let go of that director

Seeing that IU bowed his head and admitted his mistake, Lee Seung Woo accepted it as soon as he saw it was good.

His purpose is not to criticize IU, nor to accuse IU, nor to prove that he is right and IU is wrong. All accusations and criticisms against IU are just means, not ends.

He really likes IU, and he also wants to go on with IU.

Otherwise, his words would not seem to be negating IU all the time, but in fact it is a way of affirming IU.

Negation is only a means, and the affirmation of negation is the goal.

It is precisely because of this.

IU is obviously worthless on the surface, but he gets more satisfaction and affirmation in his heart.

Maybe it seems to others that he is suppressing IU by PUA, but many people don't understand that the real PUA is to suppress someone's value all the time, making him start to doubt himself, deny himself, and thus completely lose himself spiritually, becoming only Subordinates and dependents who want to affirm themselves through the affirmation of others.

Just like those who worship gods and pray for Buddha, they hope to obtain inner stability through gods and Buddhas.

But in the eyes of real Buddhist practitioners?

The Sixth Patriarch Huineng once said in the "Altar Sutra": If you are charming and chant the Buddha, you will live there; enlightened people will purify their minds.

This can be seen.

Everything can only be sought from within, and seeking from oneself is the truth.

It was also after reading a lot of books recently and realizing this that Lee Seung Woo's thinking changed dramatically, and his attitude towards IU and others also changed.

Someone who likes you and affirms your worth is something to be grateful for.

Only with a heart of gratitude, when the other party affirms respect for oneself, also give back to the other party's respect and affirmation, so that the relationship between the two parties can be handled harmoniously and truly enjoy the happiness that this relationship can bring.

otherwise.

It's a big fight for three days, a small fight for two days, and I'm troubled by these trivial matters every day, so why maintain such a relationship, it's tiring.

Lee Seung Woo didn't want this.

He actually knows that the reason why IU is worried about gains and losses, and feels uneasy, is precisely because IU is not sure of her value in his heart, and has always held denial and doubts about himself. This is the real reason why IU's emotions have been volatile during this period.

Before Lee Seung Woo realized this, he didn't quite understand this point, and he just felt bored with IU.

But after Ming realized this, he woke up.

So his purpose tonight is to give IU affirmation, affirm the value of IU in his heart, and then let IU affirm himself, no longer worrying about gains and losses.

At this moment, IU bowed his head to admit his mistake, and also realized the meaning of his words, Lee Seung-woo accepted it as soon as it was good, enough was enough, he neither wanted nor needed to give IU any more embarrassment, the expression on his face changed immediately.

Slowing down his expression, shaking his head with a wry smile, Li Chengyou raised his right hand, gently wiped away the tears on IU's cheek with his thumb, pinched IU's cheek, and said softly: "Silly girl, we have been dating for so long, what kind of person am I?" You still don’t know. If I don’t really like you and you have quarreled with me so many times, how can I have the patience to continue dating you. "

IU greedily grabbed Lee Seung Woo's hand that was pinching her cheek, and said coquettishly: "Okay, okay, I admit I was wrong, I was wrong, okay, I promise I will never do this again."

Li Chengyou smiled and nodded. …

But in his heart, he didn't believe IU's words at all.

Women are emotional creatures, and their emotions are never constant. It is commonplace to like one moment and get angry the next moment.

Anyone who believes a woman's words is really stupid.

and so.

Even if IU admits to being wrong, Lee Seung Woo will not really pretend nothing happened.

As the old saying goes, if a small tree is not pruned, it will be difficult to grow.

Confucius also said that if you don't change your mistakes, you are called mistakes.

To put it simply, it is not called a fault if a person does a wrong thing, but it is called a fault if he does a wrong thing without repenting and commits it again next time.

So how to make a person repent for doing something wrong?

Smart people will watch out for themselves, but not smart people and women... then don't think about it.

To let the person who has done something wrong know how to repent and have a vigilant heart, let him understand that there is a price to pay for doing something wrong, and it is a price that is close at hand. He will learn a lesson only after the pain and distress he has experienced, and he will be restrained the next time he is impulsive.

Lee Seung Woo is going to deal with IU in this way.

Pinching IU's cheek again, Li Chengyou said with a soft smile: "If you can realize your mistakes, it seems that you can still save. But if you make a mistake, you have to accept the punishment. Do you have any opinions on this?"

IU's eyes rolled, and she didn't know where she wanted to go. With a jump, she straddled Li Chengyou's lap, wrapped her hands around his neck, blinked, and said coquettishly, "Okay. I accept the punishment. Then you How are you going to punish me?"

Lee Seung Woo: "..."

You are quite good at making up your mind, and you have a beautiful idea.

It was amused in his heart, but Li Chengyou said calmly, "Since you accept the punishment yourself, then I will express my opinion on punishment."

Hearing this, IU leaned forward, her forehead was close to Li Chengyou's, exhaled like blue, and said in a charming voice: "Okay. I listen. Tell me, how do you want to punish me, I just went to the mall this morning to buy one ..."

Li Chengyou interrupted: "It was previously agreed that I would ask you to sing and shoot the MV of my new movie promotional song. The punishment for your mistake this time is to disqualify you for this time."

"Uh?"

IU was stunned: "...that's it?"

Li Chengyou spread his hands and expressed his affirmation.

IU was speechless.

I was stunned for a moment, and seemed to think of something, and suddenly said: "You disqualify me, who are you going to hand over to sing, it can't be Lin Yun'er, right? Or other women?"

Li Chengyou shook his head resolutely: "Why? Since I promised to give you a song, even if you made a mistake this time and disqualified you this time as a punishment, this song is what I promised you, and I will only give it to you." I will give it to you, and I will never give it to another person. This is the minimum respect for you, and you deserve it."

IU: "..."

When Lee Seung Woo heard the words 'you are worth it', his eyes were wet for a moment, and tears welled up again quietly.

For Li Chengyou, she really didn't ask for much, she just didn't want Li Chengyou to take her love for him for granted, all her sacrifices and all her concern for Li Chengyou were what she should do and should do.She wants to be seen by Lee Seung Woo, see her sincerity, see her dedication, and be able to respond.

Until now, until now, the words 'you are worth it' finally made IU feel relieved.

I finally let IU know that Lee Seung Woo has always known all her thoughts and sacrifices, has always seen and remembered them, and has always responded to her.

just before.

Lee Seung Woo did more than said, so she didn't see it and ignored it.

And now.

Li Chengyou gave her affirmation with actions and words, and she finally knew that she was never a passerby to Li Chengyou.