa family. Even if they are expelled from the family in the end, they will be recorded on the family tree. It's the right of an elite few, what we call the patriarchs."

"How is this elite defined?" In order to let my wives know that I am very good, I deliberately asked.

"Do you still remember the time when you practiced and took exams with your grandfather when you were young?" My father smiled and said, "Only the Kitazawa family who can pass the family examination before the age of 20 are eligible to become elders, and the best elders of each generation who is the head of the household."

"That is to say, is it okay to marry out or marry in?" I asked.

"That's right, if it's a girl born in the Kitazawa family, she must be married into a matrilineal marriage to become an elder."

Can my family do it?In other words, the grandma and mother who married in are usually coquettish at home, but they are not actually elders!I instantly felt that my family status was UP! UP!

"Those tortured exams are not compulsory (??ˇ_ˇ??:)..." I rolled my eyes at my mother who was staring at me, with an expression of being deceived.

"If you don't pass it, you can't take power. It's fair." Grandpa explained flatly.

"Is it because I'm the only one in my life?"

Mom must be trying to educate me because she can't become the elder of the Kitazawa family, right?

"Nonsense!" My mother's mind-reading skills were activated, and she waved the iron fist of love in front of me, "The Beize family has always preferred to lack, if you want to have this kind of mentality, don't be in charge of the family, so as not to cause trouble for everyone!"

"Your mother is right. The greater the ability, the greater the responsibility. The Kitazawa family would rather be laissez-faire without a patriarch than a fool who leads the family to perdition. Do you remember?" the father said seriously.

"I remember."

This is the first time I have heard of these inside stories about our family.

"So, our Kitazawa family has never adopted the system of inheritance by the eldest son and the inheritance by the elders." Grandpa glanced at the girls who were thinking about each other, "Preferential and postnatal care is the way to go!"

"That is to say, if you give birth early and give birth later, is it the same as giving birth to boys and girls?" Yixia concluded.

"That's right, whether a child born in the Kitazawa family can enter the family's decision-making level after adulthood depends only on one criterion—whether he can pass the family's ancestral training and assessment."

"And the speed of passing determines the child's future potential to a certain extent. The earlier the child completes, the higher the evaluation, and the greater the right to speak after becoming an elder. The so-called head of the family is actually the elder with the highest right to speak. do you understand?"

Hey, my wives suddenly lit up after hearing this!It is said that a mother is more expensive than a child, so you are already planning to fight for your son and daughter, right?

Combined with my own experience after returning home from school when I was a child, I can already foresee how much hardship the next generation of dolls will suffer.

Well, press the gourd to float the gourd, the battle for favor in the harem may be a protracted battle.

§ 460 462 Competition seems to be an uncoordinated factor

In fact, competition, which appears to be an incongruous factor, is in fact the sure bond that unites the two constituent parts of society. ——Dunoou

"No wonder Dad became the head of the family at a young age. Is that so?" I suddenly realized.

"Well, your father passed the family examination at the age of 12. And you are 10 years old, considered the best in recent generations. But this is just the beginning, you still need to guard against arrogance and impetuosity." Grandpa instructed.

"Yes. How is this right to speak specifically reflected?"

"The right to speak of the head of the family and the elders comes from the evaluation of the family assessment. The higher the ability, the earlier the pass, and the higher the right to speak. Generally, it is represented by a number greater than 1." Father explained.

"???" I was confused.

"That is to say, assuming that you pass the family assessment just before the 20-year-old coming-of-age ceremony, the right to speak is 1. Then your father's right to speak is 1.64, mine is 1.38, and Minya you are 1.85."

"What about uncle? I vaguely remember that he was also the elder of the family when I was young, right?" I asked suspiciously.

"My younger brother's branch went to the Netherlands to start a family when you were six years old. Before leaving, the family had already separated and gave up the elders' right to speak. In the same way, if you change your surname without authorization, get married, enter another family, or make mistakes and be punished, you will be punished. Lose the right to speak in the family."

"I probably understand. Our family now includes me as three elders. The three of us share the right to speak according to this ratio, right?"

