The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 189
No one dislikes people like Lu Jia.

She has a docile personality, gentleness and kindness, and she thinks of others in everything, and she is also smart when she admits any grudges.

Both Jiang Wenshan and Lin's loved her very much.

To be precise, the family members of the two families like her, including the neighbors around. People like Lu Jia are never outstanding, and they are generally not high-profile, so every time other people's eyes will not stay on her, so don't worry about it. He will take the initiative to trouble her, and will not be suppressed by others.

And she is very smart, she is very low-key and diligent every time she does things, she only picks up what others like to hear when she speaks, and she can make up her mind when doing things, so she is not that kind of dough-like character.

If you think she is easy to bully, then you are wrong. At most, she will not oppose you face to face, but she will do what she wants, and she will do it without traces, so that people can't find any mistakes. Therefore, Lu Jia's People are the best diplomatic and public relations personnel, the kind who make a lot of money in silence.

Moreover, he can save money on all kinds of means of living at home. He can cook and do laundry.

Jiang Wenzhu was quite satisfied. If she was a man, marrying such a wife would really make a fortune. Not only Lu Jia, but just looking for such a virtuous and virtuous woman, Barabara could find a basket of them. That's the good thing, there are too many good women, just pick whatever you want.

But relatively speaking, the unfriendliness towards women and the domestication of them into such a submissive character will give men a lot of advantages. Even if they are not so reliable, they can still marry a good woman, and they can have three wives and four wives. Concubine, enjoy all kinds of good benefits.

However, men in ancient times actually had their advantages compared to men today, that is, they were very responsible. Generally speaking, most men were responsible for earning money to support their families.

For women, as long as they care for their husbands and children, it is not their responsibility to support their families. In modern times, women not only have to care for their husbands and children, but also work hard. If they don’t work, they will be called rice bugs and rely on their husbands. Same thing, no hard words.

Your husband also dislikes you for always asking for money. You not only want to go to the hall and go to the kitchen, but also to make achievements in your career and handle all the relationships between family and career.

Not only must you be virtuous and virtuous, but also beautiful, able to please your husband, so as to prevent your husband from cheating outside, and you must also make good achievements in your career, otherwise you will be a despicable full-time wife .People will say that you are neither independent nor self-loving, you only know how to reach out.

Therefore, everything is based on comparison. Although women living in modern times have more autonomy than women in ancient times, the requirements for modern women in various aspects are also much higher than those of ancient women.

On the contrary, a man, from ancient times to the present, as long as he does one thing well - making money, then he is a successful man, a successful man who makes everyone look up to him.

Looking at Lu Jia, many thoughts flashed through Jiang Wenzhu's mind. Once again, he sighed with emotion when he crossed over, why he didn't cross over to a man. In this way, his life in ancient times would be much easier and he would have more choices. , it’s not that she looks down on women, but that this world is unfriendly to you, and men have more opportunities to be successful.

"Everything you cook is delicious. You can do whatever you want." Jiang Wenshan said to Lu Jia with a smile.

Hearing what she said, Lu Jia smiled even wider. He agreed and went to the kitchen.

"Sister Lu Jia, I'll go with you." When Jiang Wenbao heard that she was going to the kitchen, he couldn't sit still, so he walked towards her.

Lu Jia didn't refuse, and nodded at her with a smile.

She also knew that Jiang Wenbao was a good cook and loved to cook, so it was normal for her to want to help out.

The two quickly entered the kitchen, looked at the ingredients one by one, and discussed them.The dish is ready in no time.

When the dishes were ready, they were served to Jiang Wenshan again.

Although there was no salt or much oil in the dish for the sake of milking, the two of them thought of many ways and tried their best to make the dish more delicious.

Although Jiang Wenshan doesn't like the taste of food, she also knows that in the first few days, she should exercise restraint and not eat too salty food.It would be best if there was no salt in the dish, everything was for the good of the child, so she endured it, ignoring her own discomfort, and ate some.

