What should I do with a shrewish wife in house

At the age of 59, Yaoyao was transferred back, but instead of returning to the capital, she went to Tianjin to be the director of the municipal shipping department.

Because there is still some time to go before taking office, Yaoyao and Yunzhen take their children back to the capital. First, I went to the palace. After having lunch in the palace, I went back to Fu Fu.

Qingshu got the news early and waited at home. When she saw Yaoyao, her tears fell down. I've never been back to Beijing for 13 years. I've been in touch with you by letters.

Yaoyao looks at Fu Jingen and Qingshu, who have white hair and wrinkles, and feels guilty. She kneels on the ground and kowtows three heads and says, "father, mother, your daughter's unfilial behavior has worried you these years."

She also wanted to come back to visit her parents, but it was too far away, and her business was too busy to leave for several months, so she could only bear to miss her again.

Qingshu helped her up and sat down, and said, "I know you can't walk away with your father. You've done a good job all these years. "

For example, Yi An carried her hand to become the Minister of the household department, so when she just sat in this position, she felt a little empty. But Yaoyao is different, she is a step by step up, full of confidence.

Fu jingene also had tears in her eyes, but in order to maintain her image, she forced the tears back: "Yaoyao, your mother is right. You have performed very well over the years. Your mother and I are proud of you."

Thirteen years no see, at the beginning still some delicate girl has grown into a stable and capable qualified official. He was very happy, but at the same time, he was a little distressed.

Over the past few years, more than ten female officials have been released, but the best one is Yaoyao. Of course, there are also reasons for their full support.

Yaoyao nodded and said, "father and mother, Tianjin is not far from the capital. I'll ask for a favor from my mother and come back to accompany you on New Year's day."

The couple will never refuse this proposal.

Qingshu asked, "do you live at home this time, or will you live in the palace?"

Yaoyao said with a smile: "Niang, it's necessary to ask. I must live at home. No one has lived in the palace for so many years, so it's not comfortable to live in it. "

Yunnan is so far away from the capital that it will take more than half a month to speed up. This time, I took my children on the road for more than a month, and there was only half a month left for the holiday. This half a month, she wants to accompany Fu jingene and Qingshu.

The news of Fu jingene's coma was kept secret at the beginning, but when Yun Zhen went back to Beijing to visit his relatives, he couldn't. When he returned to Yunnan, he told Yaoyao about it. At that time, Yao Yao wanted to go back to Beijing, but he was persuaded by Yun Zhen. It's just that I've been worried about this for several years.

Both husband and wife are very happy, and their daughter can see it at home at any time.

After talking for a long time, Fu jingene said: "Qingshu, let the child go back to the house and have a rest! Let's talk about it in the evening

Yaoyao said with a smile: "Dad, I just had a sleep, and now I'm very energetic. Dad, I haven't seen you for so many years. I have a lot to say to you. "

That's the night.

The moon hanging in the sky, Qingshu reluctantly let Yaoyao go back to sleep.

But Yaoyao hugged her and said, "mother, I won't go back to sleep. I'll sleep with you tonight. Mother, I haven't slept with you for a long time. "

Sometimes she dreams of Qingshu, and every time she wakes up, she remembers the scene in her dream, which is full of missing and guilt. Missing my parents thousands of miles away, I feel guilty that I can't be filial to them.

Qingshu was very excited, but finally he shook his head and refused: "you have to have a good rest after so many days. If you want to talk to your mother, let's talk slowly tomorrow."

"Niang, you won't go to the Yamen tomorrow?"

Qingshu said with a smile: "two days after the Ming Dynasty, I don't go to the yamen, just rest at home. Well, go back and have a rest. Don't take your body seriously when you are young, just like your father. When you are old, you can find all the problems. "

Fu Jing saw that he had no choice but to use himself as a negative textbook.

"Good."

When there were only husband and wife left in the room, Fu jingene said with some emotion: "it's 13 years in a twinkling of an eye. I didn't expect that she would be released for so many years."

