The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 190 Chapter 190

The whole family attaches great importance to Lu Yun's full moon wine. After all, he is the first child of the third generation. Who is unhappy and doesn't want to do this well? When the time comes, celebrate it lively and tell others, Their family has the next generation of successors.

In fact, it is the son or the daughter who is not serious. As long as it is a child of their family, they will like it very much and be very happy.

Anyway, everyone wants to make the full moon look great and have a lively meal.

Time passed, and the day of the full moon finally arrived. The invitations were sent out early. All the people who knew them knew that their family was going to hold a full moon wine. As a friend, I also delivered the prepared gift according to the rules on the day of the full moon wine.

"Brother Lu, congratulations! Congratulations, brother Lu, Lin'er is so happy." Catcher Zhang put down the gift in the yamen, cupped his hands at Lu Weiliang, and said with a happy face.

"Thank you, Brother Zhang, thank you, thank you." Lu Weiliang also replied with a smile on his face, "Please, please, today is my family's banquet. There are many people and busy people, and I don't have much experience. If you don't take good care of me, please ask Zhang Forgive me, brother."

"You're welcome, you're welcome, you go ahead, I'll go in right away, a small gift is not a respect."

"Brother Lu, oops, I didn't expect that you just listened to a big fat boy. I really envy you. I didn't expect that you are so lucky. You have a good wife who is virtuous and virtuous, and you can I gave birth to such a unicorn in one fell swoop, I am really envious, grandma give me a touch, I will definitely touch your kid later, good luck, let my mother-in-law give birth to me next year I will give birth to a fat boy." Another rough man came up and took Lu Weiliang's hand, speaking loudly so that everyone could hear him.

"Well, luck is luck." Lu Weiliang was photographed by him a few times, couldn't help it, and quickly replied with a smile, "This child is fate, whatever comes here, son and daughter are good, I like them both."

Hearing this, the rough man couldn't help touching his mouth, and continued in a loud voice: "Although that's the case, it's still enviable. If someone's family doesn't have a son, you won't be able to stand up straight. Look at my family That mother-in-law gave birth to three girls three times in a row, not even a big one, which made me feel ashamed. I don't think I can stand up straight in our house. Brother Lu, you must Teach me, what is going on here, is it really my bad luck? Tell me, why are you so lucky?"

Jiang Wenzhu, who had been helping to greet the guests early, couldn't help rolling her eyes when she heard this.

Where did this wonder come from?If you talk about everything, only you can't have a son, and you shouldn't be like this if you are envious of other people's big fat boys.It's very easy to say such things to others. It's not about low EQ, low IQ or something.This is simply a fool, a Tie Hanhan who has no experience at all.

Even if you envy other people's sons in your heart, but you can't give birth to yourself, find a private place to gossip with others.It is also reasonable to ask for advice after eating. Now it is not only to make the host not feel very embarrassed, but also to show his shortcomings to others.Let others know that I am a family without a boy, and then let others laugh at myself. This is not only tearing up my own wounds for others to see, but also an extremely stupid behavior.

There are always many people in this world who gloat over others' misfortune, but few people who sincerely sympathize with you.Maybe in front of everyone, others will sympathize with what you say, and say these things that are more sympathetic to you in front of you.Say something nice in front of the big guy, oh, indeed, he is so pitiful, he doesn't even have a son, he is a clean girl, but when he turns his face, he will mutter behind his back and say all kinds of gloating things .

No one will sympathize with you from the bottom of their hearts. If there is no conflict with you in normal times, they will compare you in private, saying that you can’t do this, you can’t do that, and you can’t even have a son. No one burns paper, everyone will bully you in normal interactions.

If there are some favorable conflicts, these people will turn into faces, blatantly satirize you, speak fragrantly, and use the most vicious language to pierce your heart.

What is hard to hear, people are willing to use the most vicious language to attack the other party, as if as long as they hit the other party and feel that the other party is worse than themselves, not as good as themselves, then they can be superior to others, and they can find the superiority of hitting others, superior Looking down at each other, I feel that there are still many beautiful things in this world. For example, if no one can compare with me, then I am not the worst. I can find the joy of living from others, commonly known as the spirit of Ah Q.

Of course, the ancients did not know what the spirit of Ah Q is, but it does not hinder their behavior, which is in line with the essence of Ah Q's spirit.

There are always people who don't understand this, think that they are self-defeating, and tear up their own wounds for others to see.Then others will sympathize with themselves, you see I am so miserable, shouldn't you sympathize with me and help me?Shouldn't you pity me from the bottom of your heart?If you don’t do this, then you are not kind, and you don’t deserve to be called a kind person.

However, the facts are often not satisfactory. If you do this, there are indeed some people who will sympathize with you at the beginning, but as long as that time passes, people will not hesitate to use this shortcoming to hit you, because you are self-destructive. It is short, so this short can become a sharp sword to attack you.

But there are also some people who are really compassionate people, and there are people in this group, they will come from the heart.Sympathy will not use these to attack you, and some people are innocent people.They are very clear-headed and will not spend time and energy on unnecessary things.Some people are not interested in these things at all, they are immersed in their own world.

However, the above-mentioned people are very few. In most cases, the people we meet are those who are not sober, so the existence of these people in this world is full of disputes, and it is also full of us.Some factors that I don’t like, the world is beautiful, but the world will also become unhappy because of some people.

"I really don't have any experience. What kind of experience can I have?" Lu Weiliang said, "Don't worry, as long as you work hard, you will be able to give birth to a big fat boy next time."