"Sister-in-law, I'll make chicken soup for you tomorrow. Do you want to wash your body? I'll boil another pot of hot water and bring it in for you." Lu Jia asked.

Jiang Wenshan hurriedly said: "No, no, just let the servant girl do this. You are so busy every day, you are tired and flustered, and you have to take a vacation. Just let the servant girl do these things, and you sit down too." Come down and rest."

Lin also persuaded: "Yes, Xiaojia, you are about to get married. Although your husband's family didn't ask you to do a good job as a female worker, you still need to know these things. If you can spare time, you can do as much as you can." Take care of your own dowry, and you will be more confident when you go to your in-law’s house in the future. You have to plan for yourself, don’t always go around your sister-in-law, she has someone here, and I’ll show you your dowry too, by the way Add some."

These days, Mrs. Lin has also noticed that Lu Jia is a very good girl. Her parents in her family died young and there are no elders anymore. Therefore, as the tallest and oldest backup of the two families, she also has to do it for Lu. Jia plans to plan, they are all a family, she can't watch Lu Jia suffer.

Although Lu Jia is not her daughter, she still has a daughter. She cares about her heart, and coupled with her relationship with Lu Jia, although she can't treat Lu Jia as her own daughter, it's not much worse.

So what she said was very direct, and she didn't beat around the bush. Considering Lu Jia's feelings or something, her words were very direct, and she directly put herself in the position of being close to the elders for Lu Jia's consideration.

"Ah, thank you Auntie, Auntie is very considerate for me, I will definitely look at the dowry list when I have time, but this will not delay my taking care of my sister-in-law, as for Auntie who said she would add a dowry to me, then Just give me a little, but please don't give me anything valuable, my dowry brother has already prepared it, and I dare not let you spend it." Lu Jia waved his hands repeatedly, saying that he dared not.

She also knows Lin's character. Once she regards people as her own, she will be outspoken and try her best to plan for others.Although he was very moved by Lin's words and actions, he couldn't praise others for their kindness and generosity. The education she received since she was a child did not allow her to do so.

"Don't worry, I know it well. Since you have already called me auntie, I should give you cheap makeup." Lin said.

At that time, before she gets married, it will be good to add something to Lu Jia's dowry, so that her dowry will be thicker and her husband's family will be more valued.

The dowry is a woman's confidence. How much dowry she has when she marries into her in-law's family can determine her future status in her in-law's family.

Judging by Lu Jia's appearance, she is not the kind of temperament to be manipulated by others, so as long as the dowry is sufficient and her waist is straight, her life in her husband's house will not be too sad.It is easier for such a woman to live a good life in the future.

Although Lin thought so in her heart and wanted to give Jia Lujia a dowry, she also knew very well in her heart that Lu Jia was not her daughter, and she would never prepare so much dowry for her as she did for her own daughter. So it's just a matter of adding some money.

"Then I would like to thank my aunt, but my aunt has always been generous. What you give is too expensive, so I dare not accept it. My brother has already prepared a dowry for me, so you can just give me something if you feel like it, Auntie." Don't give too heavy a gift." Lu Jia said.

Mrs. Lin laughed as soon as she heard it, and asked with a smile: "This is strange. Which woman doesn't want to ask for more dowry when she gets married? It's good for you, but ask me not to give more. What's the reason? Could it be that you I don't want to have a little more dowry, so that after I go to my in-law's house, people will look up to me."

Lu Jia opened her mouth exaggeratedly, and said with a smile: "Auntie, you have wronged me. I don't want to ask for more dowry, but you also know that this is the situation in my family, and my husband and son-in-law also deal with us Yes, it takes so much money to go there. If you go, it will make people think about it. And if you are too generous, give me all the money in the family. In case when the time comes, I will live a luxurious life, and I will never be able to go back to the previous life. If you live in poverty, then I will depend on you."

Raising Mi En, fighting Mi En, sometimes giving too much will cause some bad thoughts and forgetfulness in people's hearts.

