As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone

Chapter 170 The Sturdy Female Instructor
Happy Dating Agency.

Jiang Feng looked at Liu Lian who was sitting in front of him, started the second wave of mediation, and said bluntly: "Ms. Liu, from what you said before, I can tell that you are really dissatisfied with your mother-in-law.

I think my mother-in-law does not cook for you, thinks that my mother-in-law is too lenient so that you have no freedom, complains that my mother-in-law didn’t spare more time to help you take care of the children when you were confinement, and I don’t like the way my mother-in-law takes care of the children various behaviors...

But from my point of view, I think you are wrong! "

Liu Lian was dissatisfied and asked in a deep voice, "Master Jiang, tell me what I did wrong?"

Jiang Feng looked at her and said, "Your fault is that you don't respect your elders enough, and you think that your mother-in-law deserves everything you do, even ignoring what your mother-in-law has done to this family. Children are her duty.

To put it bluntly, you don't have a grateful heart, which is the main source of conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. "

Liu Lian argued: "Master Jiang, I don't agree with what you said. As a big girl, I haven't eaten a sip of their Kang family's food or drank a sip of their Kang family's water for more than 20 years. I am married to carry on their family. Want to be angry with her?
I'm pregnant with the seed of their Kang family, shouldn't she take care of me as a mother-in-law?
After the child was born, it was also their Kang family. Shouldn't she be a grandmother? "

Jiang Feng smiled lightly and said, "Ms. Liu, when your teeth touch your tongue, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps when you live under the same roof. As a daughter-in-law, you should understand and tolerate your mother-in-law more. There is no need to insist on many small things." Argue clearly.

Also, it is really not her duty for your mother-in-law to take care of you who are pregnant and confinement, and help you take care of the child.

Don't use the descendants of the Kang family as an example. When the child grows up, it is you, the mother, who will benefit, not her, the grandma. There are not no grandmas in this world who can enjoy the blessings of grandchildren, but they are really rare. . "

Liu Lian frowned and said, "Didn't they all say 'the first ten years to see my mother-in-law, and the next ten years to see my daughter-in-law'? If she doesn't take care of me and take care of my children when I'm in trouble, then when she gets old, I'll rely on her." Why take care of her?"

Jiang Feng said: "This sentence is very subjective. There is no reference standard. For example, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law treat you very well in the eyes of your mother-in-law. But in your opinion, your mother-in-law is obviously very bad to you. it is good.

Moreover, this is actually very unfair to the mother-in-law.

Seeing the mother-in-law in the first ten years requires the mother-in-law to be a cow and a horse in the first ten years, and work hard without complaint.

To put it bluntly, with the current high divorce rate, maybe your mother-in-law just finished serving you on the front foot, and you patted your buttocks on the back and left the house.Even if there is no divorce, in today's society, many mothers-in-law are still taking care of their children and grandchildren until the day before their death, instead of being taken care of by their daughter-in-law.

Therefore, the so-called seeing a daughter-in-law in the next ten years has become empty talk here.

Therefore, as a daughter-in-law, you must know how to be grateful. Your mother-in-law is helping you out of affection, not duty. Don’t judge your mother-in-law’s dedication by taking care of your mother-in-law decades later that hasn’t happened yet. "

These words left Liu Lian speechless.

Jiang Feng made a final conclusion: "In short, if you have a little more understanding and tolerance for your mother-in-law, she must treat you much better than her mother-in-law back then. She has worked hard to raise her son for more than 20 years. The money is given to your wife instead of her mother, you should be content!"

Liu Lian's heart was shaken, and there was a touch of thinking in her expression.

Seeing this, Jiang Feng said, "Ms. Liu, think carefully about what I told you. Now you wait in the lobby outside and call your husband in by the way."

"Okay, Master Jiang!" Liu Lian responded, then got up and opened the door and went out.

Soon, Kang Buping opened the door and walked in.

After he sat down, Jiang Feng continued his straightforward style and said, "Mr. Kang, in the conflict between your mother and your wife, you bear an inescapable responsibility.

Originally, your mother and your wife were strangers who did not know each other. They became a family through you, and you played an extremely important role in it.

And when your mother and wife just had a conflict, you should try to solve it immediately, instead of only knowing how to make peace like you, which will only make the relationship between the two of them more and more rigid.

