mortal train conductor
Chapter 386
Chapter 386
After Liu Qun hung up Wang Qianjun's call, he didn't have any psychological burden, and he didn't have the thought of being afraid of offending the other party because he slapped him hard.
It's like this in life, some people are not necessarily bad people, it's just that their words and actions are the habit of being sloppy.
If you don't clearly explain your interests to him, he won't understand your true thoughts, and he will always think that everyone in the world thinks the same way and lives the same way as him.
After a while, Wang Qianjun actually sent another WeChat message——Liu Che, you are cruel, so please don’t invite me if you don’t invite me, and invite me to the canteen of the unit for dinner. It seems that you are good at business, but you don’t pay much attention to documents study.Didn't you read the document that was just conveyed at the shift meeting this morning?From now on, meals are free for the flight crew, and you don't have to invite me if you want.
When Liu Qun saw Wang Qianjun's WeChat message, he couldn't laugh or cry.
I have to admit that this Wang Qianjun's psychological quality seems to be much stronger than his own. If he encounters the situation where the other party is so stubborn and hangs up the phone, even if he does not say that he has broken up with the other party, he will have to be cold for a while. This Wang Qianjun Fortunately, he didn't take his words and deeds seriously at all, what should be done or what should be done, in this regard, Liu Qun felt that he was inferior to Wang Qianjun.
Faced with such a colleague with extremely high psychological quality, Liu Qun could only respond with a wry smile, and returned a smiling face casually.
Liu Qun looked at the WeChat group of the team, and there really was this file.In order to reflect the care of the organization, the Railway Bureau Group Company and Duan Shang actually tilted the subsidy to the front-line crew members, and specially made regulations. One free meal.
If Liu Qun's team has car inspection work after returning to the car, they will also provide a corresponding number of free meals to the car inspection staff according to the normal meal time during the car inspection time period.
I have to admit that Wang Qianjun is very well informed about this person, just like the last time I was interviewed by the administrative supervision of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, it was Wang Qianjun who first revealed the news to himself.Although not all of the information he disclosed was true, but after all, he had obtained gossip, and it could be seen that this person still had a certain amount of energy.
Although his moral kidnapping just now was annoying, but Liu Qun still saw a bright spot in him that he didn't have.
In the past, flight attendants were only free of charge for flight attendants on the way. Now, when there is no dining car, each person has a certain amount of pre-packaged food, such as instant noodles, ham sausage, and fruit, etc., which are also free.
However, if you eat in the canteens of institutions and warehouses, you must pay according to the individual payment standard of one yuan for breakfast and dinner, and two yuan for lunch.
The current situation is that the flight attendants even waived the fee of one or two yuan.
Although the money is not much, it will give the flight attendants a high sense of honor and pride.Compared with ground staff, flight attendants have a high labor intensity and come into contact with all kinds of passengers every day.There are endless words and endless cleaning.The passenger section also knows this from top to bottom, and has been working hard to improve the treatment of flight attendants, creating a relaxed and happy working and living environment for flight attendants as much as possible, so that flight attendants have a sense of belonging and honor.
Liu Qun looked at the document carefully and understood the standards and regulations for the flight attendants to eat for free.Not every team can eat in the cafeteria for free when leaving the flight, but the time when the flight attendants leave the board is just before and after the normal meal time. dine.
Of course, even if you don't eat for free, you can eat meals worth dozens of yuan for a maximum of two yuan.
After Liu Qun read this document, he was very pleased with the good intentions of the group company and Duan, and felt really proud.
This document was conveyed to the train conductor by the on-duty cadres of the convoy. It can be seen that it has been refined and streamlined when conveyed. This is also the basic requirement for the conveyance of documents at all levels in the paragraph.
It is to require management cadres at all levels not to be hands-off shopkeepers, and to transfer documents issued by superiors to subordinates at will. As a setter, they must first read the documents intensively and list the relevant content in the documents before proceeding to the subordinates. Communicate and implement.
Irrelevant and useless content that has nothing to do with subordinates is absolutely not allowed to appear in the forwarded file content.
In the past, a special rectification of document transmission was carried out, which was to find out that the cadres at the level of the team and the train conductor were not doing anything on the job, and they were willing to act as setters.
