Evil Emperor Zun

Chapter 1581 For You

The matter of senior sister Song Panlei finally had a good start, and Yi Xin was temporarily relieved.What worries her most now is Dai Hang.

No matter how she persuaded, Dai Hang always had a determined attitude.Yi Xin also consulted with the dean, wondering if it is possible to suspend the approval of Dai Hang's application for withdrawal.The dean also regretted that she had persuaded everything she could, but she still had to follow the college system in many things.As a mentor, she can only suggest, but cannot force students to stay in school.For these things, I'm afraid they can only rely on their classmates to think of ways.

However, the teaching director also said that if they could really persuade Dai Hang to stay, she would also be willing to contribute in terms of funding.Naturally, it cannot be fully funded, but with this money, it can more or less relieve some of the pressure on Dai Hang's life.

Yi Xin thanked the dean.She also understands that other people really have no obligation to support another person's studies and family.After all, there are tens of thousands of poor students, and even philanthropists can't help them.If you just see a poor person and want to help him, then if you meet a more pitiful person next time, will you have to help him endlessly?

Yi Xin asked herself, she is not such a great person, she has no ambition to save the world from suffering.But Dai Hang is a good friend by her side, and she can feel his pressure.This made it impossible for her to pretend not to see it, and she wanted to help him share more, even if it was just a little bit.

If... Yi Xin suddenly had an idea, if everyone around Dai Hang could give out a little energy within their ability... Even if everyone's energy is very small, but gathered together, it should be very big A big burst of energy, right?Then this energy may be enough to change Dai Hang's fate——

Fundraising for him...enough money for him to finish school!This idea became stronger and stronger in Yi Xin's mind.She also tried to talk about this idea with some friends around her.

Xu Wenwen said: "What kind of donation are you raising? You can directly ask the young master for money!"

At that time, Yi Xin sighed silently for a long time in her heart, and never dared to raise donations in front of Xu Wenwen again.

Xie Shaochen said: "It's good, I just don't have any money, if I have money, I will definitely give it to you."

Probably I also felt that this was really "said as if I didn't say it", and then he volunteered to propose that he was willing to accompany her to raise donations-it's okay to contribute, just don't ask me to pay for it.

Even so, Yi Xin is still very grateful to him, he should be the first friend to support her.So next, the two of them began to initially raise donations from the crew.

The process of fundraising was not smooth, these people were all here for filming, and they didn't know Dai Hang, so it was none of his business whether he read or not?Although Yi Xin also expected this kind of situation, she couldn't help being sad to be directly ridiculed by the other party.

Among the older staff, there are still some kind-hearted people. Thinking that Dai Hang is about the same age as his own children, but he has to drop out of school early. I really don’t know how helpless his family members are to make this decision. , Poor parents all over the world.Out of sympathy, they donated a little change.

Yi Xin expressed her gratitude to every caring person, no matter whether they actually donated money or just gave a few words of encouragement verbally, Yi Xin would bow slightly to them and sincerely say: "Thank you .”

Rong Xiao, who was also on the set, soon learned of this fundraising operation.

"It's not that I said, it's best not to do this, it depends on the person." Rong Xiao thought about it for a while, but he tried to dissuade him, "People are different, some people don't have time to be happy when they receive donations, and they wish they could keep it for the rest of their lives , (Xie Shaochen's eyes flickered slightly), but some people are different, it is an insult to him if you initiate a fundraiser or directly find someone to support him."

"I know your intentions are good, but if you really want to do this, you can't do it first. Otherwise, you will be busy for a long time. If he doesn't appreciate it and refuses to accept it, what will you do with the money? Return the same way? Many donations are made by strangers, and you may not be able to find them at all, not to mention how much you have donated. Hot potato."

Fundraising in the name of helping Dai Hang, the money was raised, but it was not really used to help Dai Hang. If it was serious, you could even sue her for fraudulent donations.Once it involves trampling on the love of the public, it will encounter the most intense backlash.Rong Xiao didn't want to scare her, but he had to explain all the benefits to her clearly in advance.

"This..." Yi Xin didn't think too much, she found that she really seemed to think things too simply.

"Actually... Brother Xiao, you are right." After thinking twice, Yi Xin finally nodded heavily, "Dai Hang, it's probably like what you said. If he really needed help, he would have He opened his mouth, he is indeed not the kind of person who is willing to be sympathized with." It is precisely because of this that she chose to do this without telling him.

"But even if this is the case... do we know that one thing is correct, but just because the person involved is unwilling, we have to give up..." This time, Yi Xin was not restrained because of facing Rong Xiao, but said softly Out of the confusion in my heart.

"It's like some critically ill patients. They feel that the treatment process is painful and they don't want to continue. At this time, as family members and friends, should we encourage them to regain their confidence in life instead of just watching them give up their lives? Respect Which side is more important, the choice of the parties, or the correctness of conforming to reason?"

"This controversy has always existed." Rong Xiao patiently accompanied her to analyze, "Isn't there often people shouting that they don't like others to impose what they think is 'for his own good' on him. Take job hunting Let’s talk about it. Parents may want their children to find a stable job, but their children may also want to develop their own interests. If you are a parent at this time, what should you say, is to insist on 'for his own good', Or set him free?"

"If it was me..." Yi Xin thought about it carefully, "I might choose to have a good communication with him first. At least I have to know whether he has a long-term plan for his future. If it's just Taking one step at a time, it is impossible for parents to know that there is a fire pit in front of them and watch their children jump into it. But if he has a clear positioning of himself and let me know that he has the ability to take responsibility for his own life, then I... ...should give him time to try it out."