The couple's original plan was to let me go out for seven or eight years and then go back to Beijing. But they didn't expect that I wanted to make some achievements there, so I stayed for two more terms after six years. Fortunately, there was a reward for the effort. With the vigorous promotion of Yaoyao, the relationship between the Yi people and the imperial court was eased a lot, and the tribal rebellion never happened again. As for the group fights between the tribes, the imperial court did not care.

Qingshu didn't expect it, and said with a smile: "there's no way. When the child is old, he has his own ideas. As elders, we only respect the child's choice."

In fact, she also wanted her children to stay with her, so that the family could be lively. But for the sake of their future, she chose to bear the pain of separation.

Fu jingene agrees with this. Although sometimes I miss my children so much that I can't sleep, it's worth the suffering when I see that my children are so excellent: "unfortunately, the emperor still doesn't want me to become an official, otherwise I can take my children to live in Tianjin."

In recent years, he resigned in a short time, but the emperor refused all kinds of excuses. Up to now, he is still the first assistant. Like this, the first assistant who wants to go home every day to provide for the aged is the only one in the history of the Ming Dynasty.

Qingshu looked at him and said, "you take the children to live in Tianjin. What about me? And leave me alone at home? "

Fu jingene said with a smile, "Fu Wei is so big that he hasn't seen the sea. It's time to take them to see the world. Don't worry, you won't live long. You'll be back in ten and a half days at most. If you feel bored by yourself, you can ask Xiao and the princess to come and stay for a few days. "

"Now she's looking after the old and the young. She's very busy. She can't walk away."

Three years ago, in a fit of anger, Feng moved to goldfish alley with several children. She thought Xiaoyu would take their mother and son back to her home because she missed her grandson. I don't want Xiaoyu not only didn't take them back, but also sent their daily necessities to goldfish alley. When outsiders asked about it, Xiaoyu didn't tell them about it, but he didn't smash it as before. He only said vaguely that living apart was good for everyone.

This matter spreads to the old country Gong's wife's ear, she called Xiao Yu to inquire about it. After knowing the whole story, he was so angry that he not only scolded Xiaoyu for not being a good matchmaker, but also called Mu Yan back and scolded him for being bloody. Then she asked Feng to pour tea for Xiaoyu and apologize, otherwise the British government would not recognize her granddaughter-in-law. Later, the old lady sent someone to the Feng family to ask how they taught their daughter, and how she dared to show her mother-in-law's face.

The old lady burst out with amazing fighting power. Not only Xiaoyu, but also Qingshu was startled. However, her anger scared Feng to death and then she became obedient. Not only that, Gao and Huang, who are far away from home, have a lot of respectful attitude, which shows that the gifts on New Year's day and birthday are in line with Xiaoyu's heart. Xiaoyu understood that they were not sincere filial piety because of the situation, so her heart also faded. After that, they didn't subsidize the money, and they didn't even give things away.

Fu jingene said with a smile: "it's not easy. I'll call Shangwei Fang to live with hangge's son. Won't she be able to live in our house?"

Hangge'er is Mu Kun's eldest son. After Xiaoyu takes the child back, Wei Fang thinks that when the child goes to school and is known by others, the origin of his name will be ridiculed. So after discussing with Xiaoyu, he named the child Xuehang.

Qingshu said with a smile: "it's no use saying too much now. We'll plan again when you become an official."

"You see, I will resign before my 60th birthday."

After hearing this, Qingshu said, "jingene, are you going to celebrate your 60th birthday?"

"Yes, I'm going to invite my family, friends and colleagues."

"Didn't we just invite friends and relatives to have a meal?"

Fu Jingen suddenly changed her mind and said, "if I don't celebrate my birthday, fuguer and Yaoyao may not come back. But if I do it, they will ask for grace from the Empress Dowager. "

"That's it?"

Of course, it's more than that. If he doesn't approve of his official career before his 60th birthday, he will pretend to be ill after his 60th birthday. At that time, the emperor will not be able to give up his official career. After all, the cabinet needs a leader.

The husband and wife talked for a long time. Qingshu didn't stop until she felt that her throat was dry and uncomfortable.

The next day, Yaoyao first went to the government of the town, and then to the princess's house. I stayed in the princess's mansion for an afternoon and got home near dark.

Qingshu said with a smile: "it's so late, I thought you didn't come back tonight?"

