The queen's mouth is open

Chapter 1849 Confidence Talisman

(On the last day of the month, don’t waste the double monthly pass~)

Jiang Xiaobai pursed his lips, and quickly edited the text with his hands——

"I understand your kindness and soft-heartedness, but maybe you can try to think about it from a different angle, such as: you want to see me, I want to see you, so why can't I go to you? I want to give you a gift, send I will be very happy after seeing you, and you will also be happy when you receive a gift, so why worry about whether I will spend money? These things are not for you to consider. If Ying Baichuan and I are really busy with work, we will not be able to spare I have time to see you. On the contrary, since I can see you, it means that I have spare energy and leisure. Maybe sometimes you can have less worries, and simply and face the upcoming surprises, which will make you feel more relaxed. In fact, people have You might as well be selfish at times. Being too thoughtful may put pressure on the people around you. For example, you can think about it in another way. You carefully prepared a gift for your friend, but the other party thought you were spending money and refused it. Then you will Are you happy because you saved this money? Or, you will also be a little bit disappointed?"

After sending, Jiang Xiaobai did not wait for her reply, and sent another message: "Of course, I also respect your choice, see you or not, it's up to you, if you want to see me, please tell me your time and address If you don’t have time, you can save the phone and see you later. Finally, I hope you can actively face the treatment, live bravely, and be a girl who has been walking on the road of happiness.”

Jiang Xiaobai was editing the text, while Dong Ran looked at her, and waited until she finished posting before saying: "You seem to be angry."

Dong Ran thought it was very rare that Jiang Xiaobai got angry because of a netizen!

This is really a rare thing, and she is almost happy to watch it.

Jiang Xiaobai said weakly: "I just feel a little helpless. Some people are too selfish and only love themselves. Parents, relatives and friends are all behind, but some people treat themselves so badly, and all their attention is on others... "

There is a saying that "it is not easy to live in this world, you have to be nice to yourself". Regarding this sentence, Jiang Xiaobai thinks it is not fully applicable to contemporary people.

This is indeed the case for the generation of parents who have endured hardships all the way. They lived too hard at that time, and now they still live a simple life and live frugally when they have the conditions, so they should treat themselves better and also It is worthwhile to go through the next life.

However, many young people in the contemporary era are hedonists and paycheques. Whether it is eating or drinking, they will not wrong themselves. There are also a lot of selfish people. They usually call brothers and sisters and have wine and meat. Once there is an emergency, they need to borrow money. , then the people around will run clean.

They don't need to "be nicer to themselves", because they are already nice to themselves, and no matter how good they are, they are "no one else".

But for Cuihua, she is a typical altruist. She thinks too much about other people's ideas when she does things, and instead keeps wronging herself.For this kind of person, if the person she pays understands her dedication and gives equal care, then the two will get along well.On the contrary, if the other party only asks and does not give back, Cuihua will be very painful.

The person who gives is not a fool, she knows everything, and she will be unbalanced, but she has been silently enduring.

If you are really careless and don't care about rewards at all, then it doesn't matter what you do, as long as you are happy.

"Yeah, there are quite a lot of such 'good people'. I think they still lack a sense of security subconsciously, so they want to please others and get attention." Dong Ran shook his head, "But in fact, those who benefit from them People will only think that they are weak and easy to bully, they just want to take more and more, and they will only think that what he pays is justified."

"They lack self-confidence too much," Jiang Xiaobai said.

"Yes, when it comes to self-confidence, I think of my childhood friend. She has too strict tutoring, and her parents control too much. She has ideas in her heart but dare not express them out loud. When someone yelled at a conflict, she burst into tears, but she couldn't say a word. She said that what she feared most was facing the conflict, especially the quarrel. Wronged and angry." Dong Ran nodded empathetically, "But her language skills are not good, but her writing skills are quite good."

Confidence is so important, it is so important that the same person, walking with confidence and walking with fear, is almost like two people in comparison.

Jiang Xiaobai didn't answer because she was thinking about one thing.

At this time, she came up with a new kind of talisman - the self-confidence talisman.

There are too many people who lack self-confidence in their lives. They are often under a high-pressure education for a long time, and their nature and true preferences have been suppressed. Therefore, they have low self-esteem, lack of assertiveness, habit of obeying others, and dare not express their true thoughts.

In making friends, they dare not express their different opinions, and will only follow the big team. If they are in a relationship, such people are also prone to suffer from the PUA of the other half.
After using the confidence talisman, it will not make people blindly confident, it is a subtle change process.

However, in order to prevent its effect from being too long-term, so that the user is too confident, Jiang Xiaobai decided to change the rune of this bracelet so that it can be consumed.

The validity period is only one year, and it should be possible to change a lot in one year.

In fact, in Jiang Xiaobai's view, Cuihua lacks self-confidence more or less, but Jiang Xiaobai didn't come up with this confidence talisman because of Cuihua, but because she wanted to update her bracelet category, so that she They can be applied to more people.

"You said that Dane gave you a vacation, and you will go back to work after the year?" Dong Ran chatted with her back to work, "This kind of boss is not bad, but this young man is not bad. He looks relatively humble and capable. He has a family background and is ambitious, so I can rest assured that you work with him."

Jiang Xiaobai twitched his lips and looked at Dong Ran.

She inexplicably sensed the temptation in Dong Ran's words.

"We are just in a working relationship, and he, like me, is very focused on his career." Jiang Xiaobai said helplessly.

"Okay, okay, work relationship... But I think the male artists who have worked with you will all have a good personal relationship with you. Look, Tao Xi, Bai Xing, Fang Jia, and Lu Cheng..." Dong Ran was snapping his fingers.

"That's not all of them, such as Ding Haoran and Cheng Yihao." Jiang Xiaobai thought for a while and said.

After thinking about it, Dong Ran nodded, "These two are people who want to step on your superiors and use you to hype... So as long as you cooperate with you honestly, there will be good results, and those who make bad ideas will be cold."

Jiang Xiaobai couldn't help laughing.

"Yeah, Dongdong is here too?"

Jiang Xiaobai got into the car, only to find that there was a little guy sticking out his tongue and wagging his tail in the car besides Pearl Stone.

(End of this chapter)