Natural beauty, inspirational nature

Chapter 37 Breaking through the Line of Defense
In this way, all the memories of spring in the first half of 2019 are those days and nights of working overtime in the office, nothing else.

Our big office is not in the room by the window, but in the middle hall of the office floor, where there is no sunlight all day long, and the whole space is lit only by fluorescent lamps.

The grass grows outside the window and the warblers fly, and the spring blossoms seem to have nothing to do with me.Only when I get up in the morning and rush to work can I feel the warm breath of spring in the air.

But there is still a girl in my heart who likes the natural scenery, yearns for poetry and distant places. I heard that Changzhou has many scenic spots, so as long as I rest on weekends, I will go out for a "short-distance" trip.

However, the old street "Qingguo Lane" is the place I often go for a stroll, because it is in the city center and the closest to the company.

This is an ancient street and alley with a history of more than 500 years. There is a green winding river on the south side of the alley.

I like to stand by the river and look at the people in the ancient town opposite.Listen to the window of the pavilion, the opera singer babbling and singing the ancient tune of thousands of years.The heart will slowly calm down.

My mother still calls from time to time to urge me to talk about someone, and I always use "I'm too busy with work, so I don't have time to fall in love" as a legitimate and reasonable reason to postpone the blind date plan.

When the pace of work gradually slows down, I will occasionally pay attention to the letters from the dating platform.I don’t know if I don’t read it. I was shocked when I saw it. After a few years, there are tens of thousands of unread emails lying in my mailbox without knowing it.

I browsed through the avatars in front of the letter on several pages, and I couldn't help being very disappointed, and the screen was almost full of "frogs" when I looked around.

Whenever I encounter someone who I think is acceptable, if I look carefully at the IP address displayed on the information, I will know that the other party is hundreds of thousands of miles away from me. It seems that a scammer from afar is pretending to be a person from the same province in Jiangsu Province and posting fake photos cheated.

Being a designer is a very difficult profession. We rarely have the opportunity to participate in social activities to meet the opposite sex. My mother urged me to make friends. I can only place my hope on online dating platforms, so I have often received emails from scammers on the Internet.

After adding the contact information, I discovered that many of them are WeChat merchants who want to persuade you to buy other products, and a small number of them also want to deceive you to buy lottery tickets and stocks with them.

One time that left a deep impression on me, the other party wanted to trick me into logging into a WeChat platform where stocks could be traded. He pretended that he had made a lot of money, and sent me screenshots of the money he made, and said to me terribly : Baby, you are really a lucky man. Once I met you, not only did I always win at cards, but I also made a steady profit when I traded stocks.

In fact, I don't like men who easily talk to me about money online. As long as I talk about money, no matter what form, I will be more vigilant. My first instinct is that the other party is a liar.

So I answered "Oh" lightly, clicked on the screenshot he sent, and zoomed in to take a look.The liar is doomed to become a "defeat" when he meets a master who is as careful as me. He can't imagine how sharp-eyed and sharp I am as a graphic designer. I found that the values ​​​​of the so-called "into the warehouse" and "out of the warehouse" have obvious traces of P pictures .

Once I find a problem, I will never be soft-hearted, and I will block him if it takes less than 2 seconds.

For a while, with the attitude of trying to treat a dead horse as a living horse doctor, I have added four or five people on the Internet, and I found that without exception, after chatting with you for 3-7 days, these people began to show their liars nature.

The routine of chatting is exactly the same: when we first met, they were no different from normal online blind dates and friends of the opposite sex. After a while of greetings, some self-introduction, and then asking about your personal hobbies, and then starting from your usual work schedule and getting off work In the next place, I talked about family situation, how many brothers and sisters, how many children I plan to have in the future, whether I like boys or girls, etc.

If you think they are just posting travel cards from all over the world, daily luxury outfits, and making all kinds of gourmet snacks, then you underestimate them. In addition to showing you their hard core strength, they will also post on the circle of friends. Post fake photos of them donating love to orphanages or hope primary schools from time to time, portray themselves as kind-hearted ambassadors of love, and then talk about their sad past and reveal their "clear and pure" inner world to you.

These scammers are well versed in PUA love tricks. They will show great interest in you as soon as they meet, take care of your emotions, and chat with you. Every word they say will be selected to touch your heart and poke your heart. Tears, words that coax you to be elated, and when you slowly fall into the trap, they will make a big reversal.

