I, Xia Binghai, got my first kiss from Lin Miaomiao at the beginning

"This is allowed by the teacher. I am protected by the rules." Xia Bin pulled Lin Miaomiao over and gave her a big hug for more than three seconds, but not more than five seconds.

With so many people, Lin Miaomiao was too shy, so Xia Bin stopped hugging her.

It was Fang Yifan's turn to turn around, and Qiao Yingzi was next to him.

Qiao Yingzi gave Fang Yifan a blank look, "Hurry up, we're done hugging, come, come."

"One, two, three, okay, okay, okay." The two of them were somewhat perfunctory, because they were too familiar.

Lin Lei'er turned around and hugged Huang Zhitao, both of them were embarrassed and were overcoming the embarrassment.When the time came, Huang Zhitao smiled politely, and they both let go.

"Come on, Lei'er." Fang Yifan ran over and gave Lin Lei'er a big hug.

Although it was a bit of a violation of the rules, at this moment, Fang Yifan really wanted to hug Lei'er, pat him on the back, and comfort him.

Zhao Rongbao and Tang Yuanming looked at each other, slightly embarrassed.

"Why don't we give a hug too?" Zhao Rongbao must have said this.

Tang Yuanming quickly waved his hand and refused, "My blood pressure is pretty good, ah."

Zhao Rongbao coughed slightly in embarrassment, "Hey, Teacher Sun, I want to ask, what is the specific meaning of this event?"

Teacher Sun looked at the students, "Let's take the group closest to us as an example. Is that classmate Fang Yifan?"

"Ah, yes, Fang Yifan."

"Yes, we can feel that his family life should be very happy, and the relationship between him and his parents should be relatively close."

"He himself doesn't feel lonely, so he can say his parents' names loudly and proudly in the first event."

"There is also that classmate named Xia Bin. His family should be a reorganized family, but the family atmosphere is relatively good. He and that Xia Xue have already accepted their new mothers, and the family atmosphere is quite good. "

"So when he introduced himself in the first activity, although he paused, he seemed to be struggling to say which mother is suitable. Later, he mentioned the biological mother first to show respect. But the important thing is that the mother who appears the longest in the family atmosphere The role, he did not fall behind."

"But let's look at the two students in the second event. There was only a short hug between him and his teammates, and it bounced off."

Speaking of this, Mr. Sun took a look at Xia (aefg) Bin and Lin Miaomiao. He is a professional psychologist, and he can tell something is wrong at a glance.

But that's okay, that's not today's topic.So he continued: "We have an old saying, what is lacking, what is missing."

"In their usual life, the sense of security from the family is already sufficient, so he is not very positive about the kindness released by the outside world."

"Conversely, we will find that some students, during the first self-introduction session, his emotions were abnormal, and he even cried, which shows that his family is traumatized."

"Maybe he came from a single-parent family, a reorganized family, or his parents were not around when he was young. It was the elderly or relatives who brought him up."

"They may not usually see anything abnormal, but the damage to the original family in his heart has a long-term repair process."

"Often such children will respond strongly to acts of kindness from the outside world."

"It's true." Zhao Rongbao really felt that this was the reason.

On the way home from school, the stamina of this game is still there.

The students are happy, it is the original family, or the kind of reorganized family that is very happy.For example, Xia Bin, Fang Yifan, Lin Miaomiao, Xiaoxue, Jiang Tianhao.

Those who are unhappy must be those with incomplete families.Qiao Yingzi, and Lin Leier.

As for Han Fei, she lived on campus, so she was in a bad mood.

"Lei'er, it's okay, you still have us." Xiaoxue comforted Lin Lei'er, as for why she comforted Lin Lei'er, because his worthless cousin went to comfort Qiao Yingzi.

Xia Bin and I patted Lin Lei'er on the shoulder, "It will all pass." He didn't know what words to comfort Lin Lei'er, but this kind of physical contact between brothers and sisters, hugging the shoulders, etc., should be fine. Can secrete dopamine.

Maybe.

Fang Yifan is now with Qiao Yingzi. Today Song Qian agreed to go to Tong Wenjie's house as a guest. Isn't it true that Qiao Yingzi came back with them after school?

"I've said so much, but you don't talk, what's wrong? This hug therapy, is it giving you a hug?"

