The Pastoral Wife: Holding the Doll and becoming the richest man

Chapter 201 The problem of children's education

Li Zhirui's resolute refusal made Ming Xiaoxiao panic for no reason. She knew that no matter how much these three children asked, there would be no result?So give these three children a step down.

"No matter what, we will not deliberately hide it from you. As for you to find out by yourself, it is your own ability. If you can't find out this matter, don't ask." Ming Xiaoxiao has no trust in Li Zhirui. No reservations, so if Li Zhirui didn't tell her about it, she just waited for Li Zhirui.

Li Zhirui naturally has nothing to hide from Ming Xiaoxiao, but this matter is a surprise she wants to give Ming Xiaoxiao, because he remembers that Ming Xiaoxiao's birthday is coming soon.

In the previous year, Ming Xiaoxiao never mentioned it, and before that person’s birthday, he didn’t know if it was a day with sister Ming Xiaoxiao, so he didn’t dare to talk about it, but later Ming Xiaoxiao gave When he named his daughter, he heard Ming Xiaoxiao enviously say that he was born in winter, it was cold, and the season of his daughter's birth was just right, so he decided on it. Later, he asked Ming Xiaoxiao, and his birthday was here It’s been a few days nearby, and after a good date is confirmed, he wants to finish the third-generation loom that Ming Xiaoxiao made before. Even if he doesn’t use it now, he will use it in the future, so he has been sneaking around Ready, did not tell Ming Xiaoxiao.

Ming Xiaoxiao doesn’t remember her birthday anymore, it’s already November, and November in the lunar calendar is very cold, she doesn’t care much about her birthday, because she didn’t have any relatives when she was very young, so give There are very few opportunities for Ming Xiaoxiao to celebrate her birthday. It must have been a few years in college, but she didn't really care about it.

Li Zhirui wanted to hide it from Ming Xiaoxiao, but he didn't want Ming Xiaoxiao to misunderstand, so he explained to Ming Xiaoxiao anxiously. Sneaky!It really needs to be investigated carefully, but the problems these children are worried about are unnecessary.

Li Zhirui passed the test temporarily, and breathed a sigh of relief. The three children didn't dare to be aggressive anymore, but looked at their mother with aggrieved eyes. They were obviously thinking of their mother. How could it seem like they had done something wrong by themselves? ?
After solving the children's questions, Ming Xiaoxiao also put forward some suggestions for their recent homework, such as: Li Haochen's foundation is relatively solid, but he is a bit inflexible in learning!Wen Xiyao knows how to be flexible and has methods, but this word cannot be practiced steadily!Wen Liming did a good job in all aspects, but some debates made him difficult. This kid is a bit paranoid!
Ming Xiaoxiao talked about the children's current problems, and gave her suggestions to let them try to change their current situation in a different way. The three children also wrote it down seriously, and they are going to go back and try. .

Today's evening meeting was finally over, but the two adults made the children's questions almost helpless.Ming Xiaoxiao thinks that these kids are really smart, and why their news network is so developed?What they didn't even notice was that they were able to find out.

"Smile, I want to chat with you." Li Zhirui made the request very seriously. She felt that there was something wrong with the current life style of these children.

"what's wrong?"

"These children are currently having certain problems in their studies, but they are still being implemented. I think our housekeeper policy has delayed their studies. Look, or you can take over this matter and let them take care of themselves. Learn some ways of governing the country from your master?"

Li Zhirui said it cautiously, and after raising this point, he immediately explained: "I don't mean to belittle women, don't get me wrong, I think it's better for you to take the initiative in some matters of our family, otherwise If not, these children have a problem with Runrun, and it is really impossible to tell them frankly."

Ming Xiao smiled and nodded. This is indeed part of her worry. The children know more and more things now, and after studying in the town, their social circle is getting wider and wider. So, it means that other Miscellaneous matters will also cause some disturbance to them, if Ming Xiaoxiao wants to be a hands-off shopkeeper again, it is likely to have some impact on them.

"I wanted to train them at the beginning, but today's situation is really unexpected. I think this matter really needs to be considered in the long run, and what they need to care about in the future is bigger things. My little farmer doesn't need to They're worried."

Ming Xiaoxiao hasn't come up with a specific charter yet, but he just thinks that if the children take care of the housework, their horizons may be limited. Now they should focus on the big things instead of focusing on these small things at home.

Of course, Ming Xiaoxiao also feels ashamed to be exposed by his son today, can't these brats pay attention to the way they speak?Saying it so directly, where is she going to put her face as a mother?
A little lesson is fine.

The three little guys are also having a meeting in their room at this time.

"Aren't we a little aggressive today? What if Mother and the others really have something they can't talk about? You must know that the relationship between adults is quite complicated. Shouldn't we let go sometimes?"

Li Haochen felt a little inappropriate, because what they said today and what they found out had been verified by many parties, but it was directly brought to the family meeting and it was obvious that mother and father were not very happy, although they finally solved part of it for them Things, but it seems that my proposal made my parents a little embarrassed.

"I don't think it's nothing. These things and these problems already exist. It's not that if we don't talk about it, he will disappear. If Dad and Mother can't accept it, they have already refused to answer us. Besides, since it is made We ask questions, then we speak up, why not?"

Wen Liming didn't quite agree with what Li Haochen said, because he didn't want to put a grain of sand in his eyes. Although his parents were definitely doing it for their own good, there were some potential problems that must be resolved.

"My suggestion is don't do this thing anymore, otherwise you will anger your parents, and we probably won't be able to eat it all. Don't forget that mother has a lot of thoughts, how could we have played with him? "

Wen Xiyao didn't quite agree with Wen Liming's words, but he also felt that Li Haochen's way of solving the problem was too ruined, so he simply suggested not to do these things anymore, otherwise, it would easily arouse his mother's dissatisfaction.

