As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone

Chapter 494 As long as you are not afraid of embarrassment, then feel free to fight with me

People are sometimes very strange. Some things cannot be discussed with relatives and friends, but they can communicate with strangers in a shallow way, and can talk about intimate matters.

This is the case with Li Shuixiu now. After Jiang Feng calculated her marital status and dispelled her worries about divorce, she opened up and chatted with Jiang Feng about her marriage, telling her about her journey of marrying a Japanese husband. They all said it.

During a meal, Li Shuixiu said all the words she had accumulated in her heart for many years, and felt much more comfortable.

Jiang Feng and the others have been acting as the audience. After Li Shuixiu finished speaking, he said: "So, Sister Li, you don't need to continue to be patient. You were the apple of your parents' eyes when you were in your natal family, but now you are married to Japan, but you have to live with a babysitter. Life is not as good as it is, so why bother?"

Li Shuixiu said with emotion: "Yeah, I'm so stupid. I'm not a good young lady. I have to marry here to suffer. I'm really out of my mind!"

Jiang Feng said: "Sister Li, you are still young, and you still have a long way to go in life. The experience of the past few years should be used as a lesson for yourself. You can still start over after getting divorced and returning to China."

Li Shuixiu nodded and said: "Thank you, Master Jiang, for your guidance. At first, I couldn't make up my mind about the divorce. I was scruples about this and that, and I completely lost the spirit of never turning back. Now, after your guidance, I have completely thought about it. In the future, I will file for a divorce with him, and then bring my children back to China to start my new life."

Jiang Feng reminded: "Sister Li, your husband probably won't agree easily, and may even suspect that you have cheated in marriage and threaten you with your children. You must be mentally prepared for this."

Speaking of this, I have to feel that Japan is really a wonderful country. Women's family status and social status are not high, and they are useless in the workplace. After marriage, they can only choose to be a housewife .

But at the same time, Japan’s various policies are very good for women, such as financial power. In Japan, women are in charge of the family’s financial power. Even after a Japanese man gets married, his salary will be directly transferred to his wife’s account. This is almost impossible in China. It's an incredible thing.

There is also the fact that Japanese women's cheating rate after marriage ranks first in the world, but at the same time, Japan's divorce rate is astonishingly low, which has to be said to be a miracle.

The most fundamental reason for this kind of thing to happen is that most Japanese men cannot afford to divorce. This is not an exaggeration, it is true.

Because most Japanese women are full-time wives, they enjoy many legal benefits and privileges, including treatment after divorce.

Japan's "Marriage Law" stipulates that if the husband works outside and pays full social insurance premiums, and his wife is a housewife at home, she can also share 50% of the man's pension during the marriage in the future.In this way, even if the woman does not go out to work, she will have financial security for the rest of her life.

There is also the man's cheating. If the negotiation fails, the parties can request the family court to deal with it.

In addition to demanding the division of the husband and wife's joint property, divorce compensation, pensions, and child support, the cheated party can also ask for economic compensation from the cheating party and the mistress.

The amount of compensation is determined based on factors such as the number of years of marriage, the length of the affair, whether the third party is pregnant, and the mental injury suffered by the cheated party.

When divorced, if the wife is a full-time wife, she can still receive half of her husband's pension after the age of 65, so there is no need to worry about financial problems at all.

Even if the woman cheats, the man still has to pay his wife alimony until the wife remarries. Especially if the custody is taken away by the wife, the monthly alimony will account for half of the monthly income, which means that the cost of divorce is luxury.

Therefore, Japanese men are really "inseparable".

Li Shuixiu frowned and said: "I'm not afraid of accusing me of cheating in marriage. After all, I'm not afraid of being crooked. His dirty water won't flow on me, and even if I cheated too, according to the Japanese marriage law, I can do it." Enjoy special treatment.

But if he threatens me with the child, I really don't know what to do! "

"Sister Li, when it comes to children, it's actually a psychological battle between husband and wife. Whoever acts like he cares will suffer."

Jiang Feng said: "He will threaten you with the child, because he is sure that you care too much about the child. If you don't want to be threatened by him, then you have to act like he doesn't care about the child. You just need to do this... and then... ..."

