As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone

Chapter 492 Met a compatriot from the motherland in a foreign country
The provincial capital of Hunan Province.

A luxury villa.

Tong Lisha said: "Why don't we give cash directly, and let Master Jiang buy whatever he wants, so that he won't be afraid that the gift he gives is not what he likes."

Ke Baoqiang said dumbfoundedly: "Mom, money is indeed omnipotent, but it's too vulgar to send money directly. It's better to give as much as possible in kind."

Xia Yuhe suggested: "I think you can give some things that can preserve value, such as real estate shops or something. This kind of gift can be handed out, and it won't be as vulgar as giving money."

Tong Lisha's eyes lit up when she heard this, and she agreed: "Yuhe's proposal is very good. Since ancient times, there has been no one in our country who dislikes real estate and shops. This is a good gift."

Ke Baoqiang nodded and said: "Okay, then let's give it to the store. This will not only preserve the value, but also generate income. I will leave this to you, Mom."

Tong Lisha said: "Since you want to send shops, it's best to send them to the same city, so that Master Jiang can manage them. Then I will go to the provincial capital of Guangxi province tomorrow to do this. I must buy some shops that are available for sale." Give it to Master Jiang."

Ke Baoqiang and Xia Yuhe both nodded and agreed.

After deciding on the gift-giving plan, the next three people discussed some of the details.

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Tokyo, Japan.

At noon, Yamamoto Shisan and Mr. Mikami discussed Chinese poetry culture in the office. Naturally, Mr. Mikami was slightly better. It is not comparable to Yamamoto Thirteen.

However, Yamamoto Shisan can barely keep up with Mikami-sensei's rhythm, which is already very good, at least Mikami-sensei is satisfied.

After discussing the culture of poetry for more than an hour, both of them felt refreshed, and Teacher Mikami, who had not discussed with others for a long time, was even more radiant.

"Mr. Mikami, I want to take you back to have a meal with my parents tonight, and introduce you to my parents. I don't know what you want?"

Mikami-sensei blinked and said noncommittally: "Yamamoto-kun, I didn't prepare a gift in advance, it would be rude to meet your parents!"

Yamamoto Shisan said with a smile: "The meeting ceremony is very simple. I have quite a few in my office. You can just pick a few. The key is that I want to introduce you to my parents as soon as possible. I can't wait to marry you now." back home."

After all, we had just discussed poetry culture together, and Teacher Mikami said obediently: "Well, if you insist, Yamamoto-kun, then I will agree to you."

Yamamoto Shisan said happily: "Thank you Mikami-sensei, then I will call my mother and let her get ready."

Teacher Mikami showed a nervous expression, and said very cutely: "I'm so nervous, I wonder if your parents will like me?"

Yamamoto Shisan smiled and said, "Don't worry, Mikami-sensei, my parents will definitely like you."

Teacher Mikami said: "Then Yamamoto-kun, please tell me about your parents, and tell me about their interests and hobbies."

"No problem, I'll call my mother first, and then I'll talk to you in detail."

"Ok."

……

Someone once said this sentence: The most perfect life in the world is "living in a British house, eating Chinese food, earning an American salary, and marrying a Japanese woman".

There is a certain truth to this statement.

According to the survey, the social status of Japanese women is at the lowest level in Asia.

A Japanese woman who is not working has to prepare the meal before her husband comes home, put away the bath water and stand at the door to greet her husband. After saying that you have worked hard, she will send her slippers, take the coat and briefcase, and then serve her husband for dinner. If the food is not to your taste, you will be scolded for sure.

And Japanese women who have a job also have to cook, because Japanese men don't go to the kitchen at all, and cooking can be delayed, but they must not be sloppy.

Regardless of whether Japanese women have a job or not, they have to send their husbands to work in the morning, and they must be delivered to the door, and they bow to say goodbye.

Even if the husband has a car, he can't take the car by himself. He has to take the bus by himself when he goes out.

The Japanese love cleanliness very much. Married Japanese women clean their rooms every day, vacuum and plaster, almost no dust can be seen, and they will dress up their homes beautifully and exquisitely.

Such a virtuous and obedient Japanese woman, which man would not want to marry?

