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Chapter 66 [066] Medical belief

Tao Jianguo and Su Qingchun had almost analyzed the reasons for the tense relationship between doctors and patients;

So he turned to today's topic.

"So, because we habitually think that from the moment a patient comes in, we are treating the disease and saving lives, and we only care about this. In this way, we lack care and comfort for the patient, just like your patient."

"In fact, their main problem is that they value sons over daughters. They cannot accept that the second child is a daughter, and they can't reproduce after the uterus is cut. This is the main problem."

Tao Jianguo tried to analyze the problem today, "You were neither aware of this nor did you care for and comfort the patients at that time, which caused patients and their families to misunderstand us and think that we are cold-blooded and heartless. Those who are mercenary, those who don’t take red envelopes and don’t work.”

"Yes, master, you are quite right."

Su Qingchun agreed, "Indeed, I did very little in terms of caring for the patients you mentioned, and I didn't pay much attention to it at the beginning. Their family members came to me several times, and I only thought they were patriarchal, especially It was the female patient, and I feel that she also wanted this baby to be a son very much, so she insisted that what she gave birth to was a son."

"Yes! You can realize this, so what I said earlier was not in vain." Tao Jianguo replied very gratified.

"Master, in fact, I understand what you said, but we are so busy at work, and the scale of our hospital can't match the current patient volume. There are too many patients, and we don't have so much time to spend on surgery and patient care every day." When it comes to patients, we must always care about them, and it is really difficult to comfort them.”

"To be honest, our workload is so heavy that I don't have time to care and love my children and my wife." Su Qingchun explained helplessly, "Where is the time to care for patients?"

What Su Qingchun said Tao Jianguo understood. Although he is now the chief physician and does not need to take care of patients directly, he is also very busy, let alone Su Qingchun who is only the chief physician, and he is also a person who has experienced it. The problem is the lack of care, which leads to not being very close to him now.

"That's right, what you said is also a fact." Tao Jianguo couldn't deny it.

"We really can't do everything in our work, and it's really unrealistic to ask us to care about every patient like American doctors, but to treat those special patients, for example, this family member asked you twice to respond to the problem, are you right? Should it be treated specially?"

"Well! Yes, I was not careful enough with the patient in bed 48, so I should have communicated well in advance." Su Qingchun had no choice but to reply.

Tao Jianguo looked at Su Qingchun a little discouraged, and said, "I'm not trying to blame you, but I hope you can pay more attention to such things in your future work."

"Master, I understand, you are also doing it for my own good!"

"And the reason for the tense doctor-patient relationship you just mentioned is indeed not something that can be explained clearly in a few words. There are many other factors. For example, the Internet is developed now, which leads to a lot of information being taken out of context by patients. This is why our common patients believe in Baidu searches on the Internet rather than doctors. In fact, many of the things published by Baidu are wrong, let alone interpreted by patients out of context."

Tao Jianguo said, "There is also the development of the media, which has caused the occasional villainous behavior in the doctor's profession to be magnified, making the whole society regard doctors as heterogeneous, and when they come up, they will be beaten to death. Corrupt, profit-seeking villain, treating patients is trying to make black-hearted money, so you can say that the relationship between doctors and patients can be good!"

"Actually, the two points I mentioned can be summed up because patients have mistrusted doctors from the very beginning. If they do, why would they trust Baidu rather than professional doctors?"

"So whether it is a patient or a doctor, it is very important to establish an equal trust relationship."

"Yes! Master, trust is indeed very important. If patients don't trust us, we really can't justify what we say. It's like the 48th bed must say that they gave birth to a boy, and we really have no power to refute it."

"Trust, this thing, is really a very important and delicate thing." Tao Jianguo explained, "With it, many unintentional mistakes may be understood, but without it, even if you do it carefully and carefully If you do it perfectly, you will be criticized."

"Yes! So it's really important to establish a relationship of trust between doctors and patients!" Su Qingchun agreed.

"It's good that you can understand and agree with this point. In fact, this point can run through our entire career as a doctor."

Tao Jianguo continued, "Doctor, to be honest, there is no way to save anyone unless the patient is willing to be saved. In many cases, we doctors are not treating the disease, but arousing the patient's own ability to fight the disease."

"Everything we can do is based on the trust of patients. Without trust, the so-called healing and saving lives means losing its deepest soul."

"Does the patient sometimes only diagnose physical illness?" Tao Jianguo asked, looking at him with sharp eyes that Su Qingchun had never seen before.

This question stunned Su Qingchun.

"We don't know, and we have no way of knowing." Then Tao Jianguo asked himself and answered.

"Just like your patient, Sun Meng in bed 48, is she really sad about the hysterectomy or is she sad and depressed because she didn't give birth to a son? We don't know."

"Studying medicine, from ancient times to the present, what teachers have taught us is to love the world and worry about patients. But judging from the current reality, we are in the process of fighting between heaven and man every day, and then we gradually realize that the ideal The gap with reality is too great.”

Tao Jianguo's words really touched Su Qingchun's heart.

"Master, what you said is really right. Our original ideal doctor, the benevolence and benevolence established in our minds seem to have been slapped countless times in reality. Sometimes I feel that what we have accepted All these brainwashing education and most of the beliefs in my heart seem to have become a joke, which is really painful!"

Tao Jianguo said: "Even if the reality is unbearable, our inner beliefs cannot be broken. As doctors, we must have beliefs to support us through this journey."

"I firmly believe that when I put on my white coat, I still have no regrets about the profession of a doctor."

After Tao Jianguo finished speaking, he glanced at the white coat on his body, "I love this dress. I even thought that when I bid farewell to my body, other people would wear a shroud, and my shroud is this white coat that symbolizes holiness and innocence."

(End of this chapter)