Qiao Yingzi stopped, "Didn't the teacher talk about the influence of the original family? When I think of my parents, I feel a little uncomfortable."

"You feel bad because your parents are divorced?" Fang Yifan asked.

Qiao Yingzi opened his mouth, but said nothing.Because of this feeling, Fang Yifan wouldn't understand even if he said it.

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Chapter 340: Yingzi has a psychological problem

But Fang Yifan wanted to comfort Yingzi, "Actually, you don't have to feel bad, I envy you."

"You envy me?"

"Well, because you have two allowances. You see, your father will give you one, and your mother will give you one. As for me, I am my parents, so I will give you one, and it will be fixed regularly. "

This Lin Miaomiao also said this before, when Lao Lin was cheated by the leather bag company, but they didn't know that when Lin Dawei used a small square on a piece of paper to convince Lin Miao~miao with his fate.

Lin Miaomiao also said something similar to taking two copies-pocket money.

"Yeah, yeah, Yingzi, I envy you too. And I'm worse than all of you. In the future, our family will have a second treasure, and my pocket money, tsk tsk, may shrink-slightly."

But Yingzi looked at them, still envious.

"I'd rather be like you guys and just have an allowance so they can be together."

Fang Yifan also didn't understand, "No, I don't understand, what's the good of them being together, they will only train you together, educate you together, and take care of you together."

"Hey, let me tell you, I remember very clearly at that time. When your parents divorced, it happened to be our junior high school."

"At that time, I told my parents, I said, Dad, Mom, why don't you two get a divorce. In the end, they beat me up."

Qiao Yingzi looked at Fang Yifan as if he was mentally retarded, "Are you sick? Are you different? Are your parents okay?"

Fang Yifan quickly explained, "No, I hope they are well, but I think they are a bit mismatched, you know, my dad is always submissive and groveling at home."

"It's at home every day." He also learned Fangyuan. "Hey, daughter-in-law, don't you eat apples, don't you eat fruit. He is, and he doesn't have any sense of presence at home."

"Then, my mother is too strong at home. Tiantian..." He started to teach Tong Wenjie again, "Fang Yifan, get up! Fangyuan, what are you doing, don't smudge!"

"It's too strong, don't you think, the two of them don't match well at all. So I think after they divorce, my dad will treat me as well as Uncle Joe treats you. "

"No, better than Uncle Joe."

However, Qiao Yingzi didn't feel any sign of a better mood. "Stop joking, and don't comfort me. No one wants their parents to divorce."

From the looks of it, Fang Yifan didn't coax him well.

Lin Miaomiao gave up the space to Fang Yifan and Qiao Yingzi, and ran over to find Xia Bin.

"Hey, you have the most ideas, how can you make Yingzi feel better?"

Xia Bin's hand was still on Lin Lei'er's shoulder, "It's simple, her parents will remarry, and Yingzi will be fine as soon as she is sure."

"No, can you say something reliable?"

"What I said is very reliable, and it is the most reliable method."

"Yes, what you said is reliable, but it's too difficult. They have been divorced for so many years, how could they suddenly remarry. I just don't want Yingzi to feel so uncomfortable right now."

Xia Bin patted the top of his head lightly with his big hands, "Silly, nothing is impossible in this world, it depends on human efforts, Yingzi will be fine."

"As for this meeting..." Xia Bin suddenly remembered something, and stopped Lin Lei'er, Xiaoxue, and Lin Miaomiao.

"Let's take the stairs."

"Ah, why?" Lin Miaomiao and Xiaoxue didn't understand and asked in unison.

"Don't ask, it's just for fun." Xia Bin has already seen Tong Wenjie and Song Qian walking not far away. Is this inappropriate famous scene coming again?

"Hurry up, let's go." Xia Bin dragged Lin Lei'er and Lin Miaomiao, and motioned for Xiaoxue to follow them, "Hurry up, take the stairs, you take the elevator from the second floor, hurry up."

Although they didn't know why, they had already been dragged away by Xia Bin, and they surpassed Fang Yifan and Qiao Yingzi who had been comforting and being comforted before.

Xia Bin added a sentence when he passed them. "Let's go up first, you continue." After finishing speaking, he slipped away.

When they got to the elevator, Xia Bin hurriedly asked the three of them to go to the second floor to press the elevator.As for himself, of course he stayed here to watch the excitement.

