The origin of the star lotus world

Text Chapter 620 Two

Hearing Lin Qisheng's support and encouragement to the author, I nodded and said it would be fine, it would be very, very good.

I mentioned some of the things I mentioned before, added some details, and repeated them again. It was in such a slow telling style that some things were mentioned again and again.The parents of the newlyweds mentioned were indeed divorced. The fat aunt in her hometown divorced early, and her son lived with his father and stepmother. The stepmother was also divorced, took the children, and established a new family with the fat aunt's ex-husband.Although the child often came back to meet his biological mother and the relationship was good, the aunt did not get the custody of the child. This was a big blow to the aunt. She did not have that much money and did not have her own house, so she did not win the custody of her own flesh and blood. , it is a pity that I did not often accompany my children during their growth period.After a man and woman divorce, some mothers regard the custody rights of their children as very important, and some fathers want to fight for custody rights. The party without custody rights should provide appropriate support according to what he or she can do until the children reach adulthood. When you are in college, your parents can still give you some pocket money.Like the author, in this life, although the mother has a bad temper and always wants to quarrel, she still wants custody of the child after the divorce. The father has never thought of asking for custody, but he can give two or three years of child support to the child. Until adulthood, children spend a lot of money to go to school, so they are considered qualified. Precisely because they have merit, no matter how bad their conduct is, they can still live. It’s just that they did a lot of bad things in the middle and later stages. The consequences of evil are also caused by yourself, and you will not be short of what you deserve. , you must bear the responsibility for your sins.Just because you have made meritorious deeds does not mean you can do evil things in the future, and no one can just rest on their laurels.Good deeds and evil deeds will be rewarded. You must know when enough is enough, and there is no room for things you cannot do.The fat aunt’s monthly salary is 3000 yuan. How long does it take to save 3 yuan? Her son knows that the aunt also spent her own money to organize a thank-you banquet. The venue and catering are not inferior to ordinary family wedding banquets. There are also receptions for friends, which is to entertain relatives and friends according to the wedding banquet of common family weddings, and everyone celebrates.The aunt gave herself dignity, and also gave her precious son dignity, and the subsequent wedding will be quite decent. Although the aunt's son's ex-husband remarried, he did not have any more children. Of course, he was willing to spend money to hold a proper wedding for his only son. It’s not that I don’t do business, I don’t have as much money as before. Maybe a wedding will cost a lot of money. Others can spend hundreds of thousands or millions, and wealthy families can do the same.My mother’s niece, her parents also had failed marriages and divorced very early. Her parents divorced when she was in elementary school. Men and women always fight over various things. Sometimes, they fight. The woman has a hot temper and even attacks the man. Water was poured on him, causing scars.After divorce, both men and women found partners, but later they separated and did not remarry and start a family.Her mother is very strict with her, but she loves her children very much. The father does not pay much for child support. During the adjustment, the man promised to give her monthly money, but was irresponsible. The younger sister had to bear the responsibility. .A man thinks that his sister's child is an outsider, but he is truly loved by the child's grandparents. This is not what he should be. If his sister has money, why doesn't she give it to her brother who has the same mother?No matter how much money or effort is given, it is not enough. The man’s mother always said that his daughter should help more and more, and whoever is able will help. She did not want to let the elder brother help his sister. Instead, she thought that her daughter can make money. There is a family at home. Brother, how can you not help?As if not giving him a fraction of his property was not enough, why would his elder brother become such a scoundrel?Because of his bad nature, selfishness, and the constant pampering and connivance of his mother, he felt that it was enough to deceive his relatives professionally for decades and bully them because others could not afford to offend him.The man's entire clothing factory collapsed. He couldn't be the boss, so he complained that his sister didn't help. Later, he simply stopped working all year round and asked his sister to provide money to support the family. He felt that if he had money, he should give money, and if he didn't have money, he should borrow money. Give.The man's wife was so angry that she didn't care much about the woman's daughter because someone else's child was more favored by her ancestors. She got into a fight with her father-in-law and mother-in-law, and even smashed the windows of the house. They got into such a quarrel that they got divorced later.A woman’s daughter needs money, and the father is not working, but the man’s sister is doing business. She wants money, and it’s understandable. She feels that the marriage has failed, and she must be compensated. It’s like the daughter born to a man and a woman is actually born to the sister’s family. He is an orthodox being who can carry on the family line, even his younger sister's children cannot