Li Shuixiu nodded again and again: "I understand, if he dares to threaten me with the child, I will do as Master Jiang taught me."

Jiang Feng hummed and said, "Sister Li, let's exchange contact information. We plan to return to China the day after tomorrow. If you need help during this period, please call me.

If everything goes well, you can also call me if you want to find someone after you return to China, and I will definitely find a man for you who can treat you well. "

Li Shuixiu said gratefully: "Thank you so much. If I hadn't met you by fate today, I don't know how long I would have hesitated before making the decision to divorce, and when the time comes to fight for the child, I'm afraid I will pay a big price for it." .”

Jiang Feng smiled and said, "Sister Li, you are being polite. We are all Chinese compatriots. We should help each other. Then I will replace wine with tea. I wish you all the best, Sister Li."

"Well, all the best, cheers!"

"cheers!"

……

At the same time, Mr. Mikami was also eating with Yamamoto Shisan and his parents.

Sure enough, just as Master Jiang said, when Yamamoto Shisan's parents met Mr. Mikami, they were extremely enthusiastic. After getting acquainted with each other, they talked about A culture without any scruples, and even talked about San Teacher Shang's acting skills in the small movie.

As a top-level A-girl, Mikami-sensei is naturally not inferior to anyone else in this respect. Since the Yamamoto family has nothing to be ashamed of, and they are discussing A-culture and filming experience seriously, then she naturally has nothing to be embarrassed about. .

So, when I met my parents for dinner for the first time, I spent most of the time discussing the shooting of small movies. Even Yamamoto’s parents gave examples of small movies made by Mr. Mikami before. Obviously, they have all watched Mr. Mikami’s works.

This kind of scene is only considered normal in Japan. If it is changed to China, even those rated actresses will definitely not be able to handle it, and it will definitely be embarrassing.

After a meal, Teacher Mikami successfully integrated into the Yamamoto family. Yamamoto's parents had a very good impression of her. They bluntly said that it would be his blessing if his son Shisan Yamamoto could marry Teacher Mikami back.

To be honest, in terms of enthusiasm, when Teacher Mikami and her Chinese boyfriend went back to meet his parents, before her identity as a girl was exposed, the treatment she enjoyed was no worse than now.

But after the Chinese boyfriend's parents knew her identity, the difference in attitude was really too big. It's not like now that there is no burden at all, and he can exchange his experience in small movies with his parents to his heart's content.Coupled with the fact that the economic conditions of the Yamamoto family are better than her ex-Chinese boyfriend, this is simply her dream marriage.

And all of this was brought to her by Master Jiang.

Of course, she also had credit for introducing Master Jiang, a master matchmaker, to her ex-boyfriend Ge Jun.

When the marriage here is really implemented, I will thank Master Jiang well.

As for Ge Jun, let Master Jiang thank you on his behalf. After all, she should not have too much contact with him. She doesn't care, but it may affect Ge Jun.

It was already around nine o'clock in the evening when I left Yamamoto's house.

Yamamoto Shisan drove and escorted Teacher Mikami back to her residence.

After getting out of the car, Teacher Mikami asked meaningfully: "Yamamoto-kun, we are evenly matched in the poetry discussion at noon. I wonder if you are still interested in having poetry exchanges?"

Yamamoto Shisan recalled the scene of the poetry discussion at noon, and immediately saluted: "Mr. Mikami, I am very interested in the poetry discussion. I hope this discussion can be more comprehensive and in-depth."

Mikami-sensei said with a smile: "This will depend on Yamamoto-kun's hard work!"

Yamamoto Shisan said excitedly: "Mr. Mikami must not be disappointed."

Having said that, the two looked at each other and smiled, then went upstairs in tacit understanding.

……

After parting with Jiang Feng and the others, Li Shuixiu went to her parents-in-law's house to pick up the children. Although her parents-in-law didn't help with the children, she occasionally picked them up to play. That's why she was free to hang out this afternoon.

After picking up the child, giving her a bath and putting her to sleep, Li Shuixiu also went to take a bath, and then played with her mobile phone while waiting for her husband to come back.

Tonight, she was going to have a showdown with her husband.