For example, when the teams are forwarding documents, the refined documents can no longer appear, and the teams are required to do what they want.
But it must be refined into what the team requires each team to do according to the spirit of the document?
In the process of relearning the documents conveyed by the team, the train conductor must digest and absorb the work required of the train conductor to his own level, and forward the content of the documents directly related to the employees.
There can only be requirements, what do the employees do, and there must be no words that have nothing to do with the employees such as "what the team leader is required to do".
In this way, the convoy and train conductor must accurately grasp the spirit of the document, which improves the ability of the team and train conductor to grasp the document, and improves the effectiveness and accuracy of document communication and implementation.
Irrelevant content was digested and absorbed by the relevant managers at all levels during the process of level-by-level communication, and only dry notes were left when it was communicated to the final employees:
- How to do what the document requires,
--What should we do,
——What kind of assessment will there be if you don’t do anything?
This is easy to understand, and the concise spirit of the document allows employees to understand it in seconds.
Liu Qun immediately listed the contents of this document that were related to the team members in his own words.The simple 100 words were sent to the WeChat group of the team.
Liu Qun is not used to forwarding by voice.Because the voice forwarding can be maintained, the vividness of the file sounds less laborious.However, in the case of forwarding in this way, if the employees are not in a quiet environment, it sounds relatively difficult. It is better to extract the relevant content, express some literal language in colloquial words, and let the employees see You can know the content when you get to the text.
Originally, this notice about the free meals for departure and departure employees had about three pages of A4 paper when it was distributed, but when the team forwarded it to the first level of the train conductor, it had already become one and a half pages.
After Liu Qun absorbed and digested it again, he kept the part that was actually related to the employees and forwarded it to the employees again, which has become a short hundred words:
Colleagues, let's do another good thing for our flight attendants today.
On the basis of the free meals for the crew on the way, Duan Shang also proposed today that all members of the crew when leaving the bus and those who watch the car after leaving the bus can eat in the Duan office and the canteen in the warehouse for free.
Colleagues who need to eat, please ask me for a free meal coupon.
People respect me one foot, and I respect others one foot. The kindness of receiving water from others should be repaid by springs.The unit tries every means to create benefits for everyone, and we must give feedback with a hundredfold enthusiasm for work to ensure safety and high-quality services. (no reply)
Liu Qun sent the organized text content to the WeChat group of the team.Now there is only one WeChat group for the team, there is only one WeChat group for the team, and there is only one WeChat group for train conductors on the section. These three WeChat groups related to work are all on the top of Liu Qun’s mobile phone.
This is also now. At the original time, there were at least fifteen or sixteen work groups on the top of Liu Qun's WeChat.
There were five or six of the original WeChat groups, not to mention the ones on the team, such as the team member group, the team education group, the team safety information reporting group, etc... At that time, the mobile phone did not have an idle time. At night, this group does not ring that group.
Actually at the very beginning.The widespread use of WeChat, and even the extensive establishment of WeChat groups, make the work of the section, fleet and even the team no longer limited to the past. After encountering something, it is necessary to send a special file or call to notify. Through WeChat, input a paragraph Text, a piece of voice, and a photo can quickly and accurately convey the work to every cadre and employee in the group, which greatly improves work efficiency and saves work costs.
But later on, with the increasing number of teams, fleets, and teams, the number of WeChat groups gradually began to increase. Often, a group needs to be established for a job, and a group needs to be established for a supervisor and deputy captain. It is very common. There are large groups of [-] people and small groups of dozens of people. Many groups have the same personnel, the same work, and the same information. This leads to repetitive and complicated work. The convenience and quickness originally envisioned run counter to each other.
As a result, many cadres and workers have to check their mobile phones from time to time every day, pay attention to the news of various groups, and be ready to reply at any time: received, understand.But did you actually get it?Do you really understand?The real effect is worrying.
In fact, Duan Shang also realized the drawbacks of the large number of people and clutter in the work WeChat group, and specially published an article to merge and streamline the WeChat work groups.The main thing is to clean up a large number of "zombie groups" that have not been used for a long time and will not disband, streamline a large number of chat groups established in the name of various key tasks, and merge a large number of work groups with similar content and basically the same members. The mobile phones of the team members are cleaned up.