Originally, Lin Miaomiao went up with Xiaoxue and Lin Lei'er, but she saw Xia Bin not moving at the top of a staircase halfway, so she came down again.

"What are you doing?"

Xia Bin covered Lin Miaomiao's mouth and motioned her to keep her voice down.

Lin Miaomiao didn't know, so she also looked at the elevator entrance.

Fang Yifan was following Qiao Yingzi, "Although I don't believe in hug therapy, I gave Lei'er a hug this afternoon, and it felt pretty good."

"We haven't finished hugging yet, so I will reluctantly let you hug. How about it, come on."

"No." Qiao Yingzi looked at the elevator, which was going up, and they probably had to wait for a while.

Fang Yifan felt that Yingzi was so unhappy, and he was also a little anxious.

"Yingzi, listen to me, you can't keep being so unhappy. One, it's not good for your health. Two, it's not good for you if you hold it back like this today."

"Wouldn't it make him feel better if you said it?"

Only then did Qiao Yingzi take a serious look at Fang Yifan and sighed.

......  

"I haven't been happier since my parents divorced."

"Since then, I've become a different person, treating me wholeheartedly, thinking that nothing is as important as mine."

Fang Yifan didn't understand, "No, your mother treats you well, are you not happy?"

"But the nicer she is to me, the more pressure I have, you know?"

"Our family has a schedule, which writes what I should do and what I should not do from morning to night. I have to strictly follow the schedule. I am really out of breath."

"I took the monthly exam last month. I actually know all the questions. I know the answer is A, but I wrote B. I don't know what's wrong with me."

"There are a lot of questions. My mother has tutored me, but I just don't want to write them."

Fang Yifan also chatted with her, "The situation of the two of us is not the same. As for me, what is it? The papers are filled to the brim, so I filled in the answers."

"But right or wrong, I don't know." He wanted to make Qiao Yingzi happy.

Qiao Yingzi bit her lip and said, "I just think it's boring, high school is boring, high school is boring, home is boring, school is boring, and everything is boring."

Lin Miaomiao had experienced this state of mind before.She heard that there was a drip test, because Qiao Yingzi heard that there was something wrong in her heart.

Chapter 340: Smashed in the face by a big melon

Xia Bin pressed Lin Miaomiao to tell her not to worry, and to wait.

Why didn't he know that Qiao Yingzi would suffer from depression.But it will be all right, everything will be all right.The only one who can comfort her now is Fang Yifan.

Therefore, Xia Bin didn't let Lin Miaomiao disturb them.

Fang Yifan also interrupted Qiao Yingzi, "Stop, let me interject, I think your idea is wrong. You can't think about it every day, this is boring, that is boring, you have to think about what will make you happy, do you know?"

Qiao Yingzi thought for a while, "I am very happy that my dad is back. But, I thought he would never leave, and he would always be with me."

"But now, whenever I see him, I have to take my mother's feelings into consideration."

"My dad's current house is the first house in our family. I was born and raised there in "[-]". I still remember that the three of us lived there for a long time."

"I still remember. It turned out that there was a small bed of mine in that bedroom. I remember everything."

"After my parents divorced, my dad packed up his luggage and moved things out of the house one by one."

"I'll just lie on the balcony and watch..." Qiao Yingzi's voice was a little choked up, and her eyes were red.She tried to calm down, but it was really hard. "I saw him downstairs, pulling his suitcase."

"The farther and farther you go, the smaller the person is." Yingzi sobbed, and the crying became more and more serious. "Since then, I know that he will never come back."

"He doesn't belong to this family anymore..." Qiao Yingzi kept wiping away tears, crying a little bit.

Fang Yifan took out a tissue, but couldn't find it after searching for a long time.Seeing Yingzi crying like this, he was also anxious.

"So, why don't you think about other things?"

Seeing that Yingzi couldn't remember anything and was still crying, Fang Yifan quickly pulled him over to comfort him, "Oh, okay, don't cry, hug, don't cry."

"It's okay, it's okay, don't cry, okay. Don't cry."

Fang Yifan gave Qiao Yingzi a warm heart, and Qiao Yingzi also leaned on Fang Yifan's shoulder and put his hands on his waist, crying even harder.

"Stop crying, don't want these things anymore, don't want to, don't want to."

The two hugged each other here, Lin Miaomiao was still feeling sorry for Qiao Yingzi, tears were about to come out.