This waited until early in the morning when her husband Nakata Saburo came back smelling of alcohol.

Now that she was planning to get a divorce, Li Shuixiu naturally wouldn't belittle herself anymore, went to the door to meet her husband and handed him slippers and a briefcase, but pretended she didn't see him coming back.

Saburo Nakata frowned when he saw this, and wanted to curse.

But Li Shuixiu spoke before he cursed, and said, "Zhongtian, let's talk!"

Feeling that his wife's tone was wrong, Saburo Nakata swallowed back the curse words on his lips, took a pair of slippers and put them on, and asked as he walked in, "What do you want to talk about?"

Li Shuixiu put her mobile phone on the table, folded her arms around her chest, looked at him and said, "Zhongtian, our marriage is in name only now, I already knew about your cheating, I have tried to give you a chance for a while , but your performance disappoints me so much, let's get a divorce!"

Saburo Nakata was not surprised at all when his wife knew about his cheating. After all, he didn't cheat occasionally, but spent time outside blatantly. As his bedside person, he couldn't hide it from his wife no matter what.

Even, he didn't come back until midnight every day, which can be regarded as creating conditions for his wife to cheat. He believed that not only he cheated, but also his wife cheated.

Anyway, this is a very normal thing in Japan. It is a great shame for a Chinese man to have his wife cheating, but for many Japanese men, it is a sign of his attractive wife.

Saburo Nakata is obviously a supporter of this concept.

Everyone played their own way, and no one owed anyone anything. I didn't expect my wife to say that he cheated on me, and even asked him for a divorce. Nakata Saburo directly shook his head and said, "I don't agree!"

His answer was within Li Shuixiu's expectation, and she said calmly: "Zhongtian, back then I chose to marry you regardless of my parents' strong opposition, but have you ever cared about what kind of life I have lived these past few years? ?
In addition to serving you, uncle, there are also endless housework every day. After the child is born, everything is done by me. I am not even as good as a nanny, you know? "

Saburo Nakata frowned and said: "Shuixiu, we Japanese women will take care of their husbands and children at home after marriage. You know this. Isn't housework a very enjoyable thing for you women? What do you mean by what you say? Meaning, do you feel that you are working hard?"

Li Shuixiu said: "Perhaps for many of you Japanese women, doing housework is a very enjoyable thing, because they regard it as a lifelong career, and they were trained by their parents to do housework when they were in their natal homes.

But for me, work is what I like. This kind of housework that can never be done is not enjoyed here, but tortured.

And widowed parenting, it's so bad, I've had enough of it over the years. "

Saburo Nakata shook his head and said, "Anyway, I don't agree to divorce. You know, I can't afford to leave this marriage."

Li Shuixiu said: "Leave if you can afford it or not. I will negotiate with you now. It is best if you agree. It will save a lot of trouble. If you don't agree, I will leave too. It just takes more effort."

Saburo Nakata's face darkened instantly, and he threatened: "Li Shuixiu, let me tell you, I absolutely do not agree to divorce. Even if you file a divorce lawsuit in the court, as long as I don't cooperate, you may not be able to successfully divorce. Moreover, as long as If you do that, I will fight with you for the custody of my daughter, and I will never let you take her away."

Li Shuixiu said unmoved: "As long as you are not afraid of embarrassment, then you can feel free to quarrel with me. Anyway, I will return to China after divorce. No matter how ugly the quarrel is, it will not affect me, but you still have to stay here Life, you weigh it yourself.

Also, you don't need to fight with me for the custody of your daughter. You can give it to you if you want it. Anyway, it's better for me to go back to China alone. I'm afraid that my parents won't like it when I bring my daughter back! "

Saburo Nakata's face was ashen when he was blocked. As Li Shuixiu said, this divorced person is looked down upon in Japan. If there is still a commotion, it will really lose all face.

The only thing he can handle with his wife is his daughter.

After all, he knows how deep the relationship between his wife and daughter is.

But now, according to his wife, she even gave up on her beloved daughter. The heart of divorce can be said to be as hard as iron, which really gave Saburo Nakata a headache.

Why did things suddenly develop to this point?
　Weakly ask: Boss, do you still have a monthly pass?

　　
　
(End of this chapter)