life is sweet

Chapter 164 [164] Resentment fading away
Huang Xiaopei's words are not unreasonable. Before Su Qingchun, he only thought about the good way of providing for the elderly abroad, but he never considered the actual situation in China. It is true that the elderly live with their children for the elderly, and another reason is to help them take care of their children. The parenting relationship will naturally cause parents to think that they should take their parents to their side when they are old.

Before Su Qingchun could speak, Huang Xiaopei said again: "This is our reality. In fact, it's not a single statement, it's all very complicated and involved."

"The system and traditional thinking are like this, unlike in foreign countries, women in many countries are recognized as a job as a housewife at home. The husband's wages are all paid into the wife's card, and divorce not only has to divide the family property We also need to give old age support, if our country can also do this, I think there will be many women who are willing to leave their jobs and pay for this family at home.”

"Actually, what you said is correct. There are many problems for women to resign and take care of their children at home. There are many risks for women. From the perspective of men, there are actually problems. At least women resign and stay at home. The pressure suddenly became very heavy," Su Qingchun agreed, "You said that this society is not fair to women, but in fact it is not only for women, but also for men."

"Men in our country do not rely on religion, and there is no external so-called "menopause" like women. Women do not do well and earn less. Naturally, they think that women should be like this, but men are different. It seems He is born to earn more than women, and a lot more is considered responsible for the family, but the division of labor in society is actually the same, causing men to be under greater pressure at work. "The crisis of the year" and enduring all kinds of pressure alone, this kind of pain is actually beyond the imagination of women."

He had only heard women complain about unfairness, but this was the first time Huang Xiaopei had heard of men complaining. Su Qingchun's words were also a bit sudden, which surprised Huang Xiaopei. She had never had Su Qingchun's angle, and never I heard Su Qingchun talk about the so-called pressure from men.

She wondered if Su Qingchun had been under too much work pressure recently, so she sighed like this.

So she asked suspiciously: "Your statement is very strange. It's the first time I've heard someone say that. Why do you have such an angle?"

"Is it not going well at work recently?"

"It's nothing, I just said it casually, this topic is getting too far," Su Qingchun quickly ended the topic.

Because of Su Qingchun's ordinary education and background, he has been under a lot of pressure in the hospital. Now that his master is retiring, Director Cai doesn't pay attention to it, which makes him even more breathless. He will naturally feel this kind of emotion.

But Huang Xiaopei didn't know about all this, and Su Qingchun didn't want to talk about it, but he just expressed his feelings when he came to this point.

Facing Huang Xiaopei's questioning now, Su Qingchun obviously knew that he had talked too much. Huang Xiaopei couldn't share or solve his pressure. Talking too much would only increase Huang Xiaopei's troubles, so he had to quickly end the topic that should not be said. .

Then Su Qingchun quickly changed his style of painting, and said meaningfully: "Xiao Pei, to be honest, I want to thank you for your persistence this time."

"Thank you? What do you mean?"

"I didn't support my parents to come to Shanghai before, not only because I was afraid that there would be friction between us and the elderly, but also because of my own selfishness. In my heart, I have always been very contradictory about my parents coming to live in Shanghai. On the one hand, I was thinking about bringing my parents over, they are getting older, so I should be filial and filial to them, but when I thought about what happened in the past, I couldn’t bear it.”

"After they came this time, the pimple in my heart suddenly disappeared a lot. Maybe it was just me having trouble with myself before,"

"Now that my parents are really by my side, especially my dad, I can feel that my heart doesn't hate him as much as I thought."

"Hehe, that's for sure. After all, he is my biological father, so how can there be so much hatred," Huang Xiaopei said with a smile.

After this chat, Huang Xiaopei seemed to feel much better physically and mentally.

"The past is over, no matter how much unpleasantness you have, let it pass, and don't make things difficult for yourself." She also persuaded Su Qingchun to come.

"Ah."

When Su Qingchun was about to speak, he heard shouts from outside: "It's time to eat!"

"My mother cooked the meal so quickly."

"It's pretty fast."

"Let's eat then!"

"Um"

The two stood up at the same time.

Then Huang Xiaopei said quickly: "By the way, tell your mother what I just said as soon as possible."

"What is it?"

"What else can there be? One is about when your father will go back, and the other is about the summer vacation they don't use." Huang Xiaopei gave Su Qingchun a white look, looked at him with disgust and said, "The co-author just said Have you forgotten so much?"

"Hehe..., no, it's just that I don't know what you're referring to!" Su Qingchun explained with a smile.

"Aren't you embarrassed to ask about your father? It's better to talk about two things at the same time."

"understood."

"Don't say that I'm the one who asked you?" At this time, Huang Xiaopei still didn't forget the eyes of others.

"Okay, I will see the actual situation and play it by ear."

"That's good."

"Let's go!"

Su Qingchun really felt that Huang Xiaopei was too long-winded. He just explained things like this for a long time. In fact, he already knew how to say it, and it was impossible for him to find trouble and say that it was a question she insisted on asking. What you see is important.

So he walked out of the room after speaking.

As soon as Su Qingchun left the house, he ran into his dead mother He Meizhen.

"Hey, just woke up? I just wanted to go to your room and call you for dinner."

He Meizhen said.

"Oh, I heard you when you called for dinner just now." Su Qingchun didn't say that he didn't sleep at all, because he was afraid that his mother would be nagging him to sleep more.

"Hehe...was my voice too loud just now? I woke you up."

"No one's voice is loud, it's just that I'm a shallow sleeper," Su Qingchun said.

After finishing speaking, Su Qingchun continued to walk towards the restaurant, but He Meizhen didn't leave.

"Mom, let's go to eat, what are you still doing?"

"I'll ask Xiaopei to eat."

"Don't call, she knows what to eat, and she will be right back."

He Meizhen glanced at the study room, but no one came out and asked:
"Did you call Xiaopei?"

"Called, let's go!"

After speaking, Su Qingchun dragged his mother away.

At this time, it was a good opportunity for the two mothers and sons to get along with each other. Just as Su Qingchun was about to speak, Su Zihan suddenly jumped up.

"Grandma, I'm so hungry, give me some food."

"Oh well."

Saying that, He Meizhen hurried to the kitchen.

A great opportunity was just missed.

(End of this chapter)