The group owners of each WeChat group are the section chiefs, deputy section chiefs, captains, and deputy captains of each department. They all advertise that the information in this group is important and needs to be replied, especially some temporary groups. It is completely possible to disband after the work is over, but many group builders often only build groups without disbanding. The key is that most of these group builders are cadres and managers at all levels, which makes many group members dare not rashly leave the group for fear of Delayed work.
There are also some temporary task groups, after there are no work tasks, they become alienated into chat groups, trace groups, and even flattering groups.The information in the group is constant every day, but if you observe carefully, there are few of substantial significance, but the train conductor at the grassroots level is worried about missing important information, so he has to waste precious time and energy in these dead groups.
The information that pops up from time to time makes the working hours of the train conductor show a trend of fragmentation, which greatly reduces work efficiency.
In order to let the team cadres and conductors pay less attention to their mobile phones, inspect the carriages more, pay more attention to specific safety issues, and provide more services to passengers during their work, Duan Shang drastically cut down hundreds of WeChat groups.
Liu Qun found that since the number of work groups decreased, his work and life have become much easier. When he opens WeChat, he no longer has the headache and confusion of the past.In the past when there were many groups, as long as you didn’t look at them for an hour, when you opened WeChat again, countless red 99+ would appear in the top dozens of groups to stimulate your eyes and heart.
But now there are only three work groups that need to be pinned to the top, and they look refreshing and neat.
However, Liu Qun found that while the burden reduction of the work group was effective, some groups of classmates, fellow villagers, and colleagues he joined quietly surfaced at this time.
In fact, in those groups, the most information is "cut a knife for me", "forward me", "like me" and so on. The really useful information is very little, or even unique.
What's more, some neighbor groups have become advertising groups, and advertisements are flying all over the sky every day. Liu Qun found out that he joined a neighbor mutual aid group in a certain community. He joined for more than three years and never received a single useful message. There are various items for sale.
But sometimes, I was afraid of missing some important notifications, so I had to look forward one by one, flipping through, and flipping through, there were some advertisements.
Liu Qun tried to follow the method of cleaning up WeChat groups in the paragraph, and first tried to quit one or two group chats.
After 10 days, I found that my life has not been affected by this in any way, but it will reduce a lot of worries and anxiety, because in the WeChat group, many 99+ red fonts are not read, and I always feel that I will miss some important content , After reading it, I found that there is no important content at all.
In fact, Liu Qun also knows that the role he plays in these groups is very disgraceful.
The role he plays is a "zombie" user who never speaks, never likes others, and slashes with a knife.In the group that has been established for a long time, Liu Qun can be regarded as a senior "zombie" in the group.
Liu Qun thinks that instead of being a living zombie in these WeChat group chats, it is better to simply quit.And those group chats that are embarrassed to quit are actually nothing more than countless one-off interpersonal interactions hidden behind them.
Liu Qun has reached the age of 40. He deeply understands that many things in a person's life are like this. Let's take making friends as an example. Many friends go from unfamiliar to familiar step by step, but as time goes by, they eventually become familiar again. return to the strange.
Let alone those so-called friends in WeChat who don't know their names.Even in your mobile phone number address book, the acquaintances you haven’t contacted for many years are destined to be just passers-by in life. Do you expect to ask them for help in case of trouble?Is that realistic?is it possible?
According to a study, everyone will meet more than 27 people in their lifetime, but pay attention to the verb "encounter".There are only a few people who can stay with us, and there are only one or two people who can accompany you through your life in the end.
After Liu Qun tasted the sweetness, he slowly withdrew from several group chats, only to find that work and life suddenly became refreshed.And, never missed anything.
Until later, Liu Qun saw an article from "Reader" called "At 3 o'clock in the morning, I quit the WeChat group chat" - there is no need to invite too many people into life.
This article made Liu Qun suddenly enlightened and enlightened, as if his behavior of withdrawing from the group also had a "theoretical basis".
There are a few sentences in the article that Liu Qun still remembers fresh, for example: the sign of a person's maturity is to stop pleasing others and step out of other people's world.