"Well, in addition, according to the amount of power delegated by the previous generation of Patriarch, the new Patriarch's right to speak will be increased. The maximum additional speech power of the Patriarch is 2, and I plan to only give you 1.5 for the time being. The weight is 3.35, which is bigger than me and your grandfather combined. Do you understand what I mean?" My father stared at me.

In other words, the two of them have to listen to me when I decide?This is really the head of the family!

"Being the new head of the family at the age of 20 is really frightening..."

"This is why we rest assured that you are like this. If the successor has yet to grow up, when the head of the family is handed over, he can also choose to gradually delegate power according to the actual situation. Having the head of the previous generation escorting him is one of the benefits of the ancient system of our family. one."

Indeed, if you don't serve as the head of the house, where can you get the experience of being the head of the house?But if you wait until the old Patriarch dies to become the Patriarch, you will inevitably be in a hurry, and there is no way to properly hand over many things.

"There are laws to follow" like us, although it is a bit unreasonable, but in terms of maintaining the survival of the family, it has truly achieved the same from generation to generation.Even young adults who have just grown up can participate in family affairs, contributing to the family while accumulating valuable housekeeping.

"A person who doesn't have the right to speak, can't do anything at home?" Mio-chan couldn't help raising her hand and asked.

"No, the so-called elders and patriarchs have decision-making power. The rest of the family are members of the Kitazawa family, and proposals are also allowed. And it's all about the core interests of the family and major matters of life and death. Family matters There is no need to go through this kind of decision-making for small and small matters, and if there is no special division of labor for these matters, they are generally in charge of their own." Mom explained to her.

"That's right, our Kitazawa family is strict but not cool. As long as we don't damage the core interests of the family, making friends, getting married, running a business, buying a house, etc., as long as we don't use the family's money and use it in the name of our family, we are all responsible for it." It doesn't matter." Grandpa confirmed.

"Are these trivial things!?" Mio-chan and the others were shocked.

"Yes, in fact, our family does not seek success and fame, but only hopes that future generations can survive well. The high standards and strict requirements for future family leaders are just to ensure that those with strength can protect the entire family. If one day we fail to reach this level, The Kitazawa family will also stay away from everyone in a timely manner, and stay away from dangerous power struggles. Because in this society where power is paramount, there are no protagonists."

"Grandson remembers." I nodded solemnly.

"Then, the treasury and family tree of the Kitazawa family will be kept by you, the new young patriarch. Of course, you will officially become the patriarch one year later. Also, these matters today are the family affairs of the Kitazawa family, so don't say anything .”

"Yes."

Co-authoring this patriarch is still the same as before!Our family's capital chain is very normal, basically we don't need to use the gold bars in the treasury, except for having a child and getting married, we need to supplement the family tree, and the major events that really need to be decided by my grandfather and others have not been seen for a few years!

Well, this is also a peaceful and prosperous age created by the foundation laid down by generations of the Kitazawa family!

"There's nothing wrong with it? Then, Minya, stay and read the minutes of the previous family meetings to understand when it is necessary to exercise the right to speak of the patriarch, and at the same time learn the precious wisdom of the ancestors."

"Ok."

The girls filed out with their mother, each one still a little unbelievable.

That's right, even I didn't expect that our Kitazawa family turned out to be such a wonderful and pragmatic family.I hope they don't think I'm a weirdo at heart too...

After reading some meeting minutes of the family, I have to admit that what my grandfather said is indeed true.

This kind of family system has been implemented in our family for a long time.

There has been a miraculous case in which the head of the family was replaced by a younger brother who had a slightly higher voice than himself after only one year of being the head of the family.There have also been incidents where the young head of the family died unexpectedly, and the elderly in the family took on the role of the head of the family instead of the young head's children taking over.There is even an absolute genius who has more than 2 voices and becomes the Patriarch...

In a word, strength is the most important thing, and the person in charge of the Kitazawa family must always be the strongest of the Kitazawa family.

The standard for commenting on strength is also very single. It has nothing to do with anything else. It is to follow the old standard of the Kitazawa family to see how much of the Kitazawa family's housekeeping skills you can master.