The rough man listened and nodded again and again: "Okay, since you have said so, then I will definitely believe you. After all, you are so lucky, what you said must be useful. If I give birth to a big fat boy next time, I will definitely believe you." Here is a generous gift for you."

Jiang Wenzhu couldn't help but smacked her mouth, tsk tsk, is this person stupid?Talk to a man who had a son.Just be able to have a son, what does he think?This brain circuit is really nine bends and eighteen bends, which is completely incomprehensible.If you want to win a good fortune, you can win a good fortune, but why are you saying this so awkwardly?
She seemed to remember what a colleague in her previous life said. In the dormitory, a newly married female colleague in their office was pregnant. It was found that she was pregnant with twins within a few months. At this time, another female colleague in the office , I don’t know which tendon was wrong. When I was waiting in line for dinner, I asked the female colleague in front of everyone: “Is there any secret to having twins? Do you have any experience, pass it on to us.”

Everyone was embarrassed to hear what he said. The pregnant female colleague had no choice but to simply reply: "No."

At that time, she felt that these people were really boring.

If you have experience in this kind of thing, then there should not be too many people who want to have twins and can have twins.

Many times, people often have an illusion that I can do what others can do, and I can do what others can get. I am no worse than others. The occurrence and development of many things are beyond our control.

For example, if you want to earn 10 yuan, you can do it through your own efforts. Really, if you want to write an article, you can freely control its progress. You can make it through your own efforts. To control the direction of this matter, but many things cannot be realized through one's own subjective wishes and efforts.

For example, marriage is not determined by one party, and it is not under your control. For example, teaching does not mean that if you work hard, you will be able to teach excellent students, nor does it mean that you will get good grades if you work hard. Whether teachers or students.It takes hard work on both sides, and it takes a certain amount of talent, a certain amount of luck.To get good results, these things are often not controlled by one person, so many times we are very disgusted when others say that there is no knowledge that can’t be learned well, only students who can’t learn well, there are no students who can’t teach well, only irresponsible teachers , These viewpoints are fallacies that are too absolute and too one-sided.

"Oh! I am very happy to hear what you said. If you say that, then I have to learn from you. My family only has one son, and I want to have two more sons."

"Yes, yes, my family has three sons, but I still want to have more sons in my family. Who thinks there are too many sons?"

"Don't talk about it, I think this kid looks pretty good, and he looks fat and fat, and he will definitely grow taller in the future. My son grew a lot last year. The year before last, he just reached my shoulders, and this year he has already reached his height." My ears. Next year I think he should be about the same height as me, and maybe he will be taller than me the year after. "

"Hey, your kid is really good looking, but my kid is even better. My kid looks strong and is already taller than me."

"What's the use of being taller than you? Look at how tall you are. If your son looks like you, it will be really miserable. If your wife is not tall and burly, your son can have this physique. But if you are in high incense, you can marry a good wife like your wife."

"Yes, yes, that's what I want to say. This group of ladies should marry someone who is tall. In this way, the sons in the future will be able to grow taller. Didn't I say that the father is short and the mother is short?" Short and short."

"Is it true? I've never heard of such a saying. Is there really such a saying? That's bad! My daughter-in-law doesn't seem to be very tall, but I'm tall, so I shouldn't be too tall." Big problem."

"That's not certain, but Brother Lu doesn't have to worry about this problem, because Brother Lu is tall and strong. His wife is also a slender, tall person, so his children will definitely grow up well in the future. Didn't you Look at the beautiful eggs that the royal family married their wives. In the past, those nobles were very good-looking. Why? It’s because the wives they married were more beautiful than the other, and they were passed down from generation to generation. That nobles and emperors can Is it ugly? Absolutely impossible, so we have to go to the daughter-in-law, the good-looking ones, good-looking ones."

I don't know who started the conversation first. Anyway, for the sake of a circle of people outside, they suddenly became interested in this topic and started discussing it. The topic became more and more divergent, and the building became bigger and bigger. Is the child doing well?Then it's time for the child's mother to discuss whether the child's mother looks good or not?Do you want to do it?And then how about the kid's fucking conduct?Then it means that to marry a daughter-in-law, you must marry a virtuous one, and marrying an unvirtuous daughter-in-law will harm three generations.

Although what they said made sense, Jiang Wenzhu still felt a little disillusioned.These people come to their house and do nothing, after discussing it.The power of the ancients' gossip is not covered.

Lu Weiliang was busy entertaining guests, so he didn't pay attention to what these people said on the Internet, but he heard what they said occasionally, and he roughly understood what he was discussing.However, let's discuss it, and he can't sew other people's mouths to prevent others from speaking.

Everyone gathers together to gossip, the parents of the east and the west are short-changed, and the topic is discussed from this topic.Reprove the daughter-in-law of the east family for being lazy, and the mother-in-law of the west family for being vicious.So when we talk about housework at home, then we talk about various interpersonal relationships at home, then we talk about prices, and we talk about happy events at home. Recently, XX has had good luck, and he has had a good day from where.Speaking of so-and-so, a certain person was very lucky and picked up a few pennies on the ground, talking about how many eggs the chickens at home laid, and how many spoonfuls of salt were exchanged...

Jiang Wenzhu was a little numb to this situation. He really didn't know why the people who said these things were so enthusiastic.

These things are difficult, although they happen to every household, but is it necessary to talk about them?Doesn't it bother you to say it?
But these people seem to be in high spirits, and they don't mean to be irritable at all.

(End of this chapter)