rebirth of change

The welcome dance ended, and Fan Xuexi drifted back to the stage.

Standing on the stage, Fan Xuexi was illuminated softly and noblely by the lights. On the surface, he was talking to everyone, but her eyes always drifted towards Chen Kangjie, making Chen Kangjie feel that she was just talking to him alone.

After his explanation and introduction, the following is the free dance invitation link, which is the time to really expand everyone's communication and friendship, and it is also the core of a dance party.

At a standard ball, there are many etiquettes to be observed, from gestures to language and dance partners, etc. This is a way of communication that has been passed down from the West, while in Western courts or high society, etiquette is a reflection of a person A better way of self-cultivation and temperament is also a necessary quality.

Generally speaking, the first dance should be danced with one's own dance partner, and then the dance partner should be exchanged until the last song, and then danced with the dance partner for an ending song.Under normal circumstances, the same sex cannot dance together, it will make people feel that the relationship is weird, and the implication is homosexuality.The invitation is mainly for men to invite women. The attitude should be humble and the language should be polite. The lady can refuse or accept it. If two men invite at the same time, the correct way for the lady is to refuse both politely, so as not to embarrass anyone.However, if a woman invites a man, the man cannot refuse, otherwise the task will be extremely rude and lack respect for women.

There are also unwritten requirements for the dress, makeup, and even what to eat before the dance. The simplest thing is not to eat garlic, which is easy to cause bad breath before the dance. Otherwise, anyone who dances with you will be ashamed. is to suffer.

It is precisely because of these various requirements that balls are popular in the upper class, and the distance from ordinary people is relatively far.Ordinary people can't adapt to the rules and regulations that offend people if they are not careful.

"Who will invite you to dance later?" Ding Mingxia asked Kou Min who was beside her when she saw that someone had already stepped onto the dance floor.

"Anyway, I won't dance with the boys in my class." Kou Min didn't answer directly, but her answer was quite clear.

During careful observation just now, Chen Kangjie discovered an expected but somewhat depressing phenomenon.

He found that the polite Japanese students were far more popular than domestic students, and it was not just out of hospitality.Instead, Chen Kangjie saw a kind of inferior admiration for foreigners. Whether it was a boy or a girl, when they talked about these Japanese youths, they either praised or envied them, and some even turned sour.More than once, Chen Kangjie has heard some domestic students say, "He is Japanese... so so, so so, so so Japanese".

It is undeniable that our economy and technology are temporarily behind.But we are also woefully behind on the spiritual level.As we often say, the moon abroad is rounder and brighter than the domestic one.This subtle awareness also exists in the students of prestigious schools like Fudan University.

"That handsome Japanese guy is nice. He was looking this way just now. If he invites you, will you dance or not?" Ding Mingxia pointed behind Chen Kangjie's side.

"I don't even know how to dance, I think if someone invites you, they won't invite me," Kou Min said with a fake sourness.

Chen Kangjie turned his head to look and saw four Japanese boys in black dresses chattering and pointing at the venue.Listening carefully, Chen Kangjie's face almost turned green.

"Mr. Damu, you see that many beautiful girls are looking at you. If you go out, few Chinese women with low self-esteem can stop them."

"Haha, Ono-kun, this is how it is here. We are God. When I was in Tokyo, I told you that women in China are the easiest to handle. As long as you are a foreigner, you can surpass them Wait," said Omu Jun with a hearty smile.

They communicate in authentic Japanese.Everyone here knows some Japanese, but they don't worry about being heard.One is that they speak at a lower volume, and they don't feel they will be heard against the backdrop of the music.Secondly, after a few days of understanding, they know that these students' Japanese is not very good, even if they hear half a sentence occasionally, it's okay.

Unexpectedly, Chen Kangjie not only has a keen hearing, but also his Japanese is quite good, and he heard every sentence accurately.

"I didn't believe it before, but now I believe it. We only have three months to relax," another thin Japanese boy said.

"Hehe, Takeshita, we Japanese girls don't pay much attention to you, but you can play to your fullest in China." The one named Oki pointed to this one named Takeshita and said with a smile.

"Haha, Mr. Damu, that host is not bad. Is this your first choice?" Another person asked.

"It goes without saying that I have been paying attention to it for a long time. Among these girls, this one is the best. He is the candidate for my first girlfriend in China." Damu looked at Fan Xuexi who came down from the stage with great confidence. Said.

