The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 875 Once Bitten by a Snake
She smiled when she said this, and she suddenly felt a little sore in her heart at this moment, because when it came to her sister Elena, even though she didn't plan to contact her in the future, she still remembered the past years because of her sister.

The original owner knew very well that her past days had less sweetness and more pain. The ups and downs of the past cast a bleak color on her memories of her early life.

She used to have a very uncomfortable life. As a normal child, she tried her best to win her mother's favor when she was very ignorant, but no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't get a response.

Waiting for Yi Lianna to be a mother after the birth is a completely different attitude. These two completely opposite attitudes can easily arouse Xiao Transparent's anger and uneasiness.

Although the original owner never had evil thoughts, the opposite behavior of the mother did hit the original owner hard. For a while, the original owner thought about dying early, feeling that life is meaningless, and it would be better to die early.

Fortunately, the father was there during that time, and gave the eldest daughter some protection and warmth, but soon the mother took action, so the father could not get too close to the eldest daughter.

Fortunately, the original owner was originally an arrogant person, and he never wanted to die in the past. Instead, he found something that could calm him down from books, but he became quiet.

The past days have deeply imprinted on her character. Before Ling Xiao arrived, the original owner lived like a little transparent. She was usually silent at school and at home, and did not dare to fight for what she deserved.

She lived like an inconspicuous shadow, and because she didn't have the care of her mother, she was always a little nervous when she went out, which made her look very poor in appearance.

Standing with Elena, everyone saw the lively and bright younger sister at first glance. In the party, everyone rarely saw her, so she would not leave any impression on people.

At that time, she had a bit of low self-esteem, and she liked to be an ostrich when encountering problems, as if if she couldn’t see it, it wouldn’t happen, and she hoped that others would let her go.

It was only later that I realized that this kind of thinking was completely false. People who want to bully the weak would not care about the weak's thoughts at all, and naturally they would not let the weak go.

The original owner recalled that in the past, she had always been gray and inconspicuous in the eyes of everyone, and there was no possibility of being compared with Irina, and probably other people would not think of them as sisters at all.

Even his own sister thought so. She once remembered that she planned to let him help her, and she never regarded the original owner as her own sister from the bottom of her heart.

Probably because of the collapse of the building, Yi Lianna's attitude changed a little bit, but deep down she still wanted to take advantage of her so-called elder sister, and she only saw benefits in her eyes.

If there was no arrival of Ling Xiao, the original owner would need to spend more time to make up for the misfortune of his childhood.She didn't even know if she would come out, because she used to get so little kindness, but now she really came out.

Therefore, the original owner looked back and found that the past hardships were not all bad things for her, which made her develop a very calm personality in the face of everything, because no matter how bad it was, how bad could it be?

When she found out that she could actually come back from the dead, what was her first feeling?Normally speaking, this kind of rebirth is completely impossible, but for some reason, after seeing Ling Xiao, he quickly accepted the reality that he was alive again.

It was also discovered that as the saying goes, what is lost is what is gained. The original owner found that although he had not received the affection from his parents and sister, he had been compensated to some extent because of Ling Xiao's arrival, and it was a big compensation.

With Ling Xiao here, it is a great advantage. Ling Xiao alone is equal to several people.For example, the original owner is equivalent to having a personal bodyguard with great skills, allowing her to save her own life time and time again.

There is also a good teacher and helpful friend who can give advice to the original owner everywhere. It is Ling Xiao who found a better path for the original owner. This is the care that parents have never given.

Guidance in the learning process is not just a guidance in learning.She also cultivated the confidence of the original owner in her life and taught her what her mother should teach her, all of which benefited her a lot in the years to come.

After escaping again and again, the original owner thought about it: the neglect and cold violence she suffered when she was young, all received a lot of compensation after meeting Ling Xiao.Generally speaking, it is not a loss in this life to live again.

Therefore, the sadness caused by being treated poorly by relatives flashed away, and it was more a kind of luck that not everyone abandoned her. Her heart that was suppressed by her mother burst out with vitality again, it is good to be alive !

She also felt the same way when she started a new life, because she liked the ancient oriental civilization where she lives now, and maybe some places are not as good as those in developed countries.

After all, as a developing country, the original foundation is too weak, the time to start development is too short, and some places are stuck, and it is normal that some cannot keep up.

