The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 199

In fact, what the patriarch's wife said was quite right. Although there was a delay when the door was blocked outside, the people brought by the groom were very strong. With the help of everyone, although there was a delay, they came quickly.

In fact, when they blocked the door, the bride was also preparing for makeup here, following various procedures.

It was also done well before, and it was not much different from the time outside. They cooperated with each other and let people in.

There were a lot of people there. Jiang Wenzhu watched Lu Jia sit down with Xi Niang's support, and watched the bridegroom outside being embarrassed by others, and finally entered the room after nine, nine, and 81 difficulties.

Then Lu Weiliang walked out with Lu Jia on his back, and Jiang Wenshan looked at them with reluctance, and finally a sense of sadness arose in her heart. This is the feeling of marrying a daughter, which is completely different from marrying a wife.

Marrying a daughter means that there is one less person in the family, and marrying a daughter-in-law means that there is one more person in the family. Whether Tianding Import is good or bad, marrying a daughter brings blessings and sadness.

So for most people, they are willing to marry a daughter-in-law instead of a daughter. That feeling is indescribably sad.

"I don't know if Jiajia will be able to live well after she gets married. My brother-in-law looks very nice, but I don't know if Jiajia will be able to adapt after the family passes away. Hey, I'm really worried." Lu Weiliang said.

Although several of his younger sisters have been married one after another, and the first two younger sisters are also doing well, but this one is pretty good, but they are relatively free from abuse. Compared with Jiang Wenshan, it is not as good .

In fact, Jiang Wenshan’s dowry is rich, she has abilities, and she has a good personality. He is very grateful to Jiang Wenshan, so he treats Jiang Wenshan well. The two people’s lives are negotiated and there is no friction, so they live better than most. They are all nice, at least better than his two younger sisters.

After his two younger sisters married, the two families were not rich, and their conditions were a little better than his, that is, the level of ordinary people, just like ordinary people's families. After Jiang Wenshan married, she took the initiative to Helping these two younger sisters, the life of the two families is better than before, but it is not as good as theirs, and after all, it is helping, and the strength of this kind of helping is limited. Have a good life, and in the end you still have to be yourself.

After solving the basic food and clothing problem, we need to keep up with other aspects in the future, such as wisdom, emotional intelligence, in-laws, husband, environment...

Each item may affect the happiness of life, so their happiness is not as good as his.

Jiang Wenshan said: "Don't worry, Jiajia will definitely work hard. He is so smart, so hardworking, and knows the seriousness. He will definitely live a good life with his brother-in-law."

"I hope so." Lu Weiliang was worried in his heart, but there was a smile on his face, "Thanks to mother-in-law for today's matter, without mother-in-law, I don't know what will happen to Jiajia before going out."

When he came out to see off the guests, however, he heard from the patriarch's wife that several of his sister-in-laws had a conversation with his mother-in-law in the room, and the tone was not very good, and the words were not pleasant.

In fact, there is no need to think about it. He also knows what his sisters-in-law will say, and he doesn't know what they think. Now that the relationship with him has become so bad, he still has the cheek to go out of the village to their house. The family is cheap, so why would he tear himself apart with his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for them?
Could it be that you can live a good life, but disturb your peaceful life for these dirty-minded people, what do they think, do they look like fools?
Normal people know what to do, so why should they think they can dictate his life and expect him to be on their side.

Obviously, he has made it very clear, and he will ignore them during this time of tearing his face, but on such a good day, he still has to come to trouble him. I don't know if this is the case, will he hate them even more?
Anyway, it is impossible for him to rebuild with them, and if possible, it is best to break away from them. He will never have any kindness towards his brothers and sisters-in-law.

"Don't worry, Jiajia will return home in two days. We will ask him to see how he is doing. In the future, you will also go to your brother-in-law's house to see how her life is going. , with you backing Jiajia, no matter what happens, he won't be wronged. Besides, I think my sister's wife is pretty good, and their family's reputation is also very good, and my parents-in-law look kind and generous." Jiang Wenshan comforted him.

In fact, she also knew Lu Weiliang's worry. Although she knew that her brother-in-law's family was a good person, she had inquired many times before she left because she was at home, but when she saw her sister marrying over, she couldn't help worrying.

However, he didn't show this kind of worry obviously, and only now did he show a little bit of it. Compared with Ling's uneasy state when she got married, Lu Weiliang has already behaved very well.

I think he is a man after all, careless, that is, in this special sad point, no matter what, he is not as delicate as a woman's emotion.

But these things are all destined, and there will be such a stage, so there is no need to pay too much attention to it.

Not to mention how worried Lu Weiliang and the others were, after Jiang Wenzhu and the others came back, they also heard Mrs. Lin chattering and talking a lot when they got home.

I was also worried about Lu Jia, if Jiang Wenshan hadn't worried so much when she got married.Maybe it's because she's getting older, she pays more attention to these things now, or maybe it's because she has nothing to do now, so the focus of her attention falls on the family members. Jiang Wenzhu thinks that Lin should find something to do, after all, there is After doing things and distracting energy, there will be a lot of things to focus on.

So the next day, Lin was called by Jiang Wenzhu to go to the shop to look at the account book, and went through the things in the shop. After returning, he asked Jiang Wenyan to go to her to report on his studies. Go and try Tongsheng Test.

In fact, it is not for Jiang Wenyan to take the exam for scholar, but for him to take the exam, to feel more about the atmosphere of the imperial exam, and to learn something. After all, exam is the most effective way to improve students' level.

