The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 162 162
The matchmaker came to the door and wanted to make an engagement for Jiang Wenbao, but that was over for the time being.

I don't know what they were thinking, but after going out for two days and saying bad things about Jiang Wenbao, and saying a few words about Lin's family, they didn't say anything unfavorable to them. Maybe it was out of other considerations?Of course, no matter what the consideration is, don't speak ill of them.They don't care anymore.

In short, no matter whether this kind of thing is arranged or not, their family will not arrange Jiang Wenbao's marriage just because of other people's gossip.

As long as you can figure it out clearly, what people outside say is useless.

However, this incident also reminded them that seeing and getting married must be put on the agenda in the future, and they should pay attention to it early. If there is a suitable family, they can also find their way. It is inevitable that they will be tricked. Come forward.

However, this matter should not be rushed after all, it still depends on fate, and the knowledge of fate is beyond the reach of human beings. It can be said that fate is a metaphysics, which needs no explanation.

"Mother, when the fate comes, there will naturally be a suitable person to come to the door, so don't worry about it. You see, the eldest sister is doing well now. In a few months, my little nephew will be born. Come It's time to upgrade to grandma, isn't that good?" Jiang Wenbao looked very happy, and said to Lin with a smile, easing her heart.

Speaking of Jiang Wenshan and her unborn grandson, Lin smiled. This matter is indeed a happy event, and it is also the most joyous thing for him recently. No matter what it is, as long as she thinks of Jiang Wenshan, she can laugh happily.

So Lin smiled happily: "Your eldest sister is indeed very good."

She lived in Lu's house for this month, and seeing Lu Weiliang caring and caring for Jiang Wenshan, meticulous in every detail, she was convinced even a mother like her.

As long as he is not working in the yamen, he will return home early, chop firewood, carry water, sweep the floor, busy in and out, and then serve Jiang Wenshan to order.

As long as it was a matter at home, he didn't need anyone to speak up, and he took the initiative to do it.

Whether it's living, chopping firewood, cooking, carrying water... He even cuts Jiang Wenshan's toenails.

He is willing to do such things, so it is more convenient for Jiang Wenshan to let him do things than to let her mother do things.

He is really a very kind, very simple and honest person.

In fact, as a big man, Lu Weiliang was not born so careful, but when Jiang Wenshan asked, he was willing to do it, even if he had never done this before, but Jiang Wenshan said, he would not think so much, Willing to do anything.

As time went on, he became more and more aware of Jiang Wenshan's needs, became more and more considerate, and became more and more aware of Jiang Wenshan's kindness to him and her needs for him.

And after doing these things, he will find that the communication between the two of them is more harmonious, no matter which aspect it is.As long as the other party looks at him, he knows what to do, which invisibly improves the tacit understanding between the two.Although the two have not been long, they have the kind of tacit understanding decades later, which is very rare.

This made Lin very emotional. When she and Jiang Xianyong were together, when they had the best relationship, they were not like them.

So it's not because she didn't do well enough, but because she didn't find the right man.

The mother and daughter actually discussed this issue, and in the end they agreed that they would rather find someone with good character and good personality than someone who usually has a bad temper but only treats you well.

Even if a person with a good temper and a good personality treats you badly, he will have a higher bottom line. Even if the relationship between the two of you is not very good, or even if there is a big conflict because of some things, he will not be special to you. Poor, even if the two of you are not destined, because of some huge differences, such as such a major issue as Wuzi, it has reached a reasonable point.He will not be kicked out of the house, and he will arrange your life well, which is his basic conduct in life.

And those who have a bad temper and are only nice to you may be able to pretend for a while, but they can't pretend for a lifetime, and they will be exposed one day.

A temperament, irritable, sensitive, suspicious... A person with a bad personality and covered in thorns. When you are with him, you are always serious, and you don't know anything. Every word you say triggers her sensitivity. Point, if you are not careful, you will change your face, if you say you will turn your face, don’t think that you are his wife and you will become a special one. This kind of person is not the kind of person who will consider others, they only care about themselves.If you are in a bad mood, you will vent your emotions. You feel that the whole world is against him and I am sorry for him. As the closest person to him, you are the one who has been most negatively stimulated. How can you get out of it unscathed?

So when their family was looking for someone, they were looking for someone who was calm and rational and could control himself even when he was angry.A person with a bad temper does not mean that he has a bad temper or a bad personality.

Has a quick temper, but can control himself and know what he wants to do. This can be regarded as a kind of good personality, and it is not the kind of person who has a soft personality and has no principles in everything. He is a person with a good temper. It is useless to be a kind of person, such as Jiang Xianyong.

Except that Lu Weiliang had nothing to say to Jiang Wenshan, Lu Xiaomei also took care of Jiang Wenshan everywhere.

No matter whether you are hungry or thirsty, as long as Jiang Wenshan says a word, Miss Lu will start to prepare.

It is really going out to take charge, and coming in to help, fanning everywhere, carrying a small basket with all kinds of food in it, for fear that Jiang Wenshan will be cold and hungry when she goes out.

In fact, Jiang Wenshan usually stayed at home at the beginning, but after Jiang Wenzhu came, she said that even if she was pregnant, she couldn’t stay at home all the time, she also had to exercise properly, take a walk after meals, etc. , Like this is good for the fetus and good for the mother, so Jiang Wenshan will go out for a walk.

In fact, Lin felt that there was no need to be so careful, after all, she had been pregnant for a long time.She was still working in the fields until a few days before giving birth, but her daughter couldn't work as hard as she did. She was willing to see her daughter being taken care of like this.

But to be honest, in fact, it is not so expensive. As long as you have a good rest and eat well, you can give birth to a healthy baby.

Pay more attention to the things you can pay attention to, and the things you can't pay attention to are actually nothing. She can raise healthy children when she is so hard. It makes no sense that Jiang Wenshan can't raise healthy children like this.

(End of this chapter)