Chen Kangjie's heart was really filled with rage, but he really couldn't do anything now.To beat someone up?Inappropriate and messing up someone else's prom scene?To scold each other?It's petty, and it has no effect.

After being depressed for a long time, seeing the two girls who were still discussing enthusiastically in front of him, Chen Kangjie could only sigh helplessly for his lack of self-respect.

"What are you talking about? Didn't anyone invite you to dance?" Fan Xuexi happily returned to his seat. He had completed more than half of today's work. At most, he could do it manually after hosting it at the end.

"We were discussing this, Kou Min said that she only wanted to dance with foreigners, ha ha," Ding Mingxia teased.

"How could I have said that? Don't talk nonsense, I just said that I don't want to dance with my classmates," Kou Min argued irritably.

At this moment, a man with glasses in a white shirt and black trousers walked towards them.

"Kou Min, can I invite you to dance?" The boy was quite polite, and his Mandarin had a strong Northeast flavor.

"I don't know how to dance, He Chang, you should find someone else, lest I step on you", Kou Min uttered this reason very fluently, as if he had already thought of a reason to reject certain people.

"Oh", He Chang lowered his head, replied, turned around and left in disappointment.

"You, you, why don't you give He Chang a chance? You are a real person." Fan Xuexi's ancestral home is also from the Northeast, looking at He Chang's back and pointing to Kou Min to help him.

"But he really isn't my type of cold," Kou Min said frankly.

"Attention, attention, here comes, here comes, the person you want is here," Ding Mingxia touched Kou Min with her left finger and said in a low voice.

Chen Kangjie turned his head slightly, and out of the corner of his eye, he saw those sanctimonious Dongying scumbags straightened their clothes, got up and walked towards them.

"Xuexi, why don't we dance together?" Chen Kangjie turned his head, stretched out his right hand to Fan Xuexi, and said affectionately.

"Ah", Fan Xuexi was a little surprised, he didn't expect Chen Kangjie to invite her at this time.

"Chen Wen, didn't you say you can't dance?" Kou Min stared at Chen Kangjie and said.

"No, can't you still learn?" Chen Kangjie suddenly increased his dislike for Kou Min and the others, so his tone was not very polite.

"You, Xuexi is wearing high heels, what if you step on her, she will fall down", this girl Kou Min is really anxious to catch a mouse.

"Xuexi, can I ask you to dance?" Just when those Japanese were about to arrive in front of Chen Kangjie and the others, Guo Xiaodong stabbed out obliquely, smiling, bowing his body, and politely asked Fan Xuexi Stretching out a hand, he couldn't help but glance at Chen Kangjie.

"Miss, may I be honored to invite you to dance?", the Japanese man named Oki did not see Chen Kangjie and Guo Xiaodong, and stretched out his hand at the right time. It looked very gentlemanly, but in fact it was a kind of The demonstration of lack of education, the Japanese he speaks deliberately, the implication is to tell others that he is Japanese, and he believes that as a Japanese, he will not be rejected.

Fan Xuexi was nervous and surprised, the three asked her to invite her in order, which made her a little at a loss.But out of instinct, he put his hand in Chen Kangjie's.

Chen Kangjie smiled at Guo Xiaodong and the short-sighted Japanese man in protest, and pulled Fan Xuexi away from the chair behind him to stand up.He didn't go towards Guo Xiaodong, but purposely towards Damu.

"Sir, won't you get out of the way? When you come to China, you should understand that our courtesy is that good dogs don't get in the way," Chen Kangjie said provocatively in Chinese.

Chen Kangjie's words startled everyone, including Fan Xuexi. This was simply a naked curse.

"What did you say? I don't understand." After looking around, Damu asked with a smile and doubt.

Chen Kangjie was certain that these little devils who had just arrived in China would not have much knowledge of Chinese, that's why he played such a prank.

Chen Kangjie pursed his lips chicly, and then said in English: "please go away, we're going to dance" (please go away, we're going to dance).

Chen Kangjie didn't use Japanese, but this time the other party understood and said in English: "Sir, it's very impolite for you to treat foreigners like this."

But his companion obviously didn't understand either, staring wide-eyed.That word is relatively uncommon, and Fan Xuexi and the others actually didn't understand it.