In the case of Jiang Wenyan studying very hard, in fact, his many accumulations have reached a certain level. If he wants to make great progress in a short period of time, he should adopt some means, such as reading thousands of books, such as traveling thousands of miles.

As far as the current situation is concerned, it is not easy to achieve whether it is reading thousands of books or traveling thousands of miles. If you want to improve his level in a short period of time and let him have a clear concept of the imperial examination, then He should be allowed to take more exams.

This is not to backfire, but Jiang Wenyan's accumulation has already arrived, just like many of our elementary school students will also take the exam. Only after taking the exam will he know his current level, and only after taking the exam will he know his strengths and weaknesses better.

Jiang Wenzhu didn't want to use exams to measure Jiang Wenyan's level, nor did he want to use exams to train him into a machine for solving questions, but wanted to use this method to let him understand his learning progress all the time, and at the same time Let him know that he should maintain his interest, passion and love for learning all the time.

Although Lin could not give Jiang Wenyan good guidance in terms of academics, she actually has a certain level.At least he can understand many articles, and this level of understanding is enough for her to read Jiang Wenyan's articles seriously after he wrote them.

And reading more books and writing more articles is a very beneficial thing, especially for the temporary, it is a more difficult thing, and this difficult thing can allow her to help her son learn Make progress and urge your son to work harder in his studies.

In Jiang Wenzhu's words, in fact, children often read well, right?The most important thing is to see whether the parents' supervision is in place.

If parents attach great importance to their children's reading, use all their energy to cultivate their children, and pay attention to methods in the process of cultivating their children, for example, accompany their children to study together, read together, read books together, and solve problems together...Practice yourself Tell the children what kind of attitude they should use to read.

If parents earnestly accompany their children to do it, and use a very good schedule to set an example for the children to study hard, then the children will be able to settle down in the matter of reading.

Because his parents are accompanying him to study like this, even if he can't sit still, he will be influenced by his parents and study hard. Even if he sees his parents working so hard, they will work harder, and this No amount of reprimands can compare to the power of such an example.

Many parents don't care about anything when their children are studying. They only know to let their children study hard and read every day. They don't know what needs to be paid attention to in the process of reading, and they never know the methods. Keep the child inside the house.

Once the child is told by the husband that he is not doing well, or that the child is said to have insufficient talent, then these parents will be furious and arrest the child and beat him up.

In fact, they don't know how to read, the difficulty of reading, let alone the method of reading, and the combination of work and rest, and they don't care how their children perform in college?Whether it's bullying or being bullied, in short, they only look at the result and don't ask about the process, so this kind of supervision is not very contagious to children.

Lin felt that what Jiang Wenzhu said was very reasonable. Although she didn't know how to come up with this truth, but when Lin accompanied Jiang Wenyan to study, after a period of exploration, she really felt the joy of reading, and The difficulty of reading, and the passion and passion I felt while reading with Jiang Wenyan.

They had studied at that time. Although the conditions at home were better, Lin did not spend too much time on reading. She felt that she was old and You was a woman, so reading was useless, so she also After only knowing some commonly used characters, I no longer spend time on reading.

She doesn't really have any ideas about reading. The motivation for learning to read is to know how to read, to be able to settle accounts, and not to be deceived.

She didn't feel the various charms she felt while reading, but reading like this now made her feel how wonderful it is to read.

"Mom, I'm going to take the exam next time, maybe it will be better than the last exam every two months."

After half a year of studying behind closed doors at home, Jiang Wenyan has already done a lot of test papers at home. These test papers were bought by Jiang Wenzhu at a large price and asked him to do it himself.

Doing questions is a very interesting thing. As long as you can harvest things, get tested, improve your own level, and control the amount of questions you do, then doing questions will no longer be our current students. , It is a painful thing to mention.

At least Jiang Wenyan didn't reject doing the questions, and doing a few questions every few days was actually quite interesting. It could exercise his thinking and make him think about a lot of things.

He thought this question was very interesting, of course, mainly because the questions Jiang Wenzhu arranged for him were very reasonable, and he was not asked to do many questions every day.

In fact, besides the purchased questions, there were also some questions Jiang Wenzhu gave him. Although these questions were somewhat different from his exam questions, it was still very interesting to do.

In the past, he always followed behind his husband, learning sentence reading and solving problems. He read a lot of various articles and also learned to write articles in a standard format, but writing articles like that was not particularly good, so he still I am willing to use Jiang Wenzhu's method to write a relatively simple method that allows him to adapt to the content of the test to learn writing.

"Then you have to take the exam well. I hope to see you do better next time." Lin said.

She is actually very satisfied with Jiang Wenyan. Through studying, she knows how hard Jiang Wenyan is when learning knowledge. Compared with Jiang Wenyan, her learning speed is a tortoise.

In fact, she didn't know what reading was like before, just like what Jiang Wenzhu said, she only knew that Jiang Wen should also work hard, but whether he really worked hard, to what extent, and whether he could achieve better results. As a result, she actually knew nothing about it.

Through this study, she knew that Jiang Wenyan's effort in reading was far beyond her reach.

"Wen Yan, you know that you have worked very hard, even if the test results are not very good, I will not blame you, I know you will perform better again, you are the best. Lin said, "So don't put too much pressure on me. I think you are much better than you. It's a pity that my mother doesn't take the imperial examination. If all the people who take part in science are at my mother's level, then you will definitely be the number one scholar."

The following is the replacement chapter, it will be replaced tomorrow, okay?

(End of this chapter)