It has always been easy to go from simple to extravagant, and difficult to go from extravagant to simple.

Lu Jia had such an idea, which showed that she was always sober in her heart.

Jiang Wenzhu felt that it was a very good thing that Lu Jia could think this way.

The world is sober.

For all of us, finding our place and knowing what we want.Understand how far one's ability can reach, and be able to persist in carrying out one's own life, not envious of others, not humble and look down on oneself, and always hold hope, flat and smooth.To seek the happiness that can be achieved by oneself, such a person is the person who is the easiest to obtain happiness, and the person who is most capable of making himself happy.

If you have the consciousness to make money, then in the future, as long as you meet a person who is qualified in basic level, you can make yourself happy.

This kind of quality is an enviable quality. Not everyone can clearly recognize their own abilities, can clearly look at themselves, and pursue what they can pursue.

"Don't worry, I know what's in my heart. If I give it to you, you can take it. When the time comes, please be careful. Anyway, I won't give too much." Lin said.

Lu Jia laughed immediately: "Yes, I wish you could give me more. The more you give, the better my life will be. Besides, you are so generous that a root hair is thicker than my calf. I'm afraid, You give too much, my little arms and legs can't handle it."

Her tone was quite exaggerated, which concealed the seriousness in her tone, coupled with her exaggerated movements, everyone in the room laughed.

They are all people who know each other well, so everyone understands what the other means.

This topic was just skipped, and everyone talked together. After a while, Jiang Wenshan was tired and took the child to bed again.

So a group of people went out of the house and went to the yard to bask in the sun.

"I think when the full moon comes, I think it will grow whiter and fatter. Look at his current arm, it looks like a lotus root. I think when the full moon is full, his arm should not look like a lotus root." , it should turn into a white flour steamed bun." Jiang Wenhu said, "This kid grows up really fast, and I haven't seen him eat anything, how could he grow into this appearance?"

Lin smiled and said: "What do you know? Children are like this, they are cute only if they are white and fat. Luckily, if you pinch them, you will be a good boy."

Jiang Wenzhu covered her mouth and sniggered, and kept slandering her in her heart. Such a small child eats and sleeps, eats and sleeps, eats and sleeps, has good nutrition, and grows a little fatter. It is really cute.But where can you tell?Is this a good boy?So, when my family sees their own children, they wear such a heavy filter, thinking that their own children are the cutest, and no one else can compare to them.

From Lin's perspective, his little nephew Lu Yun is the cutest and most beautiful baby in the world.

But to be honest, it was also the first time for him to see the growth process of a baby so closely.Not to mention his family's little Lu Yun, he is indeed cute, he is simply the pet of the family, and anyone who sees him wants to hug him.

If it weren't for Lin's repeated orders to pinch little Lu Yun's face, children's skin is tender, if they get their hands on it, they will leave marks on little Lu Yun's face, be careful that she chops off their paws.

Don't say that Lin is worried, but Jiang Wenzhu is worried about touching little Lu Yun. There is no way, the baby's skin is too tender. When her eldest brother-in-law came back, she went straight to the room and wanted to hug her son, but the result was not good. Carefully rubbed against Xiao Lu Yun's face, and left a red mark on his face as soon as he went down.

There was a long trace, which had been red for several days without fading. Not only Lin felt distressed when she saw it, but the whole family felt distressed after seeing it. Even Lu Weiliang himself was very depressed.

His rough hands and feet, a little bigger movements, may cause unnecessary damage, which makes him even feel a lot of pressure to kiss the baby now, because when he kissed for the first time, the beard on his face After that, I made people cry.

"All right, all right, we'll see when the time comes, our little Lu Yun is always the most beautiful baby."

"That's right, this full moon wine must be handled properly. At that time, because the eldest sister had just given birth, it was not possible to do it after the third day. This full moon wine must not be missed."

　Thank you Xiaoyuanzi for your reward, my lord, you are so youthful and beautiful, chic and beautiful, mighty and domineering, I love you, huh!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)