"Niang, you don't know I know the bed, how can you not come back." With these words, Yaoyao asked strangely, "mother, why does aunt Yu live with her child and uncle Wei in the prefecture? The old, the old, the small, once something goes wrong, there's no one to make a fuss about. "

Qingshu said with a smile: "what does it mean that there is no one to make a fuss about? You should be the steward of the inner courtyard and the housekeeper outside?"

Yaoyao asked, "mother, you know what I mean. Niang, why didn't Muyan take his wife and children back to the princess's residence? What's the matter with their mother and son? Why don't you write to me without telling me? "

Qingshu didn't write to Yaoyao about this, and Fu jingene won't mention it.

Qingshu explained: "I didn't mean to hide it from you, but I couldn't say it clearly. Don't talk about their mother and son. I don't have much to say. "

Yaoyao didn't understand and said, "brother Muyan used to say that Aunt Yu had suffered a lot. When he grew up, he would listen to her and never let her cry. Doesn't he remember all that? "

Qingshu said: "Yaoyao, you have been a magistrate of one side. You should know that honest officials can't do housework. Let them solve their mother and son's problems by themselves, so let's not interfere. "

"Niang, that's what I said, but I'm sorry to see Aunt Yu like that."

Qingshu shook his head and said, "it's not all Muyan's fault. Aunt Yu also has a lot of responsibility. Muyan has always wanted to make contributions, but after the release a few years ago, your aunt Yu has always wanted him to go back to Beijing, and all these years he has been inclined to Muchen and Mukun. After a long time, he feels uncomfortable. But after all, it's mother and son. Let's talk about it. Mother and son have been reconciled. "

In fact, Muyan is not unfilial. It's just that Xiaoyu's behavior hurt him, which made his mother and son estranged. But Xiaoyu likes to complain, which made their feelings worse and worse. Mukun didn't like to be talked about since he was a child. Xiaoyu had to manage everything, and the contradiction came naturally. In fact, it's not a big deal. Just talk about it. As for Muchen, Qingshu doesn't want to mention it.

"Why does he want to live in goldfish Hutong after making up?"

Qingshu said with a smile: "Feng and your uncle Wei have a quarrel. Your aunt Yu doesn't want your uncle Wei to be wronged, so she let Feng and his children live in goldfish Hutong. Muyan takes them back to the princess's residence for holidays or festivals."

In the past, Xiaoyu would tell Qingshu that there were only two people in the family who were too cold, but he never said that since he took hangge'er back and raised him. Also because of this child to fill the inner emptiness and loneliness, Xiaoyu is indifferent to Feng.

As the surprise said, in the back house, either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind. Xiao Yu's attitude changed greatly, but Feng was more respectful and cautious towards her.

"That's good."

Qingshu said: "housework is all about the public. The public is reasonable. The grandmother is reasonable, so it's hard for outsiders to interfere. But Muyan is clear, so don't worry about your aunt Yu. "

In fact, among the three brothers, Muyan has always been the most filial, but the obedient and sensible children are often ignored. Fortunately, Xiaoyu had realized the problem and corrected it, so the mother and son were reconciled.

Yaoyao hugged Qingshu's arm and said, "mother, with you, I don't worry about Aunt Yu."

Qingshu nodded her forehead and asked, "aunt Yu is not worried. What about you? A few days ago, the Empress Dowager said to me, "I want you to have a baby under your knees. What do you think?"

Yao Yao had a dystocia when she gave birth to Zi's sister. The imperial doctor said that it would take two or three years to recuperate. Don't want to cloud Zhen to frighten, life and death don't want to have children, so two people to now knee also only duo ER and Zi sister.

After silence, Yaoyao said in a soft voice: "Niang, ah Zhen and I don't want to adopt. Niang, people die like lights out. It's nothing if there's no incense inheritance. "

Although Yunli accepted a side imperial concubine and two concubines, he had only two sons under his knees, and they were all legitimate. In this case, it was not easy to adopt. The emperor had nine princes, three of whom were his own. It's hard for the prince to take over, but the son of Zhang Shi and Li Fei is not willing to take it.