The three brothers discussed this issue, but they didn't reach a unified conclusion in the middle of the night, but Ming Xiaoxiao managed to figure out some things through thinking in the middle of the night.

These children are managing something for the first time, and they are in high spirits. If I cancel them hastily, it will definitely hit them, and it may cause a crisis of trust.

The world of children is always relatively simple. If a problem is brought up and solved, even if the matter is over, but the problem has been endured and not solved directly, they will feel very wronged. After a long time, there will be shadows in their hearts .

Ming Xiaoxiao didn't want the children to have any other thoughts about him because of this incident, and these children did a good job, so he didn't have to let them suffer this kind of harm.

"Sister, I have a plan, do you want to listen to it?" Ming Xiaoxiao decisively reminded Li Zhirui who was sleeping soundly next to him. Li Zhirui rubbed his sleepy eyes and responded immediately: "Okay!"

"We can slowly guide them to do it. The biggest problem now is that they don't know how to communicate with us. Although they have the ability to investigate things, they haven't learned how to solve them. method."

"These young ones are favored by the current sage. If we don't teach well, we will definitely complain."

Ming Xiaoxiao suddenly felt a lot of pressure, but he already had some ideas, so he just waited for Li Zhirui to give him some questions and suggestions, and then perfected them.

"It doesn't matter who they are in the future? They are all your sons now, so what's wrong with you, a mother, taking care of them?" Li Zhirui knew that Ming Xiaoxiao had always advocated giving children an equal status, but there are some things children are a little bit I don't know the background, although they didn't deliberately hide the children, but he saw that sentence in the book before, it was well said: if the king does not keep secrets, he will lose his ministers, if his ministers do not keep secrets, he will lose his status, and if he does not keep secrets, he will succeed Harmful!

There are some things that cannot be explained clearly to the children, so Ming Xiaoxiao doesn't have to be so distressed at all.

"What you said is wrong. If these children didn't plan to give them some autonomy from the beginning, I would be the traditional type in doing so. Parents are okay, but I have given them some autonomy. Telling them they are free and then suddenly overturning everything they knew and taking back their rights is devastating to them!"

Ming Xiaoxiao went on to say: "Although the current situation of these cubs is very troublesome, I am very pleased to find that they have their own ideas and the ability to distinguish right from wrong, which is very rare for children who are six years old and almost seven years old. , I don’t want them to wipe out this autonomy, and I don’t want to hurt any of them’s worldview and values.”

"I hope that I love them, and they love me, so that they can feel respected. In the future, I can no longer go away because I want to manage him and them better, and persecute their hearts."

Li Zhirui looked at him helplessly, the serious little wife also compromised, nodded, Ming Xiaoxiao didn't want to hurt the children, and he didn't want Ming Xiaoxiao to worry, so what Ming Xiaoxiao wanted to do, he first A support would be nice.

The next day, just after school, Ming Xiaoxiao called the three children together.

As an adult, it is very simple to know what they did in the academy this day, but they smiled and didn't want to do this before, but now that these children have begun to have this kind of After getting used to following and studying people, Ming Xiaoxiao was about to make a move.

The three children felt very uncomfortable listening to their mother counting their small mistakes one by one, and criticizing them severely.

The three children invariably thought of asking Xiyao, what they said last night, as expected, the mother's counterattack started, it was too naive, can't it be done in another way?In this way, they are very boring, and some behaviors are not what they seem on the surface at all. For example, they deliberately snatched the rice from the young master of the Zhang family because there was chronic poison in his rice. After Li Haochen smelled it , just snatched the meal away, and finally, gave him half of his own meal, mother, why don't you look at the next thing?Always clinging to the things in front of me, and such things, no matter how big or small!
Ming Xiaoxiao paused, and after criticizing, the three children all lowered their heads. This lethargic feeling made Li Zhirui understand that Ming Xiaoxiao took him to explain how serious the psychological blow was for a long time last night.

"Mother said this not to punish you, but to let you feel what you feel in your heart."

"As your guardian, it is also the first time for me to take care of children of your age. If there is anything that is not in place, I also want you to give me advice, but I know that there are some things that you do not do well. I also want to Let me explain it to you, but there are some things you don’t know, if you haven’t experienced them.”

Ming Xiaoxiao squatted in front of the three children, then raised his head and looked at the three of them sincerely.

"Are you feeling aggrieved? All the things have been inquired about by others, and they have been said directly in front of everyone. Some things are hard for you to say, because you don't do this, the following things You can’t follow up, but if someone raises it directly, you will feel very embarrassed and wronged.”

"What you did yesterday was not wrong at all, but you ignored the problem of human nature. The communication between us and others is mutual. If this person is closely related to us and needs us to get along with each other for a long time, then our You have to change the way you do things.”

"I don't object to your ability to detect things, and I'm very pleased that you can analyze some of the current dynamics of our family from a few words spoken by others at such an age. You are better than children of the same age, but I want to tell you something, it’s good to raise issues where you can’t handle them properly, but if you can’t see what’s going on behind the scenes, and this person happens to be something you trust, then give her some time."

"Let him prove that he is worthy of your trust! But at the same time, he must be prepared second-hand to avoid being hurt by others."

After hearing what their mother said, the three children looked at their mother in shock. It turned out that the mother really did not want to simply revenge them, but to teach them some other things, and these things were never taught to them by their husband and wife. .

All three children nodded silently, and these words had a profound impact on the three children.

(End of this chapter)