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Chapter 161 Chapter 161

Anyway, the matchmaker didn't arrange what was right and wrong about Jiang's family, but I heard that Mr. Ji's family started to talk about the later marriage again, and said that the daughter of a merchant's family was quite rich.

After talking about the marriage, the matchmaker came to their house to show off, and she praised the betrothed girl for her good fortune, good looks, good personality, will be good, all aspects are good, and there will be great blessings to enjoy in the future .

After finishing speaking, she said to Lin shi casually: "I know that the girls from your Jiang family are also pretty good, but I don't know which family your third girl has settled for."

Lin said with a smile: "Then congratulations to Mr. Ji, the girl in my family is still young, don't worry, we will talk about it later when we find a suitable family."

Then the matchmaker curled her lips, and she liked to scold in her heart—a dead duck with a hard mouth, but she said politely: "That's right, your third girl is only 14 years old this year. You really don't need to worry, but you can also see each other. Immediately." It's almost time for Ji to come of age, so don't delay it, it's hard to say goodbye when you're old."

What she said seemed to care about Jiang Wenbao, but she was actually satirizing Lin. When she was young, she was not in a hurry, her eyes were too high, she was too picky, and she didn't care about who she was. , dragged the girl to an older age, so she had to find someone to marry. In the past, I looked down on someone with good conditions, but in the future, I don’t know what to look for when I find a man with far worse conditions than a relative. Is it stupid?
Among other things, Jiang Wenshan, the eldest daughter of the Jiang family, knows that the Jiang family is not a clear-headed family, and the real situation is not at the right time to choose a good son-in-law with a promising future for this girl, but to choose that kind of older son-in-law. Yes, what others don't want, the remaining men are really weird.

The matchmaker was full of contempt, but she could barely listen to what she said.

But Lin's mind is so sensitive. During this period of time, she paid special attention to everything about her daughters, especially the matter of intimacy. As soon as the matchmaker said something, she knew what the matchmaker really wanted to say.

The smile on Lin's face remained the same, but the smile in her heart faded, and she was faintly angry.

I rejected this marriage, that's all, you came here to show off, and you satirized my eldest daughter, my third daughter, and my fourth daughter, what kind of heart do you have?Can't people see it?What a fool!
Therefore, Mrs. Lin replied neither soft nor hard: "How can we say things like marriage are accurate? Fate is destined, and children have their blessings, so I will not interfere, so as not to block the children's blessings." .My daughter has her own blessings. She doesn’t need to be too old, as long as she can bear it. We don’t think about reaching out to others.”

What he said was extremely calm and rational, and he also expressed his attitude. We didn't think about things like high climbing, high climbing, whoever gets high will be angry.

In life, many things have their own rules, and many times the development of things is not as people imagined at first. You can only be calm, and you only improve your own strength.Only then can you live your own life well, never change your mind, and never let yourself fall into a miserable situation.

Through her own experience, Lin understands the truth of life, especially when men are unreliable, the only one you can rely on is yourself.

The matchmaker was left speechless by her attitude, and had nothing to say, so she could only leave.

She felt that she had miscalculated. She should have left after talking about Mr. Ji's engagement earlier. She shouldn't let Lin play that part later, which made her show off her speaking skills, and the effect was greatly reduced.

Forget it, don't do such thankless things in the future. It will gain popularity, gain no benefits, and offend others.

The matchmaker who was sent away by Mrs. Lin only felt comfortable, looked at the three daughters at home, and said with a smile: "It seems that this person is here to scold me, and I don't even think about what I said. I really think others can't understand it." ?”

Jiang Wenhu said: "That's right, what does this matter have to do with him? Our family Wenbao can have whoever he wants, and if he refuses, he refuses. She still wants to get back the place."

Jiang Wenzhu said: "There are many things in this world. In fact, people who can think about it will not meddle in other people's business. To sum it up in one sentence, what is your business? The second sentence is, what is my business? After understanding these two In a word, you will know what position you should stand on and what kind of things you should do. Because some inexplicable things come out, it is a panic."

Jiang Wenbao covered his mouth and said with a smile: "Isn't it because I'm in a hurry, I think this matchmaker has already made an agreement with others, but she has no money when she gets it, but she can't stand our family's rejection of the marriage, and wants to hit us in the face , but I didn’t expect to be slapped in the face. She took the money and took the money. It has nothing to do with our family. It’s enough to plan how to use the money. She insisted on showing off in front of us, but she lost her energy Alright."

Speaking of which, she was quite depressed.

Her two older sisters are already engaged, and now she is the eldest girl in the family, so when it comes to marriage, she is also the first in line.

After several years of hard work and precipitation, their family has accumulated more property than before, and it is also more eye-catching than before. Now the family that has come together may have such malicious intentions. The range she wants to choose Wider, but the difficulty of screening has increased.

It's not a bad thing, but it's not a good thing either, it's normal after all.

Could it be that if you get married with your eyes darkened and you close your eyes, that's not called marriage, that's called anger, or gambling.

When a girl from an aristocratic family gets married, she has to consider more, not only to consider the other party's identity, status, ability, talent, character, appearance... but also to consider various pros and cons after marriage. Favorable to the family?Is it a strong alliance?Is it possible to ensure that the family will not decline for a hundred years and can get huge benefits through in-laws?

So no matter what class you are in, you will have your own needs.Regardless of whether he will make requests, no matter whether he is picky or picky, others are the same, no one is different.

"Let's choose a good one, choose a suitable one, we don't need people who step on the high and flatter the low like this." Lin said.

The daughters all nodded and said in unison: "Okay, mother, we will all listen to you."

The biggest advantage of their family is that when doing anything, as long as the right direction is determined, other people will obey and there will be no other opinions.

Even if they have opinions, they will discuss them and make plans after reaching an agreement. They will never do things that are obviously not agreed upon.

(End of this chapter)