I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 993 868. Opinion
"It seems that no one but yourself can know a clear answer to this kind of thing, and if you really want to know the answer to this question, you might as well calm down and think about whether you are willing and decide to separate from the other party. Do you have the tolerance and patience to look at or resolve the small differences and disagreements that arise in your life?"

While Gu Cheng kept repeating his behavior of eating cold dishes at home, he completely exposed his most true thoughts in his heart, and discussed them with Shangyan. It seems that other than himself, no one else really helped with matters such as feelings. As a friend, the only way I can help the other party is to get drunk with the other party when the other party wants to get drunk.

After listening to Gu Cheng's words, Shang Yan also fell into deep thought. In fact, logically speaking, if you really asked him whether he likes Li Nan or not, then the answer to this question is naturally no doubt. before deciding to get married.There is some possibility of abduction, but after getting along with each other, I have accepted the other party wholeheartedly.

But the problems I encountered in my life really made me feel very uncomfortable, and it can even be said to be very frustrating. I feel that the experience and experience I have accumulated before have no place for this matter at all. When facing feelings, he is still immature like a primary school student who has just left school.

After sighing again, Shang Yan picked up the beer can again, cleaned himself up in one go, and then threw the remaining beer can aside.He crossed his legs and continued to think about this question.

"Actually, this kind of thing you encountered is not too unusual among many couples. Falling in love and living together are two completely different experiences. When falling in love, you may feel that the other party is good everywhere. And when you meet each other, you will also reveal your best side to each other, and when you really live together, you will slowly reveal some small details that you don’t pay attention to in life.”

Although Gu Cheng doesn't want to interfere in the other party's love life, but from the perspective of a friend, he still hopes that Shang Yan can cherish this partner who is so hard to meet, and analyze the other party's feelings from some aspects and in a broad sense and the importance of this companion.

Before meeting Li Nan, Shang Yan had always been a prodigal son floating in the sky, lingering among different female groups, and most of these women saw him for his good looks or family background. In addition, Shang Yan is very generous when he treats women. Almost every woman who breaks up or parting with him can receive a good reward, such as a brand-name bag or other financial rewards that he wants. Naturally, he would not feel that Shang Yan had any flaws in certain issues, but felt that the other party was a good partner, and even a gentleman who was very in line with his own wishes.

But even Shang Yan himself is very clear about this matter. These women may perform well as their short-term partners, but if they really want to enter the palace of marriage with each other, they are not suitable at all. He joined or got close to him with some unwarranted intentions. If he really combines with the other party, he can imagine that all kinds of contradictions will inevitably appear in his life, so although he has been acting very slutty, but The bottom line and principles on this matter have always been conservative and relatively firm.

And a real combination with Li Nan can save these troubles. On the one hand, because the family backgrounds of the two parties are similar, it can even be said that compared with Li Nan, Shang Yan is a pauper who does not have much assets at all. It is the profit sharing, almost all of which have been squandered by him, and most of the income sources still rely on gifts from his parents and his brothers and sisters.

Unlike Li Nan, because he has superb financial management skills, even without the help of his family, relying on his current amount of funds, he can get good feedback from these fixed financial management income every year, which can fully take care of own glamorous life.

Furthermore, Li Nan himself may have always had a special feeling for Shangyan because of his childhood experience, so he set up a trap at the beginning, trying to make the combination of the two people as smooth as possible. It is very lucky for Shangyan to have an outstanding partner who is also devoted to him.

It can be said that if it wasn't for the appearance of the other party, in the eyes of Shang Yan's group of friends, he might continue to repeat this wandering life by himself until he was old.

Gu Cheng once talked about this kind of thing before. When he gets married or gets old, he will reserve a special room as a retirement home in Shang Yan, because according to the other party's lifestyle, let alone the offspring or the old-age care. When things happen, maybe when you are old, you will be alone and alone, and you can't even find anyone to help you. When your parents get old, they don't have more energy to worry about their children's personal life.

"In this world, there are no leaves with the same veins, and there are no two people who fit so well. Everyone will reveal their own personality since they grow up, and at the same time turn themselves into stones with edges and corners. These edges and corners are their own. Personality and some special characteristics are not possessed by others, and the purpose of marriage and cohabitation is to bring together two stones that are not so suitable for continuous polishing. When two people can be directly and perfectly connected together , we can have the possibility to go on hand in hand and spend the rest of our lives together.”

It may be because of the continuous reading during this period, and the fact that he has read a lot of works before, so that Gu Cheng will also add some of his own thoughts and experiences when he speaks. For the cognitive process of marriage, I always feel that this is the concept. In this world, there may not be a partner who has never had bickering or unhappiness, and the great meaning of love is that when you are facing certain things, if the other party is your wife, you can have such a heart that is willing to give in and a tolerant heart.

In the process of conflict between two people, if any party has the idea of ​​giving in, then the reason for the dispute may disappear instantly, and the differences that may seem relatively large in the original eyes will also become thorough under this attitude. without a trace.

(End of this chapter)