The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 198

But in fact, there are some people who love their daughters very much. When they got married, their mothers also said such things to them.

Speaking of which, Lin's words are the best instructions to tell a married woman before she gets married.

"Don't worry, I will definitely remember your words," Lu Jia said.

"Okay, you are a good boy. I believe you will be able to live a good life after you get married. Husband and wife should trust each other and tolerate each other. But in life, there is no smooth sailing, and some bumps are normal, as long as it is nothing For big things, there is no principled issue, if you can tolerate it, you can tolerate it, I think you have a gentle temper, you can get along well with him, and you will be able to live a good life in the future." Lin said.

Although she knows that life is difficult, and she also thinks of the specific and various difficulties in life, she still thinks, to give this unmarried girl some beautiful yearning for married life, and reality. some suggestions.

Hearing what she said, Lu Jia knew very well in her heart that what she said was right, and the difficulties she might encounter in the future also existed, so she was grateful for such a practical and blessing-filled suggestion from the bottom of her heart.

"Auntie, don't worry, I will be fine." Lu Jia said.

Seeing that she agreed, and with tears in her eyes, Mrs. Lin knew that she had listened to her heart, so she didn't say much.

He hugged her gently, and said in her ear: "It's okay, don't be afraid, everything will get better and better."

The sister-in-law of the Lu family next to her saw people hugging each other affectionately, like a mother and daughter, so close, she felt a little uncomfortable.

What did Lin do?It's just a mother-in-law, and she doesn't want to eat outside at this time, so what kind of boss is she here?

I didn't see so many sisters-in-law of the Lu family here. With so many people, who can't tell Confucianism to solve it, but she wants to rush ahead. Look at her, she looks like the owner of this family, and she is not really her daughter. Is it necessary for her to talk so much?Look at that posture.

Listen to what she said, every sentence, none of which can be put on the table.In normal times, it's nothing more than pampering his daughter, instilling some rebellious ideas with his daughter, and now he wants to harm their daughter of the Lu family.

A daughter who goes out like this, in her husband's house, she just wants to be a person with her tail between her legs, docile and gentle, listen to others, be honed for a while, after giving birth to a child, she will gain a firm foothold in her husband's house, and then deal with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Independence of the relationship between the seven aunts and the eight aunts.Sister was slowly accepted.

Whose bride doesn't live like this?It is said that after many years a daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law, only then can she truly speak with her back straight.

However, this Lin family is like an old hen protecting her cub, for fear that the child will be wronged in her husband's house, so she doesn't do anything, so she first said not to become too talkative in her husband's house, if others do something wrong, just choke on others, and then slow down. If you are slow, others will know that you are powerful and dare not bully you.

Listen to what this is saying, every sentence, not a single serious one.

Whose family really married such a daughter-in-law who would blow up at any point, even if they said a few words, they might quarrel with the daughter-in-law, wouldn't the house be peaceful if they didn't disturb it?
Shouldn’t the little daughter-in-law be enraged? Whose daughter-in-law can be disrespectful to her elders? Look at what the Lin family taught. If Lu Jia really listened to her, it would be a disaster if she got along with her in-laws and her husband like this after marriage. ah.

If it is true that Lu Jia's actions are inappropriate, it is easy to be caught by others. If these things are spread, others will not only say that Lu Jia can't be a man, not a good wife, but also bring their entire family together. The reputation of the Lu family, will anyone come to beg for the daughter of the Lu family in the future?

This teaching is simply nonsense, and people will continue to burst into anger after listening to it.

It's okay for them to love their own daughter, but they are still dictating outside, and they are also affected, which is unbearable.

"Auntie, what you said is a bit too much. You shouldn't teach Jiajia like this. If it's someone else's daughter, she will marry another family, and she won't accept any grievances. She will discuss everything with her in-laws, elders, husband, and sister-in-law. Damn, sister... care about, refuse to take any losses, how can you live? Whose life is a bit rough and don't have teeth. And when you bite your tongue, you don't want to suffer at all, then In that case, what can be done?"