You think that the liars in this world are all in the name of love and marriage, by winning your emotional dependence, and then slowly defrauding your money into their own pockets, and you think the liars on the Internet are most afraid of seeing the light Death is a group of masters who turn their faces and deny people when they mention video calls. Then you haven't seen the "king" among them.

But I have seen it.

Let’s call this liar Big A for now. Not long after Big A added me on WeChat, he expressed his loyalty to me, expressing his love and miss for no reason. I smiled on the surface and responded politely. The small theater in my heart was: Made, just Come up and give this set to my old lady, 80% of them are liars.

After adding WeChat for a week, on the one hand, out of suspicion and fortification, and on the other hand, because the work in the hospital is really very busy, I seldom talk to Big A, and never take the initiative to find topics to chat with each other.

He sent a message to care about me, but I ignored it.Seeing this, he lost his composure and took the initiative to start the self-introduction mode. I just replied coldly, "Hi, I'm Cheng Yifei, designer."

In my opinion, the extravagant life of his circle of friends is a big cover for a false personality.

It happened to be a festival that day. I forgot what the specific festival was, but it was not an important festival anyway.He took the initiative to send me a red envelope, wishing me a happy holiday.

I said: You don’t get rewarded for your merits, and the festival blessings are accepted, but the red envelopes cannot be accepted.

He pretended to be very angry when he heard this, and said: The red envelope is not big, just for the sake of auspiciousness during the festival. As the owner of the company, I sent it to every employee. If you don't accept it, you will look down on me.It's rare for me to like a girl so much on the Internet. I really have a feeling of love at first sight for you.Don't you even want to give me a chance to know each other?

Reluctantly, I had no choice but to accept the red envelope. Although it was only 99.99, it was all sincerity.

I told him: Today is the holiday, and I accepted it.But don't take it as an example, don't spend any more money on me.If you give it again next time, I will give you a gift in return.

He didn't answer me, and within a few days, seeing that I still didn't pay him much attention, he started sending me red envelopes again, with three words written on the red envelopes: good night envelope.

I sneered at the screen of my phone: Are people really stupid and rich?Give me a red envelope during the festival, say good night to me before going to bed, and don’t forget to give me a red envelope. This is too exaggerated. Are you a sister who has never seen money?Or are you going to buy me with money?
In fact, I didn’t mean to ignore people on purpose. I was so busy those days that I didn’t have time to chat with people, and I worked overtime at night until late before returning to the dormitory.

Seeing him give me red envelopes again, I was a little unhappy.This time I resolutely refused to accept it, and after politely replying good night, I let the red envelope hang in the air.until it is automatically returned the next day.

In this way, after another week, he would insist on sending me red envelopes every night in order to wait for my message to be replied. I am also a stubborn master.

I told Big A: If you really want to get to know me, we should meet in reality.Now the online world is too chaotic, you are in S city, I am in Changzhou, it is very difficult to get to know each other in the real world.We all don't know which god is talking to you through the screen. There are too many liars. It's not that I don't trust you, but this is the most basic awareness of online fraud prevention.Besides, everyone has only seen each other's photos, some people take photos, and some people don't. There will still be a big difference between the person and the photo.If you still feel that you like me very much when we meet in reality, and I also think you are good, it will not be too late for us to invest in affection and have a serious relationship.

After Big A saw that I sent that sincere text, he seemed to be thinking about everything, and he didn't say anything for a long time.In the evening he replied to me: I will go to your city to meet you this weekend.

Seeing such a reply, I am naturally happy in my heart. I thought to myself that if I really want to meet in reality, the probability of being a liar will be reduced by at least half.But I still refused to relax my vigilance. After all, I haven't seen anyone yet. You must know that those weird liars often disappear temporarily on the appointed day to meet.

But Big A once again broke through my psychological defense with action.Not only did he not disappear temporarily, but he also appeared with great fanfare and a high profile.

In the past four years, I have seen a lot of liars. I am almost immune to liars. The most powerful and most willing to spend money on liars I have seen is this big A "God".

Not only did he often send red envelopes to me after he added WeChat, he threw money at me, and after I expressed that I didn’t believe in online dating and illusory love, he drove his newly bought car three or four times from Suzhou without hesitation. I came to Changzhou when I was young, just to have a meal with me on weekends.