There is a Japanese saying that "women have no home in the three realms", that is, after a woman is born, her home belongs to her parents.After growing up and getting married, her family belongs to her husband.After the husband died, the family belonged to the son.

Therefore, it is necessary to "obey the father at home, obey the husband when married, and obey the son when the husband dies."

This is simply a copy of the ancient Chinese "Three Obediences for Women", but after China has undergone the baptism of "don't love red clothes and love armed forces" and "women can hold up half the sky", the so-called "feudal legacy" has disappeared. A lot remained.

Before Li Shuixiu married to Japan, she had actually heard that Japanese women's social status and family status were not high, but when she was still young, she was already dazzled by the so-called love, and she resolutely chose in spite of her parents' strong opposition. Married to Japan.

I remember that at that time, I really made her parents very angry. Originally, she chose to marry a foreigner, and her parents with more traditional thinking were already very upset. What's more, she married a Japanese. How could her parents accept it?

But Li Shuixiu, as an only child, grew up in the doting of her parents. She wanted to marry willfully, but her parents couldn't stop her.

In the end, her parents, who couldn't resist her, had no choice but to agree to her transnational marriage with a dark face, but they all said the same sentence in front of her, and she would definitely regret it.

It's just that she couldn't listen to such words at that time, and she swore directly in front of her parents that she married the right person and would never regret it.

However, today, a few years later, Li Shuixiu is sitting on a rocking chair on the balcony, gazing at the sunset in the distance, with endless confusion and regret in his eyes.

Now she finally realizes that her parents' advice was right. Japanese culture and society are far from her expectations.

She didn't expect that life after marriage would be so difficult. Not only was her husband machismo, but he also didn't care about his family at all. The first thing he did after get off work was not to go home, but to go to some pubs and izakayas for a drink. Drink it until late at night.

For this reason, she had quarreled with him, but he blocked her with a single word, because in Japan, a wonderful country, if a man comes home from get off work on time, it will be considered a sign of incompetence.

What else can she say?
Because the atmosphere of the entire Japanese society is the same, the husband occupies a dominant position in the family, and she passively accepts various arrangements.

She yearns for independence and hopes to pursue her dreams in a career, but finds her role in the family limited to that of a traditional housewife.

Moreover, Japan lacks an environment that supports women in both parenting and work.

In China, if there are children in the family, they are usually brought up by the elderly in the family. The couple can work and earn money with peace of mind.

But in Japan, the parent-child relationship is relatively weak. Children are brought up by their mothers after birth, and elders such as grandma and grandma rarely participate in raising grandchildren.

From the perspective of traditional Japanese family concepts and education concepts, children are independent after marriage, and everything has to be solved by themselves, especially raising children by themselves, and parents will not interfere too much.

As a result, her schooling experience and professional ability were forced to be left behind, and she was occupied by the endless housework and children's education.

This is really not the life she wants!

Tears of remorse rolled in Li Shuixiu's eyes. She regretted not following her parents' advice and carefully considering her decision.

She thought of divorce more than once, but her self-esteem did not allow her to do so.

After all, she swore in front of her parents that she married the right man and would never regret it, but after a few years she got divorced and went back disheartened. Even if her parents didn't say anything about her, she, who always cares about face, couldn't accept it. ending.

Therefore, in the past two years, she has been trying her best to support her. To be precise, it is her unyielding heart that supports her.

But now, she was really about to be unable to hold on anymore, because she discovered a sad thing, her husband cheated on her!And not recently, she has already cheated!
This is actually not surprising at all.

According to the survey, the cheating rate of Japanese women is as high as 49%, basically half of the women will cheat after marriage, and 6% have ever thought about cheating.

This data is unbelievable in China, but it is normal in Japan.

Think about it, even women have such a high cheating rate, let alone a man who is naturally lustful, the cheating rate is definitely not lower than that of women.

After discovering that her husband was cheating, Li Shuixiu completely gave up on this marriage. The idea of ​​divorce became more and more intense, but there were still two unresolved matters that made her delay in implementing the divorce.

The first thing is the child's problem.

