rain like flowers

Chapter 216 Liu Ying
"Miao Miao, I like you, I am very happy chatting with you."

"I also like to chat with my sister, and I am also very happy to chat with my sister." The two looked at each other and smiled.

"Then why are you still standing there? Adding WeChat?" Liu Ying's temperament was a bit cold, and she didn't like to discuss matters between men and women, but she still said quickly.The two nodded again and again, and added WeChat to each other.

Liu Shanshan naturally noticed it, but she thought that her sister was born in the 80s after all, so she might not be as straightforward as they were born in the 90s. After all, there is still a generation gap between them, so it's okay?
"Miao Miao, then you haven't gotten married yet, have you ever thought about the reason?" After chewing on the asparagus, Liu Shanshan said to Liu Ying, "Sister, hurry up and eat, this bamboo shoot is very fresh and tender, take care of it quickly, You can eat Miao Miao, too." She said casually, but she actually cared about Miao Miao's answer.

"I think the most fundamental reason is poverty."

Liu Shanshan looked at her, as if she didn't understand what she meant.

"The two older sisters are both from urban areas, with local hukou. My family is from the countryside, with rural hukou. Both sisters have houses at home, and both are paid for in full. What about me? My family is in the countryside, and the rural areas are self-built houses.

There is a younger brother in the family who is married and just had a baby recently. The cost is really too high. Now I can’t afford to raise a child. My younger brother lives in the countryside and works in our county. My sister-in-law is also county seat.

Let her get married, and the family didn't buy a house because they couldn't afford a house. Fortunately, she didn't have to have a house. The car cost more than 8 yuan, and I bought it with my father and younger brother in full.

Adding in the bride price and the wedding mess, it can cost more than 30. That’s my brother’s business. Me, think about my current monthly salary. Although I do sales, the average monthly salary is more than 6000. , The company, the current salary, it can't be said to be good, and it can't be said to be bad, at least it is a weekend.

Usually, I can still exercise sometimes, and then I can still meet the people introduced in the village, but in fact, when I get married, I will think about facing the problems of house, car and raising children. I feel that the pressure is really great. "

"You don't have to worry about the house, the house is basically bought by the man." Liu Ying asked confused.

"The ones introduced by my family either have low education, low wages, or work in the county. It only costs more than 5000 yuan a month. After all, I work in Xi'an. According to the current prices and house prices in Xi'an, the salary is not enough. It’s really stretched, and when I think of the pressure of life, I feel that getting married is quite boring.”

"Then what kind of boy does Miao Miao want to find?"

"I think, at least it depends on the height and appearance. I am 1.6 meters five, and naturally the height of boys should not be less than 1.7 meters. Now my income is about 6000 yuan a month. I hope that boys can earn at least 8000 yuan, or even 1 yuan a month. The salary is not too much.

There is nothing else left, and I don't ask for the other party's garage, as long as you can talk to me, share the same three views, be willing to get married and have children, and work together. "

"I think the woman's requirements are actually quite low." Hearing what Miao Miao said, Liu Shanshan felt that her requirements were really quite low, at least not requiring the man to buy a house, which is very low.

"Miao Miao, you can't think like this. You have to find someone in Xi'an who has a car and a house, and whose parents have pensions, and who doesn't have to live with the man's parents. Look for it.

My friend was born in 87, and I found someone who lived in 80. Although the man is a little older, he has a good family, with a car and a house. After she got married, she took care of the baby full-time at home, and the man paid back the money a month. Her living expenses of 6000 yuan were only for her.

What's wrong with you, why don't you want a house, and where will you live if you don't want a house after giving birth?Live in a rented house?I want to be kicked out by the landlord for the rest of my life. In fact, you rural girls are very popular now. Now those only children are not as good as you. The high-quality men in Xi’an also like rural girls. Do you know why? "

Miao Miao looked at Liu Ying in surprise and shook her head.

"Because the only children in the city are difficult to take care of, they are spoiled and lose their tempers since they were young, and those only children feel that there is less work to find a rural place, they are obedient, love to do housework, and don't have so much thought.

It is best to give them two children, one son and one daughter would be even better, and in fact, you don’t need to lose weight, it’s good to be fatter, at least it proves that you are in good health, and it’s no problem to have children if you are in good health. Like a rod, I must be on a deliberate diet, and my health is not very good. The man also wants to find a slightly fat person who is suitable for having children.Miao Miao, try hard to find, in fact, you have an advantage. "

"You don't believe me? That's what the matchmaker said. In fact, Xi'an has a registered permanent residence, a garage in the local area, parents who both work and have pensions, and a monthly income of more than [-] can be called a high-quality man in the eyes of the matchmaker. Don't worry, otherwise You can just find a matchmaker to introduce you, and there are many ways, so it’s not a solution to search aimlessly, but I’ll be honest, rural girls really have an advantage now, and they are especially popular.”

"Actually, I also think what my sister said is right. Men still have to own a house. Miao Miao is very good. Girls with an average income of around [-] now require boys to earn more than [-]. What's more, your salary is higher than theirs. " Liu Shanshan also said gently, she also felt that boys must have a house.

"Actually, it is difficult to achieve class leap through marriage, right?"

"What are you talking about? My sister is someone who has been here. You are right. You think a man is in his 30s, his salary is less than 1 yuan, and he doesn't even have a car. Then what did he do before he was 30? What happened to his parents?
Can't afford a house and pay a down payment, right?Now the housing price in Xi'an, you can always save it after a down payment of 30 over the years, right?Can't even save 30 for a family in ten years?so poor?What kind of life do you want to live with such a poor man?
What kind of life will your children be able to live in the future? People go to high places, water flows to low places, what is the capital of women, don't you know yet?Besides, this is not called crossing classes, you are now hovering at the food and clothing line.

Those high-quality men are only of mediocre condition. Isn't it good to talk about crossing classes, and to go up to a higher level?Sometimes women's careers are down, but they have to rely on men, and there is nothing wrong with relying on men?

You said that you have to rely on a man to give birth to a child, and you have to raise your child during breastfeeding after giving birth. Don’t believe me about the money for diapers and milk powder. With your 6000 yuan, it’s probably not enough for diapers and milk powder. Yes, my sister told you the truth, do you think I lied to you? "

(End of this chapter)