It's really dumbfounding, are the ancestors underestimating this world?Can you succeed only by analyzing and controlling emotions?

Probably not, in my opinion, our Kitazawa family's housekeeping skill is just a basic skill for knowing others and pretending to be ourselves.

Like the ninja's chakra and the saint's small universe, after laying the foundation of internal skills, practicing ninjutsu and other cheats will get twice the result with half the effort, right?

Thinking back, I got rid of those boring training in the fifth grade of elementary school.Since then, my ability to understand others really seems to help me improve myself all the time.

Even the time taken up by the training is said. My curiosity about the opposite sex is the reason why I didn’t have much contact with the opposite sex of my peers when I was young, right?

In the first five years, I went home after school and practiced hard. After a few days of wind in the sixth grade, I was arranged to go to a noble boys’ school... Except that my grandfather occasionally guessed riddles and told me stories during breaks. Poor me, I really didn’t have a childhood!

When others are playing house, I am obediently practicing kung fu, so thinking about my so-called lust is justifiable!

I really don't know how those ancestors who passed the assessment at the age of 20 survived, it's scary to think about it!

Sure enough, there is no easy word in the world of adults.As the head of a clan, this is even more so.

But it's useless to think so much. In line with the principle that the blue is better than the blue, I think I can do what my ancestors can do.

After all, what our family wants is not honoring our ancestors, but just the peace of mind that we can continue to live.

This is the first time I have experienced Ayanokōji's state of mind, in order to continue to win, keep working hard, so many skills don't overwhelm me!

When I came out of the basement, I couldn't see the wives who gathered together to watch dramas and chat on weekdays. Maybe they all went back to digest the amount of information that exploded today?

There is someone waiting for me.

"Mio-chan, it's so late, do you really have to go back to school?"

"Your family has your family's rules, and ours also has ours. I can't live here with you." Mio-chan replied helplessly.

"Then I'll drive you?"

"No, I verified it." Mio-chan shook her head lightly.

"Yeah, after the coming-of-age ceremony, we'll get married."

"What are you talking about! I was caught off guard..." She was taken aback, and habitually slapped me lightly with her small hand.

"So we can live together!"

"...with you, the child will have to suffer in the future." Mio-chan's eyes flickered.

"What are you talking about! If you are reluctant, we won't do this."

"..." Mio-chan didn't answer.

I was terrified: "Don't scare me! If you don't want to, then we don't want children! Mio-chan, I can't live without you!"

"Hehe, what are you thinking...I mean, that woman who wants to be strong in every way will definitely happily let her child accept the ancestral examination of your family." Mio sauce said firmly.

Are you embarrassed to say that others are stronger?Aren't you both dissatisfied with each other?

"You mean Lingyin? You two are really enemies."

"I'm not afraid of her...but I won't get angry with others with my child. You saw it just now, not to mention the junior named Yixia, Fanbo and Ningning..."

I suddenly understood what Mio-chan meant.

"Yes, for various reasons, they must let their children work hard, right?"

"Minya, tell me, is there such a need in a person's life?"

"I don't know, I didn't lie to you, I was deceived by my mother... If I knew the truth, I would still accept it? After all, I am the only son of the Kitazawa family, and I have this responsibility. It is not out of For some other reason..."

"I just love that you are responsible." Mio-chan said softly with a reddish face.

"So you should be more open-minded. No matter whether you participate in the assessment of the Kitazawa family or not, Fanbo's children will surely forgive them for their mother's painstaking efforts. Our children are also, I have this confidence."

"Ok!"

Don't say it, I calmed down Mio-chan who was feeling hopeless, and I felt a lot more at ease immediately!

Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so worrying is useless!

Besides, the assessment of the Kitazawa family is very talent-based.It may be possible to pass by working hard, but it is not so easy to become the head of the family with more voice than our elders, isn't it?

At that time, I still have the right to say!It's useless for you to be so tired.Just don't do it!

Kowloon seizes the throne?nonexistent!I'm not afraid to raise a flag.