Back to 80s: It's not easy to be a group favorite

Chapter 316

Because Ling Yihong is a foreigner and his family is in the provincial capital, if he gets married, it is impossible to go back and forth on the same day!
This is not the afterlife.

In future generations, the road conditions are good and there are many cars.

Even if you don't have a suitable one at home, you can pack a bus or something, and you can take it away with all your relatives and friends.

None of this is a problem.

Now there is no expressway between the county seat and the provincial capital, and the only way to go to the provincial capital is to take national or provincial roads.

The same goes here.

The road conditions are bad, and there is a traffic jam or something, this trip might take a long time!
When we got to the village, it might have been mid-afternoon.

What can this little effort be enough for?

The marriage procedure is cumbersome, and it is impossible to pick up the bride directly at the woman's house and leave.

No matter how simple the process is, you have to have a banquet, right?

In this way, it is impossible to go back and forth in the same day, so I can only stay at the woman's house for one night.

And Ling Yihong is a single gang, if this is done, the coordination will be more troublesome.

After deliberation, it was simply done on the woman's side!
The man treats guests in the town, and the woman does it in the village.

Ling Yihong set off from the town to the village to pick up the bride, and then set up a few tables in the restaurant in the town, which was regarded as the wedding banquet of the man's family.

Before, some relatives gave advice to Mama Li. If the groom's home is too far away, when the wedding is held, they will simply walk around the village according to the custom, and it will be regarded as a wedding ceremony!

But Mama Li didn't agree.

This sounds a bit like a door-to-door son-in-law.

Although Li's father didn't say anything, he meant the same thing as Li's mother.

Since it is said that it is to marry a daughter, why bother to make such nonsense, which is unpleasant.

Although Ling Yihong may not understand this, but we know it ourselves, so we can't get away with it.

The person who came up with the idea was embarrassed and muttered in his heart, but it was hard to say anything.

Li's mother said to Li's father afterwards: "Why is this old X's family like this now? There are so many bad ideas."

Father Li twitched the corners of his mouth and said nothing, he thought to himself, don't you always think that he is a good person, now you know that this person is not good?

But for the sake of family harmony, Father Li still echoed a few words: "Just don't bother with her!"

Li Ma just muttered a few words, she is busy, how can she have time to pay attention to these things?

The next step is to book a table.

Some meat and vegetables, some cold dishes, some hot dishes, stir-fried, stewed, steamed and fried, and soup.

How many plates, how many bowls, how many dishes?
What wine do you drink?The grade of white wine and the grade of red wine have to be determined!
Also, please ask someone to help.

When doing local affairs, no matter whether it is red or white, the meat and vegetables are generally played by pigs and chickens.

In the past few years, life has improved, and the fastidious people still have a fish for each table.

How many tables are there in total? Thirty or forty tables?
In addition, according to the rules, a few tables have to be reserved for emergencies.

On the night of the wedding banquet, people such as the manager and welcome guests have to be invited to have wine.

That can't be more than 50 tables?

It will be simple for future generations, just contract it to the wedding company directly.

Once the money is in place, I guarantee that it will be properly arranged for you from the beginning to the end.

But not now.

One is the custom, and the other is that the wedding company has not yet emerged.

People in the village are also used to doing it by themselves.

If it is entrusted to outsiders, some people will laugh at it, because the family doesn't even have a family, and it can't even hold a wedding banquet.

In terms of the importance of the positions, they are either relatives or villagers.

Procurement is the first to play, and this is basically done by relatives of the main family.

This kind of person is generally a person with excellent character, practical work, and won the trust of the master to take up this position.

Most of the managers are people in the village who love to make arrangements, are good at coordinating, and are flexible in handling affairs; the chef may invite people from other villages with good craftsmanship, and the rest are mostly neighbors, relatives and friends who are closer to the host's family.

Some of these people have been busy from the beginning, and some are busy on the day of the wedding banquet.

But no matter what, they helped, and it is necessary to have a banquet after the wedding banquet!

Li Shaoyun got dizzy just listening to it.

Li Ma, on the other hand, was very busy, and she belonged to the kind who gets better when she gets busier.

This side of the town will be handed over to Ling Yihong.It's much simpler here, just find a better-grade restaurant in the town and just book a table.

As for the grade, it's just a matter of picking up what the store has done well!
These days, it is important to be affordable, and the ingredients are natural, as long as it is a hard dish, everyone likes it!
Here in the village, for the first time in so many years, the Li family has a serious wedding event!

Think about it, it has been more than 20 years since the children were born.

Li's mother felt tears welling up in her eyes when she thought about it, it was so difficult!
Pedestrians have been doing business for so many years, and they give gifts to others every year, and there must be one or two throughout the year.

Sometimes they still come together!

Every year's favor is an expense, and the family has never recovered it.

The three children are all in school, except that the eldest had a drink when he was admitted to university, but that was also from his own family, and there were people close to him, so he didn't make a fuss like he is now.

Although the old man and the old lady are old, their own family has never held a banquet for the old man and old lady to receive gifts.

No one in the village has ever done this.

What a shame to think about it!

Although gift money of one or two yuan or even a few cents was given in the past few years, even a bowl of rice and noodles was given as a gift!
But it wasn't poor back then!The prices are also low!This is not too old or young in terms of conversion!
Over the years, there are many kinds of things, and my family has really given gifts.

Li's father listened to his wife's chatter, just smiled and listened without saying a word, and occasionally made a conversation.

Life is alive, everything is inevitable!

It's not like my family.

This is also impossible.

Unless there is a lonely family who doesn't interact with others, you can ignore them.

The problem is, humans are social animals, how could they be so indifferent to the world?
If you really want to do this, if something happens to you, who else cares about you?
Usually you help me and I help you. When someone in the village has a major event, such as building a house, they all use the au pair method.

You come to help me this time, and next time there is something wrong with your family, I will help you!

There are comings and goings, this is what it looks like!

In this way, after several days of fussing and fussing, the matter was completely settled.

All that's left is the wedding reception!
On the first day, I had to go door to door to borrow tables, chairs and benches.

This is also the custom of the village.

Tables and chairs are definitely needed for holding a banquet, and it is impossible for anyone to have so many tables and chairs, so they can only borrow them!

Borrowing tables, chairs and benches from villagers is basically done in the afternoon of the first day of the wedding banquet.

The chef will bring the pots, pans, pans and chopsticks for the banquet, which is regarded as a lease, and the bill will be settled together with the chef's wages.

All kinds of things happened, and it was finally the day before the wedding banquet.

Li Er cheerfully led a group of half-children to borrow tables and chairs.

This kid likes to join in the fun, and thought it was very interesting, so he volunteered to go.

Seeing her youngest son like this, Li's mother shook her head.

"This kid is so old, he still likes to join in the fun!"

(End of this chapter)