"Yes, so this shows that communication is very important." Rong Xiao nodded in agreement, "People are disgusted with 'for his own good', which is the kind that doesn't care about his feelings at all, and blindly imposes his own ideas on him. But If the two parties can communicate candidly, say what they think, and choose the best path together, I think no one will reject a proposal that is truly 'for their own good'."

"Take the matter of Dai Hang as an example. If he dropped out of school to work, and soon became a big boss, and his family's destiny has completely changed, then you really don't need to stop him. After all, the road to becoming a talent is not the only way to study. But if he Dropping out of school is just to earn a barely sufficient income and to go back to his father's old path, at this time, if you want to persuade him, it is really for his own good."

"According to what you said, you think Dai Hang is mostly the latter. I don't know him, but my suggestion is, don't look at him directly from your point of view. That's what he dislikes."

"In fact, you still lack communication on this matter. Dai Hang is unwilling to tell you his plan, and you are also unwilling to analyze the feasibility of dropping out of school and working with him. You are a bit of a dead end. He thinks he is the person involved, and you think you are doing it for him. Well, none of you are willing to make concessions, so there is no way to talk."

"The key to the problem now is to have a good talk with his parents first, and let his parents have a good talk with him. Let's sit down together and calmly analyze the pros and cons of the two paths. At that time, which way will you decide? If you feel that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, then choose whichever one you want.”

Yi Xin followed his words to think, and really felt a sense of enlightenment.And Rong Xiao's maturity also surprised and delighted her.He used to attract her mainly because of his cool appearance. She didn't expect that he has grown from a boy who loves fighting to such a reliable man unconsciously...

"Brother Xiao, you are really amazing, I think you understand it well!" Yi Xin admired her from the bottom of her heart, "You immediately saw my blind spots in my thinking, and you are so good at empathizing, just like an education expert!"

"It's nothing." Rong Xiao laughed self-deprecatingly, "If I want to say it, it may be because I have been in the state of being 'watched dead' all the time, so I can understand that kind of unwillingness."

In the academy, he was "watched dead" by his mentors, how many mentors believed that he would not be promising in this life; after leaving the academy, he entered the Tiangongmen and became an idol star, but there are still a large number of black fans "watched dead" "I told him, thinking that he would definitely be confused in a short time.

They didn't want to listen to what he had to say, they just looked at him blindly with traditional thinking.As time passed, he was unwilling to talk more with these people.

However, there was also an elder who said something different to him.He said that he would not interfere with his choice of life, if you think which way is better for you, then you can go.I just hope you really have enough judgment to judge whether the path you choose is really better for you, if you don't, I can help you judge.

I won't interfere with you, I just judge for you.I also believe that you are not so stupid, you still insist on moving forward knowing that the path of harm outweighs the benefits.

These words really touched him to a certain extent.But at that time, he had been lying down for too long, and he had long since lost the strength to get up.So he is still muddled, still walking on a path that even he himself knows is wrong, wasting his life.It wasn't until he had to use a lot of strength to pull himself up in order to pursue Ryoko.

And he also gradually discovered that although walking up will be very tiring, every step he takes will be very solid.It is really much more satisfying to him than the kind of life that lies flat and enjoys a life that is infinitely empty for a while.

After hearing his words, Yi Xin was slightly taken aback, but then her face became hot.Yes, why didn't she follow the traditional way of thinking, thinking that Dai Hang would not be successful if he dropped out of school, so she decided to let him stay under the banner of "for his own good"?This kind of her is no different from those mentors who completely looked down upon Rong Xiao because of his status as a gangster.

Even if they choose the same path, Dai Hang should choose willingly instead of pushing him up.After Yi Xin silently corrected her thinking in this way, new doubts arose immediately.

"Well, yes, I didn't seem to understand Dai Hang before. From the perspective of an outsider, I would definitely think that he should finish his studies, but from his own perspective, their family is indeed very difficult. Let him see It must be very painful for him to see his parents suffering from poverty and suffering every day, but not being able to make money to honor them..."

"That's why, you have to think of a way first." Rong Xiao smiled, "Otherwise you will find it difficult to persuade everyone, and the other party will find it even more difficult."

"It's not to say that it is absolutely impossible to solicit donations, but it must be based on the fact that you can persuade Dai Hang to accept."

"Hey, so Brother Xiao," Xie Shaochen on the side finally interjected, "I think what you said just now was very exciting, why don't you go to Dai Hang's house with Angel and help persuade him?"

Saying this, he even gave Yi Xin a wink, as an assist for Xiao Xin.

Rong Xiao laughed: "At that time, I will use myself as a negative example, right?" But after thinking about it, he quickly agreed, "It's okay, I just happen to have nothing to do these days. Then you wait a little bit After a while, when work is over, I will go with you."

"Hey, can it be?" Yi Xin was both surprised and happy, "But...would it be too much trouble for you?"

Rong Xiao replied: "It's okay, Dai Hang is your friend and my junior, so it's only right to help."

While waiting for Rong Xiao to finish work, Xie Shaochen pulled Yi Xin aside, looking more excited than she was.

"Did you hear that? Dai Hang is your friend first, and then his junior. What does that mean? It means that you are very important to him! Otherwise, can he manage so many juniors one by one? "

Yi Xin also really thought about whether Rong Xiao's willingness to help Dai Hang, whom he had never met before, was more due to his own relationship.But such a thought surprised her but also made her feel ashamed.In the end, she shook her head quickly.

"I think Brother Xiao is willing to help...it's because others are better." Don't let yourself have too many unrealistic fantasies...

Xie Shaochen was even amused by her: "Don't just send him a good person card. Good person, then let everyone here ask him to borrow money and try, do you think he can borrow money?"

Then, he added another sentence mysteriously.

"Believe me, I understand emotional matters, there is drama."

(End of this chapter)