I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 994
Gu Cheng has always believed that he once read the viewpoint in a work. Love is not the prerequisite for two people to go on. Concession and tolerance are what make two people more comfortable, and at the same time share the courage and confidence to face setbacks.

After listening to Gu Cheng's words, Shang Yan became a little confused. Before, he always considered the problems between the two people with a very angry mind, but he never felt that he should make corresponding concessions on these issues. After all, in comparison, the two people seem to have paid more for this relationship than Li Nan, and I have always been more passive to cater to the other party's humility, and even take this humility as it should be mode of relationship.

And every time he is aggressive, the other party will make corresponding concessions, but when such concessions are made more, Li Nan himself will feel that he does not have much confidence in this relationship. In this situation, there may be more differences, and the originally very small details will become extremely demanding.

The main reason for the dispute with Shang Yan is not the original problem of the incident itself, but Li Nan's eagerness to seek a seriousness and sense of security in dealing with this relationship from Shang Yan.

It may be that the way Shangyan treated relationships before has always been a relatively slutty attitude, so Li Nan is eager to make the other party serious, and truly treat the relationship between the two people, instead of treating others with the same way before. Treat yourself with the attitude of a girl. After all, two people are about to enter the palace of marriage, and they must have a completely different way of getting along with before. How much achievement, in itself, is not that important for their family background or hard work.

As long as Shangyan doesn't engage in occupations that violate the law or are very inconsistent with the status quo, it has already met the family's expectations for them.When you have such a family background, there may be many restrictions on you, but you can also obtain various opportunities from the family.Even many parents only hope that their children can become a relatively ordinary person. As for how outstanding they are, or how to become even better on the basis of themselves, this kind of thing has never had much confidence .

Because these parents who are often ups and downs in the business world are very aware of the nature of this world. With the development of the times, there may be fewer and fewer opportunities for the people behind. Already 10 points doomed.

And they themselves also seized the opportunity in the turmoil of economic reform and jumped up to achieve their current achievements. If they were asked to start all over again, they might not be able to reach this point at all, or even just It could be a relatively ordinary person.

It is precisely because of this that their requirements for future generations have become very low. As long as they walk on the right path, there is no relatively large error distance. If they become a little bit better, it is enough to make them They were ecstatic.

It can be said that if it weren't for Gu Cheng's enlightenment and the instillation of some opinions, Shang Yan would still be in the process of being extremely angry and sad, because he himself didn't realize what big mistakes he had made in his emotional relationship. I even feel that what I have done is better than any previous relationship experience, but I just ignore a point of view, that is, the relationship I am experiencing now is completely different from the previous one. It can even be said that if I continue to treat other partners with the same If you treat Li Nan with that attitude, the road ahead for the two of them will become very narrow, and they will even be on the way back to collapse.

It was precisely because of this conversation that he realized that Li Nan was not like the girls he had dated with before. As long as there was a bag or money in return, he could feel ecstatic. What people want more is affection. The sense of security in the aspect, and the seriousness of this relationship, and these things are precisely the places and flaws that I have not done well at all.

In the quiet process, I carefully recalled every stage and time I got along with Li Nan. It seems that I have been avoiding such relatively positive problems, and I have always felt very concerned about Li Nan's concern for me in life. As it should be, we must know that in this society, there is no reason why who owes whom, and you can't rely on this preference to become confident just because the other party likes you.

Opening a can of beer again, Shang Yan may not be drinking as fast this time. While savoring the malt aroma and the taste of alcohol fermenting in his mouth, he reminisces about the feeling he had in this relationship. The lack or inaccuracies in the comparison, after careful and real reflection, I realized that I really owed Li Nan a lot, and most of the quarrels seemed to be entirely due to my own mistakes.

Just after realizing this problem, Shang Yan has completely entered a state of sage time, and the anger and sadness in his heart disappeared instantly without a trace.Looking back now, it seems that the whole person's heart is completely full of guilt and anxiety for Li Nan, and he has truly realized what kind of position the other party occupies in his heart, and even began to think, if he really lost the other party After that, what kind of attitude will your life become.

It can be said that during this period of time under Li Nan's care, Shang Yan has already gotten used to this kind of life. Once there is really no other role in his life, then his eyes feel as if he has lost a correct track Similarly, the train that was originally traveling would also temporarily come to a standstill due to derailment.

This sense of panic about the future made it impossible for him to sit quietly and continue to sit where he was, and some even began to think about what kind of state his partner and girlfriend Li Nan was in now. I also feel regretful about leaving home as soon as I said it. If there is no accident, Li Nan should be hiding in the bed alone and crying secretly. Thinking of Shangyan here, I feel that my heart has become extremely stinging, and even some Unbearable feeling.

"Cheng Zi, I may need to go home for a while, and this kind of night conversation between us can only end temporarily. I'm really sorry. If I have time someday, I will definitely come over to be a guest again, but right now I feel that I don’t seem to have any way to feel at ease if I don’t go back.”

(End of this chapter)