Second Sister-in-law Lu nodded her head repeatedly after hearing this, and she also agreed with Sister-in-law Lu's words: "That's right, my in-laws, my sister-in-law is right. You can't do everything according to your own wishes, you still have to pay attention to your parents-in-law's thoughts and listen to their words, life will be more peaceful.”

The reason for saying something is justified, just like what Mrs. Lu was worried about, she was also worried that after Lu Jia passed away, she would quarrel every day and spread the reputation of being unvirtuous, which would implicate her family members.

She has a daughter of her own, who is already in her teens. In two years, she will be able to see her again. If Lu Jia's family gets a bad reputation after they go out, her daughter may be affected. .

This is not just a joke, she will never allow her daughter to suffer such an indiscriminate disaster.

Originally, their family's reputation was not very good because of Lu Laoqi, and those with better conditions were not willing to marry with their family. If something else happened to this, their daughter would have a hard time with him.

Speaking of which, no matter what, they are all surnamed Lu, no matter how broken the bones and tendons, things like this are easy to lose their minds, although when they actually get married, many people may not be able to get married because of this. The illusory reputation is used to determine who to marry, but these things will also be taken into consideration, and they will still be the focus of consideration.

No one wants their future Yue's family to be a messy family, and no one wants to marry someone who dominates the family and is not willing to live a good life at all.

In fact, Mrs. Lu and the others also understand that Lu Jia is a very good girl and will never mess around in her husband's house, but they are not reconciled. Lu Jia married so well, her husband's family is so rich, and Lao Qi's family, since After Jiang Wenshan got married, she lived so well. She wanted to promote them, but she wanted to make her own family better. Didn't she take them seriously?
Of course, she also knew that if she was Lu Lao Qi, she would do the same, but isn't she now Mrs. Lu?
They stand in different positions, have different standpoints, and have different ideas. They don't need to empathize, they just need to think about problems from their own standpoint.

"What you said, didn't you listen to me just now? After I let her marry, she must live a good life. It must respect her parents-in-law, husband and child, and listen to their opinions on everything, but people respect me. Ruler, I respect people ten feet, and if someone steps on me, although I won't step back immediately, I can't step on me, and I won't turn back, right?" Lin said.

Her expression was a little cold, and the words she said were not polite. She had long been displeased with these people from the Lu family, each of them, without a single heart, just thinking about being a shit-stirring stick here, what's the business Don't do anything, don't say anything good, just know to calculate others all day long.If you can't figure it out, you will hold a grudge and poke secretly in your heart, thinking about making others unlucky.

Don't look at what they say beautifully, what they say is virtuous and virtuous, gentle, courteous and thrifty, caring for their husbands and children, friendly to others... every one of them speaks beautifully, but when they do it, they are worse than anyone else.

Look at what they did to Lu Weiliang and his younger sisters, which one can be taken care of?
My own hands are not clean, but I have the nerve to jump up and down to say that others have such a big face?

But today is a good day, there is no need to quarrel with them, just treat them as barking dogs, why bother?

However, he thought so, and others didn't want to settle down, and they felt really upset when they came here today.Although it was to save face, it did not prevent them from finding fault.

What's more, these people in the house now are all the small thoughts in the hearts of those in my family who don't know who, so they have been exposed long ago, so there is no need to worry about it so much.

When the patriarch's wife heard what they said, she would at most give a few words of warning, and she would not lose a piece of meat if she scolded her a few times. Maybe she would think that what they said was reasonable, and she would stand by their side and help them crusade against the Lin family with the same hatred.

After all, they are people with the surname Lu, a family in the true sense, and what is the Lin family?An outsider, even if her family is rich, so what?
I also didn't see that after Jiang Wenshan got married, these people in the clan were good, and the people in the clan didn't get any benefits, so how could it be possible to speak for them?
"What my in-laws and aunt said, it seems that Lu Jia is right in whatever she does. I know that the Lu family is sensible and obedient, and everything is good in your opinion, but no matter how good he is, we can't just say what she does. Everything is right."