In fact, Qingshu had already made such a guess. She shook her head and said, "the Empress Dowager will not agree. If you don't want to adopt, you can let duo Er become a burden. "

Of course, the Empress Dowager must agree with the emperor, but she certainly won't object. And as long as she agrees to it, it's not a matter for the emperor.

Yaoyao shook his head and said, "Niang, who is willing to be a young man with ability? I don't want dor to marry a useless and wimpy husband. She may complain about us for the rest of her life

Qingshu said: "there is another way to let duo'er's second son inherit Yunzhen's fragrance."

Yaoyao said, "mother, let me think about it."

Qingshu shook his head and said, "I don't think about it. The queen can't let you have no one to worship in a hundred years, but if you don't have to follow the way I just said. If you all refuse, can you resist the edict? "

"Is there no other way?"

Qingshu nodded and said, "yes, they will take over after they are all married. When the time comes, the prince will be big. You don't have to worry about choosing one of them. But then he won't be very close to you. "

Yaoyao thought about it and said, "I'll go back and discuss with ah Zhen."

"It's natural."

No matter who decides this big matter, it must be discussed by husband and wife.

In a twinkling of an eye, half a month's vacation will be gone. Yaoyao is going to Tianjin. As for Zi sister, because Yi An was reluctant to leave her in the palace for a while.

Yaoyao's figure disappeared in everyone's sight, and Fu Jingen was still looking in that direction. Qingshu said with a smile, "the shadow of the horse is gone. What are you still looking at?"

Fu jingene looked down at Qingshu and asked in a soft voice: "when you watched me go, you must be as reluctant as I am now."

Qingshu was stunned and said with a smile: "no, I was afraid that something would happen to you at that time. I've been carrying my heart since you went out."

Fu jingene every time is a dangerous job, every time send him out of Beijing Qingshu in the heart to pray for a safe return.

Fu jingene felt guilty and said, "I'm sorry to make you suffer."

At that time, he thought that he could protect his wife and children, but he didn't know that he not only brought danger to Qingshu, but also made her suffer a lot.

Qingshu said with a smile: "it's hard work, but you're also for our family, so no matter how hard I work, I'll enjoy it."

In the afternoon of that day, Qingshu went to the palace to report something to Yi An. After reporting back to her official business, Yi An sat on the soft floor with her. After drinking a cup of ginseng tea, Yi an asked, "ah Zhen and Yao Yao both said they didn't want to adopt. Did they tell you about this?"

"Yes, I said you might not agree."

Hearing this, Yi An looked at her and said, "do you agree?"

Qingshu said with a smile: "I don't interfere in their affairs, but if you don't agree, I will help persuade them."

"I certainly don't agree," says Ian. Without children, one hundred years later, there would be no one to worship, and one would become a ghost. But ah Zhen has a firm attitude and says he won't adopt. "

Qingshu repeated her proposal and said, "Yaoyao said that he would discuss it with ah Zhen. I think ah Zhen should agree. "

Yi An knew how stubborn Yunzhen was, so he had to talk about Yaoyao first to make him change his mind: "all right, but then the child's title will be lowered."

The rules of her ancestors can't be changed at will, even if she is in power.

"I also reminded Yaoyao of this. Yaoyao didn't care. She said that as long as the children are cultivated well, they will be able to stand out without titles."

After getting Qingshu's words, Yi settled down and felt comfortable. He said another thing to Qingshu: "SHANGZHENG's mother suddenly fell into a coma yesterday afternoon. The Taiyi said that she couldn't last long. Old lady Shang is going. She's going to worry about her... "

The words behind didn't say, just looking at Qingshu.

SHANGZHENG's mother is also a very strange person. When she was young, she was in poor health and always got sick. I didn't expect that she would get better and better after she got married and had children. Now I'm over 80 years old, and I'm a senior citizen.

Qingshu said: "Jingen didn't become an official. I'll be the Secretary of the Ministry of household affairs, and there will be no one to teach my children. As you know, my daughter-in-law can't teach children there. "

Yi An smiles and says, "do you mean to give up?"

Qingshu shook his head and said, "no, I hope you can persuade the emperor to agree with jingene to become an official, so I can go further."

Yi An laughs.