mortal train conductor

Chapter 385 Live out your sense of self and forcefully break through the kidnapping
The so-called moral kidnapping, in Liu Qun's understanding, is that some self-righteous people in the name of self-righteous so-called "morality" use those standards that are too high and unrealistic to demand and coerce others and want to A phenomenon whereby the behavior of others is influenced.

Liu Qun does not want to be influenced by other people's kidnapping behavior to influence his own free behavior.

Liu Qun has read a lot of books. At this time, he remembered Hu Shi, a great scholar in the period of the Republic of China, once said: If everyone talks about rules instead of morality, society will eventually become a normal society with human taste, and morality will naturally will gradually return, and if everyone does not talk about rules, but talks about morality, it will eventually degenerate into a dirty society full of hypocrites.

This is because if there is no restriction, the so-called morality is allowed to override the rules. In this way, whoever thinks he occupies the moral high ground can carry out moral kidnapping as he pleases.

To put it bluntly, in fact, some people are accustomed to using the standards of saints and supermen to measure others, ask others, and let others treat themselves like saints and supermen, such as "you should help me if you have money"; I demand myself according to the standards of a bitch, and let myself live a free and easy life.

These people often force others to achieve unfair and unjust goals of harming others and benefiting themselves in the name of what they think is moral and kind.

In fact, morality is used to restrain those who have made mistakes or are about to make mistakes. These people can use the concept of general morality to restrain themselves from making mistakes as much as possible or to quickly remedy them after making mistakes, so as to abide by morality. Definitely not for kidnapping innocent people.

Some people say that in the face of moral kidnapping, each of us must have the courage to resist, even have the courage to break through the kidnapping, and finally have the courage to be ready to be accused by hypocrites.

For example, in an incident reported on the Internet a while ago, a girl unfortunately suffered from a terminal illness. Her family was heavily in debt after spending more than 10 yuan. , cost about 20 yuan.

Some netizens offered advice and suggestions like this: "We find out the lottery winner who bought a lottery ticket and ask him to donate to save a life."

Coincidentally, there happened to be a lottery player who won a high bonus, and several netizens came to the betting station wearing masks, and pulled up messages like "Save the little girl, lend a helping hand, and raise a hand." A banner for help, appealing to the person who just won a huge jackpot to donate to save lives.

The continuous fermentation of this matter has triggered discussions about moral kidnapping. Some netizens said that this is a kind of moral kidnapping that imposes self-righteous social moral pressure on the winners. It is an act of public order and good customs, which is to force others to donate, which is annoying.

Is it wrong for someone to buy a lottery ticket and win a prize?It is the winner's freedom to donate or not.Buying lottery tickets already supports welfare undertakings. The words "with little effort" should not be used as a rhetoric for moral kidnapping, they are just modest words from well-intentioned people.

Liu Qun also encountered this kind of moral kidnapping case while working on the train.

On that day, Michelle Ye, the conductor of carriage 13, reported to Liu Qun that there was a dispute among the passengers in the carriage, and asked Liu Qun to mediate.

When Liu Qun and Sergeant Zhang came to the No. 13 carriage, an aunt in her 50s was holding a seven or eight-year-old girl by one hand, and was accusing a young man who was half lying on the lower berth.

Xuan Ye quietly told Liu Qun and Sergeant Zhang the whole story. This middle-aged woman with her child was in the middle berth. When she saw the young man in the lower berth, she proposed to change the berth.

Well, if you talk about it well, this young man will exchange it with you in all likelihood, even if the price difference between the middle berth and the lower berth is 10 yuan, he may not ask you.

But the fault lies in the tone and attitude of this middle-aged woman. She tried to morally kidnap this young man, but this young man will not accept your approach at all.

It seems that she said this at the time: "Young man, you are alone, go to the middle berth. You see, I am so old, and I have a child with me. I will sleep in your lower berth."

No one would be happy to hear this kind of tone—are you ordering me to change berths with you?

The young man refused on the grounds that he did not sleep well and often got up to go to the bathroom.In this way, as if stabbing a hornet's nest, the middle-aged woman began to accuse her of the attempted moral kidnapping.

"Look at you, this young man has no humanity or morality at all. As a Chinese, how can you be so rude? You should take the initiative to change berths with me, you know? To know how to respect the old and love the young, look at us One is old and the other is young, it’s fine if you don’t take the initiative to respect them, but I propose to change them with you now, but you don’t want to change them, so tell me, do you have any sense of public morality?”

The young man didn't refute at first, thinking that she would leave after saying a few words, but unexpectedly, the middle-aged woman became more and more enthusiastic with her words, so that someone called the conductor Michelle Ye over. , Michelle Ye's matter had developed to this point, and she was powerless to persuade her, so she immediately reported to Liu Qun, and stepped forward to appease the two passengers, but had little effect.

The middle-aged women are chattering and accusing, while the young men are just saying a few words from time to time: "You have a sense of public morality, just go to the hard-seat car and change to an elderly person to come and rest. You don't want to sleep in a sleeper?"

They also took pictures with their mobile phones, capturing the pious faces of middle-aged women.

After Liu Qun and Police Chief Zhang understood what was going on, they didn't like the middle-aged woman either.The young man was allowed to shoot there for more than 10 minutes.

Originally, the passenger flow was not very large that day, but if the office seats on the train figured out a way, it would be possible to change to the lower berth for middle-aged women.But Liu Qun did not do this, but quietly used a video recorder to record the whole process.

Liu Qun stepped forward to talk to the middle-aged woman when she said she was tired.

"Sister, think about it in another way. The person who refuses to change the berth is really not wrong at all. And you, as the person who asked to change the berth, were actually not wrong at the beginning.

But if you tell the passengers in the lower berth so confidently, it is a big mistake to directly ask the young passengers sleeping in the lower berth to make way for you on the grounds that you are old and uncomfortable with your children. Although everyone can understand your feelings, it is friendship when someone changes berths with you, and it is their duty not to change berths with you. Refusing is also a legitimate right of the youth in the lower berth, and no one has the right to violate it. "

In the end, Liu Qun did not adjust the middle-aged woman to the lower berth, but let her rest in the middle berth.For this kind of person who wields a moral stick at will and kidnaps others at will, Liu Qun doesn't have the slightest affection, so he doesn't change berths for her.

Through this Wang Qianjun, Liu Qun recalled many things about moral kidnapping, but he never expected that someone would be so blind to kidnap him.

Liu Qun coughed, cleared his throat, and said to Wang Qianjun: "Wang Che, forgive me for this matter. I don't have time to treat guests, and I don't want to treat guests. If you really want to eat, I'll give you one yuan. Please have a meal at the Harmony Garden Hotel (Duanguan Canteen)."

After finishing speaking, Liu Qun didn't wait for Wang Qianjun's response, and said directly: "That's it for Wang Che first, I'm in a hurry, goodbye!"

After putting down the phone, Liu Qun did not feel any psychological pressure, but instead felt refreshed.

In fact, Liu Qun didn’t do too much. I didn’t provoke anyone or provoke anyone. You ran over and seemed to be standing on the high ground of morality. You wanted to kidnap me. I’ll push you back. You should bear the heart-warming depression yourself. .

(End of this chapter)