It is a well-known fact that Chinese people love to socialize. There is a saying that depends on parents at home and friends outside. In modern society, the length of WeChat address book seems to be a sign of the number of constant friends. Most people subconsciously I am used to making every WeChat friend a potential resource, but is this really the case?the answer is negative.
Liu Qun gained a good mentality after quitting more than 20 classmates, fellow villagers, and neighbor groups, and no longer has WeChat reading phobia.
This phobia was defined by Liu Qun for himself.It turned out that when there were many WeChat groups, as soon as Liu Qun opened WeChat, his mind suddenly became tense. As each group was opened and each message was browsed, he found more and more spam messages, which were gradually eroding Liu Qun’s attention. heart of the group.
Not to mention anything else, let's just talk about the time that can't come again. It takes more than an hour to browse all the WeChat groups. The key is that there is no effect or gain. This forms a vicious circle. Afraid of missing information, I saw a lot of rubbish when I looked at the WeChat group.
But as the train conductor, the grassroots manager, and the end of the power system, all kinds of document spirits need the train conductor to get through the last mile and transmit them to all employees, and each group is advertised as important, so it is impossible to distinguish Whether it is important or not, the WeChat group makes people with excellent psychological quality like Liu Qun feel anxious.
With more and more WeChat groups quitting, Liu Qun now has no psychological pressure to quit WeChat groups. On the contrary, every time he quits a WeChat group, Liu Qun feels that the pressure of life has dropped sharply. After tasting the sweetness, he simply does not do anything Incessantly, Liu Qun began a cleanup of interpersonal relationships on WeChat.
—— Quit those WeChat groups where no one has ever spoken.
—— Deleted those strangers who did not know when and why they were added.
——Block those old classmates who only know how to argue and sell things all day long.
Up to now, looking at the only 10 or so WeChat groups left on his mobile phone, Liu Qun knows that quitting the group is not entirely due to lack of communication with the people in the group and becoming unfamiliar, the key is that he feels that he no longer cares about the content generated in the group. Has any interest and loses presence.
Liu Qun found that with fewer groups, his life suddenly became much more refreshing, and he had more time for himself.
(End of this chapter)
After Liu Qun hung up Wang Qianjun's call, he didn't have any psychological burden, and he didn't have the thought of being afraid of offending the other party because he slapped him hard.
It's like this in life, some people are not necessarily bad people, it's just that their words and actions are the habit of being sloppy.
If you don't clearly explain your interests to him, he won't understand your true thoughts, and he will always think that everyone in the world thinks the same way and lives the same way as him.
After a while, Wang Qianjun actually sent another WeChat message——Liu Che, you are cruel, so please don’t invite me if you don’t invite me, and invite me to the canteen of the unit for dinner. It seems that you are good at business, but you don’t pay much attention to documents study.Didn't you read the document that was just conveyed at the shift meeting this morning?From now on, meals are free for the flight crew, and you don't have to invite me if you want.
When Liu Qun saw Wang Qianjun's WeChat message, he couldn't laugh or cry.
I have to admit that this Wang Qianjun's psychological quality seems to be much stronger than his own. If he encounters the situation where the other party is so stubborn and hangs up the phone, even if he does not say that he has broken up with the other party, he will have to be cold for a while. This Wang Qianjun Fortunately, he didn't take his words and deeds seriously at all, what should be done or what should be done, in this regard, Liu Qun felt that he was inferior to Wang Qianjun.
Faced with such a colleague with extremely high psychological quality, Liu Qun could only respond with a wry smile, and returned a smiling face casually.
Liu Qun looked at the WeChat group of the team, and there really was this file.In order to reflect the care of the organization, the Railway Bureau Group Company and Duan Shang actually tilted the subsidy to the front-line crew members, and specially made regulations. One free meal.
If Liu Qun's team has car inspection work after returning to the car, they will also provide a corresponding number of free meals to the car inspection staff according to the normal meal time during the car inspection time period.
I have to admit that Wang Qianjun is very well informed about this person, just like the last time I was interviewed by the administrative supervision of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, it was Wang Qianjun who first revealed the news to himself.Although not all of the information he disclosed was true, but after all, he had obtained gossip, and it could be seen that this person still had a certain amount of energy.