Before coming, he said that there was heavy fog in the morning. In order to get on the expressway before the fog, he set off on the elevated highway at two or three in the morning.

I didn't believe it. I secretly checked the weather forecast on Baidu. It was true that there was heavy fog in Suzhou.

He also seemed to see my suspicion. When driving all the way here, he specially recorded a short video of driving on the expressway with his mobile phone for me to watch.

As the "host", in order to express my courtesy, I arrived at the agreed meal place half an hour in advance.

As a result, he still did not show up at the restaurant after the appointed time. I wondered if I had been let go?
As a result, half an hour later, he made a voice call saying that he had lost his way in the underground garage, and asked me to go down and show him the way.

In the garage, I saw his new car, a Porsche.

But I never paid attention to cars. I was a little "car blind", and I didn't recognize that car as a Porsche at the time.

I just feel that the lines of this white car are particularly smooth and really beautiful.The moment I saw the car logo, I was also happy. I felt that the car logo was very delicate and beautiful. It looked tall and tall. It was the most beautiful car logo "LOGO" I have ever seen.

He took me around the garage looking for a vacant parking space.Before getting out of the car, he said to me proudly: "How is it? I just bought a new car, more than 200 million. What is the difference between sitting in an ordinary car?"

I said: "Yeah, it's pretty good." I nodded in agreement, but I was thinking in my heart: In terms of the comfort of the seats, it may be better than ordinary cars, but for me who never buys luxury goods, it is even more difficult. For those who have never touched a car, it is OK to have a car, and they will not care too much about these details.The point is that I have no research on cars, so you are asking the wrong person if you ask me such a question. The luxury of 200 million is enough for me to buy a large house.

After getting out of the car, I began to look carefully at the man in front of me.It was an ordinary-looking man, neither ugly nor handsome, about 1.75 tall, with small eyes and single eyelids.Wearing a suit and tie, holding a briefcase, he looks very businesslike.

When chatting online, he introduced himself. He has a company in S City and a factory in Suzhou.A self-made entrepreneur.

This person is properly set up to make people feel particularly safe, and it also adds a little favorability.After all, who can refuse a successful entrepreneur who started from scratch and worked hard on his own?
But I suspected that I was dreaming the whole time, until he appeared in front of me driving a car, I suddenly woke up, this is not a dummy on the Internet, I saw a real one, and it was no different from the photo.

Then when we arrived at the restaurant, we ordered and prepared to eat. He was very gentlemanly and asked my opinion and asked what dishes I like to eat. I said that I would order two vegetarian dishes and one meat dish. There is only two of us and we can’t eat much. .He was so gentle that he agreed: Okay, listen to you.

The food was served, and I started to eat, but he looked at me with a tired face, barely moving his chopsticks to eat, I saw his absent-minded look, and couldn't help muttering: I'm afraid this kid didn't like me?
I don’t like to keep things under wraps, so I half-jokingly said, “Why, doesn’t the taste of the food suit your taste? Is it because the woman sitting in front of you is not the beauty you imagined, and you feel disappointed?”

He immediately rubbed his sleepy eyes and said, "How could it be? It's an honor for me to watch the beautiful women eat. I just" He paused and didn't speak.

I immediately followed up with what he said, and continued to break the casserole and ask the end: "Just what? It's nothing, just speak up if you have something to say."

He suddenly smiled slyly and said: "It's okay! I didn't rest until the early morning after discussing business last night. I learned that there was fog in the morning. In order to avoid the heavy fog, I finished talking about business at night. It was already early in the morning. I simply closed my eyes and rested for a while before driving. Got on the highway. After driving for more than three hours, it would be too sleepy. I don’t feel like I have any appetite.”

After hearing these words, I felt a pang of apology in my heart. It turned out that I almost did not sleep at night because I came here to meet me and avoid the thick fog.

I have to say that as soon as I said this, my favorability for this "entrepreneur" soared from 70 points to 90 points.I felt that the other party really put their heart into it, and traveled thousands of miles, and drove from other places to Changzhou to meet me.

Although I love beauty, I tend to like good-looking boys in my bones, but I have to say that this kind of career-oriented man who seems to be particularly emotional and considerate to girls is still quite attractive to girls.

Especially for a woman like me who is also full of ambition, I have a feeling of admiration for the elites in the workplace.

(End of this chapter)