"If the Lu family did something unbelievable after they got married, what if they say a few words to teach her a lesson? Why do they feel that others are bullying her? According to what you said, if she can't bear it, she still thinks she's doing the right thing. The members of the husband's family screwed up and stirred up wind and rain at home every day, making a big disturbance in the heavenly palace, not only making it difficult for him, but also affecting our Lu family's daughter."

"What I said is that I want her to think more about it when something happens. Don't just ignore it just because she feels wronged. I want to have your support at home, and it will cause a catastrophe."

"Let's live a little more patiently, don't be too angry, you let me, I let you, isn't it right? And the words of the in-laws and aunts always sound frightening."

Lin sneered: "You also said that you have to let me and I let you. You can't let me always let you. What kind of person is this child like Rujia? I also know very well that since you all Said he is sensible. If he is not obedient, is she the kind of person who will explode at any point and make trouble with others?"

"Since a person like her can't bear it, you still want him to endure it. Do you want him to be bullied to death at her husband's house?"

"Speaking of which, you are also her sister-in-law. You don't want to feel sorry for her, but you feel sorry for the uncle who has nothing to do with you. I don't know what you are thinking? How do you think it is abnormal?"

"It's because you are such a cruel sister-in-law that treats Lu Jia like this. Whose sister-in-law doesn't feel sorry for her sister-in-law, and you look like this and hope that she will live well."

"If you don't move it, it will affect the reputation of the Lu family. Let alone the reputation of the Lu family, it has nothing to do with a married woman. Even if it does, it has nothing to do with it."

"When you really want to marry a wife, who will pay attention to what the people of the Lu family will be like after they get married? This is just one of the trivial conditions, and I have seen married women being bullied, and the natal family took the initiative to stand up for him There are not a few of them. From the looks of it, Lu Jia will never be able to count on you."

What I said was serious, and it was designed to poke people's hearts. Although the sisters-in-law of the Lu family were indeed like this, they were exposed in person, saying that they were such people, and they couldn't hold back their face.

They came here today just to make a face for themselves. Now that they came, not only did they not make themselves look up, they were even pointed at their noses and scolded. How can this be tolerated?
So Mrs. Lu retorted without even thinking about it: "In-law, aunt, I respectfully call you in-law aunt, and you still think of yourself as someone else. You said that Rujia's life will not be good in the future, and we won't let him stand out. You see, why do you You know we won't stand up for him? Why are you so dark in your heart, how can you think of such a thing? Why don't we stand up for her? We are the ones who are best at standing up for her, so we entrust him like this, where? Like you, you are here to provoke people to make troubles, what do you care about? You know in your heart, who is a good person and who is a bad person, anyone with eyes can see."

As soon as Lu Jia heard it, she became anxious, and wanted to stand up and say something, but at this moment he was the most unsuitable person to talk, so Mrs. Lin took her hand and looked at Mrs. Lu with a look of ridicule in her eyes. cover up:
"What do you think, who doesn't know? How do you do it, who doesn't know? Who doesn't know what to say? It depends on how you do it. Look at what you have done to Lu Jia brothers and sisters over the years, and you will know who you are Now, what are you pretending here? I will tell Lu Jia what I want to say, if she listens to her, even if you disagree, just tell Lu Jia directly, why bother arguing with me in front of me? "

"Also said that what I taught is wrong, you are simply unreasonable."

Mrs. Lu: "..."

Second Sister Lu: "..."

……

Seeing the stalemate between the two sides, the patriarch's wife smiled and hurriedly came out to smooth things over: "Okay, okay, today is a big day, don't talk about it, talk about it later, so as not to delay the time, the groom in front should come."

As soon as she appeared, the two sides died down and stopped talking.

(End of this chapter)