But this ancient civilization is still youthful again, and its people are smart and brave.The kindness, bravery and orderliness of the oriental people still left a deep impression on her.

This is also the reason why the original owner wanted to find his grandfather's family. Orientals obviously care more about family and their children and grandchildren.If the grandparents were like ordinary orientals, they would definitely like their children very much, so she would look for relatives with some longing.

It's just that the more she cherishes this emotion, the more nervous she becomes.She wondered if the old man her mother had hurt would accept her?After all, she is the daughter of her own mother, so it is understandable if the old couple don't accept it.

This situation of worrying about gain and loss made the original owner anxious, but tried hard to pretend not to care.Even though she has no stage fright in front of the students as a teacher, she is still a little uneasy at the moment, wondering what will happen to the grandfather and his wife.

The two old men also hesitated at the moment. Ever since they knew who the child was, the old couple had an urge to cuddle with the child and cry, but this idea was quickly dispelled.

Because thinking of their daughter, you must know that they worked hard to raise their daughter and paid a lot to their daughter. It can be said that they spent money, effort and energy for their daughter's growth.

Even though their daughters feel that they are at a disadvantage, they think they have tried their best.Why!Really helpless, they didn't know what they did wrong for a long time.

Like thousands of parents of ordinary families, they worked hard to earn money to support their daughters, and gave their daughters the best conditions they could, and spent a lot of effort on this.

As a result, when her daughter grew up, she patted her PI stock and left. After that, she didn't even tell her the news for many years, and she didn't remember her parents at all.

It can be said that the daughter's behavior completely denies all their contributions. Even if they are parents, they will feel heartache and feel that their efforts have no effect at all.

After decades of waiting, they gradually became disappointed in their daughters, and sometimes they thought: What if the daughter was not their daughter, but the daughter of unscrupulous parents?
You must know that there is never a shortage of parents who don't care about their children's growth and education. Of course, there are two types of parents: either they can only survive, or they are unwilling to spend money on education for their children.

Regardless of the supervisory or objective lack, that kind of parents will still think that as long as they raise their children, they are giving their children great kindness.

Then once the children grow up, even if the children do not get the education they deserve, the parents will still let the children do everything possible to repay their parents.

EMMMMM!The above-mentioned kind of parents are more or less responsible for their children, and there is another kind of parents who simply give birth and don’t raise children, or they can’t afford to raise them, or they don’t want to raise them.

Those unlucky children are often given away by their families after birth, and of course some people commit crimes by selling and throwing away their children.

This kind of parents does not contribute anything to the child after birth, not to mention that the child will repay his kindness when he grows up, and it is not that the child is begging to be born.

But some parents wait for their children to grow up and find out that the children who have been thrown away, sold, or sent away are promising, and they want to be honored, just because they are the biological parents of the children, and children should repay their kindness.

If the daughter meets those parents, I am afraid that she will not have the opportunity to get a good education, and there is probably no possibility of going abroad. In such a comparison, they do not feel indebted to their daughter.

If their husband and wife are the kind of people who sell their daughter for profit, then it is a matter of course for the daughter to abandon them, but they are not the kind of parents who don't care about their children.

It can be said that they raised their daughters carefully, and finally went to freedom with all their heart, completely forgetting how they grew up, leaving only some mysteries and disappearing without a trace, leaving their parents aside.

This kind of blow from their own daughter prevented the two old people from getting peace of mind, even if they worked hard later, they couldn't relieve it.After a long time, it became an unspeakable taboo in their hearts, and others tried not to mention it as much as possible.

Because they had been hurt by their daughter once, they had some resistance to new feelings. They came out of the inexplicable surprise of knowing the identity of the child at the beginning, and began to think carefully.

Indeed, if this young man is not lying, she is their granddaughter by blood relationship, but she is not a child who needs their care everywhere, but an adult.

An adult who is fully capable of thinking and acting will naturally not attract people's love and affection like a child. Cubs attract the pity of most people, but adults cannot be so soft-hearted.

What they had experienced in the past made them a little afraid that they would be deceived again. Once bitten by a snake for ten years, they were afraid of well ropes, so they became a little unsure how to face this child.

You must know that they have failed as parents, and they have no confidence in this aspect after being deeply hit. At this time, they don’t know whether they have the ability to be good elders. If they suffer another blow, I’m afraid they will never be able to stand up again.

