let go of that director

Chapter 339 Men look to life, women look to death

why?
If Choi Hyun Jin had asked this question before, Lee Seung Woo would have given him an inappropriate answer at most.

But after this period of thinking, Li Chengyou now has a deeper understanding.

This is why he completely gave up the idea of ​​marrying Jin Zhiyun, and even almost has no idea about marriage anymore. ——It’s fine if you can’t think of some things. Once you think about it and figure it out, you will suddenly feel that it is very boring, or even meaningless.

Glancing at Choi Hyun Jin, Lee Seung Woo didn't answer directly, but asked first, "Speaking of which, I've been busy for the past two years since filming the first movie, and I've cared less about you for Hyun Jin."

As Lee Seung Woo finished speaking, Choi Hyun Jin quickly said, "Brother, please don't say that. If it wasn't for my brother, I wouldn't be where I am now. My family life has changed. My brother gave me a luxury car for my birthday last year." For me, these are all the changes my brother brought to me, and my brother has already helped me too much."

"Ha ha."

Li Chengyou smiled and waved his hands: "Let's brothers stop talking about these things. We grew up together, and you have been helping me since the first movie, and you deserve it. " There was a slight pause, and Li Chengyou said again, "I remember Xianzhen, when you first entered college, you had a girlfriend in your freshman year, right?"

Cui Xianzhen said: "Mm, but we broke up a long time ago."

Li Chengyou said: "Why did you split up?"

Cui Xianzhen's tone was slightly dark, and he said in a low voice: "Because I have no money and a mediocre family background, so I can't give her what she wants."

Li Chengyou said with a smile: "Then she must regret it now, how about it, did you contact you again later, to get back with you?"

Cui Xianzhen was speechless: "Brother, I'm not stupid, such a utilitarian girl, how could I get back together with her." After a pause, he continued, "She did look for me again later, but I ignored her."

"what about now?"

Li Chengyou asked again: "It's not convenient for me to ask more about your private life, and I don't know much about it. Have you got a new girlfriend recently?"

Cui Xianzhen said: "In the past two years, we did talk again, but we broke up after that."

Li Chengyou said with a smile: "What's the reason this time, it shouldn't be because of money, right?"

Cui Xianzhen said: "That's not true. This time it's mainly because I'm too busy with work and don't have time to accompany her. I can't give her the company she wants, and I quarrel every day, so I don't want to delay her any longer."

Li Chengyou laughed when he heard this: "Talk about money when you have no money, and talk about love when you have money. You are indeed in a dilemma."

Cui Xianzhen said: "Brother, I'm not the only one in a dilemma. Which man in the world is not like this. It's like the stupid question that women often ask. If my mother and her fall into the river, who will be rescued first? You say such a question Who can ask if it’s not brain-dead? You answer to save your mother, she blames you for not putting her first, because you don’t love her enough; you answer to save her first, and those who don’t even save their mother If you say that you can't live with your conscience, she will feel that you are insecure.

So I can see through brother, this woman, you can't take them too seriously.

The more you take them seriously, the more difficult they will be for you.If they don't act as monsters a few times a day, their life will be impossible.

Just like the two girlfriends I talked about, I don't know what they want from me.

When I have no money to talk to her, she prefers to talk to me about money.When I got rich and didn't have time to spend with her for making money, she fell in love with me again.

Brother, do you think these women are brain-dead or not? "

"Hehehe..."

Li Chengyou smiled dumbly, and found it interesting.

Cui Xianzhen's experience is his own experience, but it is also the experience of most men in the world.

Previously, Lee Seung Woo divided human instinct into two parts: 'life' and 'joy'.

Men prefer to be born, women prefer to be happy.

Later, after gaining new insights, I changed my instinct from "life" and "joy" to the traditional "life" and "death".

But looking at men and women from the perspective of life and death, it is even clearer——

Men look to life, women look to death.

A man's desire is simple and single.Women's desires are complex and changeable.

Since I have a new understanding of life, Lee Seung-woo recently looked at "Book of Changes" in his spare time while filming, and felt that there is a sentence in "Book of Changes·Xi Ci" that is very appropriate to describe a woman's mentality——

Yi said: "Don't benefit from it, or hit it, set your mind and don't persevere, it's fierce."

What do you mean?
Reading "Book of Changes", everyone has their own understanding, and there is no standard answer. Li Chengyou's own understanding is: if you think about this and that, if you are uncertain, you will put yourself in danger.

After all, this society is not an individual society, but a group society, where people gather together.

If you are unsteady in your mind, others will not be able to trust you. If others do not trust you, they will naturally have no confidence in you. Not only will they not help you, but they will even preempt you because they are afraid of being betrayed or persecuted by you.

Therefore, don't be persistent in your determination, it's fierce.

Half-hearted people can't please anywhere, and most of them get nothing.

The same goes for women.

The more changeable thoughts, desires, and desires, the less trust a man has in a woman, and the more prone to problems.

This is why men look forward to life, women look to death, and most women like to be demons.

Instinct.

As for why Lee Seung Woo brought the topic to Choi Hyun Jin's love affair, it was also to make it easier for Choi Hyun Jin to understand what he was going to say next.

After all, Choi Hyun Jin grew up with him and Kim Ji Yoon, and Lee Seung Woo didn't want Choi Hyun Jin to feel that he was heartless and unintentional, which would lead to bad associations and become alienated.

Although even if Cui Xianzhen was divorced, Li Chengyou didn't care too much about it, but it's better to worry about the troubles that can be avoided with a few words.

Smiling, Li Chengyou said: "Actually, what you said about Xianzhen, I have also experienced and thought about it. After careful analysis, I found that men and women actually have different needs for each other. In other words, men and women At different stages, the needs of each other are also different.”

"Difference? What difference?" Cui Xianzhen asked curiously.

Li Chengyou said with a smile: "How should I put it. Xianzhen, what do you think is the greatest value a man can provide to a woman?"

Cui Xianzhen thought for a moment, then simply shook his head: "Brother, you should just tell me directly, you know I'm out of my mind."

Li Chengyou laughed, shook his head dumbly, and stopped asking: "In fact, no matter whether it is a man or a woman, as long as they are human, they have their own value. The values ​​shared by men and women, or the values ​​with little difference, are emotional value and Physiological value. You can understand this, Hyunjin."

Cui Xianzhen nodded.

Emotional value is easy to understand. Simply put, you love me and I love you.As for the physiological value, it is easier to understand, three words, fuck off.

Li Chengyou said: "In addition to these two values, the most competitive and core value for men is actually the value of survival. For women, it is the value of reproduction."

(End of this chapter)