Although his moral kidnapping just now was annoying, but Liu Qun still saw a bright spot in him that he didn't have.
In the past, flight attendants were only free of charge for flight attendants on the way. Now, when there is no dining car, each person has a certain amount of pre-packaged food, such as instant noodles, ham sausage, and fruit, etc., which are also free.
However, if you eat in the canteens of institutions and warehouses, you must pay according to the individual payment standard of one yuan for breakfast and dinner, and two yuan for lunch.
The current situation is that the flight attendants even waived the fee of one or two yuan.
Although the money is not much, it will give the flight attendants a high sense of honor and pride.Compared with ground staff, flight attendants have a high labor intensity and come into contact with all kinds of passengers every day.There are endless words and endless cleaning.The passenger section also knows this from top to bottom, and has been working hard to improve the treatment of flight attendants, creating a relaxed and happy working and living environment for flight attendants as much as possible, so that flight attendants have a sense of belonging and honor.
Liu Qun looked at the document carefully and understood the standards and regulations for the flight attendants to eat for free.Not every team can eat in the cafeteria for free when leaving the flight, but the time when the flight attendants leave the board is just before and after the normal meal time. dine.
Of course, even if you don't eat for free, you can eat meals worth dozens of yuan for a maximum of two yuan.
After Liu Qun read this document, he was very pleased with the good intentions of the group company and Duan, and felt really proud.
This document was conveyed to the train conductor by the on-duty cadres of the convoy. It can be seen that it has been refined and streamlined when conveyed. This is also the basic requirement for the conveyance of documents at all levels in the paragraph.
It is to require management cadres at all levels not to be hands-off shopkeepers, and to transfer documents issued by superiors to subordinates at will. As a setter, they must first read the documents intensively and list the relevant content in the documents before proceeding to the subordinates. Communicate and implement.
Irrelevant and useless content that has nothing to do with subordinates is absolutely not allowed to appear in the forwarded file content.
In the past, a special rectification of document transmission was carried out, which was to find out that the cadres at the level of the team and the train conductor were not doing anything on the job, and they were willing to act as setters.
For example, when the teams are forwarding documents, the refined documents can no longer appear, and the teams are required to do what they want.
But it must be refined into what the team requires each team to do according to the spirit of the document?
In the process of relearning the documents conveyed by the team, the train conductor must digest and absorb the work required of the train conductor to his own level, and forward the content of the documents directly related to the employees.
There can only be requirements, what do the employees do, and there must be no words that have nothing to do with the employees such as "what the team leader is required to do".
In this way, the convoy and train conductor must accurately grasp the spirit of the document, which improves the ability of the team and train conductor to grasp the document, and improves the effectiveness and accuracy of document communication and implementation.
Irrelevant content was digested and absorbed by the relevant managers at all levels during the process of level-by-level communication, and only dry notes were left when it was communicated to the final employees:
- How to do what the document requires,
--What should we do,
——What kind of assessment will there be if you don’t do anything?
This is easy to understand, and the concise spirit of the document allows employees to understand it in seconds.
Liu Qun immediately listed the contents of this document that were related to the team members in his own words.The simple 100 words were sent to the WeChat group of the team.
Liu Qun is not used to forwarding by voice.Because the voice forwarding can be maintained, the vividness of the file sounds less laborious.However, in the case of forwarding in this way, if the employees are not in a quiet environment, it sounds relatively difficult. It is better to extract the relevant content, express some literal language in colloquial words, and let the employees see You can know the content when you get to the text.
Originally, this notice about the free meals for departure and departure employees had about three pages of A4 paper when it was distributed, but when the team forwarded it to the first level of the train conductor, it had already become one and a half pages.
After Liu Qun absorbed and digested it again, he kept the part that was actually related to the employees and forwarded it to the employees again, which has become a short hundred words:
Colleagues, let's do another good thing for our flight attendants today.
On the basis of the free meals for the crew on the way, Duan Shang also proposed today that all members of the crew when leaving the bus and those who watch the car after leaving the bus can eat in the Duan office and the canteen in the warehouse for free.
Colleagues who need to eat, please ask me for a free meal coupon.