Having experienced the experience of being despised by their daughters, they have pimples in their hearts. This kind of concern makes them timid when facing family affection. Should they recognize this relative who came to the door?At this moment, they were very hesitant.

The two suddenly felt that their peaceful life would be disrupted, and they didn't want their lives to be disrupted again, so they felt a bit of a dilemma of accepting or not.

And they feel that this granddaughter is not easy to raise. Speaking of which, in order to better understand their students, they also understand that the development of technology has made this world more attractive. what.

Therefore, they could tell at a glance how this granddaughter dressed. At first glance, it was the kind of clothes that were of high quality, that is, the kind of clothes that would never be cheap. Could this granddaughter get along well with them?

It was just now that they discovered that they and their daughter had different views, which led to being completely incompatible with each other, and they were very painful for each other.

Then they don't know how they will get along with their granddaughters, and they probably can't be like ordinary grandparents, after all, they have no feelings at all now.

They hadn't seen the child at all when she was little, and they hadn't bothered with her growing up, so they shouldn't expect anything from their granddaughter.

But if they really get along together, it is impossible for them to maintain this mentality. Human nature longs for the love of their relatives. Even if they try their best not to ask for family affection, they will still fall into it sooner or later.

Why!What should I do?I still remember that my daughter also asked them for pocket money at the beginning, so if they recognize their granddaughter now, they are supposed to give the child some pocket money to spend, so they have to give pocket money, and they are afraid that the granddaughter will think too much.

This is because the old couple know that they are getting old, they always need to take care of themselves, and they need someone to help them.In fact, they don't count on their granddaughter in their hearts. The children have to go to work, so how can they stay at home all the time?

They also know that it is better to have a relative in their family. Once there is something that can help, it is even more impossible for others to put down their work and take care of the two of them.

It's just that they were somewhat defensive in their hearts, after all, they were completely unfamiliar with her.Not knowing the nature of the other party, the old people will be a little afraid of getting hurt again. The original owner can feel this kind of precaution, and feel a little bored in his heart, feeling that he is wronged.

Because before, she thought that the other party would definitely admit it, which led to too much hope for investment, but it burst like a soap bubble in an instant, and she was really not very happy.

Ling Xiao saw it and said softly: "Please don't blame them, their own daughters have betrayed the two of them, and they didn't give any news when they were alive, they are cold-hearted.

There is a saying that goes well: Once bitten by a snake, they are afraid of well ropes for ten years. They are really afraid that after accepting you, they will leave like their daughter one day.If that's the case, it'd be better not to have it in the first place. "

The reason why she spoke out was for the original owner. The reactions of these two old people were quite normal. They might have been agitated and wanted to recognize each other at first, but they calmed down after a long time. The original owner was not familiar with them, and they didn’t have any deep feelings at all Please, with some mistrust, this is a normal reaction.

The original owner was a little embarrassed after hearing this, and walked out of that kind of self-pity, hey!I was still too anxious, waiting for the inspection report to come out and then visit my grandfather's family.

Ling Xiao was a little helpless, the original owner was a good boy, but maybe it was because of her extreme lack of love, her desire for love was more urgent, and she still had to pay attention to this aspect.

Because this is a big mistake, once something happens, the original owner will be lost forever.Why!It's better to pay more attention to this aspect. People should look forward and don't always live in the past.

After hearing her words, the original owner no longer felt stuck in one place, and her energy improved. She looked at Ling Xiao and said, "Then you really can't stay with me forever? I don't want you to leave."

Ling Xiao smiled slightly, and she said with a bit of a smile: "You! I really feel that this question is not urgent. You should talk to your grandparents first? Even if some things happen, don't worry.

In fact, you need to know that the relationship between people is formed little by little, so don't be too anxious.Now the elderly probably feel in a dilemma, just think about it.

There are some things that the old man may not have thought about, and nothing will happen when he recovers. In addition, you must remember: don’t think that you must pay for your efforts. "

After the original owner recovered after hearing these words, her sour heart calmed down. Although she was still not as unhappy as she was, she basically couldn't see it.

The original owner who has seen many cases is very clear: love is not extravagant, and it is said that maternal love is the most sincere, but she does not feel it, so she does not need their approval.

She came today because she wanted to see them. Now that she has seen them, she has no regrets. Even if they still have no fate with her, a new day will still start.

(End of this chapter)