Originally it was just a trivial matter, but when the piles accumulate and explode, it is no longer a trivial matter! "

Kang Buping smiled wryly and said: "Master Jiang, I understand what you said, but I really have no way to solve it, except to persuade each other with Si Ni, I really can't think of any way to make them stop worrying about those trivial things. "

Jiang Feng said: "Actually, I can't blame you. You and I are both men. Although I have never been married, I have seen many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Many times, when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts, men don't know how to persuade them.

Speak for your mother, my wife is not happy.

Let's talk for my wife, and I'm afraid of hurting my mother's heart.

In short, men who can't resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, nine out of ten choose to keep silent. "

Kang Buping said with deep sympathy: "Master Jiang is right. I am such a man. Every time my mother and wife quarrel, I keep silent. It's not because I don't want to persuade, but because I am in front of them. I don't know where to start to persuade them, so I can only wait for them to persuade each other in private after the quarrel is over.

It's a pity that the effect was so small that I didn't even bother to persuade him in private. "

Jiang Feng nodded understandingly, "Mr. Kang, after my mediation this time, I believe that your mother and wife should rarely have disputes. Occasionally, when they have disputes, you really don't know how to persuade them, so you will break up in private. Tell them, if you don't want to pay high mediation fees again, don't worry about so much."

Kang Buping listened repeatedly and said good things.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. It is definitely better to live separately than under the same roof, but Jiang Feng did not mention this to Kang Buping, mainly because his family situation is a bit special.

First, their family moved from Guangdong Province to Jiangxi Province decades ago, and there are no people living there anymore. If they lived separately, they would have to spend extra money to rent a house, which is a completely unnecessary expense.

Second, Kang Buping's father has passed away, and only his mother is left. It is undoubtedly a big blow to his mother to let him live alone without his mother, while he lives with his wife and children.

Therefore, Jiang Feng never mentioned this to him.

Feeling that he had finished speaking, Jiang Feng called in all the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who were waiting in the lobby.

Seeing their family of three sitting down, Jiang Feng directly used his wall-breaking ability on them.

Originally, the marriage matching value of Kang Buping and Liu Lian was as follows:
[Current marriage matching value] 56 (husband and wife relationship 62+ good family relationship 68+ family relationship 38)

[Extreme marriage matching value] 60 (husband and wife relationship 69+ good family relationship 71+ family relationship 40)

After Jiang Feng used the wall-breaking ability on them, their marriage matching value changed drastically, and it instantly became like this:

[Current marriage matching value] 68 (husband and wife relationship 68+ good family relationship 68+ family relationship 68)

[Extreme marriage matching value] 79 (husband and wife relationship 79+ good family relationship 79+ family relationship 79)

At the same time, Jiang Feng looked at the three of them and said, "I believe you all have thought through what I told you just now. The next time is for you mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Ms. Liu, what do you want to say to your mother-in-law?" Is it?"

At this time, because the current family relationship has soared by 30 points, Liu Lian's impression of her mother-in-law has also undergone a great change, and Jiang Feng's mediation to her before has also played a big role.

Therefore, when Jiang Feng asked her what she wanted to say to her mother-in-law, Liu Lian might have gotten emotional, and looked at her mother-in-law sincerely and said, "Mom, I'm sorry, I was ignorant before and made you suffer! "

In Hu Jinhua's eyes, the daughter-in-law at this moment is also pleasing to the eye like never before, and she also said emotionally: "Mom also did something wrong, I hope you will bear with me!"

Seeing this scene, Kang Buping was so excited that he was trembling all over. He really wanted his mother and wife to live in harmony in his dreams. Now that his dream has come true, he feels that the 10 yuan was really worth it!
Needless to say about the next development, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quickly warmed up after the past suspicions had been resolved, but in less than ten minutes, they changed from being disgusted with each other to loving mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The main reason why the two had such a huge change was naturally Jiang Feng's ability to break the wall, and the second was his mediation words, which made both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law reflect on themselves.

Afterwards, Kang Buping paid the money readily, and the family of three thanked Jiang Feng a thousand times before leaving happily.

Jiang Feng didn't have much time to express his feelings. He now concentrates his marriage mediation time on Saturday and Sunday, and there are more than ten clients waiting for him to conduct marriage mediation!

……

Sunday.

11:30 in the evening.

On a sparsely populated old street in the provincial capital, a car parked on the side of the road was shaking rhythmically, but the shaking was not large. If you didn't stare at the car, you wouldn't feel it.

ten minutes later.