From birth to now, she has brought out the child with one hand and one foot. She will never let go of this child. If she divorces, she will have to take the child with her.

The second thing is to be ashamed to face your parents.

At the beginning, she talked too much. In the past few years, she called her parents to report good news but not bad news. Now that she divorced suddenly and went back, how to face her parents is also a problem.

The more she thought about it, the more irritable she felt, so Li Shuixiu simply stopped staying at home and planned to go out for a walk to relax, since her husband would not come back so early anyway.

……

A five-star hotel.

Jiang Feng looked at the time and said to the two bodyguards: "Sister Bingbing, Sister Wutong, it's getting late now, let's go out for dinner, what do you want to eat today?"

Baili Wutong said: "Boss, you can decide, we can eat whatever you want."

Guo Bingbing nodded and said, "We will listen to you, boss."

Jiang Feng said with a smile: "Then let's go out for a stroll and see if there are any special snacks or other delicious foods that look appetizing in Tokyo."

Baili Wutong and Guo Bingbing naturally have no opinion.

So, the three of them went out and wandered aimlessly.

After walking for about ten to twenty minutes, Jiang Feng and the three saw a snack bar.

The name of the snack bar reads もんじゃ焼. Jiang Feng didn't understand Japanese, but he recognized one of the burnt characters, and asked, "Sister Baili, what kind of snacks does this snack bar serve?"

He didn't ask casually. His two bodyguards were the elite of the army elite, and they were all-round bodyguards. In terms of language, Baili Wutong was proficient in English and Japanese, while Guo Bingbing was proficient in English and German.

Before Baili Wutong had time to answer, a woman next to her rushed to answer: "My fellow, the snacks made by this snack bar are called Monjayaki, and they are one of the very famous snacks in Japan."

The person rushing to reply was none other than Li Shuixiu who came out to relax in an irritable mood.

It is something to be happy to meet compatriots from the motherland in a foreign country. At this time, Li Shuixiu felt that the boredom in her heart had been relieved a lot.

Although there are nearly one million Chinese people in Japan, these nearly one million people are scattered all over the country. As long as you don't look for them specifically, it is actually very difficult to meet a compatriot in your life.

Even if they met, if the two parties did not speak Chinese, they would not be able to tell whether the other party was a Japanese or a Chinese compatriot just by looking at their appearance.

After all, Japan and our country have a deep relationship, and the people of the two countries do not have obvious differences in appearance like Westerners.

Hearing Li Shuixiu's words, Jiang Feng and the two bodyguards knew that they had met compatriots from the motherland, and they couldn't help but smile in surprise on their faces.

Jiang Feng greeted immediately: "Hello, sister, my name is Jiang Feng, Jiang from the Yangtze River, and Feng from Maple Leaf. I'm from Guangxi Province. I don't know what to call my sister?"

Li Shuixiu also greeted, "Hi Jiang Feng, my name is Li Shuixiu, and my hometown is Guizhou Province."

Next, Baili Wutong and Guo Bingbing also greeted each other and introduced themselves.

After a few words of politeness to each other, Jiang Feng suggested: "Sister Li, it's rare for us to meet in a foreign country, how about having dinner together?"

Li Shuixiu nodded and said: "I was just about to say, I can be regarded as half of the host here, it is rare to meet fellow villagers today, I must treat you to a meal to show the friendship of the landlord."

Jiang Feng asked, "Did Sister Li emigrate here with her family, or did she marry here?"

Li Shuixiu said: "I'm married here, Jiang Feng, what do you want to eat? You often eat Chinese food in China, so I don't recommend it here. Why don't you try local food?"

Jiang Feng smiled and said, "Okay, it's also rare for us to come to Tokyo once, and we have tasted a lot of local delicacies in the past two days, and the taste is indeed unique, so let Sister Li be the master!"

Li Shuixiu nodded and said, "Okay then, I know there is a good restaurant nearby, and the price is also affordable, how about we go there and eat?"

"No problem, this monjayaki looks good. I wonder if the store I went to has this snack? If not, I plan to buy one and try it out."

"Don't worry, that shop has this snack."

"Then please, Sister Li, lead the way!"

"No trouble, please follow me!"

(End of this chapter)