People respect me one foot, and I respect others one foot. The kindness of receiving water from others should be repaid by springs.The unit tries every means to create benefits for everyone, and we must give feedback with a hundredfold enthusiasm for work to ensure safety and high-quality services. (no reply)
Liu Qun sent the organized text content to the WeChat group of the team.Now there is only one WeChat group for the team, there is only one WeChat group for the team, and there is only one WeChat group for train conductors on the section. These three WeChat groups related to work are all on the top of Liu Qun’s mobile phone.
This is also now. At the original time, there were at least fifteen or sixteen work groups on the top of Liu Qun's WeChat.
There were five or six of the original WeChat groups, not to mention the ones on the team, such as the team member group, the team education group, the team safety information reporting group, etc... At that time, the mobile phone did not have an idle time. At night, this group does not ring that group.
Actually at the very beginning.The widespread use of WeChat, and even the extensive establishment of WeChat groups, make the work of the section, fleet and even the team no longer limited to the past. After encountering something, it is necessary to send a special file or call to notify. Through WeChat, input a paragraph Text, a piece of voice, and a photo can quickly and accurately convey the work to every cadre and employee in the group, which greatly improves work efficiency and saves work costs.
But later on, with the increasing number of teams, fleets, and teams, the number of WeChat groups gradually began to increase. Often, a group needs to be established for a job, and a group needs to be established for a supervisor and deputy captain. It is very common. There are large groups of [-] people and small groups of dozens of people. Many groups have the same personnel, the same work, and the same information. This leads to repetitive and complicated work. The convenience and quickness originally envisioned run counter to each other.
As a result, many cadres and workers have to check their mobile phones from time to time every day, pay attention to the news of various groups, and be ready to reply at any time: received, understand.But did you actually get it?Do you really understand?The real effect is worrying.
In fact, Duan Shang also realized the drawbacks of the large number of people and clutter in the work WeChat group, and specially published an article to merge and streamline the WeChat work groups.The main thing is to clean up a large number of "zombie groups" that have not been used for a long time and will not disband, streamline a large number of chat groups established in the name of various key tasks, and merge a large number of work groups with similar content and basically the same members. The mobile phones of the team members are cleaned up.
The group owners of each WeChat group are the section chiefs, deputy section chiefs, captains, and deputy captains of each department. They all advertise that the information in this group is important and needs to be replied, especially some temporary groups. It is completely possible to disband after the work is over, but many group builders often only build groups without disbanding. The key is that most of these group builders are cadres and managers at all levels, which makes many group members dare not rashly leave the group for fear of Delayed work.
There are also some temporary task groups, after there are no work tasks, they become alienated into chat groups, trace groups, and even flattering groups.The information in the group is constant every day, but if you observe carefully, there are few of substantial significance, but the train conductor at the grassroots level is worried about missing important information, so he has to waste precious time and energy in these dead groups.
The information that pops up from time to time makes the working hours of the train conductor show a trend of fragmentation, which greatly reduces work efficiency.
In order to let the team cadres and conductors pay less attention to their mobile phones, inspect the carriages more, pay more attention to specific safety issues, and provide more services to passengers during their work, Duan Shang drastically cut down hundreds of WeChat groups.
Liu Qun found that since the number of work groups decreased, his work and life have become much easier. When he opens WeChat, he no longer has the headache and confusion of the past.In the past when there were many groups, as long as you didn’t look at them for an hour, when you opened WeChat again, countless red 99+ would appear in the top dozens of groups to stimulate your eyes and heart.
But now there are only three work groups that need to be pinned to the top, and they look refreshing and neat.
However, Liu Qun found that while the burden reduction of the work group was effective, some groups of classmates, fellow villagers, and colleagues he joined quietly surfaced at this time.
In fact, in those groups, the most information is "cut a knife for me", "forward me", "like me" and so on. The really useful information is very little, or even unique.
What's more, some neighbor groups have become advertising groups, and advertisements are flying all over the sky every day. Liu Qun found out that he joined a neighbor mutual aid group in a certain community. He joined for more than three years and never received a single useful message. There are various items for sale.
But sometimes, I was afraid of missing some important notifications, so I had to look forward one by one, flipping through, and flipping through, there were some advertisements.