The car stopped shaking.

A few minutes later, the lights inside the car came on, and Zhang Rongying stretched out her hand to pinch Jiang Fei, and said shyly, "You look quite honest, but I didn't expect you to be so bad that you bully me in this kind of place." , in case anyone sees it..."

Jiang Fei smiled contentedly and said, "Where will anyone be walking on this road at this time, and it is impossible for the passing vehicles to pay attention to these, and our movements are very light, so no one will notice."

There was still a trace of flush on Zhang Rongying's face, "If I am found out, I will lose face!"

Jiang Fei was so moved by the sight, he leaned over and kissed her, and said with a smile, "I see you were quite excited just now!"

"Nonsense, who is excited?"

Zhang Rongying was so ashamed that she kept stretching out her hand to pinch him, and Jiang Fei stopped begging for mercy.

After flirting with each other for a while, Jiang Fei said seriously, "Honey, I want to go back to my hometown and bring my parents over. Our family will formally meet with yours to discuss our marriage. What do you think?"

The relationship between the two has developed to this point, and the next step is naturally to discuss marriage, Zhang Rongying nodded and said: "Then I will say hello to my parents first, and then make an appointment to meet, do you think it is okay?"

Jiang Fei hummed and said: "Of course, then let's talk about it like this. You first discuss with your parents to set a meeting time, and I will go back and pick up my parents."

Zhang Rongying nodded.

Then the two of them stayed together for more than ten minutes, and it was not until after midnight that Jiang Fei drove her home.

……

The next day.

Monday.

After Jiang Feng had breakfast, he drove all the way towards Sichuan province.

When searching for a match for that Lily sister, Jiang Feng drove to many provinces, and Chuan Province was one of them. Here he found a suitable match for Bai Zi'an, the second-generation official.

Jiang Feng came here for two purposes:
One, act as a matchmaker for Bai Zian.

Second, search for matching partners for Li Qianrou, Tian Lu, and Mu Xiaolan along the way.

From the provincial capital of Guizhou Province to the provincial capital of Sichuan Province, there is a distance of more than 1000 to [-] kilometers, separated by Guizhou Province.

Jiang Feng's current search and matching range is expanding almost every day. Now it is not just as simple as covering one city, but can cover two adjacent cities.

Therefore, Jiang Feng's search and matching efficiency is extremely high now.

As soon as he set off to the birthplace of screw powder, he found a suitable match for Tian Lu, a woman who had lost her footing. However, Jiang Feng didn't mean to stop, but continued to set off.

When passing through the provincial capital of Guizhou Province, Jiang Feng found a suitable partner for Mu Xiaolan, a girl who was obsessed with cleanliness.

Jiang Feng also didn't intend to stop, and continued to drive towards the provincial capital of Sichuan Province.

At eleven o'clock that night, Jiang Feng finally arrived in the provincial capital of Sichuan Province.

Came to the pre-booked hotel and parked the car, had a delicious supper, and then went back to the hotel to take a shower and dry my hair. It was already one or two o'clock in the morning after everything was done.

After driving for a day, he was already exhausted, so Jiang Feng fell asleep.

Silent all night.

The next day.

At nine o'clock in the morning, Jiang Feng got up and washed up, then checked out and ate a bowl of Sichuan special breakfast, then drove straight to the target location - the provincial women's special police team.

Jiang Feng gave Bai Zian, the official second-generation matchmaker, the following information:

【Name】Joe Phoenix
【Age】28 years old

【Height】167cm
【Weight】54kg
[Family Background] Born in a military family, his great-grandfather was an old Red Army soldier who died on the Anti-Japanese War.Grandpa participated in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea.My father is the boss of the provincial military region...

【Character hobbies】...

【Emotional Experience】No
[Current marriage matching value] 81 (husband and wife relationship 74+ good family relationship 88+ family relationship 81)

[Extreme marriage matching value] 89 (husband and wife relationship 89+ good family relationship 91+ family relationship 87)

There is no doubt that the family background of this match is very prominent, even worse than that of Bai Zi'an's family.

Through the matching information, Jiang Feng could see that this girl named Qiao Fenghuang was very sturdy, and she was a famous female instructor of the Provincial Women's Special Police Team.

If Jiang Feng managed to match this pair up, then Bai Zi'an might become attached to the word'rake ears'!

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