compare.Because of these complicated and entangled things, the husband of the man's sister was very dissatisfied. He always quarreled with his wife. It was not easy to make money, but he had to give money to his wife's family all the year round. In the long run, no one wanted to do so, and because of many other things, they divorced. .The little girl’s mother, it’s not easy for a woman to work hard to raise a child. She has gone through a lot of hardships. Her ex-husband’s sister used to be able to give some money, but then she went bankrupt, so what money can she give?A woman has to take care of her relatives, and the amount of money she can give is limited. She cannot blame her heartless ex-husband, so she has to do something on her own, such as running a small shop, to at least maintain the livelihood of her mother and daughter, although they are not well off. , but at least it has passed. I think that for this wedding, the woman contributed money and effort, treating it as the biggest thing in the family these years. When the daughter got married, the man only gave 5000 yuan. This obviously cannot satisfy the thoughtful daughter. Since it is not Satisfied, my little cotton-padded jacket won’t keep me warm anymore. For some things, you have to blame yourself, don’t rely on others.During the years when the child was growing up, the man failed to fulfill his obligation to raise his daughter and did not pay the required child support, which led to many disasters. The daughter fell ill many times and did not have much money for treatment. Relatives had to chip in, and the man later made money to compensate. Daughter, some feelings are not so easy to mend.Although the woman is violent and irritable, the daughter is still very dependent on her mother. For her father, she only laughs when he takes money, and sometimes ignores her father if he doesn't take money.Some people who have gone through similar situations and experiences may do the same, and they may not be able to do very well.The little girl looks weak on the outside, maybe she is just pretending. She always loves to fantasize and likes to watch idol dramas. Later, her fantasies really come true. She finds an ideal loving partner. Her frequent dreams and fantasies may really come true. , of course, a certain amount of effort must be made, and rare opportunities should be seized.The little girl's husband's parents were also divorced, and her father remarried and had a child, but he still gave hundreds of thousands to his eldest son from his ex-wife, fulfilling his responsibilities as a father. This is quite good, and the family conditions are acceptable.The woman said that the bride price would be double that of an ordinary family in order to get married, and the man gave it, which shows that the relationship is real. How many couples have not reached an agreement because of the issue of the amount of the bride price, and have broken up after reaching the stage of discussing marriage. Not every man can agree to a woman's demands for more betrothal gifts. If it's true love, even if you chip in the money, you have to try your best to meet the requirements. The reason why you can give so much accommodation is because it's based on feelings, so many things are easy to discuss.The aunt of my mother's old neighbor was imprisoned for making mistakes in her middle age. Her parents were heartbroken and died one after another. When the family was in trouble, her husband divorced. It's true that husband and wife are birds in the same forest. When disaster strikes, they fly separately. Things like that That’s quite a lot!When one party is in trouble, the other party may not come to help each other, but may just walk away. In times of trouble, true love is seen.Fortunately, the woman's son was very enterprising and had a career. The aunt later got married and was said to be doing well, and her son's wedding was fine.My mother’s domineering friend, that woman gave her daughter 200 million in cash. Forty banquet tables were set up for one party at the wedding alone, and dozens more for the other party. The banquet included high-end seafood, which was far more expensive than ordinary wedding catering. The original price of a souvenir was 200 yuan, which shows how much money was spent on the wedding. The father remarried a young woman and had a young son. He might not give that much money to his daughter, but It can be seen that she also loves and cares for her daughter. The more money she gets as a mother, the daughter will be happy. Who cares more about her naturally knows it. At the wedding ceremony, her daughter said in front of the emcee that she was lucky and thanked her mother and daughter. fate.The woman spent so much money, no matter whether the woman her ex-husband married later was present or not, she didn't feel stage fright. She specially invited many relatives and friends to celebrate, there were hundreds of them.The original couples in these families are all divorced, and each has his own love and hatred. They all experience the joys and sorrows, the complicated grudges, and the intricate right and wrong. Some families have sutras that are difficult to recite. But what needs to be faced still needs to be faced.Those parents are divorced, but they all want their children to have a happy and long-lasting marriage.If parents have an unhappy marriage, their children are likely to be affected. Some people will want to have someone to rely on. Some people will be afraid of marriage and don't want to make the same mistakes again. Just like parents who are always at war, some people will try their best to maintain the marriage relationship after marriage. , do not want their children to live in a single-parent family, of course, the companionship and education of both parents who live in harmony are more conducive to the growth of the children.