Liu Qun tried to follow the method of cleaning up WeChat groups in the paragraph, and first tried to quit one or two group chats.
After 10 days, I found that my life has not been affected by this in any way, but it will reduce a lot of worries and anxiety, because in the WeChat group, many 99+ red fonts are not read, and I always feel that I will miss some important content , After reading it, I found that there is no important content at all.
In fact, Liu Qun also knows that the role he plays in these groups is very disgraceful.
The role he plays is a "zombie" user who never speaks, never likes others, and slashes with a knife.In the group that has been established for a long time, Liu Qun can be regarded as a senior "zombie" in the group.
Liu Qun thinks that instead of being a living zombie in these WeChat group chats, it is better to simply quit.And those group chats that are embarrassed to quit are actually nothing more than countless one-off interpersonal interactions hidden behind them.
Liu Qun has reached the age of 40. He deeply understands that many things in a person's life are like this. Let's take making friends as an example. Many friends go from unfamiliar to familiar step by step, but as time goes by, they eventually become familiar again. return to the strange.
Let alone those so-called friends in WeChat who don't know their names.Even in your mobile phone number address book, the acquaintances you haven’t contacted for many years are destined to be just passers-by in life. Do you expect to ask them for help in case of trouble?Is that realistic?is it possible?
According to a study, everyone will meet more than 27 people in their lifetime, but pay attention to the verb "encounter".There are only a few people who can stay with us, and there are only one or two people who can accompany you through your life in the end.
After Liu Qun tasted the sweetness, he slowly withdrew from several group chats, only to find that work and life suddenly became refreshed.And, never missed anything.
Until later, Liu Qun saw an article from "Reader" called "At 3 o'clock in the morning, I quit the WeChat group chat" - there is no need to invite too many people into life.
This article made Liu Qun suddenly enlightened and enlightened, as if his behavior of withdrawing from the group also had a "theoretical basis".
There are a few sentences in the article that Liu Qun still remembers fresh, for example: the sign of a person's maturity is to stop pleasing others and step out of other people's world.
It is a well-known fact that Chinese people love to socialize. There is a saying that depends on parents at home and friends outside. In modern society, the length of WeChat address book seems to be a sign of the number of constant friends. Most people subconsciously I am used to making every WeChat friend a potential resource, but is this really the case?the answer is negative.
Liu Qun gained a good mentality after quitting more than 20 classmates, fellow villagers, and neighbor groups, and no longer has WeChat reading phobia.
This phobia was defined by Liu Qun for himself.It turned out that when there were many WeChat groups, as soon as Liu Qun opened WeChat, his mind suddenly became tense. As each group was opened and each message was browsed, he found more and more spam messages, which were gradually eroding Liu Qun’s attention. heart of the group.
Not to mention anything else, let's just talk about the time that can't come again. It takes more than an hour to browse all the WeChat groups. The key is that there is no effect or gain. This forms a vicious circle. Afraid of missing information, I saw a lot of rubbish when I looked at the WeChat group.
But as the train conductor, the grassroots manager, and the end of the power system, all kinds of document spirits need the train conductor to get through the last mile and transmit them to all employees, and each group is advertised as important, so it is impossible to distinguish Whether it is important or not, the WeChat group makes people with excellent psychological quality like Liu Qun feel anxious.
With more and more WeChat groups quitting, Liu Qun now has no psychological pressure to quit WeChat groups. On the contrary, every time he quits a WeChat group, Liu Qun feels that the pressure of life has dropped sharply. After tasting the sweetness, he simply does not do anything Incessantly, Liu Qun began a cleanup of interpersonal relationships on WeChat.
—— Quit those WeChat groups where no one has ever spoken.
—— Deleted those strangers who did not know when and why they were added.
——Block those old classmates who only know how to argue and sell things all day long.
Up to now, looking at the only 10 or so WeChat groups left on his mobile phone, Liu Qun knows that quitting the group is not entirely due to lack of communication with the people in the group and becoming unfamiliar, the key is that he feels that he no longer cares about the content generated in the group. Has any interest and loses presence.
Liu Qun found that with fewer groups, his life suddenly became much more refreshing, and he had more time for himself.
(End of this chapter)
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