"Yesterday was the fifteenth anniversary of my grandfather's death. It has been 15 years since my grandfather passed away. The author will remember this day every year in these years. I would like to thank my grandfather for his kindness and care for me in the past 20 years. A virtuous man, Those who are highly virtuous and highly respected will be rewarded for being good. If you treat them kindly to the end and start well and end well, you will get the same rewards, and you may get more rewards and compensations. Treat them with all your strength and leave no evil behind. In future memories, it will be difficult to find the bad ones. When I think about it, it means good. I am willing to recall it for many years and be grateful for many years. Yesterday, the author woke up at about 24 o'clock in the morning and had plans to eat at the buffet. He read the two recent chapters first and went to take a shower at about 40 o'clock in the morning. Some breast enlargement exercises, specially sprayed with high-end men's perfume. Because the weather outside is sunny and sunny, the day before yesterday was the cold dew solar term, the temperature dropped. Cold dew is one of the [-] solar terms. After the cold dew, the temperature will continue to drop, and it has entered autumn. In the middle and late stages, it will be the beginning of winter in about a month. I ate fried cumin chicken tenders with a lot of tomato sauce for supper the day before yesterday, and drank grape juice and orange juice. I finished reading the recent chapters of the Star Lotus story in the afternoon and originally wanted to go out to eat. , I thought about eating a hot pot. After the delivery man delivered it, I stewed chicken lotus root balls, beef luncheon meat, lamb rolls and cabbage slices in a soup pot. I put a spoonful of salt in it and had the original hot pot dipping sauce. The overall taste Not bad. I watched the news. Conflicts broke out repeatedly in some areas, and there were always victims. In some countries, there were bad shootings, which made some people feel shocked and panic. Then I watched the closing ceremony of the Asian Games. The opening ceremony was beautiful. Romantic, sunny and cheerful, showing the charm of oriental poetry, the closing ceremony has a feeling of farewell. The closing ceremony was held in the night-lit venue of the continental garden to congratulate the athletes and congratulate [-]% of the participating teams for winning medals. It is said that this is the Asian Games with the largest scale and the highest ratings so far. It fully demonstrated the sports style of the continent and refreshed some sports records. Because the sun was shining at noon yesterday, I did not wear a jacket, wearing short sleeves, and Big three-color stone Pixiu necklace. I went out at around [-]:[-] noon. There was a breeze outside, but the sun was surprisingly bright. It felt a bit like the sunshine in early autumn. This was very strange. I was wearing short sleeves, so it couldn’t be said to be cold, but most people outside were wearing jackets. Although it gets more sun at noon, it may cool down after noon. On a street, when passing a traffic light, of course you have to stand at the zebra crossing and wait for the light to change before you can cross. There are not many cars at that time, but you can't wait and you have to obey the traffic. Rules. There is a woman wearing a pink trench coat and a hood, with a machine or a mobile phone with a case tied to her left arm. That person does not look around, no matter how many cars are passing by normally, if it were not for the person traveling next to her, A very thin middle-aged man wearing a hat quickly stopped him. He seemed too unsafe. He dared to pass directly when he saw the vehicles around him. This is rare. Most people don’t want to get into a traffic accident, so of course they actively avoid the vehicles. , instead of letting multiple moving cars hide from you. It was already noon, and the managers of the open-air market were urging vendors to close their stalls, because there were still customers coming to the market to view and buy goods, and some vendors were delaying closing their stalls until the end. There is a person wearing yellow clothes and a helmet. He is an employee of a food delivery software. He is anxiously riding a motorcycle to deliver goods. He is still carrying the goods in his hand and putting them in the storage box behind the motorcycle. But the driver of the car stopped him, saying that he had reached the car and would not let him go, even if he was in a hurry to deliver the goods.There was a man wearing a helmet and black clothes. He looked down at his mobile phone while walking. He didn't look around at all. He didn't care about the passing of pedestrians and motorcycles. He didn't care about bumping into people and didn't seem to worry about being bumped into. It seems that others have to take the initiative to avoid others, and men have to be busy checking orders on their mobile phones. However, if something goes wrong, it is not entirely the other person’s responsibility. Walking for a long time without raising your head or paying attention to your surroundings is also responsible. This is for the safety of yourself and others. It's understandable to be irresponsible and busy taking orders and delivering goods, but you must pay attention to travel safety. "You are responsible for yourself and others. Safety is the most important thing when traveling.